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The Beauty of Raising an Only Child (Even When I Wanted More)

I always imagined a house full of laughter, siblings bickering over the last cookie, whispered secrets after bedtime, and holiday mornings buzzing with noise and excitement. But life doesn’t always unfold the way we expect.

Today, I’m learning to fully embrace and cherish the beautiful reality I do have: being a mom to one incredible child.

When Life Doesn’t Follow the Plan

Like many moms, I envisioned having more than one child. I pictured a busy kitchen table, shared childhood memories, and a home filled with the energy of multiple kids. However, there was a season when my husband and I were simply out of sync.

He was traveling often, and I was balancing my new normal (stay-at-home) mom life with my career ambitions (which I struggled to see the value in) and leaning into my soft season of the new important job/career path right in front of me: motherhood.

We reassured ourselves that there was still time, that “maybe next year” would come, but those years passed quietly. Before I knew it, the window began to close faster than expected. Now at 48, I still hold a small flicker of hope for a “buzzer-beater” baby; however, I’m also learning to accept where I am in this season of life.

Letting Go, While Holding Gratitude

Coming to terms with having one child has brought a mix of emotions. There’s a unique kind of ache in releasing a vision you once held so closely. Not because your life isn’t full, but because it’s different than you imagined.

There are moments when I still feel that tug seeing a stroller pass by or hearing about a friend’s growing family. But instead of letting that feeling turn into sadness, I try to let it ground me in gratitude. It’s not easy but I definitely try and practice being intentional in the moment, because what I do have is extraordinary.

The Beauty of Raising One Child

My daughter is my world; she is smart, funny, kind, and full of personality. She surprises me daily with her humor and fills me with pride through her compassion. We’ve created our own rhythms and traditions:

  • Cozy skincare nights that feel like a mini spa at home
  • Laughing together over TikTok and Instagram trends
  • Shopping for her soon-to-come 8th grade graduation and “hoco” dresses with her friends
  • Honest, heart-to-heart conversations about school, friendships, and growing up

There’s a closeness we share that feels deeply special. I often wonder if that bond would look different if I were dividing my attention between multiple children.

The Unique Journey of an “Only Mom”

Being an “only mom” comes with its own emotional landscape. There’s joy, but there’s also a heightened sense of responsibility. I’ll admit I can be a bit “helicopter-y” at times, worrying about the small things or wondering what her future will look like without siblings.

But when I step back I see the full picture. She’s confident, socially connected, and surrounded by loving friends, cousins, and community. She isn’t missing out, she’s thriving!

The Gift of Presence + Flexibility

Having one child has allowed for a different kind of motherhood: one rooted in presence and flexibility.

We can travel more easily and take spontaneous day trips. We can spend meaningful one-on-one time together and be fully present in each other’s lives. I get to truly know her: her dreams, her fears, her evolving sense of self. And in turn, she gets a deeply present version of me now as I have fully leaned into my motherhood role.

Redefining Fulfillment in Motherhood

Motherhood has taught me that fulfillment doesn’t always come from the life you imagined. It often comes from appreciating the life you are currently living in “the now.” I still have moments of “what if.” I think most parents do, in one way or another. But I’m learning that two truths can exist at once: I can feel grateful and still a little wistful, and I can love my life and acknowledge a dream that didn’t unfold.

These days, I focus on what truly matters, which is creating memories with the family I have. We fill our time with cooking new recipes together, movie nights and long conversations, and volunteering and giving back. We hang out with cousins, building strong bonds and connections with the family around us. Simple, everyday moments become lasting memories.

This season of life is precious, and I’m learning to be fully present in it.

A Gentle Reminder for Moms

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: love doesn’t need to multiply to be enough. Sometimes, it simply deepens. No matter what your family looks like–whether you have one child, many, or are still navigating your path–your motherhood journey is valid, meaningful, and whole.

Maybe having more children wasn’t in the cards for me. But what I was given is something truly beautiful: a daughter who fills my life with laughter, light, and love. And for that, I am endlessly grateful.

Navigating the world of siblings? China shares tips for working your way though sibling squabbles.

The IEP Journey | What to Expect + How to Prepare

Imagine you’re planning a vacation to Italy. You do a ton of research, learn a few phrases so you can get around, pack up, and jump on a plane. But when you land, the stewardess says, “Welcome to Holland!” You’d probably be in shock. Holland? What are they talking about? I signed up for Italy! 

Holland is fantastic, but it’s just not what you anticipated. Having a child with autism and other challenges can feel the same way. It’s suddenly essential to learn a whole new language and attempt to understand customs you’re not familiar with.

This is especially true regarding the special education system and Individualized Education Program (IEP) support. Navigating the process will be challenging, but the more fluent you become, the better you will be able to advocate for your child now and in the years to come. 

The good news is that you’re not alone–and there is plenty of help available. The team at Kaufman Children’s Center for Speech, Language, Sensory-Motor, and Autism Treatment in West Bloomfield has extensive experience in this area and can help you navigate from confusion to confidence. Here are some of their best insights and tips:

What is an IEP?

An IEP is a legally binding, personalized plan for kids in public schools who need extra support. It outlines:

  • services, accommodations, and specialized instruction the school will give your child to help them succeed,
  • goals and objectives that will be worked on during the school year, and
  • educational settings based on your child’s individual strengths and needs.

There are two parts to an IEP: a meeting held at least annually between you and the school team to develop, review, or revise your child’s special education plan; and a formal document that details the decisions made in the meeting.

