2024 Detroit Mom-Approved Holiday Gift Guide

December 18, 2024

There’s something so incredible about shopping local and supporting businesses within our community. It’s something we’re extremely passionate about here at Detroit Mom. Buying local gives back to our community and, I don’t know about you, but that’s something I want to be a part of.

This year, we wanted to try something different + unique with our holiday gift guide. We turned to our Detroit Mom community and asked our readers who they wanted to see in our holiday gift guide this year. What businesses were they going to be supporting, who did they want to shout out, and what gift items did they have their eyes on? We wanted to know it ALL so we could put this guide together knowing it was full of personally-recommended businesses submitted by moms in and around Detroit.

For our Detroit Mom-Approved Holiday Gift Guide, we’ve made it super simple for you to shop. The majority of these businesses have the option to purchase online and ship anywhere. Read through the list below!

BLACK-OWNED

Lettering By Kenisha | Calligraphy, Chalk Menus, Apparel, + More

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Kenisha’s calligraphy and hand lettering services are the perfect way to add a personal, artistic touch to holiday gifting. Offering everything from calligraphy services and chalk menu designs to wedding invitations, signage, apparel, cards, and home décor, Kenisha creates bespoke pieces tailored to your needs. Her handcrafted designs elevate everyday items into one-of-a-kind treasures that show thoughtfulness and care. Whether you’re celebrating special events or spreading holiday cheer, her versatile creations make for meaningful, memorable gifts!

The Lip Bar | Makeup + Skincare

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Black-owned, women-owned, located in downtown Detroit but also available at Target, Walmart, and CVS. Quality makeup and skincare products with natural ingredients. Reasonably priced!

EXPERIENCES

The Art Shack | Art Classes

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Art classes for kids and adults! This location even offers summer camps. Owned by a wonderful woman who cares about her students and the community.

Broadway in Detroit | Broadway Show

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Not only is the Fisher Theater the most amazing venue, but a night out isn’t complete without stopping in for dinner first at one of the incredible restaurants downtown. Tickets to a show would be the *perfect* date night or night out with friends!

Detroit Dye House | Dye Classes + Clothes

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Detroit Dye House provides dye classes and lessons. They also have a great collection of expert dye clothes for purchase. This is a fun outing with friends and families. We have even been here for a two-year-old’s birthday party!

Detroit Zoo | Zoo Membership

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: When in doubt . . . we go to the zoo! A membership to the Detroit Zoo is a wonderful family gift that can be used year round.

House of Reclamation | Retreats

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: These retreats are truly life-changing. Lauryn + Elizabeth are doing so much work locally and internationally in order to make sure that women are walking through life together, as their highest selves, feeling supported 100% of the way. Their annual Traverse City Homecoming Retreat looks absolutely amazing!

Serenity at Home | Home Organizing

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: A gift certificate for home organizing is the perfect gift for that special person on your list. Available in any dollar amount, the gift of organizing can be a life-changing experience for anyone looking for some help getting their home in order in the new year.

Sidetrack Bookshop | Books

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: This is my favorite cozy bookstore with the best owner and staff. It is an experience just walking in the door. From books, to candles, to paper products and bags, there is something for everyone here. My family visits almost every Saturday just to stop in and say “Hi!”

FASHION + ACCSSORIES

Chaos Collection | Custom + Unique Apparel

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: They create customs designs and really cute gameday attire as well as unique, edgy designs and sayings. Bringing joy to your closet one shirt at a time!

Clara’s Craft Boutique | Custom Handmade Gifts

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Clara’s Craft Boutique has something for everyone. Customize a gift for a friend, teacher, relative, or yourself. Everything is handmade with love and has a quick turnaround time!

George Gregory | Men’s Clothing + Accessories

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: George Gregory has men’s clothing and accessories that you are not going to find at the mall. The owner is always helpful in finding the perfect gift too!

Kiloh + Co. | Corded Crew Sweatshirts

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: The Corded Crews from Kiloh + Co are so comfortable! Since it’s one of their most popular styles, there’s bound to be a team or phrase your gift receiver will love. It’s designed to be a loose fit, and I practically live in mine!

LovePeaceThreads | Jean Jackets

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: I made a jean jacket with Lauren and I wear it constantly!! It’s so comfy, stylish, and really adds nicely to my outfit. I love styling it with a comfy sweater underneath and some leggings!

Maisie Mae Boutique | Baby Bows

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: My girls LOVE their bows from here. They’re made with so much love and are so cute!

Mend on the Move | Handcrafted Art, Jewelry, + Bags

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Beautiful art that reuses materials that would otherwise be scrapped, and a beautiful cause local to Detroit to employ women survivors of abuse.

The Little Design Co | Purses + Other Leather Goods

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: I cannot choose just one purse, they’re all so gorgeous! You can see how much attention to detail goes into every product made here.

FOR FOODIES

Clementines | Baked Goods

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: The macaroons are always fresh. The service there makes you feel like you are family!

Sabbath Coffee Roasters | Coffee + Coffee Merchandise

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: For all the coffee lovers and moms in your life! Sabbath is a tiny shop (no seating area) that has the coziest monthly specials and comfiest shirts. They also have a delicious frozen oat latte that’s perfect for any season, in my opinion!

FOR KIDS

Cookie Cutters Haircuts for Kids | Children’s Haircuts

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: When children step into the salon, they’re greeted by a fun-filled waiting area complete with an indoor slide and a coloring table. During their haircuts, they can unwind in whimsical fantasy chairs while watching their favorite TV shows. Afterward, they leave with big smiles, a balloon, and a sucker in hand! The stylists are highly trained to work with adults, children of all ages, and those with unique or special needs, ensuring a comfortable and enjoyable experience for everyone.

Fascination Factory | Toys + Play Place Experience

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Fascination Factory has a huge play area with wooden and educational toys for kids newborn to six years old. This place is equipped with coffee and snacks and great for meeting up with friends. They also offer summer camps and parent night outs. There are also toys for purchase for last minute shopping!

Go Grow Playrooms | Open Play

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: This is the perfect spot to sit back and relax while your kiddos play and have fun! Parents can rest easy and actually sit for a bit knowing their kids are having so much fun!

Goldfish Swim School | Swim Lessons

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Goldfish Swim School offers swim lessons for all ages at all different levels of swim experience. The staff is knowledgeable, helpful, and always friendly. The water is warm, and showers and changing rooms are available!

Hank a Roo Readings | Children’s Books

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Quality and fun picture books for kids ages 3-8. The stories are engaging, with beautiful illustrations. The board book, To the Moon and Back, is perfect for new or expecting moms. A great baby shower gift!

Main St. Rocks | Crystals + Gems

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: If you’re looking for a good energy, thoughtful gift that maybe no one else has thought of, this is the spot. Shopping for someone who may need some grounding, positive thoughts, or even a Michigan gem ring? Main St. Rocks has it all.

