Mentoring in Motherhood: Resolve to Give a Little More

The holidays are over, and a new year is here. In January, we have the annual opportunity to start fresh. We are given a clean slate to become the best version of ourselves, to make and hopefully achieve new goals.

For many, resolutions take the form of new gym memberships, losing weight, saving more money, or learning a new skill or hobby. All admirable objectives. However, this year, I urge you to look deeper inside and consider committing yourself to mentoring.

Mentoring is an invaluable tool, be it in the workplace, schools, youth development programs, religious institutions, or otherwise. Mentors have the unique opportunity to support youth and adults alike by facilitating personal and/or professional growth, leadership, communication skills, networking, confidence, and education.

“A mentor empowers a person to see a possible future, and believe it can be obtained.” – Shawn Hitchcock

Our communities are in need of mentors willing to contribute their time and experience. I say, who better qualified than mothers? Yes, our time is precious. But we are equipped with the skills to mentor today’s youth, young adults, and up and coming workers, all of whom will be tomorrow’s leaders, parents, and our future. As women and mothers, we all have diverse talents. It is our responsibility to impart what we can to those around us, to lift others up, and help make our neighborhoods a better place.

By sharing your knowledge, investing time in a mentee, and fostering a relationship with them, you will make a world of difference in that person’s life. And, more likely than not, also in your own.

“Mentors change lives, but students change mentors’ lives more.” – Richie Norton

While mentoring should be a dedicated and fulfilling relationship for both parties, you don’t have to make it complicated. Where do your interests lie? What are you good at? Where do you spend a lot of time? Do you do better in groups or one-on-one? Start there and narrow your search for an organization or individual(s) that you connect with personally. It may be as easy as reaching out to someone at work or joining (or forming!) a mentorship committee. If you are active in a religious community, ask your leadership or the outreach committee how you can become involved. There is almost always a wide range of opportunities available and already set up for participation.

Making an impact working with youth

There are myriad options for mentoring youth in the State of Michigan if that peaks your interest. Ask your teachers, principals, PTO/PTA, or school board about mentoring and outreach programs. Beyond your local schools, here is a list of just a few youth programs that are ready and waiting for your assistance:

Youth Mentor Programs

So as 2019 begins, reflect on the mentors you’ve had and the essential role they’ve played in your life. Then, pay it forward, and invest in (a) mentee(s) who you connect with and can positively impact. I know my mentors, who span decades and across all aspects of my life, have helped me become the woman I am today. It’s time to give back, ladies, and share the best of you with someone else who needs it.

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Shannon Phillips
Shannon is a full time wife and mom of two, a part-time attorney, and a chauffeur for her two busy kiddos (that don’t tip her very well!). She was born and raised in Bloomfield Hills, and decided to settle down there with her husband, Eric, after graduating from the University of Michigan and then Wayne State University Law School. A few of Shannon’s favorite things are her Doodles (dogs not drawings), making her way through the incredible Detroit bar & restaurant scene, traveling, tailgating, and Michigan summers.

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