September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month

September 8, 2024

DISCLAIMER: The following post outlines the writer’s personal journey with ovarian cancer. It is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about your health.

September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month. In the last five years, I have rocked more teal and talked more about my reproductive organs than ever before. As a 27 year old, I wouldn’t have been able to tell you the signs and symptoms of ovarian cancer. I would not have known why there were teal ribbons tied on lampposts and benches in Michigan each September.

At 28, my husband and I had been married for a few years. We decided we were ready to start trying to grow our family. I think as most people do, I expected to get pregnant pretty quickly. But, months passed and I continued to have negative pregnancy tests. I was confused by some of the unusual things happening to my body that aligned with being pregnant. I had to pee constantly, experienced some constipation, had bloating in my abdomen/pelvis, and I couldn’t eat as much as usual during a meal.

These symptoms developed over a few months, in addition to an occurrence of extreme pain during sex and abnormally long periods.

My OB initially suggested that some of the symptoms, like pain with sex and bleeding, could be attributed to my body adjusting to going off of birth control. So, we continued to try to conceive. A couple of months later, my periods still had not found any sort of rhythm. And, I continued having weird symptoms. I scheduled another visit to my OB where I got an ultrasound to check that there were no obvious reasons why I wasn’t getting pregnant.

My ultrasound showed a decent sized “cyst”. It was suggested that I had PCOS and to monitor any pelvic pain that could be a sign of ovarian torsion (when your ovary or mass on your ovary cause the Fallopian tube to twist due to the weight of it). Not 48 hours later was I in the ER in the most pain I had ever been in with the assumption that I was now experiencing torsion. The “cyst” had grown and there was a recommendation to have it removed. As a precaution, my OB was going to refer me to a gynecological oncologist–just in case it was cancerous. At this time, I had been told it was extremely unlikely to be cancer, and that was my hope.

On the last day of May 2019, I woke up in recovery several hours after what should have been an hour-long surgery.

My mind raced and I concluded that they found cancer. I waited for confirmation from my doctor. Unfortunately, I was correct. At 28, I was diagnosed with stage 2b granulosa cell carcinoma–an extremely rare form of ovarian cancer.

For those of you unfamiliar with ovarian cancer, like I once was, you are probably wondering how it took several months to find out I had cancer. One of the main reasons is that still in 2024, there is no definitive test to check for ovarian cancer. Your pap smear handles cervical. A mammogram checks breast cancer. But ovarian cancer still requires a surgical biopsy to test. This leads to many people being diagnosed at later stages, and therefore having a lower survival rate.

So, what can you do?

I hope this post can empower you to be an advocate for your own body. And, encourage you to request the tests needed to start the process of checking for ovarian cancer. If you are noticing any symptoms for a period of two weeks, you should see your OB or a gynecological oncologist and ask for a pelvic exam, transvaginal ultrasound, and a CA-125 blood test. According to Johns Hopkins Medicine, the symptoms include:

bloating
changes in bowels
feeling full quickly
frequent urination
menstrual changes or vaginal bleeding if already in menopause
pain during sex
pain in your back, pelvis, or abdomen

The three suggestions I gave will not give a clear “yes” or “no” to an ovarian cancer diagnosis. However, they are the best options at this time for initial investigation. The pelvic exam you get with your pap smear is a preventative check for enlarged ovaries, but a CA-125 and transvaginal ultrasound are not readily offered. If you have concerns about ovarian cancer, I encourage you to request those even though (as previously stated) we know that they are not foolproof. My CA-125 read at the upper end of the normal range and I still had ovarian cancer. Some subsets of ovarian cancer will display an elevated CA-125 as an indicator, but others will not.

What I want to leave you with is the reminder that you are the one person who knows your body best.

If something is off, keep asking questions, keep getting checked, and keep pushing for answers. We know that not all reproductive pain is honored in medical systems–especially for women and BIPOC folks–so please continue to listen to your body and speak up for yourself when you need to. It can feel taboo or uncomfortable to talk about your reproductive organs or sex life, but there is no shame in discussing the health of your body.

–Guest post submitted by Melissa Bradley

Raising awareness is incredibly important. Melissa shares another look into her ovarian cancer diagnosis and resources for support if you’re navigating a similar path.

Detroit Mom’s Guide to Cider Mills In + Around Detroit

RanaMakki

September 8, 2024

*last updated 9/8/2024

Cider mill season in Metro Detroit is here! The best thing about living in Michigan is experiencing each of the seasons, and we have to pay homage to Michigan’s colorful season of fall. Getting in nature and getting fresh air is good for us all. Activities at our favorite local apple orchards and cider mills in + around Detroit include picking apples and pumpkins, taking a breezy hayride, and really just soaking up this short and delightful season!

Sometimes you can find a hot spot for the kids with petting zoos and playscapes; other times you will stumble upon a quiet outdoor winery and cider combo for a much needed day date. In Detroit, there is always a cider mill outside waiting for your family to enjoy!

GENESEE COUNTY CIDER MILLS

Mueller’s Orchard | 6036 Lobdell Lake Rd, Linden

With a playground designed for younger children and a shaded pavilion nearby, this cider mill is set up for kids and parents to enjoy their fall day on the farm. Enjoy plenty of doughnuts and apple cider. Their last day open for the season will be Sunday, November 24th.

Hours: Wed-Fri 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., Sat-Sun 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Porter’s Orchard | 12060 Hegel Road, Goodrich, 48438

Not only can you find fresh apples at Porter’s, but they also have a play space, event space, and farmers market. Their fall fun activities include hayrides, u-pick pumpkins, and corn mazes. Stop in for the day and you’ll be sure to have a fun-filled fall experience.

Hours: Mon-Sat 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., Sunday 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.

LIVINGSTON COUNTY CIDER MILLS

Markillie Orchard | 5200 N Latson Rd, Howell

Markillie Orchard offers many varieties of apples, cider, donuts, cider slushes, and more in their rustic knotty pine sales and dining area. Take the kids to enjoy photo opportunities and the outdoor play area. Open September and October, with November TBD.

Hours: Sat-Sun 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Parshallville Cider Mill | 8507 Parshallville Rd, Fenton

The historic Tom Walker’s Grist Mill houses the Parshallville Cider Mill in Fenton. The beautiful 137-year-old mill is one of the oldest water-powered mills in Michigan, sitting on the banks of North Ore Creek. Explore the grounds of this Michigan Historic Site while enjoying cider, spiced donuts, heirloom apples, local honey, caramel apples, homemade apple pie, and more. Open through mid-November.

Hours: Tues-Wed 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., Thurs-Sun 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Spicer Orchards | 10411 Clyde Rd, Fenton

Spicer Orchards offers all you need to spend a day enjoying fall activities. In addition to u-pick apples and a farm market, options include: doughnuts, cider playground, wagon rides,
fudge, train rides, pumpkins, corn maze, old-fashioned tractors, and more. The $15 Corn Maze ticket purchase includes wagon and/or train ride, animal visits, playground attractions, 1 drink and 1 donut, and corn maze trivia card.

And if the sweet treats don’t keep your belly full, grab lunch from their corn and potato roasters or pork BBQ cookout. Adults can enjoy a tasting at the on-site winery as well.