The Individuals with Disability Education Act (IDEA) is the federal law that mandates IEPs. IDEA forms the foundation of your child’s rights, so it’s very important to understand it. It’s also important to know about our local and state policies regarding special education. Below, you’ll find links for both:

How do I start the IEP process?

School enrollment forms typically include a place to indicate if your child may need an IEP.  If your child is already enrolled and you think they may need extra support, reach out to the school for guidance. Contact should be made in the late winter or early spring preceding a new school year to ensure plenty of time for scheduling, gathering data, and observations. The IEP process can take longer than you think.

What should I expect at the meeting?

IEP meetings typically take place at school during the day but may be arranged before or after to meet the parents’ needs. Attendees include the parent(s), general education teacher, special education teacher, evaluating personnel, school administrator, and a translator if needed. Meetings may also include anyone with special knowledge about your child, such as outside treatment providers (ABA team, speech-language pathologists, occupational therapists) and caregivers.

IEP meetings usually include:

  • an introduction of attendees,
  • a review of the child’s strengths and needs,
  • the development of measurable goals tailored to the child’s needs,
  • a discussion of specific services (speech therapy, special education instruction, etc.), along with frequency and location, and
  • a finalization of the plan.

What should I do to prepare?

Your most important role in the IEP meeting is to speak on your child’s behalf. This information drives many of the IEP decisions including goals, programs, services, and supplemental aids. You are the expert on your child, and should be prepared to briefly and succinctly share the following:

  • Your child’s unique gifts and strengths. These can be used to support learning across a wide range of skills and ensure learning is tied to individual interests and motivations whenever possible.
  • The skills they need to learn that they’re not yet able to do.
  • Your concerns about their academic, social, and behavioral needs.
  • Your concerns about their progress, program/placement (classroom), or services (speech, occupational therapy, physical therapy, social work).

The team at Kaufman Children’s Center suggests generating a statement that includes this information and emailing it to the facilitator before the meeting so they can include it in the IEP document.

How can I have input on my child’s IEP goals?

Consider exactly what your child is struggling with, when it happens, and what you’d like to see improve. The more detailed you can be, the easier it will be for the team to create a meaningful, measurable goal that truly addresses your concern.

For example: if your child benefits by being in the presence of other children and is also good at drawing, a possible IEP goal would be that they participate in art class twice a week with general education peers. If you would like them to be more independent in the classroom, a possible goal could be that they transition between activities with verbal prompts at least 80% of the time.

Keep in mind that although school personnel will come to the meeting with some proposed goals, you should understand them and agree before they are finalized. Request a draft of the proposed goals several days before the meeting so you’re not going in blind.

Any other insider tips?

  • Request unfamiliar terminology to be restated in simpler terms.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask questions and be sure to take notes.
  • Speak up if you disagree with the school’s recommendations.
  • If the meeting starts to go long, request to continue it on another day so it doesn’t feel rushed and everyone can give it their full attention.
  • Remember that although labels can be scary, they allow your child to receive additional services and won’t limit their potential.

Keep in mind that school personnel may view your child from a different perspective. Advocate for the child you know best, and remember that you are the most important member of the IEP team.

The team at Kaufman Children’s Center is here to support you, however that looks. Their website is a wealth of knowledge, especially their Family Resources page!

The Sports That Fit *Real* Family Life

When it comes to the family calendar, we know how stressful it can be when you need to add “just one more thing.” You can’t plan for the tournament weekend until the qualifying games are played; you can’t schedule the one-on-one private lessons until you know when the piano recital will be. With kids’ sports and activities, there can be so much to figure out. And honestly, it’s enough to make you question why you even signed your kids up in the first place.

Real family life usually entails a lot of driving around, planning for practices, scheduling games, coordinating car pools, serving snacks at halftime, fitting in homework, and so much more. Moms are busier now than they’ve ever been before. And while we might sometimes loathe it, we also love it–the duality needs to be recognized here. But it begs the question: is this really how sports are supposed to go?

Whether they’re playing recreationally, competitively, or somewhere in between, it’s a lot. But as it turns out, there’s a solution to all of this. An organization that actually fits seamlessly into your calendar, is inclusive of all skill levels, affords flexibility you won’t find anywhere else, and keeps parents coming back year after year.

NFL Flag prides itself on making it possible for every child to play if they want, and making it as easy on busy parents as possible. Below, we’re sharing the top reasons parents return to NFL Flag, season after season–and why you’ll fall in love with it just as much!

Practices + games occur on the same day.

“We love the ease of the schedule, [with] practices and games being held back to back on the same day (Sundays) each week.” -Katie, a local Detroit Mom

Real family life is busy and doesn’t always leave room to easily fit things in. NFL Flag takes one thing off your plate here with a practice and game on the same day. One of the best things about playing flag football (and soon, street hockey!) with NFL Flag is first and foremost how easy it is to fit the practice and game schedule into a busy family calendar. NFL Flag schedules the practice and game for the same day, and it’s the same day of the week for the entire season.

Flag football takes place on a Sunday, and honestly, it’s a really great way to wrap up your weekend. You’ll come for practice, stay for the game, and then . . . head home (or out for a celebratory meal!). It’s refreshing to be able to make one trip to cover the practice and the game. It’s less time spent in the car, more time spent on the field, and an opportunity to immediately put into place the skills reviewed at practice right before the game!

The focus is on developing skills, not feeling pressured to compete.

