How to Survive Cold & Flu Season with Little Ones

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November 2, 2016

Hyland’s® has partnered with Detroit Moms Blog & City Moms Blog Network to bring you this post, but all of the opinions are still our own!

Cold and Flu season is already here in + around Detroit. The notes from school have been coming home daily, detailing the many viruses that our kiddos are picking up and sharing among their classmates. It’s unavoidable, and it’s frustrating!

Traditional cold medicine isn’t an option anymore for children under the age of 4. According to the FDA, these medicines are not effective and may be harmful for kids who fall into that age range. Some experts even say that parents should go further and stop using any kids’ cold medicine in children under age 6 unless their doctors recommend it. Moreover, so many of us prefer and have seen the benefits of subscribing to a more natural lifestyle.

Did you know the average child catches a cold 6-10 times a year?! So what’s a busy mom to do when her child is sick, and EVERYONE needs the benefit of a good night’s sleep?

In our family, we turn to the modern day version of my Grandmother’s home remedies: Hyland’s®! When the nasty cold starts going around pre-school and all three of my kiddos catch it, I find that Hyland’s® offers the perfect combination of easing the cold symptoms while also being completely free of any artificial color and flavors and free of stimulant side effects.

Like any mom, I want the absolute safest and best products for my children, but it’s not always the most budget friendly option. That’s why I love Hyland’s® stance on making homeopathic remedies readily available and affordable to EVERY family. Imagine my excitement when I discovered their 4 Kids Cold ‘n Cough Day and Night Combo Pack with Natural Grape Flavor on the shelves at Costco! Check out this amazing winter essential, available now – just in time for #CostcoMomHour! – through February 2017. Wondering what Costco Mom Hour is?

When: Friday, November 4th from 9-10am

Where: Costco in Lakeside, Bloomfield, Roseville and Pittsfield (and also 98 warehouses nationwide)

Why: Costco is opening their doors an hour early just for us!

What: Light breakfast, swag (first 100), giveaways, samples and EXCLUSIVE NEW MEMBERSHIP OFFER!

**Can’t attend? We realize this event won’t work for every single person, that’s why we are thrilled that Costco is offering the exclusive new membership offer to everyone, regardless of whether you can attend. Register using the link below and simply select the exclusive member offer for non attendees. Upon registering you will have a chance to purchase the membership online for $55. Take that to any warehouse in the US before November 4th and redeem it for the membership card, a $20 gift card and $43 in Costco coupons!

Sign up for the Costco Mom Hour here:

>>> Detroit Costco Mom Hour <<<

I could go on and on about the benefits of Hyland’s® all day long, but I think the company says it best themselves:

Hyland’s® homeopathic medicines provide a safe and effective solution to health care issues that affect the entire family, from infants to seniors. We have always been driven by the simple scientific proof of how the body can call upon its own natural defenses to heal and restore balance. This is the basis of homeopathic medicine.

Today, as countless conventional medicines developed by others prove to produce complicated or even harmful side effects, the need for natural homeopathic medicines that work without side effects is increasing. Hyland’s stands as a leader in innovations that answer to the changing health needs of our modern world. Hyland’s is committed to helping your kids get back to feeling like themselves.

And that’s exactly what all moms want, right? Our kiddos to get back to feeling like themselves, and everyone back to sleeping through the night.

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How are YOU getting through Cold & Flu season?

*Disclaimer: Consult Medical Professional before use. Always read and follow label directions. *The uses for our products are based on traditional homeopathic practice. They have not been reviewed by the Food and Drug Administration.*

Don’t Forget Us

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taylorcapps

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November 1, 2016

We were eating dinner quickly as the baby slept and our 3 year old played. It was probably the first alone time we had since the baby arrived. There wasn’t much talk going on at the table. We were both exhausted and silence is exactly what we wanted. My husband eventually looked at me and said “Hi, what’s your name? It’s nice to meet you.” We both laughed and I jokingly responded, but that joke out of his mouth had so much truth to it.

Our evenings use to be filled with binge watching TV and socializing with friends, but now the TV plays enough “Doc McStuffins” that we have memorized the episodes. We use to spend evenings reading books, news articles aloud, and staying up late in bed, but we are lucky if we end up in bed at the same time now. When he walks in the door from work my first question isn’t “How was your day?” it’s now “Do you want to do bath time or dinner clean-up?”