Hours: Farm Market daily 9:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. (last wagon for pick your own at 5:30 p.m.)
Winery daily 12:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m.

MACOMB COUNTY CIDER MILLS

Big Red Orchard | 4900 W 32 Mile Rd, Washington

Miller’s Big Red Barn offers u-pick produce, wagon rides, kitchen, bar, event spaces, and delicious cider and donuts!

Hours: Wed-Sun 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.; the last U-pick tractor will depart at 4:00 p.m.

Blake Farms | 17985 Armada Ctr, Armada

Blake’s offers many opportunities for a day of fun, with everything from u-pick apples to various attractions for kids, an artisan market . . . there’s something for everyone! At Orchard Tap House, you can find delicious food as well as wine and hard cider tastings. Visit their website to explore all of the options and various locations.

Hours: Mon-Sun 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Hy’s Cider Mill | 6350 37 Mile Rd, Romeo

Enjoy a glass of Hy’s famous cider alongside a booming variety of apples. Indulge in sweet treats like caramel apples, an apple cider slush, donuts, and other various goodies at Hy’s Cider Mill Store. Open September 7 until November 3.

Hours: Sat-Sun 11:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. (u-pick ends at 5:00 p.m.).

Pankiewicz Cider Mill & Farm Market | 10387 Lindsey, Casco

Stop in for farm fresh produce, apples, pears, and plums. Offering a large selection of pumpkins for carving, corn stalks, straw bales, Indian corn, and all your fall decorating needs.

Hours: Thurs-Sun 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Stony Creek Orchard and Cider Mill | 2961 W 32 Mile, Romeo

This mill offers U-pick apples, pumpkins, and raspberries. Enjoy fresh apple cider and delicious donuts. They also offer tons of fresh produce like apples, pears, handmade pies, caramel apples, pre-picked pumpkins, and many other great products! U-pick apples available.

Hours: Mon-Sun 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Verellen Orchards | 63260 Van Dyke, Washington

Operating for over 100 years, Verellen Orchards offers apples, peaches, and a variety of produce. You’ll also find delicious baked goods, Cook’s Farm Ice Cream, old-time candy, and watermelon or cider slushies. Curbside pickup available from 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Hours: Mon-Fri 6:30 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., Sat-Sun 7:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Westview Orchards & Cider Mill | 65075 Van Dyke, Washington Twp

A day at Westview includes a corn maze, bunny village, and a two-acre playground. Here, you’ll discover wagon rides, straw bale mazes, a tire mountain, 40-foot slide, rope mountain, a log obstacle course, two petting barns, and much more for everyone in the family. U-pick tickets should be purchased in advance.

Hours: Farm Market daily 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Winery is open Saturday-Sunday 1:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Farm Fun will be open until October 31st.

OAKLAND COUNTY CIDER MILLS

Ashton Orchards | 3925 E Seymore Lake, Ortonville

At Ashton Orchards, enjoy homemade apple cider with fresh apples, donuts, peaches, plums, pears, sweet corn, pumpkins, and fresh produce alongside a variety of homemade baked goods and pastries. Open August through December.

Hours: Mon-Sat 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., Sunday 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.

Bonadeo Farms | 1215 White Lake Rd, Highland

Head down to Bonadeo Farms for cider, donuts, the pumpkin patch, corn maze, and the childrens playground during the day! They also have a haunted house and haunted hay ride Friday and Saturday nights which are open from dusk to 11:00 p.m. Opening September 27th!

Hours: Sat-Sun 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Diehl’s Orchard & Cider Mill | 1479 Ranch Rd, Holly

The whole family will enjoy this cider mill, including your loyal dogs! Enjoy hot, cold, and slushy cider with their famous donuts, served hot. You can expect an outdoor walk-up window for cider and donut sales, six-foot line spacing in the store, extra washing stations on the grounds, and other modifications to ensure the safety of your family. BYO chairs and blankets for a comfortable spot on their large grounds.

Hours: through October 31: daily 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.
November 2-24: Sat-Sun from 12:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Blake’s Lyon Twp. (previously Erwin’s) | 61475 Silver Lake Rd, South Lyon

You’ll definitely want to check out this beloved location, which used to be Erwin’s. Keeping the same U-pick and cider mill traditions of Erwin’s, Blake’s will offer donuts, cider, and more.

Hours: U-Pick Mon-Fri 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., Sat-Sun 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Funland daily 10:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m.
Farm Store and Bakery daily 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Franklin Cider Mill | 7450 Franklin Rd, Bloomfield Hills

Visit the Franklin Cider Mill if you’re looking for a simple, fun day enjoying fall! Built near a river, you can sit and relax while taking in the view. The donuts are made from an old German recipe, and all the cider is pressed in-house. You can find assorted apples, pies, scones, breads, cakes, hickory farms meats and cheeses, jams, spreads, and so much more. Online ordering is also available! There is a 25 visitor limit to view the cider making process. Weekends at the Mill include activities, jazz music, face painting and more! Open for the season through December 1st, 2024.

Hours: daily 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Goodison Cider Mill | 4295 Orion Rd, Rochester

Here, cider is pressed with a century-old press. Enjoy their famous pistachio nut bread along with fresh donuts, a variety of pies, jams, and other treats. Sunday kids activities include a moonwalk, bounce houses, music, cider pressing, and other entertainment. All activities run from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m., starting after Labor Day and ending before Halloween.

Hours: September 1 through Thanksgiving daily 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Until Christmas Eve Fri-Sun 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Long Family Orchard & Farm | 1540 E Commerce Rd, Commerce

Long Family Orchard offers a lot more than cider and donuts. Enjoy a wooden playscape, sand pits, petting zoo, a great big slide, mums and sweet corn for sale, and much more. The sweet corn is available via drive-thru, inside of a small red shed.

Hours: daily 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Paint Creek Cider Mill | 4480 Orion Rd, Oakland Twp

Paint Creek Cider Mill offers a menu of delicious meals featuring BBQ meats and sauces you can’t resist, healthy snacks, and amazing treats including homemade soups, sandwiches, desserts, and ice cream. If you’re looking for an ice cream cone on a hot summer night or a hot cider for a cool evening walk on the trail, then this is the cider mill for you.

Hours: daily 10:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m.

Rochester Cider Mill | 5125 N Rochester Rd, Rochester

Enjoy a variety of tasty donuts and sweet apple cider. You can purchase an array of Michigan-made items, as well as fall decorations for your home like straw bundles, hay, and cornstalks. Additional activities include a petting farm, giant hay pyramid, and antique wall . . . for free! House-made Apple Cider Vinegar in a variety of flavors including blueberry, grape, coffee, hot pepper, apple, and peach are perfect for salads, beverages, and cooking! Cash or check only.

Hours: daily 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Yates Cider Mill | 1950 E Avon Rd, Rochester Hills

The historic grist mill was built in 1863, with the Yates family putting in a cider press in 1876—and they’ve been doing it ever since! You can even view the process of a water-powered double table press used to produce cider. Be sure to visit the apple tent, take a picturesque walk around the grounds, or get the kids a pony ride for $5 a person. With a cider mill, bake shop, and ice cream shop, you’re sure to find something for everyone.