Modern Natural Baby | Baby + Kids Toys and Essentials

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: This is our go-to for baby products and toys for birthdays and holiday presents (free wrapping!). The staff always has great recommendations based on age for gifts and their toy section is always fun to play in!

No Fear Cafe | STEAM+ Kit

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: The STEAM+ kits for kids are a fantastic holiday gift because they spark curiosity and foster a love for learning in science, technology, engineering, and mathematics. Each kit is designed to be engaging and hands-on, encouraging creativity and critical thinking while allowing kids to explore real-world concepts. By providing a fun and educational experience, these kits not only entertain but also help children develop essential skills that will benefit them in their future studies and careers. Give the gift of discovery this holiday season and inspire the next generation of innovators!

RNB Press: Children’s Book Imprint | Children’s Picture Books

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: This holiday season, gift your child the joy of imagination with author Renee’s highly recommended picture books, Finding Bunny, Imagine That, and The Truth About Stepmoms. Each story sparks creativity, fosters a love for reading, and creates lifelong memories that you can cherish together. With glowing reviews highlighting their heartwarming narratives, these books are not just gifts—they’re experiences. Plus, by choosing her books, you’re supporting a local mom and author dedicated to nurturing young minds through the magic of storytelling.

Stemville | STEM Open Play Session

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Stemville is a children’s activity center with all play focused in STEM. They offer open play, monthly memberships, and birthday parties. There are two locations in Northville and Howell, and a pop up location in Detroit that is open until December 28th. Best for children ages 3 to 8 years old. It is their hope to stimulate the minds of all who visit so they too can imagine, explore, design, and create!

Toyology Toys | All Toys For All Ages

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Your local toy store that has everything you need! Fun toys for everyone on your shopping list, from babies to adults. They also gift wrap!

HOME DECOR + GIFTS

Applewood Candle Co | Clean, Luxury Candles

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Applewood Candle Co offers a clean home fragrance collection that invites indulgence, without sacrificing wellness. The owner, Allison, believes you should never have to choose between beauty + quality, especially when it comes to the comforts of home. Free from toxins found in traditional candles, their artfully-inspired scents transform raw ingredients into refined elegance. Experience pure, luxury fragrance–sustainably sourced + consciously crafted from wax to wick. Applewood Candles are hand-poured in small batches in Michigan and they offer a wide variety, from individual candles to ready-to-gift boxes to their quarterly subscription. They have the perfect gift for anyone on your list!

Bloom Honeybee Florals | Flowers

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: The absolute best floral arrangements! A woman-owned business who works directly with her customers to create gorgeous arrangements. She offers personal delivery as well. I’ve ordered florals for Mother’s Day and birthdays through her–and they last!!

Catching Fireflies | Gift Shop

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Catching Fireflies is my go-to for cards and gifts for my mother-in-law. This is a small gift shop with fun and unique gifts with lots of Michigan love products too!

City Bird | Gift Shop

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: City Bird is a gift shop in Detroit where you can find home goods, local stickers, greeting cards, and unique gifts for everyone on your list!

Four808 | Unique Decor, Jewelry, + So Much More

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: All made by local artists! A wide variety of options including Detroit sports apparel not found anywhere else, and also unique home decor (door hangers, wood signs, crystals, etc.). I have custom ordered many items if I see something in the store that I want to slightly change, like a quote or colors. The staff is great and will help you find the perfect gift!

Kelz Creates | Art + Art Experiences

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: It’s so important to support local art! With Kelz, you can buy art or gift an Art Experience! Kelz is a local value-based and social justice-focused artist, social worker, and educator who can curate a one-of-a-kind art experience to meet your wishes: group bonding, healing, identity exploration, mindfulness, the list is endless!

Panek Artistry | Home + Floral Portraits

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Each portrait is drawn or painted by hand. There is no shortage when it comes to detail. Every single one is personal and created from the heart!

Rail and Anchor | Unique Home Gifts

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Rail and Anchor is my go-to store for unique gifts. There is something for everyone on your list here. They also gift wrap!

Riverside Vintage Market | Home Goods

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Super cute place to shop for unique decor for your home! All of the items sold here are either vintage finds or handmade items.

Soul Roots | Soy Candles

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Soul Root’s candles are perfect for gifting to your loved ones: clean burning, non-toxic, hand-poured, and ready to make their spirits brighter!

SELF-CARE + BEAUTY

ArtiSun Soap | Bath + Body Products

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Amazing, natural bath and body products! Sue Finley has a unique line of quality products that smell amazing. Customer service is top notch!

Citizen Yoga | Yoga

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: There is no better gift than something that serves the soul. Citizen Yoga offers multiple yoga classes a day in three locations, along with retreats, workshops, and wellness services.

Regeily | Essentials Collection Minimalist Duo

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Regeily’s Essentials Collection Minimalist Duo is the perfect holiday gift for anyone who deserves a little self-care. This clean beauty set, featuring their luxurious body cleanser and deeply hydrating lotion, is designed to nourish the 97% of skin often overlooked. Created by a Black, female, veteran-owned brand, it reflects their mission to inspire others to prioritize their well-being. Give the gift of radiant, healthy skin while supporting a brand rooted in resilience and empowerment!

Sculpt Pilates | Pilates Classes

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: A women-owned Pilates studio in midtown Detroit. Wonderful facility with passionate instructors and fun classes! I’ve taken several Pilates classes but the ones here are my fave!

Sirona Wellness Spa | Massage/Float Therapy

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Sirona is a place that allows for whole body peace and self-care. Owned by a fellow mama, Sirona has been curated to allow you to fully release your stress when you step foot in the door. After your service, there is a small lounge area where you can sit and continue relaxing with a cup of tea or water. Such an amazing spot!

Sisu Mobile Sauna | Mobile Sauna Rental or Gift Card

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: Treat your loved one to a unique experience to unwind in the 8×12 traditional Finnish mobile barrel sauna. Book a specific date, or buy a gift card!

TRV|FIT Berkley | Workout Session

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: TRV|FIT Berkley, located in Oak Park, is dedicated to fostering a vibrant and supportive fitness community focused on total wellness. They offer dynamic group workouts, personal training, and semi-private programs like Peach City, League, Perform Camp, and many more designed to help you achieve your fitness goals. Their unique approach combines quality coaching with an inclusive environment, ensuring a fun and approachable path to health for all fitness levels. With a passionate team committed to positively impacting you, they strive to empower you to feel stronger and more confident after every session!

Walking Lightly | Eye Cream with Cucumber, Hyaluronic Acid, + Coffee

WHAT OUR READERS HAVE TO SAY: I love this eye cream. When I had my son, it was the only thing that made me feel alive after a long night of feeding/crying. Helps brightens my eyes and from a great woman-owned shop right in Ferndale focused on reducing waste!

We hope you love these local businesses in our holiday gift guide as much as we do! They are truly some of the best gems in Detroit. You’ll find something special for everyone on your list. 2024 is the year to shop local, shop small, and support our community. We know just how much our favorite small businesses appreciate you! Stop by or shop online, and tell them Detroit Mom sent you!