Something that we both wouldn’t trade for anything has stepped in between us. That thing is called parenting. We seem to lose sight of each other in the midst of parenting. And now that there is a newborn in the house it’s happening even more. It’s never an intentional thing; frankly it’s in our nature. We chose to be parents, but we also need to choose to give our all to each other.

We make sure to always ask how the other is doing. Granted it may be 5 hours after he has arrived home or in the middle of the night during a feeding, but it’s so important. My husband asked me the other day “How’s staying home with two kids now? Harder or easier than you thought? What can I help with?” Just those questions alone was what I needed that day. Knowing that in all the craziness he’s still wondering how I’m handling the home front and what more can he do made my heart sing.

Laughing is the key to happiness around our house. Our newborn likes to stay awake from around 12:30 until 2/2:30 AM. The first night or two of her doing this I think I cried a couple times due from pure exhaustion. The next couple nights we made the most of it. We laughed as we searched endlessly for something on TV only to resort to an infomercial about Christmas lights that you can project on your house (interesting, huh?). I ate a couple of snacks and we watched Saturday Night Live in the middle of the night as our sweet newborn didn’t have sleep in mind.

There are days that the noise level has been so overwhelming and I’ve had no time to myself, but instead of being distant I lean on him. We have decided that if we don’t take that time for each other then we will lose sight completely which is not a choice in our house.

I sat in bed the other night nursing our baby for what seemed like the 50th time in 2 hours and my husband headed to our 3 year old’s room as she screamed his name. I jokingly started singing the Darius Rucker song “It Won’t Be Like This For Long”. It’s in these moments that though I miss the times we had with just us, neither of us would change it for the world.

It won’t be like this for long
One day soon we’ll look back laughing
At the week we brought her home
This phase is gonna fly by
So baby just hold on
It won’t be like this for long

-Darius Rucker

Feeding Babies is Hard Work

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Lauren Cadorin

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November 1, 2016

I know what you’re thinking – not another breast vs. bottle article. I get it. This divide between nursing and formula moms is getting old. But, why must we pick a side? As a mother who has pumped, formula fed, and now is exclusively breastfeeding, I’m unsure of where I fit in. The truth of the matter is, however you choose to do it, feeding babies is hard work.

Breastfeeding mamas, feeding babies is hard work. You’re sore. You’re on your last set of breast pads, because somehow you forgot them during your last two Target runs. You’ve become a homebody because finding a semi-private place to nurse in public is next to impossible. When you do finally leave the house, you realize you left your nursing cover at home. Your blood boils every time you read about another mother being shamed for breastfeeding. You are incredibly jealous of your “I’d help if I could” husband, who sleeps peacefully next to you during nighttime feedings. Your wardrobe is limited strictly to breastfeeding-accessible clothing. You blame yourself for eating the wrong thing when your baby has a bellyache. You desperately want a glass of wine and when you finally drink it, you feel like the world’s worst mother.

Formula-feeding mamas, feeding babies is hard work. You can sense the judgement of others every time you pull a bottle from your diaper bag. You’re never on time because you’re always filling containers with perfectly measured formula before leaving the house. Traveling is the worst because you’re on a constant lookout for safe water to make a bottle with. You can never make spontaneous plans because you don’t have enough formula on you. You’ve spent hours upon hours researching the pros and cons of each brand of formula, before deciding on the perfect one for your baby’s needs. You stress about the ever-rising price of formula. You are extremely disappointed when your doctor’s office offers you free samples, only to let you know that they’re out of your preferred brand. Every time you hear the words “breast is best,” you feel like crying. You’re constantly worrying that your child isn’t receiving the right nutrients or growing at the same rate as breastfed babies.

Pumping mamas, feeding babies is hard work. No one understands the phrase “crying over spilled milk” quite like you do. You watch a lot of TV, because you’re always pumping. When the TV’s on, you have to turn the volume up all the way, as an attempt to muffle the sounds of your pump. You use your lunch break to uncomfortably pump in a less-than-desirable location. You want to cry when your baby drinks only an ounce of an 8 ounce bottle and you have to throw your liquid gold away. You spend double the time nourishing your baby – pumping and feeding, pumping and feeding. You feel guilty when you make the decision to supplement with formula because you’re not producing enough. You feel like you’re missing out on precious bonding time with your baby because you’re constantly pumping. You think the most romantic gesture is when your husband washes your pump parts (All. Those. Parts.). You’d be more devastated if your pump died than if your car broke down.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned on my journey in feeding babies, it’s that you should always trust your gut. All babies are different. Just because you breastfed your first, doesn’t mean your second baby is going to latch. And that’s okay! Remember that feeding babies is not an easy ride for anyone – we all have our struggles. Let’s encourage each other and make feeding babies a judgement-free zone.