“My son has played one season. He loved it and we loved how the league’s non-competitive aspect provided more opportunity to learn the intricacies of the game.” -Erin, an NFL Flag parent

Real family life can feel overwhelming for kids trying to find where they fit in (in so many aspects). NFL Flag lowers the pressure so that kids play confidently, even if they’re brand new to the game. We all remember how scary it was to try something new when we were kids. But knowing that there is zero pressure to compete helps kids remember that sports should be fun–and they can be.

Parents are often left questioning if their kids should try out for travel teams or if they’re already too late to even get a start on that. NFL Flag puts the players first, taking it back to playing for fun, strengthening friendships, and learning a game they may one day grow to love. Don’t get us wrong, there’s nothing wrong with playing sports competitively. But not every kid wants to compete, and it’s important to recognize that and find an organization that is going to support playing for fun.

Kids become well-rounded athletes who don’t feel overscheduled.

“Love that it’s on a Sunday. The boys are in two other sports… during the week and [on] Saturday. So having practices and games on Sunday is great!” -Jessica, a local Detroit Mom

Real family life involves balancing multiple activities within one calendar. NFL Flag adds in some much-needed flexibility. Participating in their program allows kids the opportunity to play other sports as well. Like we mentioned above, the practice and game take place on the same day per week. The once-a-week commitment is easier to add to their schedule than having multiple practices followed by a game on a different day.

This opens up the rest of the week for other sports and activities while still allowing kids to learn sportsmanship, responsibility, and how to be a team player. It’s an easy way for kids to try something new and get a feel for it while still exploring other passions and interests!

Registration Information for NFL Flag + NHL Street

NFL FLAG

  • Registration is open from April 13-May 24, 2026
  • Season dates: June 17-July 29, 2026
  • Ages: girls and boys ages 4-14 and grades pre-k through 8th grade
  • Select locations: Beverly Hills, Brighton, Clarkston, Macomb, and Walled Lake/Huron Valley

NHL STREET

  • Registration is open from April 24-June 7, 2026
  • Season dates: the week of June 15-the week of July 27
    • will be once a week during the weekday, either Tuesday or Thursday
  • Ages: girls and boys ages 5-13 
  • Location: Rochester

Real family life can be unpredictable. Things pop up, events are moved, games are rescheduled, extra practices are added on. NFL Flag is constant, and parents appreciate that. Season after season, parents return to the flag football field because they know exactly what they’ll be getting: a one-day-a-week commitment, confidence instead of competition, and the opportunity to watch their kids explore their favorite interests.

Ready to get signed up? Head to the NFL Flag website and use code 108161 for $20 off!

2026 Detroit Mom-Approved Summer Camp Guide

*last updated 4/22/2026

After being stuck inside all winter, we couldn’t be more excited that spring is here! And with warmer weather and the anticipation of our children’s last day of school comes summer vacation. Have you had a moment to sit down and solidify your summer plans to keep the kids busy yet? We know it can feel, well, a little overwhelming thinking about *all* of the amazing summer camps in + around Detroit.

But don’t worry–we’ve got you covered! With sunshine and warmer weather quickly approaching, we couldn’t be more excited to launch our annual Detroit Mom-Approved (and personally recommended!) Guide to Summer Camps in + around Detroit!

We’re moms that understand the importance of summer camp to many families in + around Detroit. Detroit Mom’s goal is to make your life a little easier by sharing a list of summer camps that are sure to meet your family’s needs. There are so many incredible and enriching programs just waiting for your child this summer!

You can browse our guide to summer camps in + around Detroit with the peace of mind that comes with knowing that each and every camp in our guide is one that has been intentionally included and personally recommended by a local mom in the area. We’ve also organized the guide into categories base on which type of camp you’re looking for.

But don’t just take our word for it–check out the testimonials local moms sent us to let everyone know why they love the camp so much. Read more below for our 2026 Detroit Mom-Approved Guide to Summer Camps in + around Detroit! And happy planning for summer!

CAMP NEWAYGO

For 100 years, families have discovered adventure, friendship, and confidence at Camp Newaygo. From Girls’ Overnight Camp to Co-Ed Day Camp, plus Mom & Me Weekends and Family Camp, there are so many ways to experience this special place.

Discover the joys of camping together and leave the planning to Camp Newaygo! Sing, canoe, fish, hike, create, and recharge on special family weekends.

Girls’ Overnight Camp is intentionally small, enabling everyone to make their own choices, explore their emerging passions, and build community. Campers select their own classes, enjoy meals and free time together, and explore the outdoors on weekly campouts.

There are even Friends’ Getaways for adults to relive the fun of summer camp but at a more relaxed, retreat-like pace.

Accredited by the American Camp Association (ACA) and sitting on 102 acres along a chain of four lakes, Camp Newaygo is the perfect place to discover a love of the outdoors together.

Check us out for Day Camp, Overnight Camp, Mom + Me Weekends, Family Camp, and Friends’ Getaways for adults!

“I loved Camp Newaygo because it was akin to a sisterhood type of community. The focus was not on being in competition with each other, but working as a group to accomplish tasks. I also really liked the no technology aspect of camp. The counselors and staff also abide by the policy so it fosters sincere engagement by everyone.” -Molly, a local Detroit Mom

5333 S Centerline Road, Newaygo, MI 49337

(231) 652-1184

Check out these additional summer camps in + around Detroit, too. They’re some of our community’s favorites!