Wishing you and yours the happiest of holiday seasons!

Celebrating Kwanzaa This Holiday Season

Kenisha Coon

December 16, 2024

Next week, we are celebrating Kwanzaa! Although I am a mixed-race, BIPOC woman, I grew up in a predominately white home and area. I have spent a large part of my adulthood learning about my culture, who I am, and who I want to be as a person.

For the last few years, I have spent time building my capacity, especially around Kwanzaa, in preparation to celebrate with my family and make sure that I am teaching my children about my culture. I am very excited to share some information that I have taken in, so I can be ready to teach my kids about our culture and embrace how important this holiday is in the African American community. We have been celebrating for several years now.

What is Kwanzaa?

Kwanzaa is a meaningful cultural holiday that celebrates African American heritage and traditional values. It was founded in the 1960s during the Black National Movement as a way to honor and reconnect with African roots while fostering a sense of community and cultural pride. Observed annually from December 26th to January 1st, Kwanzaa is a seven-day celebration, with each day focusing on a specific principle or social value, such as unity, self-determination, collective work, and responsibility.

This time of year highlights important themes like unity, creativity, faith, and gift-giving, all of which hold a special place in my life. These values not only serve as guiding principles for the celebration but also as a foundation for everyday living. For me, Kwanzaa represents an opportunity to reflect on these ideals and to teach my children their significance. I strive to instill in them a sense of pride, purpose, and community, encouraging them to embrace these values in their actions and interactions throughout the year. Celebrating Kwanzaa is not just about tradition; it is about cultivating a legacy of cultural awareness and shared responsibility that strengthens both family and community bonds.

The Seven Key Principles

During the seven-day celebration, there are seven key principles that are focused on–one each day.

Umoja focuses on maintaining the unity of the family, the nation, race, and the community around us.
Kujichagulia focuses on the self-determination to create and do things for ourselves.
Ujima focuses on collective work and the responsibility to build each other’s community and help our friends and families.
Ujamaa focuses on economics and supporting Black-owned businesses, shops, and stores.
Nia focuses on the vocation of building and developing communities to restore them.
Kuumba is the day of creativity.
Imani is the day of faith.

The focus of each of these days is to bring together the Black community as a family and learn about the traditions of those before us, and focus on learning and appreciating one’s culture.

Symbolism + Decorations

The traditional colors of Kwanzaa are black, green, and red. On our table, you will find traditional African cloth patterns. You will also find a Kwanzaa kinara with the seven candles–one representing every celebration day.

I felt it was essential to create a festive atmosphere and ensure my children were exposed to the meaningful symbolism of Kwanzaa. By engaging them with the daily discussions about the seven key principles and allowing them to observe the symbolic decorations, their curious minds are encouraged to ask questions and explore deeper meanings. They also notice the Christmas tree across the room, naturally drawing comparisons between the two celebrations, allowing them to appreciate both their similarities and unique qualities.

Books to Check Out

There are so many books that you can share with your children to read about Kwanzaa or introduce them to the holiday. Here are just a few that I recommend:

Kwanzaa: How to Celebrate It In your Home by Kathleen M. Taylor
My First Kwanzaa by Karen Katz
Kwanzaa by Lisa J Amstutz

I view this as a time to continue to have conversations with my children and my family about my African roots of heritage. This is as a week of vocal gratitude. I view this as a time when others can learn about the traditions as I share our journey of learning and celebrating. It is a celebration of unity, family, and gratitude. I am looking forward to sharing it with my boys and experiencing it again this year.

We love sharing about the different ways families celebrate the holidays. Be sure to check out Ronit’s post about how her family celebrates Hanukkah!

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5 Ways to Improve Fertility Naturally

Detroit Mom

December 15, 2024

DISCLAIMER: The following post is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about fertility.

When it comes to starting or growing your family, it can be really difficult to “sit and wait” and see what happens each month. It’s normal to want to know if there is anything else you can do to increase your chances of becoming pregnant.

When talking about fertility, it’s important to remember that every person’s situation is unique. However, if you have been looking for ways to improve your fertility naturally, this is the post for you.

Our friends from Michigan Center for Fertility and Women’s Health are here to support you on your fertility journey. You might have caught their Fertility Friday series over on our IG page–quick videos to answer common questions and provide information. Below, they’re sharing how to try to improve fertility naturally.

How can I improve my fertility naturally?

We’re seeing it more and more–patients wanting to know what they can do on their own to help improve their fertility. It’s great that people are interested in, and willing to try, other interventions on their own–in addition to what we recommend medically in the office. There are five ways to help naturally improve your fertility; here are our five suggestions:

1. Aim for a healthy body weight with a BMI that’s not too low and not too elevated.

Regarding specific ranges, there are general recommendations, but these can vary per patient depending on multiple factors. When reviewing BMI ranges, our practitioners will consider these variables and help determine what specific range is most applicable to each individual patient.

2. Incorporate some exercise into your daily lifestyle.

Patients can feel intimidated about exercise–especially if they are not currently participating in any form of activity. Incorporating exercise into your life does not require going to the gym every single day for an hour each time. Working to incorporate 30 minutes or so at least three to four times a week can really be beneficial for your overall health and fertility–even if it’s taking a walk or adding in a quick workout at home throughout the day in smaller increments. Exercise can be a great benefit for fertility purposes, as well as for your general health.

3. Look into vitamins and supplements.

We do typically recommend that all of our female patients be on a prenatal vitamin. There are also additional vitamins that we may incorporate such as vitamin D, antioxidants, or other supplements that have been shown to potentially help with egg quality (such as Coenzyme Q10 and Truniagen). Our providers will help determine what supplements are recommended and best for you as a patient.

We also have a vitamin list for our male patients. Our providers also help determine if these vitamins are of benefit, pending the results of their work up and history.

4. Eat a balanced diet.

Typically, the primary diet recommended for fertility purposes is the Mediterranean diet, which is usually high in vegetables, plants, fruits, and lean proteins such as fish and chicken. Carbohydrates are included but tend to be in moderation; aim for lower glycemic index foods and more fiber-rich foods that our bodies can more easily digest. Overall, the general carbohydrate and sugar intake is limited.

A Mediterranean diet is generally high in antioxidants, which has been shown to have a positive impact on fertility, as well as general health!

5. Be mindful of your lifestyle choices.

Certainly, no tobacco use, no recreational drug use, and alcohol in moderation. Choices that are good for our overall health are typically also beneficial to our fertility health. These positive choices can help with the overall success of getting and staying pregnant, and help improve our egg and sperm quality.

In summary: maintain a healthy weight, exercise, take vitamins, and pay attention to your dietary and lifestyle choices. These are five things that you can incorporate right off the bat on your own to help improve your fertility when you begin your journey.

If you’re growing your family and having some issues, secondary infertility may be why. Read our last post about secondary infertility and what to expect if you’re navigating it.