A Detroit Mom’s Guide to November

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Amber Cross

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October 31, 2016

Now that Halloween is over {almost}, you’ve got a little bit of down time before you kick it into high gear for the holidays. DMB has compiled some events for the whole family that are happening In + Around Detroit throughout November. Click through each week to see what is happening near you! If you have an event to add to the list submit it in the form below to have it added to our guide.

November 1, 2016

Pumpkin Roll-Down!

Get those pumpkins laying around after Halloween and bring them to the Sledding Hill in Clinton township. This 25 foot hill will be the perfect place for the entire family to roll pumpkins down and get a chance at winning some cool prizes. Even if you don’t win a prize you can enjoy free cider and donuts, watch pumpkins smash and dash down our hill! This will be held every year, at 6:00 pm the day after Halloween!

Location :: Clinton Township Parks and Recreation Sledding Hill, 40700 Romeo Plank Rd., Clinton Township
Time :: 6:00 p.m.
Cost :: Free

November 2, 2016

The 3rd Annual Greater Detroit Shwarmafest

Our featured food vendors will include Byblo’s Cafe, La Feast Restaurant, the Shawarma Grill, Mito’s Turkish Doner and the Pita Post Food Truck.

The 3rd Annual Greater Detroit ShawarmaFest will feature:
• Amazing food from 6 different restaurants and food trucks
• A juried “Best of Metro Detroit” competition for shawarma, falafel and hummus
• DJ entertainment
• Local business and craft vendors
• Children’s activities

Location :: Royal Oak Farmers Market, 316 E. 11 Mile Rd., Royal Oak
Time :: 6:00 – 9:30 p.m.
Cost :: Adults advance tickets/$10, At the door/$12, 12 and under attend free. For each paid admission, you’ll receive $5.00 in food vouchers redeemable at any of our participating food vendors the evening of the event.

November 3, 2016

Mini Picassos Toddler ART Party

We will be making fun and exciting crafts geared towards your little ones!
18 month-4 years old! Sign up by messaging-
Name, age, contact number & email! Payment due at sign up!

Location :: Mini Picassos 20801 Lennon, Harper Woods
Time :: 10:00- 11:30 a.m.
Cost :: $15/child

November 4, 2016

Costco Mom Hour

Mom Hour – the holiday shopping event of the season is fast-approaching and will be even more exciting and enticing than last year. Have you ever wished Costco opened a bit earlier? Best of all, Mom Hour is for YOU and all your friends (and kids) to shop together. The more the merrier! Enjoy swag, snacks, samples and giveaways with other Detroit moms!

Locations :: Bloomfield Costco, 2343 S. Telegraph Rd., Bloomfield, 48302
                     Shelby Twp. Costco, 45460 Market St., Shelby Twp., 48315
                     Roseville Costco, 27118 Gratiot, Roseville, 48066
                     Pittsfield Costco, 771 Airport Blvd., Pittsfield, 48108

Time :: 9:00 – 10:00 a.m.
Cost :: FREE! Register now!

Friends of the Ferndale Library Used Book Sale

Books, CDs, and DVDs. Most items are under $1.00 All proceeds will be used to purchase books and DVDs for our Health and Wellness collection.
The Friends of the Ferndale Library will make a matching donation for the total sales.

Location :: Ferndale District Public Library Community Room, 222 E. 9 Mile Rd., Ferndale
Time :: 10:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m.
Cost :: Free entry

November 5, 2016

The Great Pumpkin Roll

Bring your old Jack-O-Lantern to Mill Pond Park for a little fall fun. You’ll race your pumpkin against others in this 11th annual competition. Winners will get a fun mystery prize and everyone will enjoy hot cider, donuts and some laughs! The event sponsor, Waste Management will have an antique truck on site for the kids to see. Make sure you bring your camera! No need to preregister.

Location :: Mill Pond Park, W. Bennett St., Saline, 48176
Time :: 9:00 a.m.
Cost :: Free

The Great Big Aweeesome Toy Fest Event

At participating Toys “R” Us stores nationwide!! The Great Big Toys”R”Us Book of Awwwesome comes to life with toy demos, make & take activities, raffles, giveaways, PLUS, a special visit from Geoffrey! So bring your camera and your holiday spirit, and let the wishing begin!