Hours: Mon-Fri 7:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m., Sat-Sun 9:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.

WASHTENAW COUNTY CIDER MILLS

Alber Orchard and Cider Mill | 13011 Bethel, Manchester

Alber Orchard and Cider Mill offers cider, donuts, and over 100 types of apples, many heirloom selections. Admission is free, but there are several activities available for a small fee. Cider is available beginning September 17, and frozen cider is available now for $8.

Hours: Winery Tues-Fri 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Cider Mill Tues-Fri 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., Saturday 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., Sunday 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

Dexter Cider Mill | 3685 Central St, Dexter

The oldest continuously-operating cider mill in the state, Dexter’s is situated along the Huron River. They offer old-fashioned cider mill doughnuts, caramel apples for the kids, and homemade wood-pressed cider for the big kids. No admission/parking fees; cash or check only (ATM on site).

Hours: Wed-Sun 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Lesser Farms and Orchard | 12651 Island Lake Rd, Dexter

Lesser Farms and Orchard offers apples and cider, along with jams, jellies, and pumpkins. You can also purchase pre-picked Michigan apples (no u-pick available).

Hours: Year Round Self Serve daily 7:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m.
Sep-Nov Apple Sales Wed-Sat 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., Sunday 1:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m., closed Monday-Tuesday

Wiard’s Cider Mill and Apple Orchard | 5565 Merritt, Ypsilanti

Wiard’s visitors can enjoy picking their own pumpkins and apples. The cider mill offers traditional staples like hayrides, a corn maze, and, of course, cider and doughnuts. You can purchase weekend tickets online for any of their five haunted attractions at their annual haunted Night Terrors events.

Hours: Country Fair Wed-Fri 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., Sat-Sun 11:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Country Store Wed-Sun 11:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

WAYNE COUNTY CIDER MILLS

DeBuck’s Family Farm | 50240 Martz Road, Belleville

A family farm, DeBuck’s has been owned by two generations. Their Fall Festival brings crowds yearly with plenty of activities for the whole family such as their very popular 15-acre corn maze, pumpkin displays, wagon rides, and plenty of outdoor activities for young and old. There are also plenty of fall treats to choose from.

Fall Festival Hours: Open Select dates and hours beginning September 14th-October 27th. Check their Events Calendar for the full list of dates and hours.

Parmenter’s Northville Cider Mill | 714 E Baseline, Northville

Mr. Parmenter opened this mill in 1873 and it has only been owned by three families since then. This mill makes fresh apple cider, donuts, caramel apples, and a few other goodies. You can also visit Northville Winery and Brewery for a tasting.

Hours: daily 10:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. through November 24th.

Three Cedars Farm | 7897 Six Mile Rd, Northville

Three Cedars is the number one spot for kids, offering multiple play structures, tricycles with tracks, a huge corn pit, an electric train that drives around the park (for an additional fee), farm animal petting zoo, wooden train carts, and lots more. Check out the bonfire pits spread throughout the farm while you’re taking a hay ride out back to the corn maze. Cash or check only.

Hours: Sun-Thurs 10:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m., Fri-Sat 10:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. (Open through October 31—Halloween hours are 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. and November 1-3 10:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m.)

For more fall fun, check out where to find pumpkins in + around Detroit.

*This post was originally written by Kailyn Boggess, and was updated in 2024 by Rana Makki.

Now That I’m a Parent, I Can Only Imagine 9/11 in My Parents’ Shoes

danaabraham

September 6, 2024

I don’t have a whole lot of memories of September 11, 2001. I was in Kindergarten, attending only the afternoon session. This meant that I was at our babysitters’ house in the morning when the planes struck the World Trade Center.

I remember watching my babysitter, clearly a little bit afraid, saying that we weren’t going to go to school that day. As a kid, I think I mostly shrugged it off and continued to play. Why should I be worried if we didn’t have school that day?

My Memories

More clearly than not going to school, I remember the TV being on a lot. My parents had this tiny little 10″ TV in their bedroom that had a bubble screen. I remember that night before bed and into the next morning, my parents watching it intensely. It was like they couldn’t keep their eyes off of it. I’m sure I saw the replays of the plane crashing into the towers, the smoke that filled the city, and the heroes who came to the aid of thousands, but I just remember watching my mom and dad.

Isn’t that interesting? I have zero memory of much else from those days–only watching my parents and their fixation on the news. I wish I had more to remember and gather, but I do think this is a powerful memory. Children, myself included, constantly look to parents for guidance. Through the good, the bad, and the horrific, like 9/11, parents are seen as the source of truth to children. It wasn’t until much later in my life–perhaps even a decade later–that I’d truly realize that my parents were humans with limited life experience, too.

What Must 9/11 as a Parent Have Been Like?

What must they have been feeling that day? I wonder about what thoughts were going through their minds. Having just lived through Y2K, which many thought to be the end of the world in ways, they now were faced with one of the most atrocious acts of evil and violence the modern world had seen. I know they thought about potential other attacks–copycats, if you will. That’s a logical thought that most of the country had.

I wonder if they thought about sending us to school–was it safe? When would it be safe? Would our lives go back to normal again? Would our country be hunted in this way forever? What was the government going to do?

Beyond the fear of “what else,” I’m sure my parents’ hearts ached with those lost. My parents were–and are–extremely compassionate people. I’m sure hearing about the 2,977 souls lost that day surely hung with them. How, as a parent, do you go forward grieving this while protecting your children?

You can’t live in an obvious, painful state of grief. But you, too, as a human, must process the atrocities. I find this to be true in my life as a parent when I go through challenging things. I want to grieve, to process, to heal . . . but not all of that can be done directly in front of my children.

Remembering, Praying, Hoping

As 9/11 comes each year, I do hold space for the victims and the families of the victims. It is a painful day in our country’s history that no doubt will impact the country for years and years to come. In many ways, I hope we don’t forget the pain of it. We can’t. We simply can’t. The pain needs to drive us to remember, to pray, and to hope for better ahead. The pain has to drive us to do better for ourselves and perhaps more importantly, for our children.

As a parent now, I can’t fathom what my parents must have felt that day, but I am starting to. As this observance comes this year, I’ll hold my kids a bit closer and express gratitude for the country we live in. It’s not perfect, but it is strong–we are strong–and we will continue to be as we push on nearly 25 years later. We will never forget. And as I tuck my kids into bed safely, largely free of worry for their physical safety, I’ll make sure my family does not forget.

One thing we can do is be sure that we are raising kind and inclusive children. For tips and resources, check out our Guide to Empowering Children.

Detroit Mom’s Travel Series: West Michigan

Lindsay Gizicki

September 5, 2024

My family and I planned a last-minute summer road trip this year to West Michigan. Last year, we spent the week in Ludington, but this year we wanted to head to the Muskegon area. I couldn’t find a house to rent in Muskegon, so I set my sights on a nearby city: Newaygo.

Luckily, I was able to find a house off of a gorgeous inland lake: Lake Sylvan. The city is all about outdoors activities and laid-back lifestyles. Exactly what I was looking for in a summer getaway!