The Parenting Post: Tips for Navigating Holiday Transitions

Detroit Mom

December 14, 2024

Do you have a parenting hurdle you’re working through? If so, “The Parenting Post” is for you! One of our writers, Albiona, has been answering all of YOUR parenting questions over on IG. We’ve turned her series into blog posts on our website as well. We just can’t get enough of her helpful advice, and we thought you’d appreciate it, too!

Her videos cover a wide variety of parenting questions–honestly, anything and everything! If it’s something you’re wondering, there’s a good chance that another parent in our community is also struggling with it. And Albiona is here to help!

This week, she’s sharing about navigating holiday transitions with your little ones in order to have less meltdowns and more ease. The holidays can be filled with jumping from house to house–so it’s super important to have a plan ahead of time and get everyone on board.

How do you manage transitioning from house to house during holiday season visits?

First off, navigating holiday transitions is such a common situation. The important thing here is to really think about your own situation and what works and what doesn’t. But hopefully, these tips will be super helpful for you this holiday season! You don’t have to take every tip from this post and think it’s the only right way to do it. Parenting is all about being flexible!

To start, work out a game plan with your partner.

Start with you and your partner. Work out a game plan that you both agree to. More often than not, one partner wants to do it one way, and the other wants to do it another way. Then, you begrudgingly commit to one type of a plan. One the day of, when things fall apart, you kind of go after each other. This can be a little problematic. You need to be on the same page here–otherwise, it can become a really stressful situation.

Use bridge incentives!

When navigating holiday transitions, frame it for your kids ahead of time so they know exactly what to expect, and what the day will look like. If you have a child who has a harder time transitioning from one place to another, you can build in a bridge incentive. Find something exciting they can look forward to, and use it as an incentive for a positive transition.

For instance, if you know they’ll have a hard time leaving grandma’s house to go to the next house, you could have a little surprise in the car waiting for them. You can build it up in a way so that your child is really looking forward to what’s next. They’ll be excited about getting in the car and heading to the next house, and hopefully the transition will be a smooth one!

You don’t have to do this every single time your child transitions between houses. But, when it’s the holiday season, and excitement is high, it’s okay to use an incentive to help the day run as smoothly as possible. It really helps them to become excited about getting in the car and going to the next location.

Another tip for navigating holiday transitions is to try to end up at their more favored place (maybe it’s running around their aunt’s house with their cousins!), so it’s even more exciting to look forward to going. This is not the time to take things personally with one side of the family vs. the other. It really just comes down to where the kids have more fun, and where they’ll be more excited about going to. Often, it’s wherever their cousins or kids their age are. So, try to end there (if you can!). And if you can’t? That’s okay too.

So, make a plan with your partner and stick to it. Let your kids know your plan, and let them know about any bridge incentives that will be included. This will get them super excited and on board, and you’ll be ready to tackle the holiday season–and alllllll of the visits that come with it. Happy holidays!

Do you have more parenting questions for Albiona? Leave them below so she can possibly answer them for you. To learn more, you can follow Albiona on Instagram. Or, subscribe to her weekly newsletter and download her free guide for teaching parents how to get their kids to listen.

Looking for more parenting advice? Our previous Parenting Post blog post covered how to talk with kids about sexuality.

Detroit Mom’s Guide to Sweet Treats In + Around Detroit

CarminIssa

December 11, 2024

Maybe it’s just me, but during the holiday season, give me all the cookies, cakes, and pies! I often blow the dust off of my stand mixer and get creative in my kitchen. My late grandmother’s Lemon Meringue recipe is a staple, and a Kentucky Derby Pie I’ve put my own twist on makes an appearance on my family’s table.

Sometimes, my sweet tooth has specific cravings–cravings for cookies, or cupcakes, or cakes that I have not yet mastered. If you’re looking to sweeten your holiday gathering, family dinner, or just a late-night craving, this list of places to find sweet treats in and around Detroit will be your go-to. You can reference this list all holiday season for special holiday treats, and beyond!

Here are the BEST places to find sweet treats in + around Detroit!

Astoria Pastry Shop | Detroit + Royal Oak

Astoria offers a variety of special sweet treats from ice cream to decadent brownies. As a teen, I would venture to the Greektown location for their amazing oatmeal cookies (that they still offer!). In my adult years, I still get the cookie, and I now add in a lemon bar. It’s the perfect treat for myself. This is a one-stop shop kind of bakery, offering tarts, pastries, coffee, ice cream, and more!

Bakehouse 46 | Various Locations

With locations throughout Metro Detroit (Ann Arbor, Birmingham, Grosse Pointe, Plymouth, Rochester, and a new Ferndale location!), you are sure to be pleased with the sweet offerings from Bakehouse 46. Each location houses a menu full of breakfast sandwiches, coffee, and two of my favorite things from the local Blake’s Cider Mill–donuts and cider!

I love that they switch up their cupcake flavors monthly and offer all flavors in both mini and regular size. The minis are my go-to, and I have not had a disappointing flavor! And here’s a little secret: if you’re in the Grosse Pointe area, every Wednesday, they offer BOGO for any of their full-sized cupcakes!

Cannelle | Detroit

These pastries are elevated and sure to impress any guest. The pastry offerings are like a work of art. The bakery is filled with fresh bread, croissants, and savory options. It’s so hard to pick a favorite here, but this is definitely a “treat yourself” type of bakery!

Grab something for yourself after you have strolled the Holiday Markets in Downtown Detroit. Locations are also in Ann Arbor and Birmingham!

Crummies Sweets & Treats | Detroit

This black-owned, women-owned business is located on Detroit’s west side and offers an array of delicious treats! You can purchase customized cakes and find the cutest heart-shaped cakes here created with their signature buttercream. This unique location also holds classes and is a cake supply store for aspiring bakers.

If you can’t make it to their flagship store, you are able to find these yummy treats in the Rivertown Meijer Market, close to Downtown Detroit.

Detroit Cookie Company | Various Locations

Known for their insanely delicious flavors of cookies, this woman-owned business is a staple for any cookie lover! With locations in Ann Arbor, Ferndale, and St. Clair Shores, you are sure to find something you love with the daily 25+ flavors that are offered.

They also have cookies to match any time of the season, but I must admit, my favorite isn’t a cookie. My absolute favorite–and it rivals with everything else they offer–are their cinnamon rolls! Don’t look for these if you are on a diet! They are so warm and gooey and delicious, and only available on the weekends, and they sell out fast!

For the Love Of Sugar | Detroit

It truly is hard to pick one favorite thing here at For the Love of Sugar. I had not experienced pillow-soft macarons until I discovered this midtown-based bakery. The celebration platter they offer allows you to pile on cookies, brownies, macarons, and/or their cake slices. You can order their cake by the slice, whole, or get one specially made with their brilliant artwork. The treats here will elevate any event you’re having!