Location :: At participating Toys “R” Us stores nationwide! Call your local store for details.
Time : 12:00-2:00 p.m.
Cost :: Entry is free

Divine Child Holiday Boutique

Come and get some early Christmas shopping done! So many great vendors! See you there!! Free raffle ticket with every admission! No strollers please.

Location :: Divine Child Elementary School, 25001 Herbert Weier Dr., Dearborn
Time :: 9:00 am.-4:00 p.m.
Cost :: $3 admission. Children 12 and under are free

Friends of the Ferndale Public Library Used Book Sale

Books, CDs, and DVDs. Most items are under $1.00 All proceeds will be used to purchase books and DVDs for our Health and Wellness collection.
The Friends of the Ferndale Library will make a matching donation for the total sales.

Location :: Ferndale District Public Library Community Room, 222 E. 9 Mile Rd., Ferndale
Time :: 12:00 -5:00 p.m.
Cost :: Free entry

Turkey Trot

Join the Livonia Parks and Recreation Department as we walk/run to help the less fortunate. Profits and can-food donations will be given to the Livonia Goodfellows organization, which provide families in need in Livonia with a Christmas dinner. After the run/walk there will be a food truck rally!

Location :: Bicentennial Park, 7 Mile Rd and Wayne Rd., Livonia
Time :: 8:30 a.m.
Cost :: $15/person and don’t forget canned food donations!

November 6, 2016

Mom-son Fun Day presented by Free Star Financial Credit Union

Join us for an afternoon full of fun at The NEW Rink! We will have a pizza buffet, mom-son dodgeball, backyard games, bounce houses, skating, photo-ops and more! Pre-registration is required – register NOW spots will fill up fast! Call the office for more information 586-286-9336

Location :: The NEW Rink, 50625 Van Dyke Ave., Shelby Charter Township
Time :: 2:00 – 5:00 p.m.
Cost :: Residents/ $19.00 Non-residents/$24.50 Pre-registration is required!

November 9, 2016

Food Truck Rally at the Royal Oak Farmers Market

A collection of Michigan’s finest food trucks come together at the Royal Oak Farmers Market every 2nd Wednesday of each month. Enjoy great food, live music, and more entertainment.

Location :: Royal Oak Farmers Market, 316 E. 11 Mile Rd., Royal Oak
Time :: 5:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
Cost :: Free entry

November 10-13. 2016

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus presents Circus XTREME

It’s time for your family to be amazed by all the X-TRAORDINARY things you know and love about America’s favorite live family entertainment experience. Be astonished by UN-XPECTED circus spectacles you’ve never seen before and that can’t be seen anywhere else but at The Greatest Show On Earth^®. Get ready for an X-HILARATING adventure with X-TRAORDINARY circus artists and magnificent X-OTIC animals, like our big cats! It’s time to awaken the spirit of Children Of All Ages and stir the imagination of your family!

Location :: The Palace of Auburn Hills, 6 Championship Dr., Auburn Hills, 48236
Time :: Check website for specific timesCost :: Tickets start at $10, check website for further details

November 11, 2016

Storytime Yoga with Born Yoga

Join owner of Born Yoga, Ashley Goldberg, for this fun and unique approach to storytime with yoga poses, puppets, and songs. Please bring a yoga mat or towel. Registration required.

Location :: Baldwin Public Library, 300 W. Merrill, Birmingham, 48009
Time :: 10:00 a.m.
Cost :: Free – Registration Required

Ford Free Fun Day

The Michigan Science Center will host a free event in honor of Veterans Day. All guests, including veterans and their families will receive free general admission. An all access pass, which includes the creatures of light exhibit and IMAX will be available for an additional $10 per person. Pre-registration is required!

Location :: The Michigan Science Center, 5020 John R. Rd., Detroit
Time :: 10:00 a.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Cost :: Free! Visit the website for exlusions

November 12, 2016

Talkin’ Turkey

November is the month to think turkey! Join us for a “turkey talk” and learn interesting facts to impress family and friends. Make a turkey-themed craft and enjoy a guided hike.