After researching the area more, I realized that some neighboring cities also had great attractions that were worth driving for. On the way to our Airbnb in Newaygo, we stopped in the city of Cedar Springs to check out an amazing outdoor animal venue, Deer Tracks Junction. We traveled to the neighboring city of Rockford for some amazing food and shopping off of the Rogue River. And on one of our days, we traveled to Muskegon for the perfect beach day and Lake Michigan views.

Pere Marquette Park in Muskegon, Michigan.

With so many cities to see in Michigan, why stop at one? I’m sharing some of my favorite spots we found on our trip to West Michigan.

Attractions You Must Visit

Deer Tracks Junction | 7850 14 Mile Road NE, Cedar Springs, 49319
The coolest place! One side of the attraction has a little town where you can walk from spot to spot. Kids can feed baby goats, hold bunnies, and walk through a bird exhibit where parakeets land right on you. The other side is a drive-through petting zoo with llamas, bison, and various deer. There’s even giraffes!

Pere Marquette Park | 3510 Channel Dr., Muskegon, 49441
Super clean beach with amazing Lake Michigan access. The beach is HUGE, with a play area for kids and plenty of room to spread out. There’s a lighthouse nearby and an amazing restaurant there too.

Favorite Coffee Shop

The 490 Bakery | 1845 Lakeshore Drive, Muskegon, 49441
So much more than coffee! Add some yummy + fresh cookies or other baked goods to your order!

Favorite Date Night Spot

Sportsman’s Bar | 30 State Road, Newaygo, 49337
A fun local bar in downtown Newaygo. Has a great small town feel, and the staff is super friendly. Be sure to try the alligator bites!

Favorite Kid-Friendly Spots

Grand Rapids Children’s Museum | 11 Sheldon Ave NE, Grand Rapids, 49503
Super cool place for kids. It offers two stories of interactive play and learning toys. They even have a painting workshop area that’s open every day. You could spend hours here!

Favorite Place for Sweet Treats

Tiny’s Tasty Treats | 98 State Road, Newaygo, 49337
Yummy ice cream! They have many different flavors to choose from.

Restaurants You’ll Love

The Deck | 1601 Beach St., Muskegon, 49441
The coolest beach bar! Great for the entire family. The food came out super quick and the drinks were amazing. The bar/restaurant is right on the beach, and it has a ton of swings and outdoor games to keep everyone entertained. 10/10 will be going back!

Newaygo Brewing Co. | 19 State Road, Newaygo, 49337
A great local brewery right in little downtown Newaygo. Their root beer floats, pizzas, and lobster rolls were absolutely amazing! Cute little atmosphere too. For dessert, try their ice cream taco.

The Toasted Pickle | 17 Squires Street Square NE, Rockford, 49341
Cute little place with outdoor seating, right near the Rogue River.

Bonus Tips to Traveling Around West Michigan

Check out all the water attractions West Michigan has to offer! Between Lake Michigan and all the amazing local inland lakes, there’s so much to do!
Research the neighboring cities. Make the most of your trip!
Some shops and restaurants aren’t open during the beginning of the week. Be sure to check to see what’s open and when before you go.

What’s your favorite vacation spot? Check out our previous Travel Series location: Traverse City!

National Suicide Prevention Month: A Resource Guide

Elizabeth Ireland

September 3, 2024

DISCLAIMER: The following post is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about mental health, depression, suicidal ideation, or suicide prevention.

If you are in an immediate crisis, please call The Suicide + Crisis Lifeline at 988 or go to your nearest emergency room.

September is National Suicide Prevention Month. Since first being recognized in 2008, this month has become an important time to acknowledge those affected by suicide, raise awareness, and connect individuals with suicidal ideation to treatment services. According to the Centers for Disease Control, more than 48,000 individuals died by suicide in 2021. Although the stigma around discussing suicide is decreasing, deaths from suicide have recently increased. After declining in 2019 and 2020, suicide deaths increased approximately 5% in the United States in 2021 and are expected to have risen further in 2022.

There are a variety of complicated reasons why the numbers are on the rise. But one thing is clear: the impact of suicide is far-reaching. Whether you are someone looking to support a loved one or someone experiencing suicidal ideation yourself, Detroit Mom wants you to know that we are here for you.

It’s okay to ask for help.

Most importantly, we want you to know that it’s okay to ask for help. As someone who has experienced suicidal ideation myself, I know how important it is to hear this message repeatedly. I also know how hard it can be to take that step.

The paradoxical thing about depression is that when you need the most help, taking action feels the most impossible. If you’re not sure where to start, try writing down one concrete reason you want to keep living (even if it feels silly). Leave the note in a place you will see it. Then, reach out for an appointment with a therapist. Detroit Mom’s Guide to Therapists In + Around Detroit is a great resource for this. If this feels too hard, you can always show a loved one this post and simply say, “I think I need help.”

If you think someone you know needs help, there are important steps you can take, too. Know that when someone is experiencing suicidal ideation, logical reasoning or things that may seem obvious to you (such as, “You have so much to live for!”) may be difficult for them to see. That’s the depression talking.

Affirm their feelings as valid and let them know that help is available. You can tell them that even though it may not seem possible now, they won’t always feel this way. Then ask your loved one if they would like to call a therapist or if they would like you to make the call for them. The therapist will help them develop a safety plan and coping skills.

Below is a list of resources that can help in addition to the therapists in the guide mentioned above.

Local Resources

988 Suicide + Crisis Lifeline | 988

Call or text the 988 Lifeline to be connected with a trained counselor who will provide free and confidential immediate support and crisis counseling. The counselor will also connect you to resources for continued support. The 988 Lifeline is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, across the United States.

Caleb’s Kids | Detroit | (313) 437-1609

Caleb’s Kids is a non-profit organization in the Metro Detroit area that works to positively impact youth suicide rates. With a focus on youth grades 6-12, they provide tools, resources, educational materials, workshops, and other support for mental health awareness and suicide prevention.

Hamzavi Psychiatry | Dr. Amina Kahn | Clinton Township | (248) 731-7458

A trauma-informed psychiatrist who is experienced in working with nursing mothers. She offers in-person appointments, as well as virtual.

Healing Home Counseling Group | Bloomfield | (248) 792-8093

Healing Home Counseling Group has highly skilled clinicians that can support those experiencing suicidal ideation and other high risk needs on the continuum of parenthood and especially in the postpartum phase. They offer individual, group, parent, and youth therapy both in person and virtually.

Honey for Moms | Ferndale | (248) 232-2555

Honey is a motherhood development center that provides maternal mental health support. Their services include in-person and virtual therapy, integrative psychiatry, support groups, breast and bottle feeding consultation, classes, and a social lounge. Honey also has a scholarship program and sliding scale for lower income families.

Integrative Psychiatry Services | Bingham Farms | (248) 468-1889

A psychiatry practice experienced in working with nursing mothers that uses an integrative approach. They offer in-person as well as virtual appointments.

Nature’s Playhouse | Ferndale | (248) 955-3219

Nature’s Playhouse is a family wellness center offering counseling, support groups, drop-in play and family services, fitness classes, birthing and lactation classes, and a variety of body work services. Nature’s Playhouse is a major supporter of the Climb Out of the Darkness event to raise awareness for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders.

SPN Survivors | Livonia

SPN Survivors was started after the founders experienced the loss of their nephew to suicide. They offer resources and education to help prevent suicide and strengthen mental health.