FOR KIDS WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

Camp A.B.L.E. | Canton

Camp Quality | Boyne City
“Camp Quality is a camp for children with cancer and they also host events for siblings. It’s at no cost for the family. There is a lower and upper Michigan camp each summer as well as a teen camp. I volunteered for this camp and it’s the reason I became a pediatric nurse!” -Megan, a local Detroit Mom

Friendship Circle | West Bloomfield

JCC Day Camp | West Bloomfield Township
“Programs for all ages, even teens and has professional staff including a social worker and educators on site daily. They also have a very comprehensive support program for campers with disabilities from kindergarten through adulthood!” -Franki, a local Detroit Mom

FOR KIDS WHO LOVE TO BE CREATIVE

A Pop of Indie: Picture Book Publishing for Kids | Birmingham; 2 options

A Pop of Indie: Picture Book Publishing | St. Clair Shores

Abrakadoodle | Canton

Bishop Foley | Madison Heights

Cranbrook Summer Camps | Bloomfield Hills

Mini Picassos | St. Clair Shores

Oakland University Summer Camps + Workshops | Rochester

Robot Garage Summer Camps | Birmingham

School of Rock | Ann Arbor, Canton, Farmington, + Rochester Hills

Schoolcraft Kids on Campus | Livonia

Sloan – Longway | Flint

Stepping Stone Summer Camps | Plymouth

FOR KIDS WHO LOVE THE OUTDOORS

Argo River Camps/Gallup Park Canoe Livery | Ann Arbor

Buhr Park Day Camp | Ann Arbor

Camp Copneconic | Fenton

Crystalaire Adventures | Traverse City

Detroit Zoo | Royal Oak

Howell Nature Center | Howell
“They have day and overnight camps. Different themes each week, and tons of games and activities. They play in the lake, explore the woods, and do outdoorsy activities like archery and ziplining!” -Theresa, a local Detroit Mom

Southeast Michigan Forest School

Summer Playground | Sterling Heights

Tollgate Summer Farm Camp | Novi

Upland Hills Farm | Oxford

WB Parks | West Bloomfield
“A well-supervised day camp with a variety of activities for kids ages 6-11. Includes a weekly field trip and a weekly waterpark/splash pad trip!” -Kristen, a local Detroit Mom

FOR KIDS WHO LOVE BEING ACTIVE

Bishop Foley Athletic Camps | Madison Heights

Boll Family YMCA | Detroit
“The kids get to rock climb and swim two days a week (each sport) as well as Friday field trips. Convenience in the heart of the city!” -Karissa, a local Detroit Mom

Born Yoga Studios | Birmingham

Camp Mirage | Farmington Hills
“What I think is cool is that they have flexible before and after care, you pay by the quarter hour so only pay for what you need. Plus, if you’ve gone to camp there even just once over the summer, you can use the aftercare program any time throughout the rest of the summer!” -Amanda, a local Detroit Mom

Extreme Gym | St. Clair Shores + Warren
“Hosts three- or five-day per week camps. The campers will do a variety of activities and open gym time in their brand new facility in St. Clair Shores!” -Lauren, a local Detroit Mom

Franklin Athletic Club | Southfield

GTC Gymnastics | Rochester Hills
“My girls are OBSESSED with all things gymnastics and jumped for joy when I told them GTC had summer camp options. The coaches are incredible and truly care about your child and their progress and safety! My kids are counting down the days until camp starts!” -Whitney, a local Detroit Mom

Joique Bell Summer Program | Detroit
*registration deadline is May 4th

Legacy Center Sports Complex | Brighton

Life Time – Kids Summer Camp | Various Locations
“I love that they include SO much for the price! Swim lessons, pickelball lessons, my kids get to go on field trips (Henry Ford, waterparks, Riverboat tour), and I can register ahead of time or the week before. Plus, the schedule is flexible to just enroll for half the day, but we go full days.” -Whitney, a local Detroit Mom

Livonia Parks & Rec | Livonia

Notre Dame Prep School | Pontiac

Oakland Yard Athletics | Waterford

Planet Rock | Ann Arbor + Madison Heights

Shredder Ski School | Livonia

TOCA Soccer | Farmington

Topgolf Summer Academy | Auburn Hills
“The camp is only a few hours in the morning and ended with a provided lunch which they loved. They liked that it wasn’t all day, they wanted to be able to still get together with friends, go to the beach, etc. and not be at a camp all day. The kids are put into small groups and golf with that group each day, so they get to know each other quickly and walk away with new friends!” -Shereena, a local Detroit Mom

Kids + Big Questions: Homelessness in Detroit

One of the many things I found myself unprepared for as a parent was the questions. The varied, numerous, seemingly never-ending questions. “Can I have a treat?” “How does the microwave work?” “Where did great-grandma go when she died?” “Can I have another treat?” “Is great-grandma coming back?”

Some of the questions are what we call small questions and easier to answer: “Yes, you can have a treat . . . no, you cannot have another treat.” But others, like where people go when they die, are what we call big questions.

Small Kids With Big Questions

On one chilly winter morning during our ride to school, my then six-year-old son’s voice squeaked from the back seat. “Why is that man sleeping outside?” I glanced at him in the rear-view mirror to see his tiny face pressed against the window, fogging up the glass. His brow furrowed, and his hazel eyes looked worried.

Whether he knew it or not, my son was asking a big question that couldn’t be answered with a simple “Yes” or “No.” A big question requires conversation, careful thought, and sometimes, even adults don’t know the answer. But in our house, we don’t shy away from big questions. I told him this was a big question, and promised to answer it when he got home.

After school, before we even arrived home, he again asked about the man on the street. I can always count on the kids to remember when I owe them an answer. Many big questions are difficult for me to answer. And while I’m not an expert on homelessness, I have sat on the board of the Pope Francis Center for the past six years and gained some perspective on the subject.