Good Cakes and Bakes | Detroit

This LGBTQIA+ and black-owned bakery is known throughout Detroit for their vegan options. They also ship nationwide! They are also known for their strawberry crunch cake. My favorite has to be the 7Up cake. It is divine! You can find their amazing treats at their Livernois location, and their new location in the alley of Columbia Street located in Downtown Detroit.

JoJo’s Shake Bar | Detroit

If you are looking for a place to overindulge, JoJo’s Shake Bar is where you can find it! They are known for their over-the-top shakes and I must say that their seasonal selections are top notch. The girl scout shake gives me all the nostalgia feels with the marshmallows and dark chocolate peppermint flavor.

Located on Columbia Street in Downtown Detroit, they now have a Winter Wonderland. They have upcoming family-friendly activities that will definitely put you in a mood! It is the perfect place for a family outing. You can have dinner, an adult cocktail, and of course the amazing shakes!

Modern Cone | St. Clair Shores

Just because it’s chilly, doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a cool treat. Modern Cone has an innovative selection and warm treats to also enjoy. My son is obsessed with the ice cream nachos. Yes, you read that correctly! They are the only place I know that offers ice cream nachos. You can build nachos or a stacker with the many delicious options they offer.

A staple of mine is the lemon cheesecake ice cream, but I almost always try any of their seasonal offerings. Their newly remodeled space houses amazing coffee drinks and quick-grab treats. You are also still able to request unique cakes for any event you may have coming up.

Shatila Bakery | Dearborn

This bakery offers delicious Mediterranean sweets that look just as good as they taste! You are able to order customized cakes from them for any of your special holiday gatherings. A chocolate bar went viral for being so delicious and Shatila’s Bakery has it! They also have scrumptious baklava, tres leches, premium ice creams, and holiday gift boxes that are perfect for gifting. Offering a variety of beverages as well, you can’t go wrong grabbing a sweet treat from here this season.

Sister Pie | Detroit

Their peanut butter paprika cookies are Santa’s favorite in my house! They offer an amazing champagne chess pie during the holiday season as well. Other offerings include a sweet or savory option for scones, lunch options that change daily, and of course pie by the slice or whole. I’ve purchased the cookbook by the lovely owner, Lisa Ludwinski, for when I want to experiment in the kitchen!

Waffle Cabin | Seasonal Pop-Up

What’s better than having your waffle, and eating it, too? Adding toppings to it and shopping all at the same time! The Holiday Markets are back near the award-winning Campus Martius and one of the pop-ups offers crisp yet soft waffles that you can carry and enjoy while you take in the festive lights and shop for the season. We got one drizzled with chocolate and topped with marshmallows, and it was delicious.

These are just a few places that offer a variety of sweet treats in and around Detroit. These treats can be quick pick-me-ups or for guests during a festive gathering. Make sure you check them all out for their holiday offerings!

After you buy sweet treats this holiday season, don’t forget to take care of yourself! Treat yourself at one of these local small businesses in our holiday gift guide!

Make Blake Farms Your Winter Wonderland Destination!

Detroit Mom

December 10, 2024

Detroit Mom partnered with the amazing people at Blake Farms to bring you this post. All opinions are our own.

As the snow begins to blanket Michigan’s countryside, there’s no better place to embrace the magic of the winter season than at Blake’s Orchard & Cider Mill. Known for its sprawling orchards and vibrant fall festivities, Blake Farms transforms into a picturesque holiday haven in the winter where families, couples, and friends can create cherished memories. From cutting down your own Christmas tree to enjoying festive treats, there’s something for everyone to enjoy.

Below, you’ll find five attractions they’re offering this season, plus an overview of what you can look forward to all winter long!

Five Ways to Spend Your Winter at Blake Farms

Find your perfect Christmas tree.

No holiday season is complete without the centerpiece of your home: the Christmas tree. At Blake’s, we offer the quintessential holiday experience of picking and cutting your very own tree. Stroll through rows of snow-dusted evergreens, from towering pines to perfectly shaped firs, and choose the one that will brighten your home. Equipped with saws and holiday cheer, you can channel your inner lumberjack and bring the magic of the farm to your living room.

Prefer to skip the sawing? Blake’s also offers a selection of pre-cut trees, expertly chosen and ready for you to take home. Each tree is freshly harvested, ensuring it will last throughout the holiday season. Our friendly staff is always on hand to help you, making the process seamless and fun.

Visit with Santa on the weekends.

The holiday magic doesn’t stop at the trees. On weekends, Santa himself makes appearances at Blake’s to delight children and adults alike. Capture the perfect holiday photo as your little ones share their Christmas wishes with the man in red. With warm smiles and plenty of cheer, Santa’s presence adds an extra touch of wonder to your visit.

Dine in cozy comfort.

After an afternoon of tree hunting or visiting Santa, warm up with a delightful meal at Blake’s Tasting Room. Whether you prefer the cozy indoor dining area with rustic charm or the unique outdoor igloos, you’re in for a treat!

Our igloo dining experience is like no other—imagine enjoying a hearty meal under a canopy of twinkling lights, surrounded by the wintery beauty of the farm. The igloos are heated and beautifully decorated, providing the perfect blend of warmth and holiday ambiance. It’s an excellent option for date nights, family gatherings, or even a festive outing with friends.

No matter where you choose to dine, you’ll discover a menu filled with delicious dishes crafted to satisfy every craving. To make your meal even better, pair it with one of Blake’s signature hard ciders–the perfect sip to complement every bite!

Indulge in treats to sweeten the season.

No trip to Blake’s is complete without indulging in the delicious treats that make our farm so special. Stop by the Cider Mill to pick up a fresh jug of sweet cider, perfect for sipping on cold winter nights. Pair it with our famous donuts for a cozy snack that embodies the season’s spirit!

Feeling festive? Try one of our caramel apples or warm up with a cup of hot cocoa. These simple yet decadent treats are perfect for enjoying on the farm or taking home to savor later.

And for the adults looking to add a little extra cheer, don’t forget to grab a case (or two!) of Blake’s Hard Cider, perfect for sharing with family and friends this holiday season.

Shop for all things festive + gifting.

Blake’s isn’t just about trees and treats—it’s also your one-stop shop for holiday gifting! Our farm market is brimming with thoughtful gift sets featuring farm favorites like salsas, jams, BBQ sauces, and even wine. These locally crafted goodies make the perfect gift for everyone on your list.

Why Blake’s is the Perfect Winter Destination

Blake’s Orchard & Cider Mill isn’t just a place to visit—it’s a place to make memories. The farm’s charm lies in its ability to offer experiences that cater to every generation, from the youngest children meeting Santa to adults sharing laughs over a pint of hard cider in a glowing igloo.

Winter at Blake’s is about more than activities; it’s about connecting with loved ones, embracing traditions, and creating moments you’ll treasure forever. Whether you’re picking out the perfect tree, indulging in holiday treats, or simply enjoying the beauty of the season, Blake’s offers a magical escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life.