Tiny Feet Wellness | Clinton Township | (586) 307-6530

Tiny Feet Wellness offers counseling and multiple support groups for mothers. They specialize in perinatal mood disorders, infertility, loss and grief, parenting, and life transitions.

State Resources

Community Mental Health Organizations | Statewide

Each county in the Metro-Detroit area has a Community Mental Health organization that offers crisis support, counseling, case-management services, mental health screenings, and more.

Macomb County: Macomb County Community Mental Health
Oakland County: Oakland Community Health Network
Wayne County: Detroit Wayne Integrated Health Network

For information about Community Mental Health organizations across the state, see the State of Michigan contact list.

Pine Rest Mother + Baby Program | Grand Rapids | (616) 455-5500

Pine Rest Christian Mental Health Services offers a specialized Mother + Baby Program for mothers experiencing perinatal mood disorders. Moms needing intensive support can bring their babies with them to this partial hospitalization program (meaning patients receive services during the entire day, but do not stay overnight at the hospital).

The program includes group therapy, psychiatric medication support, nutrition counseling, and activity therapy. Note that they offer services to any mother in a mental health crisis, not only Christians, and conversation with a chaplain is an optional part of the program. If the distance to Grand Rapids is not feasible, you can also call their hotline at 1-800-678-5500 to be connected to a therapist and immediate support in your area.

National Organizations

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention | (212) 363-3500

A national non-profit organization working to prevent suicide through providing education, resources, and political advocacy. They have resources for those affected by suicide as well. Their #TalkAwaytheDark campaign emphasizes the importance of speaking up and shedding light on suicide so those in distress feel comfortable asking for help.

Crisis Text Line | 988

You can text the 988 Lifeline or text “TALK” to 741741. You will be directed to complete a short survey with questions about what’s going on. Then, a counselor will provide you support and resources via text.

To Write Love on Her Arms | (321) 499-3901

A non-profit organization dedicated to helping people struggling with depression, self-injury, and suicide. They have a Find Help Tool with filters for specific needs (grief, eating disorders, LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, veteran, etc.) to help you locate services in your area.

Local Events

Out of the Darkness Oakland/Rochester/Macomb Walk | September 14 | Shelby Township

The Oakland/Rochester/Macomb Out of the Darkness Walk will be held at Stony Creek Metropark in Shelby Township on September 14, 2024. Check-in begins at 9:00 a.m. and the walk begins at 10:30 a.m.

4th Annual Life 5K Fundraiser | September 28 | Detroit

Caleb’s Kids’ Fourth Annual Life 5K for suicide prevention will be held September 28, 2024 at Palmer Park in Detroit. Meet at the splash pad in the park at 10:00 a.m. to kick off the 5K run/walk.

Out of the Darkness Downriver Walk | September 28 | New Boston

The Downriver Out of the Darkness Walk will be held at Willow Metropark in New Boston on September 28, 2024. Check-in begins at 9:00 a.m. and the walk begins at 10:30 a.m.

Out of the Darkness Ann Arbor Walk | October 6 | Ann Arbor

The Ann Arbor Out of the Darkness Walk will be held at Liberty Plaza in Ann Arbor on October 6, 2024. Check-in begins at 10:00 a.m. and the walk begins at 12:00 p.m.

Out of the Darkness Metro Detroit Walk | October 19 | Detroit

The Metro Detroit Out of the Darkness Walk will be held at Belle Isle State Park in Detroit on October 19, 2024. Check-in begins at 8:00 a.m. and the walk begins at 10:00 a.m.

No matter how suicide may impact you, Detroit Mom is here to offer support. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out for help and remember that you are not alone.

These are not easy conversations to have, but they’re so important. One local mom shares her son’s story to spread awareness and offer advice.

The Parenting Post | You Don’t Have to Feel Overstimulated While Parenting

Detroit Mom

September 1, 2024

It’s no secret that parenting can bring on a whole lot of feelings (and often, in a single day!). Sometimes we can feel so proud and excited for our kids and their accomplishments. Other times, we step on that dang lego and it’s enough to make us lose our cool and count down the hours until bedtime. It’s usually towards the end of the day when we’re feeling the effects of a long day–but what if we told you that you don’t have to feel overstimulated while parenting?

Yes, it’s possible. And, it only adds two items to your to-do list. Though, we’d argue that they’re pretty important, given what we know about pouring from our own cups. Albiona from The Parenting Post is here with some quick ideas to help you feel more at ease. A serene, non-overstimulated mama is a happy mama. So keep reading to discover exactly what you can do tonight to feel less overstimulated while parenting.

How do we parent when we’re feeling overstimulated?

I think often, a lot of parents don’t even recognize that they’re overstimulated. They just know that things are upsetting them more than normal, or they’re feeling more irritated, etc. However, there are a lot of things we can put into place that really can help bring us back down, and grounded, and back into our body–and less overstimulated by our surroundings.

When you are a parent of young children, you typically live in a pretty noisy environment. And often when we think of all of our senses, it’s not that it’s just noisy; it can be cluttered, it can be messy, it can be things that we’re stepping on when we’re walking . . . it’s almost like when you can feel that buzzing in your ear, and you just can’t find your footing. And it can all start to feel a little bit too overwhelming.

When my kids were younger, I worked with children all day. Then I’d come home to more noise from my own kids. And I remember when I would put my kids to bed, there was this feeling that I almost couldn’t put a name to. I felt very exhausted, and I didn’t want to even think about or look at anything. I didn’t want to physically attract any attention to something that would ignite or engage my sensory system.

If you can relate to this, I have two simple things you can do to immediately begin to feel less overstimulated while parenting–and more like yourself again.

1. Create a quiet space.

First, create some quiet. I used to come downstairs after my kids were asleep and shut everything off. I would even lower the lights. So no TV, no sounds, no bright lighting. The quiet space that I created within my home almost immediately turned my sensory system dial all the way back down. And it was amazing.

How can you do this? Recognize what in your space is becoming too much. Then, think about when you can carve out moments in your day where you can really dial it down. Maybe it’s when your kids are asleep. Sometimes we go to our phone and start to scroll, or we watch a show, and those things are fine if they help you decompress.

But for me, I found that I had to disengage from all of those things. I had to completely turn everything off. Something about the stillness, and the reduced volume, allowed my mind to steady and calm down. I could even start to hear my own thoughts again. There was just something incredibly grounding about that stillness.

Even standing outside for a few minutes and breathing in the cool evening air can feel really grounding and helpful. Whatever you can do to quiet your surroundings is going to be your best bet.

Reduce the clutter.

Secondly, try to minimize what jumps out at you as being overstimulating. If you’re somebody where visually it all starts to become too much, what can you remove? Where can you put some systems in place that can really help with that?

One example is to rotate toys. By doing so, you’re not constantly consuming toy after toy, and you’re reducing the stuff around you and actually eliciting better play skills for your kids, too. It’s really the idea of “less is more,” and teaching your kids how to engage and play thoughtfully with their toys for an extended period of time.

Another example is to come up with a system for organizing mail, documents, papers from school and work, etc. Try not to let these things clutter up your counter tops. Instead, sort them as they come in, eliminate the piles, and remember that feeling less overstimulated can happen one piece of paper at a time.