The Pope Francis Center

The Pope Francis Center is a nonprofit based in Detroit. It provides services and resources, including temporary housing, to those in Detroit experiencing homelessness. Most importantly, the organization’s mission is ending chronic homelessness.

Like other big cities, Detroit has a significant population experiencing homelessness. But one of the many reasons why my family chooses to live in the city, rather than one of the surrounding suburbs, is because of the socioeconomic diversity. This includes those among us that face homelessness and that means I am faced with answering big questions about it.

When explaining homelessness to a then four- and six-year-old, I wanted to make sure two points were abundantly clear:

  • First, people that happen to find themselves without a home for whatever reason are no different than us, and are deserving of kindness and respect.
  • Second, although life is unfair and unpredictable, my children will ALWAYS have a safe place in my home.

The Policy Perspective

If I were trying to explain why people experience homelessness to adults, chatting with friends at a dinner party, asking for funding at a presentation, or writing an article . . . I might start with the statistics. I might explain that in Detroit there are around 2,000 people experiencing homelessness, although it’s difficult to get an accurate count. With policies like COVID-era HUD relief ending, these numbers are likely to increase.

From a policy perspective, homelessness in Detroit can be boiled down to a lack of affordable housing mixed with an unsteady job market. Housing costs have raised while wages have stayed the same–and with slow growth in the job market and more layoffs. But my kids don’t care about policy. My son wasn’t asking about the group, he was asking about an individual.

The Personal Perspective

My son wanted to know why the man on the corner near our house was sleeping outside. And the truth is that it’s impossible to know, without asking him, what series of circumstances led to that man sleeping on that corner. There are many different reasons why someone might end up without a place to sleep. He may have had a problem with addiction or lost a job. It’s possible a relationship ended that also meant the end of his housing situation.

Homelessness might be related to issues with mental health or a criminal record that makes it difficult to secure housing. Someone may decide that a situation is so hard, dangerous, or miserable that leaving–even without anywhere to go–seems like their best option.

People experiencing homelessness are not a monolithic population. They may have arrived in that situation by a variety of different avenues. If you set aside the policy issues I mentioned above, a large portion of what causes homelessness is essentially chance. Factors including race, familial financial situation, and mental health status can set a foundation that impact the likelihood they experience homelessness. This is all broadly determined by chance (God, the cosmos, or whatever third party you believe in).

An Opportunity to Give Back

In the same vein, I share with my kids that much of our good fortune is also a gift of chance. Sure, their father and I work hard but at the end of the day, much of life is determined by luck. I’m humble enough to accept that. And I’m grateful to be in a position that I can share any excess.

If chance has similarly been generous with you, you may also feel inclined to give back. Consider donating whatever time, money or talent you have to offer. Some local organizations supporting populations experiencing homelessness, in addition to Pope Francis Center, include: COTS Detroit, Covenant House Michigan, and Detroit Rescue Mission Ministries.

It’s incredibly important to support the community we live in. Laura shares our Local Resource Guide which includes organizations and resources supporting those in + around Detroit.

The Best Mother’s Day Brunch In + Around Detroit

*last updated 4/25/2026

It’s almost time to celebrate the moms in our lives and what better way is there than having a wonderful Mother’s Day brunch? If you’re celebrating a special mom, mother-in-law, grandmother, or just want to drop some not-so-subtle hints about your brunch preferences, here’s a great list of locally-owned restaurants with a variety of Mother’s Day options.

We’ve found several great options for both dine-in and carryout that will surely make mom feel special!

Our favorite spots for Mother’s Day brunch in + around Detroit:

15th Street Tavern | Clarkston

15th Street Tavern has a Sunday brunch that will be perfect for Mother’s Day! Brunch runs from 11:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. They will also reopen for dinner service at 4:00 p.m. if dinner is more your style!

Andiamo | Bloomfield, Riverfront, + Warren

Specific Andiamo locations are offering brunch starting at 10:00 a.m. on Mother’s Day. Reservations are now open and strongly recommended. They are also offering a plated dinner too, at all locations, in case brunch isn’t your style but you’d love to head out for dinner! Prices vary based on location, but children age four and under are free.

Diamonds | Howell

The Mother’s Day Buffet at Diamonds is from 9:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m. You can make your reservation on their website. Cost is $54.95 for adult brunch, $19.95 for kids ages 3-10, and kids age two and under are free.

Grey Ghost | Detroit

Dine-in for brunch at Grey Ghost. You’ll want to make a reservation before you go, and you can do that easily right on their website! Brunch is from 10:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. and is $65 per adult and $25 per child. 

Joe Muer Seafood | Bloomfield + Detroit

There will be a brunch buffet from 10:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. at both locations. There will also be a plated dinner service in Detroit from 4:00-8:00 p.m. Be sure to reserve your spot by calling ahead!

Joe’s Produce | Livonia

Joe’s has a wide variety of carry-out options available for Mother’s Day, including brunch and dinner options. Choose from charcuterie trays, breakfast pastries, fresh fruit, and dinner entrees. That way, you can spend all day on Sunday at home with your loved ones! Be sure to place your order in advance.

The Laundry | Fenton

Dine-in at The Laundry this Mother’s Day from 9:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m. and enjoy a brunch buffet menu sure to please every member of your family. Cost is $50 for adults, $25 for kids ages 11 and under. Be sure to make a reservation on their website!