Location :: Wint Nature Center, 9501 Sashabaw Rd., Clarkston
Time :: 2:00-3:30 p.m.
Cost :: $4/person

Mustache Dache

The Mustache Dache® is the nation’s premier mustache-themed running race series! Men, women and children are all invited to embrace their inner Mario or Luigi and participate in this slightly irreverent 5K event. Taking place in or around the month of November, the national series helps The Movember Foundation, a global charity committed to men living happier, healthier, longer lives. All participants receive a t-shirt and mustache finisher’s medal, plus access to the post-race festivities, with photo booth, costume contest, food, and plenty more.

Location :: Atwater Brewery, 237 Jos. Campau St., Detroit
Time :: Race start time is 10:00 a.m.
Cost ::$20-40

23rd Annual Fall/Holiday Craft Show

The Chippewa Valley High School Band Boosters will host this event. No strollers allowed per fire marshal!

Location :: Chippewa Valley High School, 18300 19 Mile Rd, Clinton Township
Time : 8:30-4:00 p.m.
Cost :: $2 admission

8th Annual Warren Mott Band Craft Show

THIS IS A MUST SEE SHOW! Great for holiday shopping and finding unique gifts for everyone on your list. Everything from home decor, baby items, special soaps, candles, holiday decor, clothing, art, photography, coasters, speciality treats, food, hats, scarfs, gloves, jewelry, skin care, cosmetics, lotions, nail products, books, candy, pillows, glass, cooking, kitchen items, pet items, dog treats, health and beauty, purses, shoes, bags,oils, ornaments, wreaths, paper crafts, speciality cards, garden, spices, decals, quilts, handcrafted wood, engraved items, crochette, knitting, even sports cards, along with all your favorite vendor products and many many new ones.

Location :: Warren Mott High School, 3131 12 Mile. Rd., Warren
Time :: 10:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m.
Cost :: $1 admission

Christmas in Clawson Craft Show 2016

Crafts and other vendors, great food, raffles, bake sales with profits benefiting Clawson Public Schools PTA and PTO groups.

Location :: Clawson High School, 101 John M St., Clawson
Time :: 9 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.
Cost :: $3.00 Children under 13 are free

November 12-13

Paw Patrol LIVE: Race to the Rescue

Featuring a cast of everybody’s favorite PAW Patrol characters and presented by VStar Entertainment Group and Nickelodeon, PAW Patrol Live! “Race to the Rescue” shows that “no job is too big, no pup is too small,” and shares lessons for all ages about citizenship, social skills and problem-solving as the characters each use their unique skills and teamwork.

Location :: The Fox Theater, 2211 Woodward Ave., Detroit
Time :: Showtimes vary. See website in link for details.
Cost :: $18.00 – $55.00

November 14, 2016

Crossroads Village 10th Annual Ladies Night Out

Grab your favorite shopping buddies and start the
holiday season together in the festive quaint glow of
Crossroads Village. Ladies Night Out is a special one
night only event you’re sure to love – and not soon to
forget. Enjoy shopping, crafts, demonstrations, holiday
lights, vintage rides and more. Annual pass holders get in free.

Location :: 6140 Bray Rd., Flint
Time :: 4:00-9:00 p.m.
Cost :: $5/person

November 15, 2016

Lightfest 8K Run/Walk

Enjoy a breathtaking walk/run through the Midwest’s longest drive through holiday light display! See flyer for details on event check-in and starting location.

Location :: Merriman Hollow Park, Enter Hines Dr of Merriman between Ann Arbor Trail and Warren Ave., Westland
Time :: 7:00 p.m. Check-in begins at 5:30 and ends at 6:45 p.m. See flyer for details
Cost :: See flyer for details

LEGO Remote Control Workshop

What’s better than building your own LEGO dragster? How about building and customizing your own Remote Controlled LEGO dragster! Making it move is the name of the game at our Remote Control LEGO Event. Kids will use motors, batteries and Technic kits to create their own moving dragsters! After the building there will be tons of fun with racing and other driving challenges too! On top of that, all RC kids will get one free Build Your Own Minifigure card to use on their next visit to the store! Awesomeness! Cost is $24 per student. Call 586 580-3180 to register or you can sign up in store.

Location :: Bricks and Minifigs of Macomb Township, 47182 Hayes Rd., Macomb
Time :: 5:30-7:00 p.m.
Cost :: $24/student

November 15-20, 2016

Elf the Musical (Touring)

Elf is a musical based on the motion picture of the same name.

Location :: The Fox Theater, 2211 Woodward Ave., Detroit
Time :: Showtimes vary. See website in link for details.Cost :: $31.50-$61.50, see website in link for details.