These are two simple steps that can make a world of a difference for you. Sometimes it’s nice to start your day this way too, if you have the time in the morning. Really recognize what it feels and looks like to be overstimulated. Are you always saying, “No, I’m fine, everything’s fine, everything’s great,” and then finding yourself feeling really cranky at the end of the day? When we can dampen some of that stuff going on around us that’s causing our sensory system to stay really engaged and working, it does start to help all those other parts of our body, especially our nervous system. Feeling less overstimulated while parenting is possible–so take those two steps and you’ll be on your way to feeling more grounded in no time.

A new school year can bring new feelings. Our previous Parenting Post shared tips for helping your kids–and yourself–ease that back-to-school anxiety.

A Mom’s Guide to Shredder Livonia

Detroit Mom

August 31, 2024

Detroit Mom partnered with the amazing people at Shredder Livonia to bring you this post. All opinions are our own.

Are you thinking of getting your kids involved in winter sports? Now is the perfect time to check out the indoor ski and snowboard lessons offered at Shredder Livonia. Yep, skiing and snowboarding–indoors!

Year-round lessons at Shredder are an incredible way to introduce your kids to the world of winter sports. It allows them the opportunity to practice their skills in a controlled environment where fun and safety are the number one priorities. Oh, and did we mention that the lessons are convenient, too? You won’t have to lug around all that gear or have your kids learning out in the snow!

Shredder Livonia is a truly unique opportunity for your kids to build confidence, make friends, learn new skills, and have fun. With a variety of lessons for ages 1-10 (and private lessons, too!), your kids will find that this is the place to be all year long so they can keep their skills sharp before heading out each winter. Keep reading for your ultimate guide to all things Shredder Livonia, and then get your kids registered before the fall session begins on September 9!

What lessons are offered at Shredder, and for what ages?

Shredder Livonia offers multiple classes and lessons, based on age. And, all gear is provided for children up to age 10. The classes are as follows:

Yeti School: for kids ages 1-3. This parent-child class introduces kids to skiing and snowboarding. It is a great opportunity for kids to discover there’s more to winter than just playing in the snow!
Little Shredders (Ski or Snowboard): for kids ages 3-5. This class offers tailored lessons in skiing or snowboarding to build foundational skills while improving balance and coordination.
Ski School or Snowboard School: for kids ages 5-10. This class provides more advanced instruction to develop and refine skiing or snowboarding techniques while working on athletic development and coordination.
Private lessons: available for any age. Private lessons at Shredder offer personalized, one-on-one instruction tailored to individual needs and skill progression.

What is a typical ski or snowboard lesson like at Shredder?

A ski or snowboard lesson at Shredder is not just constant runs up and down the slopes. We provide a structured curriculum for the classes, with a different theme and focus each week that progresses on itself. However, we also educate students about mountain safety, teach independence to get their own gear on and carry their own equipment, and work through flat ground movements to improve balance and coordination.

A typical lesson has around 20-30% of the first portion of class focusing on those basic fundamentals that help build a solid foundation before heading up the ramps to work on specific drills and exercises that build on that foundation to improve the child’s knowledge and confidence. All while making it fun, safe, and engaging for the kiddos!

What makes Shredder unique in its approach to teaching kids how to ski or snowboard?

When kids attend ski or snowboard lessons, they’re receiving the best possible education while having fun! There are some special aspects to learning at Shredder Livonia, including:

being in a controlled environment: teaching indoors eliminates unpredictable and harsh winter elements, such as extreme cold, wind, and snow. This creates a more comfortable learning experience for young children.
having year-round accessibility: the indoor setting allows for skiing and snowboarding lessons year-round. This provides consistent opportunities for skill development without being limited by seasonal weather conditions.
ensuring safety and focus: without the distractions of outdoor weather, children can concentrate fully on learning the techniques of skiing and snowboarding in a safe and controlled environment.
being ideal for beginners: indoor lessons are particularly beneficial for beginners who may be intimidated by the outdoor elements. The indoor environment makes it easier for them to get started and build confidence before transitioning to the outdoor slopes.
being beneficial for all levels: indoor lessons are also a great place for kiddos with some experience to come and practice their skills and progress their riding without the elements, so they are ready to conquer the slopes more confidently!
convenience for parents: parents can rest assured that their children are learning in a warm, dry, and comfortable space, making it more convenient and enjoyable for families to participate in lessons. Parents also have a warm, dry lobby they can watch their child’s lesson from!

What safety features are in place to ensure kids are safe during lessons?

The safety of our students is of the utmost importance to us here at Shredder Livonia. Here are some of the ways we ensure your kids are safe during their ski or snowboard lessons:

padded surfaces: the indoor facility is equipped with padded walls and floors to minimize the risk of injury from falls or collisions.
parental involvement: For the Yeti School (ages 1-3), parental involvement is required. This not only helps the child feel more secure but also adds an extra layer of supervision. The Little Shredder (ages 3-5) and Ski/Snowboard School (ages 5-10) do not require parental involvement and are drop-off style classes; however, parents are encouraged to watch the lesson from our comfortable lobby to observe their child’s development.
progressive learning: lessons are designed to progress at a pace suitable for each child’s ability level. Doing so reduces the likelihood of pushing them into situations beyond their skill set. This approach helps prevent accidents that could occur from taking on too much, too soon.
properly sized equipment: all ski and snowboard gear is appropriately sized for each child. This ensures better control and reduces the risk of accidents. And, the gear provided is regularly inspected and maintained to ensure safety.
safety gear: all children are required to wear helmets during their lessons, providing head protection in case of falls or bumps.
small class sizes: class sizes are kept small to allow for more individualized attention. This ensures that each child is closely monitored and guided throughout the lesson.

Do my kids need to have their own equipment in order to participate?

We provide all gear (skis/boots, snowboards/boots, and helmets) for up to approximately age 10. Depending on the child’s shoe size, we can accommodate older than 10 years old.

Aside from lessons, what else does Shredder offer?

We’re more than just ski or snowboard lessons! We also offer birthday parties (standard parties and ski/snowboard parties), summer camps, Parents Night Out, holiday camps, and open gyms!

How do indoor lessons correlate with outdoor skiing or snowboarding experiences?

Indoor lessons can offer a smooth transition to outdoor skiing or snowboarding. Once kids have a solid foundation indoors, transitioning to outdoor skiing or snowboarding becomes easier and more enjoyable. The familiarity with techniques and equipment gained indoors helps them adapt more quickly to the different surfaces and conditions they’ll encounter outdoors. Here are a few things kids work on indoors, to improve their experience outdoors:

confidence building: the indoor lessons help build confidence as children practice and refine their skills. By the time they move outdoors, they are more likely to feel prepared and capable, reducing anxiety and enhancing their overall enjoyment of the sport.
controlled environment: Shredder Livonia provides a safe, controlled setting that is free from weather-related challenges. This ensures that kids can focus on mastering their skills without the distractions or difficulties of varying outdoor conditions.
familiarization with equipment: the indoor environment allows kids to become comfortable with ski and snowboard equipment, making the transition to outdoor settings smoother. Since all gear is provided up to age 10, they become accustomed to wearing and using the equipment before they face the added variables of outdoor conditions.
skill development: indoor lessons focus on the same techniques and fundamentals used in outdoor skiing and snowboarding. Kids learn to balance, control their speed, turn, and stop, all of which are essential for outdoor terrains.