Palazzo di Bocce | Lake Orion

Brunch, bubbly, and bocce . . . what more could you ask for?! Check out Palazzo di Bocce’s brunch offerings and then stay for a game or two of bocce ball.

Roberts Restaurant Group | Various Locations

With four delicious restaurants to choose from (Bill’s, Cafe ML, Roadside B&G, and Streetside Seafood), the hardest decision will simply be deciding where to eat! Hours vary depending on location. Indoor and patio dining are available, as well as curbside carryout.

Looking for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Check out our Detroit Mom-Approved Mother’s Day Gift Guide!

This post was originally written by Katie Purcell and was updated in 2026 by Whitney Cornelli.

The Support That Carried Me Through Secondary Infertility

Photo by ElenioWest Photography

For as long as I can remember, I always hoped to have multiple children. After the birth of my first child, that desire grew. I wanted him to experience life with a sibling. A few years after he was born, my husband and I decided we were ready to try to have a second baby. Little did we know that we were about to embark on a three-year journey with secondary infertility, which quickly made me realize how much I took for granted with the ease of my first pregnancy.

Our infertility journey was long, complicated, and mentally and physically draining. By the end I had taken thousands of pills, self-injected hundreds of medications, and had countless blood draws and ultrasounds. I went to the fertility clinic before work, on my lunch breaks, and on the weekends. It was my second home during those three years.

I went through multiple painful procedures, eight IUIs, one egg retrieval, and four embryo transfers. I experienced a chemical pregnancy, miscarriage, and three failed embryo transfers.

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My husband and I lost count of the amount of money we spent on testing, procedures, and medicine. This period of time in my life nearly broke me emotionally. Infertility is not talked about enough, so going through the experience made me feel like I had done something wrong and made me feel so alone. Questions ran like a loop inside my brain: Why was I struggling to get pregnant when my first pregnancy was “easy”? What did I do to cause this issue? Were we ever going to be able to have another baby?

Feeling Seen, But Still Isolated

During this challenging time, I was incredibly lucky to have an amazing support system. My husband, family, and friends supported me in so many ways. They let me vent, cry, and be angry. They checked in on me and remembered important appointment dates. When I found out good news, they cheered with me. When I received bad news, they cried with me.

They distracted me from the situation when I needed distracting. They gave me space and understood when I needed to be alone with my thoughts. Without them, I would have been lost. I always knew I had wonderful people in my life; being faced with these challenges proved that to me even more.

While this experience consumed my life, I didn’t want it to consume my day-to-day with my loved ones. And despite that amazing support system, I still felt alone. While I knew logically that I wasn’t the only one experiencing this, I was the only one in my immediate circle to go through it. That is when I turned to social media for additional support.

Finding Support on Instagram

I began searching social media for resources that could lend me additional support and comfort. I discovered standard support group forums; I quickly realized that they were not helpful to me personally. Then, I discovered a whole genre of fertility influencers on Instagram who were brave enough to share their journeys.

They weren’t selling things or promoting products. They were solely opening themselves up to the world and making themselves vulnerable to the public by sharing their experience with infertility.

They shared what worked for them during their experiences. They shared their fertility journey and their doctor’s protocols. Videos of their daily injections. Their blood draws. Their HCG levels. Their date progression at-home pregnancy tests. They shared it all.

And while their stories were different than mine, because everyone’s journey is different, I felt a shared a sense of camaraderie in the pursuit of having a baby. Because they, like me, were going through such a heartbreaking experience of wanting a baby so bad and facing so many hurdles along the way.

The Power of Strangers Holding Space for Each Other

I began to feel less alone and I soon realized how common infertility unfortunately was. I had no idea it affected 1 in 6 people trying to conceive. As time went on and I continued to follow these profiles, I was eager to watch their stories. I wanted to see what happened at their latest appointment. When they announced pregnancies I cried tears of joy, and when they announced losses or negative HCG tests I held them in my heart.

I also discovered Instagram profiles of reputable fertility resources such as RESOLVE, who give helpful, factual information and advocate for fertility rights. I discovered fertility doctors who went above and beyond not just for their patients, but the infertility community as a whole.

I follow one such doctor who hosts weekly question boxes where she can give true information from a medical professional (while of course, not actually giving medical advice). She also provides informative and fascinating videos of the IVF process and more, while sprinkling in some humor about the experience. Because even during hard times, you have to laugh.

These interactions are what carried me through as I waited to receive the call I had been waiting years for: I was finally pregnant with our rainbow baby.

Now, being a mom of three kids, I look back at that time in my life and think about how proud I am of myself and my husband for not giving up. It was by far one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do, but we made it through. We never gave up and I continue to be grateful for my support system that carried me through.

–Guest post submission by Samantha Potter

Heartbreak, Joy, + the Family We Hope For

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First come love, then comes marriage, then comes many years spent at the fertility clinic?

My husband and I got married in 2014 and as much as we couldn’t wait to start our family, we decided to wait and enjoy our time together as a married couple. We decided that when we turned thirty, we would start our family. We thought that it would happen fast.

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Let’s be honest: when you make that decision to start having your family, you expect it to happen right away. Well, much to our surprise, it did not. As each month went by, the feeling of disappointment started to come into play.

No Clear “Why”

A year went by and we decided to get some help. We met with the team at Michigan Center for Fertility and Women’s HealthWith so much hope in our hearts, we did our first Intrauterine insemination (IUI). We were confident this would be the answer, but two weeks later, disappointment set in. That is when our journey began. 