November 16, 2016

Bike Through the Lights

Wayne County Parks is offering bike riders a chance to bike

through the lights before Lightfest opens to the public. This is

an “out and back” event so all bike riders must be able to bike to

the Warrendale picnic area and back (16K).

Location :: Merriman Hollow Park, Enter Hines Drive off Merriman Rd. between Ann Arbor Trail and Warren Ave., Westland
Time :: 7:00 p.m. Check-in begins at 5:30 and ends at 6:45. See flyer for details
Cost :: See flyer for details

Paddington the movie at Grosse Pointe Woods Central Library

A young Peruvian bear travels to London in search of a home. Finding himself lost and alone at Paddington Station, he meets the kindly Brown family, who offer him a temporary haven.

Location :: Grosse Pointe Woods Public Library – Central Branch, 10 Kercheval Ave., Grosse Pointe Farms
Time :: 6:00 p.m.
Cost :: Free – but registration is required! Call (313) 343-2074

November 18, 2016

Lighted Christmas Parade

Come see thousands of lights and displays as the Holiday season nears at the Lighted Christmas Parade!

Location :: Park Ave., Allen Park
Time : 6:00 – 8:00 p.m.
Cost :: Free

Santa’s Lighted Parade

Santa, in his sleigh will go through the streets of St. Clair. He will receive the key to the city and countdown to the lighting of the tree in Palmer Park. Refreshments will be served and visitors can see reindeer in the Candy Cane Corral.

Location :: Downtown St. Clair with the parade ending at Palmer Park for the festivities
Time :: 6:00 p.m.
Cost :: Free

Holiday Lighted Parade and Community Tree Lighting ceremony

Join the thousands of parade goers as the holiday season officially kicks off with the Holiday Lighted Parade. Bands, dancers, float and of course, Santa, make this annual favorite a great family tradition!
The parade will be first andwill be followed by the official lighting of the tree and a chance to talk with Santa. Local churches will have hot chocolate and a family photo station available for parade goers.

Location :: Northville Town Square, Main Street, Northville
Time :: Parade starts at 6:30 p.m.

Cost :: Free – see website for other offerings for the evening

November 19, 2016

Wyandotte Christmas Parade

The Parade route begins at Northline near the Police/Court Building and ends at Eureka Avenue. The parade begins at 10 am and usually runs approximately one hour. Wyandotte’s Christmas Parade often draws participation from local marching troupes, pipe and drum and marching bands, schools and organizations from throughout Michigan and Canada. The parade ends with Santa Claus!

Location :: The parade route runs along Biddle Avenue from Mulberry to Pine Street.

Time :: 10:00 a.m.

Cost :: Free

3rd Annual MomShops Black Saturday Sale

Shop mom-to-mom gently pre-owned tables (or even have your own to make a little cash for this holiday season!) and vendor tables featuring local businesses and crafters. The first 300 attendees receive an amazing reusable coupon (and surprise) filled goody bag! Stay tuned here for more updates and surprises, and don’t forget to invite your friends! Benefit the YMCA Strong Kids Campaign and your wallet at the MomShops Black Saturday Sale!

Location :: South Oakland Family YMCA, 1016 W. 11 Mile Rd., Royal Oak
Time :: Early bird 8:30 a.m.-9:00 a.m., Regular hours 9:00 a.m.- 12:00 p.m.
Cost :: See site for details

November 20, 2016

Lunch with Elsa & Anna

Come enjoy singing, dancing, lunch and story time with Elsa & Anna!

Location :: Kings Court Castle Restaurant and Banquet Center, 2325 Joslyn Rd., Lake Orion
Time :: 12:00- 2:00 p.m.
Cost :: $20/person, 2 and under FREE!

November 20-27

Festival of Trees

The event is a public display of professionally designed 5-foot and 7-foot Christmas trees, tabletop trees, wreaths, gingerbread houses and other gifts that are sold to raise funds for Children’s Hospital of Michigan pediatric research. A festive gift shop and a train display by Glancy Trains Modular Railroad Club round out the fun.

Location :: Ford Community and Performing Arts Center, 15801 Michigan Ave., Dearborn
Time :: See website for details about each day’s schedule
Cost :: $5.00 for adults, Children ages 3-16 are $3.00 and Children under 2 are free

November 23, 2016

Gobble Up Science at Cranbrook

Prepare to feast on a smorgasbord of science! Examine fossilized dung and discover where it’s found and what can be gleaned from it, learn the difference between how a carnivore, herbivore, and omnivore use their teeth, and design and build a way to transport your Thanksgiving dinner to your table, and much more!