Overall, Shredder Livonia’s indoor ski and snowboard lessons are an effective stepping stone to outdoor ski experiences, ensuring that kids are well-prepared and confident when they hit the slopes. Shredder’s mission is to develop confident and knowledgeable skiers and riders in a fun and safe environment, and our goal is for families to have more enjoyable, quality time together on the slopes!

Shredder’s fall session begins September 9, 2024. For more information and to register for lessons, visit their website today!

How to Cultivate Gratitude in Your Kids

China Sellers

August 31, 2024

“Mom, why is that guy holding a sign by the side of the road?” asked my seven-year-old daughter from the back seat of the car. I explained, “He’s asking for money because he might not have enough food to eat or a place to stay.” This recent conversation, which involved both of my kids, sparked a profound lesson on gratitude.

While my kids are still in the early stages of learning life’s lessons, this encounter served as an eye-opening experience, reminding them of the importance of gratitude and appreciating their blessings. Seeing someone less fortunate firsthand made them realize how much they have to be thankful for, sparking a deeper sense of gratitude in their young hearts. It also raised awareness about the abundance of material possessions they’ve accumulated.

My kids, like many others, have their fair share of toys and tech. However, that experience with the homeless man allowed us to reflect on the value of those things and what truly matters. Surprisingly, they’re not as attached to worldly possessions as I thought. I’ve learned that they value meaningful moments over material items.

I’ve been making a conscious effort lately to spend more quality time with my dynamic duo. Through these experiences, I hope to teach them to appreciate life’s simple pleasures and cultivate a spirit of gratitude. Being grateful isn’t just about saying “thank you” though. It’s about acknowledging the kindness, generosity, and blessings we give and receive. That’s why cultivating an attitude of gratitude in children from a young age is crucial–it lays the foundation for a lifetime of appreciation and fulfillment.

Here are some approaches I’ve taken to nurture this mindset in my children:

Donating toys and clothes.

Though we’re still working on reducing our material possessions, I consistently encourage my kids to donate toys and clothes they no longer use. I involve them in the decision-making process, allowing them to choose which items to give away and fostering a sense of detachment from excess belongings.

We undertake this decluttering process about twice a year, emphasizing the importance of not immediately replacing the donated items with new ones. It’s an ongoing journey toward minimalism in our household.

Expressing appreciation and politeness.

This has been a fundamental aspect of my parenting journey. Teaching my children to value their health has been one of the most crucial lessons. We often hear the adage “health is wealth,” and this rings true in our daily lives. While material possessions may come and go, our health remains a priceless asset deserving of our utmost care and attention.

Each day, we’re surrounded by numerous blessings that contribute to our overall well-being. Whether it’s the ability to take in a lungful of fresh air or the freedom to move our bodies as we please, these seemingly ordinary moments are actually profound gifts that enrich our lives in countless ways.

I’m also proud to say that my efforts in instilling gratitude and politeness in my children haven’t gone unnoticed. Strangers often commend me on how polite my kids are. From the time they could speak, I’ve emphasized the importance of using “please” and “thank you” in our interactions. This simple practice has not only cultivated good manners, but it has also nurtured a genuine sense of empathy and respect for others.

Leading by example.

When it comes to cultivating gratitude in my kids, it starts with me. Children often learn by observing their parents, so I make it a point to express my own gratitude regularly. Whether it’s thanking them for their help around the house or appreciating the beauty of a sunset, I try to show them that gratitude is a daily practice. When your kids see you appreciating the small joys, they’re more likely to develop a similar mindset.

Offering random acts of kindness.

My kids have grown accustomed to seeing me do simple things like giving some spare change to a homeless person or holding the door for an elderly citizen. It’s all about those small acts of kindness. From sharing a smile with a passing stranger to offering a listening ear to a friend in need, these simple acts echo the profound importance of kindness and compassion in our daily lives.

Reflecting on the past.

I often take the opportunity to reflect with my children on the differences between their lives now and my own upbringing. It’s a chance to share stories from my past and highlight the contrasts between then and now. It’s pretty enlightening for them to hear about my childhood and compare it to theirs.

As a parent, I strive to teach them to distinguish between needs and wants. This way, they develop a deeper appreciation for the privileges and blessings in their lives.

Repeating positive affirmations.

Through the practice of positive affirmations, I guide them in understanding how their thoughts shape their emotions and actions. Together, we explore simple phrases they can repeat to themselves to boost their confidence and overall happiness. This habit not only helps them develop an optimistic outlook on life but also equips them with the resilience to face challenges head-on.

Requesting less.

When holidays and special occasions approach, I often advise family members to consider gifts that nurture creativity, such as arts and crafts supplies or engaging board games. Instead of adding to the pile of material items, these gifts encourage imaginative play and quality time spent together as a family.

Spending time in nature.

Immersing ourselves in nature has become an essential part of our daily routine. Whether it’s a walk to the park or free play in the backyard, these moments outdoors provide an opportunity to appreciate the beauty and wonder of the natural world. By disconnecting from screens and distractions, we not only stay grounded but also forge a deeper connection with nature.

Using a gratitude jar.

A gratitude jar is a fun, interactive way to help kids focus on positive experiences. Each day, my kids and I write down something we are grateful for on a slip of paper and place it in the jar. At the end of each week, we revisit our notes and reflect on the positive aspects of our lives. This simple ritual has a magical way of smoothing over difficult days or weeks.

By instilling gratitude in our children from an early age, we pave the way for them to grow into resilient, content individuals who can make a positive difference in the world. This foundation empowers them to spread kindness and contribute meaningfully to society as they journey through life.

Gratitude can carry over into our friendships and those around us. Our recent Parenting Post offers tips for how to help your kids navigate their friendships!

A Mom’s Guide to Broadway in Detroit

Whitney Cornelli

August 27, 2024

Detroit Mom partnered with the amazing people at Broadway in Detroit to bring you this post. All opinions are our own.

Seven incredible shows, seven incredible experiences, and endless memories. Is a Broadway show at the Fisher Theatre on your must-do list this year? The 2024-2025 season for Broadway in Detroit is literally around the corner (the first show opens on September 17!) and we want to make sure you know all about it, because the lineup for this season is so good!

With a wide variety of show options, you’re in for an unforgettable experience with Broadway in Detroit. They’re proud to present award-winning shows that you’re definitely going to want to be in the audience for. Oh, and as a Season Subscriber, you get additional exclusives that make each show even better!

Whether you’re planning for date nights, girls night outs, or you’ve never seen a Broadway show before and you’re ready for the experience–this is the post for you. Keep reading for your complete guide to Broadway in Detroit’s 2024-2025 season!

What makes a Broadway show different?

There is something truly magical about being in the audience of a Broadway show. The lights, music, and performers all work together to put on a truly memorable performance. These types of shows are ones that you’ll remember for a lifetime. A live show allows you to really feel the energy of the performers, to really become invested in the story, and to walk away feeling forever changed.