Three IUIs later, they were still unsuccessful. I found out that I had some polyps that I needed to get removed, and they could have played a factor into why I was not able to get pregnant. Once I had the polyps removed, we did two more rounds of IUIs but were still unsuccessful.

My hope was slowly disappearing. A year later after countless appointments, blood draws, and even many sessions of acupuncture, we were still childless. Our diagnosis was unexplained infertility. 

Choosing Hope When It’s Hard To

My heart was so heavy. When other couples around us announced their pregnancies, I still was managing to offer well wishes but all I kept thinking was, when will it be me?

I still didn’t give up hope, and the conversation began about IVF. I didn’t think that would be the route that I wanted to go down, but our desire for a child was so strong. Whatever it took, I was willing to try. Hope and faith were what drove me to start the next step as we began the IVF journey in 2019.

For some couples, this journey can really test a marriage. I am beyond fortunate that it made my marriage stronger. My husband was truly my partner; he came to every appointment and even learned how to properly administer all of my shots. We were in it together. 

Our Bright Spot During a Heavy Year

After a successful retrieval, we began our protocol for our embryo transfer in January 2020. Just like preparing for my retrieval, this also felt like Groundhog Day, waiting for the day we were looking forward to: transfer day. I went into the appointment with the most faith that I ever had because in my heart, I believed it would work. I carried that into my two-week wait. 

On February 22, 2020 it was the day that we had worked so hard for, with all the tears and heartaches that we had shared over the past couple of years. We were finally pregnant. We were completely overjoyed–not knowing that in a few short weeks, the world would shut down. 

Our baby would be the light of that year. Even though my experience was different and a little isolated, carrying my little miracle was the greatest blessing. And when the day finally came, I gave birth to our beautiful little boy. 

Still Holding Onto Hope

I didn’t realize that I had been holding my breath throughout my fertility journey and just like my son took his first breath, I did too. I took my first breath of something I had been wanting for many years: motherhood. 

Faith and hope are things that are extremely hard to hold onto during infertility, but they are the only things that kept me moving forward. I was willing to do whatever it took to have our family. 

Two years later, I was ready to try again to give my son a sibling but after having two more egg retrievals and transfers, I conceived a sibling that unfortunately resulted in a miscarriage. Even though I haven’t been able to give my son a sibling yet, because of my journey, I am still filled with hope. 

My journey has changed me. I look at my son every day and he reminds me of how strong, determined, and courageous our journey was, and so much more. It was hard to accept that we needed to see a fertility doctor in the beginning. We are now thankful we did because with a little bit of help from science, we were able to start our family.

For anyone that is reading this and finding themselves in this stage of life, you are most certainly not alone. It doesn’t matter how that child is conceived. It truly is a miracle regardless of whether it happened naturally or with a little bit of help.

Don’t give up hope. Even the littlest miracles take a little bit of time.

–Guest post submission by Bianca Pittiglio

My Kids Want to Go to Summer Camp . . . Now What?!

Did you attend overnight summer camp when you were your kids’ ages? I never went to summer camp, but I have always known that it’s something I want to open up to my daughters if they’re interested. It feels like such a core memory for them. And honestly, after watching The Parent Trap with them last summer, I had a feeling they’d be hooked on attending.

Being totally new to the world of overnight summer camp, I had no idea where to start. Locally and across the state, we have so many summer camp options. But then came the questions: How do I choose one? Will my kids have fun? Will they feel safe? What if it’s not what they expected? I wasn’t really sure how to jump into the world of summer camp when I’d never experienced it myself before. Enter: Camp Newaygo.

A friend had talked about Camp Newaygo previously and said her daughters had such a great time. My interest was piqued because I don’t know anyone else whose kids attended an overnight summer camp besides her. Knowing it was somewhere mom-recommended definitely made me feel more at ease. And the most enticing aspect of all: Camp Newaygo offers options for parents to attend camp with their kids for a short weekend. Long enough to form those core memories, short enough to make it an easy “When can we go back again?!”

The Ease of Starting With a Weekend Away

Camp Newaygo offers three Mom + Me Weekends along with one Family Camp weekend each summer. My oldest daughters were eight and six when we went to Mom + Me and they were so excited to go. We were given a packing list ahead of time which made it easy to know what to bring. (While we chose to stay in a cabin, there are dormitory- and hotel-style accommodations as well!)

After a short three-ish hour car ride, we arrived. We truly had no idea what to expect. But were greeted with huge smiles from the staff that immediately put us at ease! The time went by way too fast–my daughters did NOT want to leave when it was time to go home at the end of the weekend. It was pretty cool to see how quickly they became camp kids and how much they fell in love with everything there was to do. As soon as we got home, they were asking what it would take for them to stay for a whole week as part of the camp’s Girls’ Overnight Camp!

Endless Accommodations + Activities

I did not have to make a single activity decision the entire time. The Mom & Me and Family Camp weekends were already planned out for us, but not in a way that felt overwhelming. There are so many things to do and it was all evenly spaced out over the two days we were there.

There were opportunities for each activity at different times during the day. It was a great introduction to what camp life is like. The kids were able to make decisions on their own for what they wanted to do, similar to what it would be like if they stayed for a week without my husband and I there with them.

It was also really, really cool to experience some of the activities alongside my kids. We tried so many things for the first time: archery, kayaking, zip lining, and more. My six-year-old and I ziplined together during Mom + Me Weekend. We all made s’mores together during Family Camp with my husband and youngest daughter, too. While I didn’t think my three-year-old would do well with Mom + Me, she had an absolute blast at Family Camp and regularly talks about spending the night in the cabin at Camp Newaygo with her friends (we attended with another family we know!).