Location :: Cranbrook Institute of Science, 39221 Woodward Ave., Bloomfield Hills
Time :: 1:00 – 4:00 p.m.
Cost :: $9.50-$13.00 includes admission to entire museum, Children under 2 are free

November 24, 2016

The 90th America’s Thanksgiving Parade® presented by Art Van in Detroit

The iconic parade will feature celebrities, new floats designed and built by The Parade Company, larger-than-life balloons, marching bands and specialty groups like the Distinguished Clown Corps and Big Head Corps. A Detroit classic!

Location :: Downtown Detroit, Woodward Ave., between Kirby Street and Congress Street
Time :: 9:00 a.m.
Cost :: Free to stand along the parade route

Oakland County Parks Free Parks Access Day

Visitors can enjoy free daily park entry with access to natural areas, trails, dog parks and all park amenities. Park hours are 30 minutes before sunrise to 30 minutes after sunset, or as posted at the park.

Location :: Addison Oaks Park, Highland Oaks, Independence Oaks Park, Lyon Oaks Park, Lyon Oaks Dog Park, Orion Oaks Park, Orion Oaks Dog Park, Red Oaks Dog Park, Rose Oaks. SEE PARKS WEBSITE FOR DETAILS.
Time :: See website above for details and park hours
Cost :: Free

November 25, 2016

Gobble Up Science at Cranbrook

Prepare to feast on a smorgasbord of science! Examine fossilized dung and discover where it’s found and what can be gleaned from it, learn the difference between how a carnivore, herbivore, and omnivore use their teeth, and design and build a way to transport your Thanksgiving dinner to your table, and much more!

Location :: Cranbrook Institute of Science, 39221 Woodward Ave., Bloomfield Hills
Time :: 1:00 – 4:00 p.m.
Cost :: $9.50-$13.00 includes admission to entire museum, Children under 2 are free

November 25-27, 2016

The Nutcracker

BalletMet Columbus brings you the classic holiday production. Young Clara will once again invite us inside her imagination with The Nutcracker, a beloved Columbus tradition since its World Premiere in December 1974. Choreographed by former Artistic Director Gerard Charles, this magic-filled ballet draws families from near and far with its merry characters, gorgeous set, elegant costuming—and a good dose of holiday nostalgia.

Location :: The Detroit Opera House, 1526 Broadway, Detroit
Time :: See link above for details for each performance
Cost :: $46.00-$272.00, see link above for details for each performance

November 26, 2016

Taylor Winter Festival

It isn’t often that you see fireworks during the holiday season, but that’s going to become a reality this year!

The second Taylor Winter Festival will kick off the opening of Santa’s Magic Forest with a parade. The parade is tentatively scheduled to march from City Hall, 23555 Goddard Road, to the Sheridan Center Open Air Pavilion in Heritage Park. Many festivities will take place in the Sheridan Center, capped by the arrival of Santa Claus, the official tree lighting … AND A FIREWORKS DISPLAY!

Location :: Parade start at city hall, 23555 Goddard Rd., and ending with festivities at the Sheridan Center Open Air Pavilion at Heritage Park, 12111 Pardee, between Goddard and Northline Roads.
Time :: Parade at 4:00 p.m. and activities to follow at approximately 5:00 p.m.
Cost :: For a full list of activities and prices, go to the website listed in the link above.

Gingerbread Barn Fun

Family fun, we will furnish all the goodies for you to create your own, Christmas themed, Gingerbread barn. Sign up early spaces are limited and fill up quickly. Please pre-register and pre-pay for this program.

Location :: Wolcott Mill Metropark, 65775 Wolcott Rd., Ray Township
Time :: 11:00 a.m. or 1:00 p.m.
Cost :: $6 per house, call (586) 752-5932 to pre-register and pre-pay

Gobble Up Science at Cranbrook

Prepare to feast on a smorgasbord of science! Examine fossilized dung and discover where it’s found and what can be gleaned from it, learn the difference between how a carnivore, herbivore, and omnivore use their teeth, and design and build a way to transport your Thanksgiving dinner to your table, and much more!