Plan Your Visit!

Blake’s Orchard & Cider Mill is open throughout the holiday season, ensuring there’s plenty of time to experience the magic. Here’s what you can look forward to:

Christmas Tree Shopping: Open daily for u-cut and pre-cut options through December 23rd
Cider Mill & Market: Open daily for all your holiday treats and shopping needs
Dining at the Tasting Room: Reservations for igloo dining are highly recommended
Santa Visits: Weekends, check out our website for times

This winter, make Blake’s Orchard & Cider Mill your destination for holiday cheer. From the twinkle of lights on freshly fallen snow to the smell of cider and donuts wafting through the air, Blake’s is where the magic of the season comes to life.

We can’t wait to celebrate the season with you. Happy Holidays! 🎄

Detroit Mom’s Local Love Spotlight: Motor City Gymnastics

Whitney Cornelli

December 8, 2024

Detroit Mom’s Local Love series highlights local women and the businesses they have built. We love supporting small business! Today’s Local Love Spotlight belongs to Sandra Brand, owner of Motor City Gymnastics.

To start, we asked Sandra to share a few fun facts about herself with us!

She is originally from Germany and has lived in the U.S. for 11 years, with time spent in Birmingham, AL, and Birmingham, MI, since 2019.
She loves immersing herself in stories through audiobooks—they’re her favorite way to relax and learn.
Her family is excited about planning to welcome a dog into their lives, and they look forward to the adventure ahead!

We asked her to share a little bit more about her business with us, too. Get to know Sandra and her business, Motor City Gymnastics, below!

How did you come up with the idea of your business, and how did you start?

“The idea for my trampoline and tumbling gymnastics business was inspired by my two daughters’ passion for trampoline gymnastics and my desire to create a place where kids of all ages and skill levels could grow, learn, and have fun. I noticed a gap in our community for an exclusive program focusing specifically on trampoline and tumbling, which are fantastic ways to build strength, coordination, and confidence. I wanted to create a space that welcomes everyone, from toddlers to competitive athletes, where they can progress at their own pace in a safe, supportive environment.

“Community is key. When I started this journey, it was crucial for me to understand my local community’s needs. I spent a significant amount of time researching and listening to what was needed. It was apparent there was a demand for a space that catered to all ages where you could come to develop skills, coordination, and build community in a safe and supportive environment. With that, I secured a location with enough space for trampolines, mats, and safety equipment. I knew I wanted Olympic-sized, high-quality, specialized equipment for students to fully enjoy and to recruit certified coaches who share my passion for working with kids.

“It was also important to me to develop various programs, from beginner classes to competitive team training. I wanted to ensure that there was something for every age and skill level. We launched with a mix of marketing efforts, including social media outreach and advertising campaigns, which helped build excitement and enroll our first students. I’m thrilled to share we have our first competitive team of eight and growing who will represent Motor City Gymnastics in this season’s U.S.T.A. competition.”

Knowing what you know now, is there anything you would have done differently when you were first starting out?

“If I would just start over again, I would put more emphasis on marketing our gym earlier and creating brand awareness prior to launch.”

What is the best business advice you’ve ever been given?

“The best business advice I’ve ever received is always to stay connected to your “why.” Remembering the purpose behind your business keeps you grounded and motivated, especially during challenging times.

“Another piece of invaluable advice is to focus on building relationships, not just transactions. In a service-oriented business like mine, creating a supportive community and building trust with families will be the key to long-term success.

“Finally, I am highly motivated to be adaptable. Listening to customer feedback and being willing to evolve will help the business grow and thrive.”

Have you faced adversity in business due to being a woman? How did you navigate that?

“I wouldn’t necessarily say that being a woman hindered my ability to chase my dreams. I stay focused on my goals, and letting the work speak for itself is the best approach to overcoming doubts or biases.”

How do you persevere in challenging times?

“I persevere in challenging times by focusing on actions that help me stay grounded and resilient. Going for a walk clears my mind and gives me a fresh perspective. I focus on moving forward, learning from each experience, and tackling obstacles head-on. Setting clear priorities helps me stay organized and ensures I put my energy into what truly matters. This combination keeps me motivated and steady, even in challenging moments.”

What impact do you want your business to have?

“I created an environment for students to feel supported, empowered, and motivated to reach their potential. So, I want my business to have a lasting impact on the lives of young people in our community by helping them build confidence, resilience, and a love for trampoline and tumbling gymnastics. I hope that through our programs, kids gain athletic abilities and learn life skills like teamwork, discipline, and perseverance. Ultimately, I want to contribute to a positive, active culture in our community, where families see our gym as a place that uplifts and inspires their children.”

What are the pros and cons of being a woman business owner in 2024?

“Being a woman business owner in 2024 comes with unique pros and cons. On the positive side, there’s a growing support network for women entrepreneurs, from grants and funding opportunities to mentorship programs and networking groups. Social awareness around women’s leadership has also led to an increased appreciation for diverse perspectives in business, which can help create a strong, loyal customer base. Additionally, being a woman in business can empower and inspire others, especially in fields like sports and fitness, where female representation is so impactful.

“However, challenges persist. Balancing business ownership with personal or family commitments can also be challenging, as societal expectations around caregiving often remain skewed. Women may also face pressure to “prove themselves” more than their male counterparts. Navigating these challenges requires resilience, but fortunately, with today’s resources and a supportive community, women business owners are increasingly equipped to succeed and thrive.”

What knowledge would you share with someone who wants to become an entrepreneur?

“If you’re thinking about becoming an entrepreneur, one of the most important things to know is that passion and resilience are essential. You’ll face challenges, setbacks, and unexpected twists, but staying connected to your vision will help you push through.

“Another valuable lesson is to do your research—know your industry, your market, and your customers’ needs inside and out. Building a network is also essential; connecting with other business owners, mentors, and community members can open doors and provide support when needed.

“Lastly, be prepared to learn constantly, adapt, and embrace change, as flexibility can often be the difference between growth and stagnation.”

What do you do for personal and professional development?

“For personal and professional development, I work with a business coach who helps me set and achieve strategic goals for my business. Additionally, I regularly listen to business, leadership, and coaching podcasts to stay inspired and informed about new trends and strategies. These resources help me continuously grow and improve as an entrepreneur. Here are a few I recommend to other entrepreneurs: Modern Wisdom podcast by Chris Williamson and the book The Women by Kristin Hannah.”

What mantra or quote do you live by?

“A mantra I live by is “Progress, not perfection.” This mantra reminds me that growth and improvement matter more than achieving flawless results. It keeps me focused on taking consistent, small steps forward. This mindset has been incredibly helpful, especially when challenges arise. It reminds me to learn from each experience and keep moving forward, knowing that every bit of progress is valuable.”

What’s your favorite place in Detroit or Michigan?