Whether through hard times or the best times, there’s usually a song or two we can relate to. Well, with a Broadway in Detroit show, you’ll find a performance that speaks to your soul and will stick with you for years to come. You’ll find yourself singing along with the audience, feeling emotional at all the right spots, and realizing that there really is nothing quite like a live performance.

What is the schedule for the 2024-2025 season?

The Broadway in Detroit 2024-2025 season includes seven incredible shows at two venues. Unless otherwise noted, plan to see the shows at the Fisher Theatre.

Moulin Rouge! The Musical: September 17-October 6, 2024 (at the Detroit Opera House)
Some Like It Hot: October 1-13, 2024
MJ | The Musical: October 23-November 3, 2024
A Beautiful Noise | The Neil Diamond Musical: December 24, 2024-January 5, 2025
Parade: February 25-March 9, 2025
Kimberly Akimbo: March 11-23, 2025
The Wiz: June 17-29, 2025

What are the benefits of being a Season Subscription subscriber?

The Season Subscription includes some pretty amazing exclusives that you definitely will not want to miss out on. And the best part is that you can expect these exclusives with all seven shows this season!

The Subscriber Exclusives include:

Consistent seats: rest assured you’ll always have the same seat for the Fisher Theatre shows (and a similar seat for the show at the Detroit Opera House)
Customer service: well, it’s just outstanding!
Discounted tickets: if you want to purchase extra tickets for friends or family, you can do so while paying subscriber prices
Exceptional value: choose the ticket package that best aligns with your budget
Priority access: for purchasing those additional discounted show tickets
Ticket flexibility: if you can’t make it to a show, you can exchange your tickets for FREE and choose from a number of other performances to better fit your busy schedule

How does Broadway in Detroit ensure each experience is inclusive?

Broadway in Detroit offers quite a few services to best fit the needs of anyone who is attending a production at the Fisher Theatre to make sure they have the best time.

These include:

accessible seating
accessible parking
barrier-free entrance
hearing impaired accommodations
interpreted show (must request at least 40 days prior to show opening)
pre-visit social story
sensory bags

How can I make each show a night to remember?

Catching a Broadway show is such a unique idea for a date night or even a night out with your best friends. Who doesn’t love dressing up for a night on the town? Whether you go on a weeknight or a weekend, you’re sure to have an incredible experience. But, your night out doesn’t have to only include a Broadway show. The food scene downtown is so, so good and Broadway in Detroit has quite a few restaurant partners so you can stop in before your show and enjoy a delicious bite to eat while you’re out!

Broadway in Detroit Restaurant Partners include:

The upcoming Broadway in Detroit season looks amazing and we can’t wait for the performances to start. You can trust that when you go to a show with Broadway in Detroit, it’s going to be a complete experience that will leave you counting down the days until the next show. There are so many benefits to having a Season Subscription, and it will definitely help you to get the most out of the season. We can’t wait to hear about the shows you see and which one ends up being your favorite!

The new season begins this month. For more information and to order your tickets, head on over to the Broadway in Detroit website!

Utilizing a Donor to Grow Your Family

Whitney Cornelli

August 25, 2024

DISCLAIMER: The following post is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about fertility.

There are many ways to start or grow a family. Sometimes, your journey may involve outside support. This can be in the form of a donor–for sperm, an egg, or an embryo. Utilizing a donor is a great way for families to grow. There are a few different paths to take, depending on your situation and needs. It’s important to be knowledgeable about your options. If your doctor has mentioned a donor, or you simply want to know more, this is the post for you.

Our friends from Michigan Center for Fertility and Women’s Health are here to support you on your fertility journey. You might have caught their Fertility Friday series over on our IG page–quick videos to answer common questions and provide information. Below, they’re sharing about donor sperm, donor eggs, donor embryos, and how to navigate the emotions surrounding utilizing a donor.

Donor Sperm

Donor sperm can be an option for a few different reasons. One reason may be for patients that have severe male factor infertility. For example, a patient with very low or no sperm may utilize a donor sperm sample. In addition, if a patient has a low sperm sample that is suitable for IVF, but does not want to proceed with IVF, they may also opt to use donor sperm.

Another indication for donor sperm is for individuals desiring pregnancy who do not have a male partner. Whether they haven’t met the right person yet or are getting older and now is the time that they’re feeling comfortable with starting a family, donor sperm may be an option for them.

Lastly, same-sex female couples may also use donor sperm to start their family building journey.

Options for Donor Sperm

There are two options for donor sperm: anonymous donor sperm banks as well as known donors. Anonymous sperm banks will screen donors for infectious disease, mental health issues, family history, etc. You do not know these donors, but are able to read over all of their information before choosing one. After selecting a donor, you purchase the sample, and then have it shipped to your facility prior to treatment starting.

The other option would be to use a known donor–someone you know and who would need to be screened by our office following FDA guidelines. The first step is getting a semen analysis to make sure they are an appropriate candidate. If you do proceed with the known donor, there’s a checklist to go through requiring specific labs, a physical, and typically some legal involvement.

Donor Egg

A donor egg may be an option for patients who have exhausted their egg supply due to advanced maternal age, for patients with premature ovarian insufficiency, or for those who had medical treatment that may have caused a reduction in ovarian reserve.

Options for Donor Eggs

Similar to donor sperm, there are anonymous and known donor egg options. Anonymous donors are already pre-screened and have a profile available for review with all their information. It includes medical and social history, family history, appearance, etc. If using a known donor egg, the individual would need to be screened just like with a known sperm donor.

Whether stimulating and retrieving the eggs and doing a fresh cycle or purchasing a frozen egg lot (which would then be thawed and fertilized in the laboratory), using a donor egg does require IVF.

Donor Embryo

A donor embryo may be an option for patients if there is a concern with the egg source as well as the sperm source. For example, if a patient is older and has a sub-optimal egg supply and quality, and their partner also has significant male factor, then a donor embryo can be considered.

Donor embryo may be considered in other scenarios as well. For example, donor embryo may be appealing to someone who doesn’t have a partner. If a patient is planning on considering donor egg due to their reserve, and they also need donor sperm, they may be interested in exploring donor embryos as an option.

Navigating the Emotions of Utilizing a Donor

For a lot of people, initially, utilizing a donor is not something they planned to consider. There can be emotions and feelings that come along with the process. It’s a very important part of the journey to make sure it’s an option you are comfortable with before considering moving forward.

We have resources and criteria in our process to make sure any questions or emotions are answered and addressed. Patients who are planning on utilizing a donor in any capacity are required to have a consultation with our therapist. She’s professionally trained in this field and has also had personal experience that can help relate to our patients, which has been tremendously beneficial.

We may recommend setting up a consultation with our team and counselor if you are considering the donor process. Doing so will help you navigate your journey and answer your questions.

It is normal to have questions, thoughts, feelings, and concerns about the processes involved with donor sperm, donor egg, or donor embryo. It’s important to discuss these topics with your medical team, and we are here to help you along the way. Whether you are single, in a same-sex relationship, or have other factors impacting your fertility, utilizing a donor is one way to grow your family.

Just starting out at a fertility clinic? Read about what you can expect at your initial and follow-up fertility visits.

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