There are lots of reasons to make moms smile, even though it’s been a tough eleven months. The difficult times help us to appreciate the small things. Sometimes it helps to see a reminder of all the reasons we have to smile. Perhaps even reading the list will help us smile at a memory. Maybe it will help serve as a reminder to really treasure the moments that make us smile.
Some things on this list might not apply to you, but some may. I encourage you to make a list of things that make you smile—leave it somewhere you can see regularly. It’s a simple mood-booster whenever you’re feeling the weight of the world on your shoulders. Enjoy!
- A hot cup of coffee in the morning
- Watching your kids have fun with friends
- Getting snail mail (and not a bill!)
- A sweaty workout at the gym…or at home!
- Eating dinner at a restaurant
- Reading a book that you don’t want to put down
- Going to the zoo with your family
- Visiting a museum and not having to schedule an appointment
- Attending a sporting event in person
- Having lunch with a friend
- Taking a walk outside in nature
- Using a gift card or gift certificate at your favorite store
- Feeling the warm sun on your skin…in winter, spring, summer, or fall
- Wearing your favorite leggings or sweatpants
- Planning a vacation—oh the possibilities!
- Eating an ice cream cone on a hot day
- Enjoying a TV marathon…with your choice of show
- Looking at pictures of fun times on your phone
- Shopping at a local boutique
- Eating a perfectly toasted bagel with cream cheese
- Trying new lipstick… and knowing that it looks good
- Carryout!
- Getting a great haircut
- Hitting all green lights on your drive home
- Grilling in the summer
- Drinking hot cocoa after playing in the snow
- Using a crockpot—minimal effort and delicious dinner!
- When the Amazon delivery person arrives at your house
- Having a good conversation with a friend
- Getting a kiss from your spouse/significant other
- Drive-thrus…no dealing with unbuckling car seats!
- Finding a $10 bill in your winter coat pocket
- Making a goal and achieving it
- A beautiful sunrise
- A pretty sunset
- Waking up before your alarm
- Sleeping in on Saturday
- When your child says “I love you”
- Short bedtime stories
- Meditating
- Praying
- Date night!
- Going to the dentist and having no cavities
- When the tulips and daffodils come up in the spring
- Stepping on crunchy leaves in the fall
- Riding bikes with your kids
- Taking off your high heels when you get home
- A girls’ weekend
- Writing in a journal
- Checking off items on the to-do list
- Finishing a jigsaw puzzle
- Receiving a backrub or foot rub
- Doing a random act of kindness
- Smiling at a stranger in public (without a mask!)
- Playing a game with your kids
- Having a campfire with s’mores
- Taking a walk around the neighborhood and chatting with neighbors
- Helping at your child’s holiday party at school
- Decluttering a room
- Watching your kids play without fighting
- Enjoying your favorite show or movie with no interruptions
- Being first in line at the grocery store
- Having no substitutions on your delivery grocery order
- Conversing with other parents during your child’s sports game
- When someone else volunteers to wash the dishes
- Hearing a baby’s coos
- Being with family at holidays
- Meeting friends at the playground
- Fresh toenail polish
- Trying out a new restaurant
- Reading a magazine at the salon
- Watching waves crash on the shore
- When your kids clean up their toys without being asked
- Wearing a sexy dress
- Getting praise from your boss
- Getting praise from your spouse
- Getting praise from anyone!
- Seeing other moms smile
- Watching someone open a gift you gave them
- Reading memes that are hilarious
- Having a funny text chain with friends
- Trying a new recipe…and everyone loving it
- Giving or getting a good book recommendation
- Memories of happy times from the past
- A clean house
- Playing fetch with a puppy
- Petting a cat on your lap
- Getting a personal record in a local 5K
- Checking something off your bucket list
- Making plans to accomplish a new year’s resolution
- Eating a ripe veggie from your garden
- Freshly cut flowers on your counter
- Giving a compliment
- Receiving a compliment
- Hearing about your child’s good day at school
- Finally feeling better after being sick
- When your team wins a big game
- The first snow of the season
- Finding the lost remote control
- When your older sibling helps the younger one
- Hugs!
Julia – these are great!