“The Detroit Riverwalk is my favorite place in Detroit because it perfectly blends natural beauty and urban charm. It’s a peaceful escape where I can enjoy breathtaking views of the river, the Detroit skyline, and even across Canada. The wide, open space makes it easy to walk, bike, or relax by the water, which is especially enjoyable on sunny days. It’s also a place where the city’s revitalization is evident, with art, parks, and recreational areas that make it feel vibrant and welcoming. Whether I’m there for a peaceful stroll or to take in an event, the Riverwalk is always a refreshing place to unwind.

“One of my favorite places in Michigan is Sleeping Bear Dunes. The views of Lake Michigan from the top of the dunes are absolutely stunning, and I love the mix of adventure and relaxation it offers—whether hiking, climbing the dunes, or just enjoying the beach. It’s a place that feels both grounding and inspiring, perfect for recharging.”

Where can our readers find you on social media?

You can follow Motor City Gymnastics on Facebook, Instagram, and on their website!

We hope you loved getting to know more about Sandra + Motor City Gymnastics. Be sure to check out our previous Local Love Spotlight featuring Sarah + The Little Design Co.!

Unique Experience Gifts In + Around Detroit

Jessica Johnson

December 7, 2024

As the holidays approach, we are all trying to think of unique gifts to give–particularly ones that spark joy and excitement. It can be a challenge to think of a stand-out gift that won’t be forgotten soon after the presents are all unwrapped.

This is one of the many benefits of gifting an experience to your family and friends. In fact, there is more delight in store as they enjoy the anticipation of the event, and the actual experience. Truly, it’s a gift that keeps on giving!

Additionally, experience gifts can help keep your money local, create fun memories, and surprisingly make great last-minute options when you are short on shopping time. Metro Detroit boasts so many outstanding businesses, creators, and artists. These gift ideas are sure to help you deliver a unique experience that is bound to delight this holiday season.

Unique Experience Gift Ideas for Younger Kids

Toys have their place under the Christmas tree, but clutter in my house is a real problem. To help curb the clutter, I love encouraging family members to help us create a mix between physical gifts and experience gifts. In doing so, my daughter is able to enjoy unwrapping gifts, but also has fun activities to look forward to after the holiday season.

Some fun experience gift ideas for younger kids include:

Creativity

Perfect for little hands with big imaginations! Plus, they won’t be spilling glitter all over your floor all day long because they’ll be where the mess is encouraged!

The Art Attic | Plymouth
Art Connections LLC | Milford
Kidcreate Studio | West Bloomfield
Stemville | Detroit, Howell, + Northville

Movement

Shake those sillies out and find peace (while you sit back and watch) while your kiddos tackle a new sport or activity!

DownPup Yoga | Plymouth
NFL Flag | Metro Detroit
Troy Gym Munchkin Ropes Course | Troy
Shredder Indoor Ski + Snowboard | Livonia

Music

It’s so much fun to get all dressed up for a day at the show! Your kids will love wearing their fanciest outfit and listening to the live sounds.

Detroit Symphony Orchestra | Detroit
The Wiggles at the Fisher Theater | Detroit

Nature Camps + Classes

Because a little nature does a whole lot of good!

Howell Nature Center | Howell
Huron-Clinton Metroparks | Various locations
Leslie Science and Nature Center | Ann Arbor
Stage Nature Center | Troy

Unique Experience Gift Ideas for Older Kids

This age group can be daunting when it comes to gift giving. I fret over finding a “cool” gift that doesn’t fall flat on Christmas day. Experience gifts can deliver on fun and entertainmen–two words that this age group is seeking!

Some experience gift ideas for older kids include:

Creativity

These classes truly give your teens + tweens the chance to stretch their artistic muscles.

Art Evolution–Teen Art Club | Milford
POST | Detroit
Signal Return | Detroit

Entertainment

Who doesn’t love a night out with friends?!

Concert tickets
Full Throttle Adrenaline Park | Novi
Sporting events: professional or college!

Movement

Because teens + tweens are thrill-seekers.

Bower’s Farm Winter Park | Bloomfield Hills
DYNO Detroit | Detroit
Hawk Island Park Snow Tubing | Lansing
iFly Indoor Skydiving | Novi
NFL Flag | Metro Detroit
Planet Rock | Ann Arbor + Madison Heights
Shredder Indoor Ski + Snowboard | Livonia

Unique Experience Gift Ideas for the Whole Family

Who says you can’t also benefit from a gift that you give? Planning and giving an experience you can enjoy as a family creates the perfect opportunity to bond and make lasting memories. Furthermore, those memories just might be the true gift that sticks with your kids for many years to come!

Here are some ideas for experience gifts for the whole entire family:

Explore

Head out for a day they won’t soon forget!

Broadway in Detroit at the Fisher Theater | Detroit
The Rink at Campus Martius Park | Detroit
Blake Farms | Various Locations

Hit the Slopes

Not sure where to start? Check out indoor classes at Shredder before hitting the outdoor ski hills.

Alpine Valley | White Lake
Mt Brighton | Brighton
Mt Holly | Holly
Pine Knob | Clarkston

Gifting these unique experiences can help pack more cheer under the tree this holiday season, bringing happiness and joy to the ones on your list. Wishing you a happy holiday season!

Still not convinced that an experience gift will be appreciated? Read one mom’s perspective of being a minimalist.

This post was originally written by Jessica Johnson and updated by Whitney Cornelli in 2024.

How We Celebrate Chrismukkah in Our Jewish/Catholic Home

AshleyOshinsky

December 5, 2024

Ironically, I learned that Santa wasn’t real in the temple when I was eleven years old. It was during an adult service. During the sermon, the Rabbi said something like, “You become the tooth fairy/Santa/etc., then your kids become them, and so on.” I looked at my mom, horrified, with tears in my eyes that she had lied to me for all those years. All the cookies we baked for Santa and all the gifts that were left by the fireplace were indeed my mom. Not Santa. I never truly believed that he would visit a little Jewish girl anyway.

Growing Up 100% Jewish

I grew up in a 100% Jewish household. I went to Sunday school and Monday night school so I could become a bat mitzvah. So did my younger brother. But, we still made cookies on Christmas Eve and left them out with a glass of milk for Santa. Santa would leave us some gifts on the fire place. I’ll never forget when Santa left me the No Doubt cassette tape and a cool smiley face backpack–very ’90s!

We also celebrated Hanukkah, lighting the menorah, having family dinner, and opening one present each night. We celebrated the high holidays and I went to a Jewish sleepover camp every summer for eight years. But, I would consider my family to be extremely reformed and not very religious. We just did the bare minimum and never really “drank the kool-aid” and got super involved with our temples or community. I’m not sure why; it just wasn’t our thing.

I Fell in Love With a Catholic Guy

Years later, in my twenties, I fell for a handsome blonde Catholic man. My husband Victor comes from an extremely long line of religious family. Even some of his extended family held jobs in the Catholic church. You could imagine how interesting our partnership was to both sides of our extended family. It was an unspoken rule to try and marry within the same religion. But, I don’t like to follow rules. I couldn’t help who I fell in love with.