(Also, the Mom + Me Weekend allowed me to get a peek into what’s offered when the camp hosts their two Girlfriends’ Getaways. I had my eye on zip lining, and made sure to check that off my list when I came back with a couple friends for a kid-free weekend last fall!)

100 Years of Resilience, Independence, + Growth

It’s so important to trust where you’re sending your kids. Knowing that Camp Newaygo is celebrating a century of camp this year is a really good feeling. They’re a top-tier summer camp that takes accreditation seriously: being accredited by the American Camp Association in addition to being licensed by the State of Michigan means that leadership at the camp ensures that operations, program design, health and safety practices, and even hiring procedures are the best of the best. Being accredited in this way also shows a commitment to meeting high standards for anything and everything for your child’s experience at camp.

I loved that my kids walked away with so much more than just new friends. They’re more confident. They know they can try new things–and it’s okay if it’s hard at first. Archery wasn’t easy for my six-year-old but she stuck with it and now she can say she’s done it. During Mom + Me Weekend my eight-year-old didn’t want to kayak alone; at Family Camp a couple of months later, she was a solo kayak pro.

2026 Camp Newaygo Programs + Dates

Here’s a quick look at what they have going on this summer!

All three of my girls regularly talk about their time at Camp Newaygo and ask when we can return. After the Mom + Me Weekend last summer, we talked about it so much that another family joined us with their two daughters for Family Camp. The nine of us shared a cabin and had an unforgettable time!

Planning your child’s summer experiences shouldn’t be stressful. Camp Newaygo takes care of everything for you. With the opportunity to attend alongside your child during Mom + Me and Family Camp, it’s sure to put your mind at ease. Your children will be asking, “When can I go for a week by myself?!” in no time!

To learn more about everything Camp Newaygo has to offer, check out their website!

Black Maternal Health Week Resources

Black Maternal Health Week is critically important. It raises awareness about the alarming disparities in maternal health outcomes faced by Black women in the United States. During this week advocates, healthcare professionals, policymakers, and community members come together to address systemic issues such as racism, bias, and unequal access to quality healthcare that contribute to disproportionately high rates of maternal mortality and morbidity among Black women.

By highlighting these disparities and advocating for change, Black Maternal Health Week aims to drive policy reforms, increase support for maternal health initiatives, and ultimately improve the health and well-being of Black mothers and their babies.

There are persistent disparities in healthcare.

There have been improvements in healthcare access and outcomes nationwide. However, Black maternal health outcomes in Michigan–particularly in Detroit and Metro Detroit–continue to lag behind. Black mothers are disproportionately affected by maternal mortality. So, they’re facing higher rates of pregnancy-related complications and deaths compared to their white counterparts.

Black women face barriers to accessing healthcare. Structural inequities such as lack of access to quality healthcare, racial bias in medical settings, socioeconomic factors, and inadequate insurance coverage contribute to the disparities in maternal health outcomes for Black women in Michigan. These barriers often result in delayed prenatal care, increased maternal stress, and limited access to essential resources and support services.

There’s also the impact of historical trauma.

Historical injustices, including systemic racism and discrimination in healthcare, have deeply rooted effects on Black maternal health in Michigan. The intergenerational trauma stemming from experiences such as medical experimentation, forced sterilization, and neglectful healthcare practices continues to shape Black women’s experiences during pregnancy and childbirth.

However, community-led solutions are out there.

Grassroots organizations and community initiatives in the Detroit area are actively working to address the disparities in Black maternal health. These efforts focus on providing culturally competent care and advocating for policy changes. They also offer support networks for expecting mothers and promote holistic approaches to maternal well-being.

A Black Maternal Health Week Call to Action

Black Maternal Health Week serves as a poignant reminder of the urgent need to prioritize and invest in Black maternal health in Michigan. It calls upon policymakers, healthcare providers, community leaders, and individuals alike to take proactive steps to dismantle systemic barriers, amplify Black voices, and ensure equitable access to comprehensive maternal care for all women, regardless of race or ethnicity.

Improving black maternal health outcomes is crucial. And, there are several resources available in the Metro Detroit and Ann Arbor areas that specifically cater to this need. For those seeking to get involved or access support services for Black maternal health in Michigan, consider reaching out to:

Birth Detroit

Birth Detroit values love, justice, safety, and trust. This organization created a birthing center in Detroit that is providing quality, loving, safe care from pregnancy to postpartum and everything in between.

Black Mothers’ Breastfeeding Association

Based in Detroit, this organization provides breastfeeding support and maternal health education tailored to the needs of Black families. They offer a virtual and in-person Breastfeeding Club along with numerous resources located on their website.

Michigan Department of Health and Human Services – Maternal Infant Health Program

This organization offers resources and support services for Medicaid-eligible pregnant and postpartum individuals, including maternal health education, home visiting programs, and breastfeeding support.

Shai Doula Services

This organization is providing reproductive care to birthing people in the Detroit area and surrounding communities, and is a Black-women led organization. They also offer workshops, fertility advice, and postpartum care.

The Mom Wellness Cave

This organization provides experiences to help mothers enhance their motherhood journey and is created for and by moms. Their events include workshops, wellness walks, virtual support, and more.

When seeking support and resources, it’s essential to look for culturally competent care that acknowledges and addresses the unique challenges and needs of Black mothers.

Caring for your mental health is incredibly important. If you’re looking for support, please check out our Guide to Therapists In + Around Detroit.

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