Chrismukkah Was Born!

So, that’s how we adopted Chrismukkah in our house: a mixture of all the best Christmas and Hanukkah traditions in one awesome holiday. (And yes, I’m aware that Seth Cohen on the O.C. created it, so I won’t take credit for it.)

This isn’t groundbreaking stuff here; we haven’t recreated the wheel in any way. Chrismukkah is simple. It’s about honoring the traditions of both holidays. We both knew that it was important to honor the traditions we grew up with and share them with one another. This has become more important as we got married and are now raising a family.

Here’s what Chrismukkah looks like for us:

We have a tree.

It’s funny because this is something I have yet to nail in my many years of celebrating. A few years ago at the store, I called my husband numerous times while trying to pick out ornaments for our tree. It was humorous; I was lost yet again. I always end up buying not enough ornaments, forgetting a tree skirt, or missing another key detail. But the spirit of Chrismukkah is still there and that’s all that matters.

We have a Menorah.

Do we light it every night? I’d be lying if I said yes. But, I love how beautiful it looks on our fireplace mantle. As our son and daughter grow up, I envision us doing the candles every night for eight nights. I will give my husband credit; he knows the candle prayer in Hebrew and it’s super cute.

We have a Hanukkah party.

This is with my family. For our family, every Jewish holiday consists of the same menu: turkey, brisket, matzo ball soup, challah bread, and mashed potatoes. Of course, Hanukkah would not be complete without potato latkes with applesauce or sour cream on top. If you’ve never tried these, I highly, highly recommend them!

We celebrate Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.

This is with my husband’s family. I look forward to it every year. Although I still haven’t gotten brave enough to eat the ham, I love Christmas Eve. My husband’s family has someone dress up like Santa and surprise all the little kids. Then we all read The Night Before Christmas by the fire. Oh, and I discovered cherry chip cake one Christmas Eve, and it’s the best cake ever.

On Christmas Day, we go to my step-dad’s family party. We eat appetizers, drink the family punch, and play games. It’s another nice tradition to add to Chrismukkah.

We order Chinese food.

We do this on Christmas Day for dinner. The past couple of years it hasn’t worked out so well because the restaurant has been so busy, they lost our order. Pro-tip: order early in the day and reheat it. We wouldn’t be a half-Jewish family if we didn’t have Chinese food during Christmas.

We sing songs.

We love songs from both holidays. You know the classics: “8 Crazy Nights,” “The Dreidel Song,” “We Wish You a Merry Christmas,” “Jingle Bells,” and “Holly Jolly Christmas.” I should mention that I’m not the best singer. Some say I’m tone deaf, but that doesn’t stop me.

What’s Important About Chrismukkah

Do we have eight crazy nights? Well . . . not exactly. As our kids grow, we’ll definitely do one small present each night like I did as a kid. But just to make things simple right now, we open gifts on Christmas Day.

The holidays are a very important time for me. Not because of the gifts–I think gifts are fun and nice, but they can add a lot of stress to the season. As my family grows and I learn more life lessons, I realize the holiday time is about time with the family and friends I love the most.

Taking time to slow down. To show love, gratitude, and appreciation for one another. To embrace the passed-down holiday traditions and create our own as a family. Although we’re far from religious, we believe in this time of year. The magic is there–if you’re open to seeing it.

For more inspiration on spending the holidays your own way with your family, read what Sabrina shares about starting your own traditions!

Unique Gifts Women Actually Want This Holiday Season

shereenaduncan

December 4, 2024

Before I had kids, the gifts I received from my husband were pretty typical. Maybe there was a new bag I had my eye on, a pair of shoes, or of course, jewelry. But since becoming a mom, my needs and wants have shifted dramatically. I began to take a step back and reconsider what would truly bring me happiness.

Without fail, each time I’ve forced myself to do this, it has been an experience rather than a thing that comes to mind. Every mom has her own ideas of what best fills her cup and the right experience has the power to do just that.

So, let’s talk about the unique gifts women actually want this holiday season!

A Chance to Get Pampered

One of the best gifts my husband gave me was a membership program at my dermatologists office. It allowed me to get a hydra-facial every six to eight weeks for a year. It was so nice to know that several times throughout the year I’d get time to myself to relax while someone worked their magic to give me youthful, glowing skin.

Another option I love is a day at a salon or spa. Depending on who’s receiving the gift and what they’d enjoy, some options could be a manicure, pedicure, haircut, blowout, massage, or a combination of a few treatments.

A Day Away

My Christmas gift from my husband this year (and a few other years) is a trip to Walt Disney World. This year, I’ll go for a quick two nights with my niece where we’ll attend two different Christmas parties within the theme parks. My two favorite things are Disney and Christmas so this is the PERFECT gift for me.

But maybe for you, the perfect day away would be a trip to one of the casinos in Detroit for some gambling, drinks, great food, and a beautiful hotel room. If it’s something more outdoorsy that you’re looking for, maybe a trip up north to a cozy cabin or a beach trip to Whitehall would be options to consider!

A Day Off

I don’t always need to get away or open a fancy gift. Sometimes, I just don’t want to be responsible for ANYTHING. I don’t want to cook, clean, or plan. Now, that doesn’t mean I don’t want those things to get done–I just don’t want to be the one to do them. To have someone else come to my house and clean it top to bottom while I’m out to lunch with a friend or my family would be an absolute dream!

A Fit Mind + Body

This one is a little tricky. It’s probably not the kind of gift you could surprise someone with so if you’re the buyer, make sure this is what they want first. But if you’re trying to think of what to ask for this holiday season, this has been one of my favorite gifts because it’s the gift that keeps on giving.

I’ve been struggling to find time to workout so I recently asked my husband for a membership to a local gym with a great childcare facility. I’m able to get in a great workout while my son plays games and climbs through obstacle courses. I know that he’s having a great time, and I don’t have to arrange a sitter or plan my workouts around my husband’s work schedule. It’s a win-win!

Other gifts I’ve asked for were three months worth of appointments with a life coach and one-on-one time with a local holistic nutritionist that came with a custom diet and supplement regimen, plus weekly calls.

A Night of Entertainment

I’m going to go out on a limb and say that most moms don’t get out for a night on the town as often as they’d like to. That’s where this gift comes into play! Some of my favorite nights out with friends have been to get dinner and then see a comedian at a local venue. Another fun option is a Broadway-style show. My preference is always for the smaller, more intimate venues, but I know a lot of women who love the idea of large scale venues to see their favorite performer. So whether you’re asking or giving, make sure to keep those details in mind!

I know it’s easy with all the hustle and bustle of the season to resort to an old standby for Christmas gifts. This year, I’d encourage you to think outside the box. There are some amazing and unique gifts women actually want this holiday season–you just have to take the time to figure out the best one for you and yours!

Holiday season stress in full swing? Reconsider your to-do list as Elizabeth shares three things to let go of this holiday season!

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