Location :: Cranbrook Institute of Science, 39221 Woodward Ave., Bloomfield Hills
Time :: 1:00 – 4:00 p.m.
Cost :: $9.50-$13.00 includes admission to entire museum, Children under 2 are free

November 27, 2016

Planetarium Presents: Earth, Moon & Stars

Come see what the excitement is all about…we will have our full-sized dome planetarium all set-up and ready to amaze you. Enter the dome for an unforgettable experience as we take a tour of our galactic backyard by watching a comedic and educational movie that will soar us to the sun, the moon, and even a little beyond…all from the comfort of the nature center. Not recommended for children under the age of four.

Location :: Dinosaur Hill Nature Preserve, 333 N. Hill Cir., Rochester, 48307
Time :: 7:00-8:00 p.m.
Cost :: $6 per person for non-members, $5 per person for members. MUST register!

Gingerbread Barn Fun

Family fun, we will furnish all the goodies for you to create your own, Christmas themed, Gingerbread barn. Sign up early spaces are limited and fill up quickly. Please pre-register and pre-pay for this program.

Location :: Wolcott Mill Metropark, 65775 Wolcott Rd., Ray Township
Time :: 11:00 a.m. or 1:00 p.m.
Cost :: $6 per house, call (586) 752-5932 to pre-register and pre-pay

November 28, 2016

Minions the movie at Grosse Pointe Public Library Ewald Branch

Minions evolve through the ages, perpetually serving the most despicable of masters. Continuously unsuccessful at keeping these masters, the Minions find themselves without someone to serve and fall into a deep depression. One Minion named Kevin has a plan!

Location :: Grosse Pointe Public Library – Ewald Branch, 15175 E. Jefferson, Grosse Pointe Park
Time :: 6:00 p.m.
Cost :: Free but registration may be required. Check website for details.

November 29, 2016

Mini Picassos Mistletoe Footprint Workshop

Mini Picassos will be hosting a foot print day! We will be making mistletoes! You can put up to 3 footprints per painting! Message Mini Picassos to sign up for a 30 min time slot!

Location :: Mini Picasso Art Studio, 20801 Lennon St., Harper Woods
Time :: 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Message the studio to sign up for your specific time slot!
Cost :: $15/painting

An Ode to Saturdays

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Meghan Simonie

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October 27, 2016

As a young child, I woke up to marshmallow cereal and morning cartoons. A promise of laughter and fun with friends and family for the day ahead and possibility of ice cream trips with grandparents or sleepovers with best friends.

I lived for Saturday mornings.

full-page-photo — My younger brother and I showing off our cowboy/girl skills.

As a teenager, there was nothing I wanted more than the ability to finally sleep in after a tough week of high school. To simply roll over in bed and not worry about school, boys, my hair (ugh!) made it so much easier to enjoy my morning.

I lived for Saturday mornings.

image1-2 — Me (very early 2000’s style) and my three siblings.

As a young adult, the only thing that actually got me out of bed before 7 am with a smile on my face was MSU football. The days full of great food, drinks, and fun cheering on my favorite team at my favorite campus with some of my favorite people, were some of the best years of my life.

I lived for Saturday mornings.

41164_10100310811757564_4910630_n — Tailgating! P.S. We weren’t even dating yet – this is where is all began!

As a parent, I wake up to the little patter of feet coming down the hallway and cooing from a crib in the room next door. Quickly, my spacious bed has barely enough room for me but as we snuggle close, all four of us together, and I get a quick glance at my husband, I realize I have lived my whole life for this moment.

I live for Saturday mornings.

14317543_10108886052641094_7147398761981716238_n — Sibling love!

10 Reasons to Attend Fall Family Festival at Cranbrook

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Elizabeth Lewis

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October 27, 2016

Our first Fall Family Festival is happening TWO days from now and we couldn’t be more excited! We have worked month after month making sure that we bring you an event you won’t forget. Make sure you join the Facebook Event page to learn more about the giveaways and stay up-to-date with everything happening. And don’t get to grab your tickets – TODAY!

>>>GET YOUR TICKETS HERE<<<

10. Cranbrook Institute of Science is a must see place for all families to see! Its campus is one of the world’s leading centers of education, science and art. It fosters in its members and visitors a passion for understanding the world around them. It’s a place you can come and learn all things science! And well dinosaur bones!

9. You want more excuse to put your children in those overly priced Halloween costumes!

8. You get FREE admission to Cranbrook after the event to check out the Megaladon Featured Exhibit! If your kiddos love sharks, they’ll dig learning about the largest shark that ever lived. Check out those teeth!

7. Superheroes and Princesses from the amazing Fairytale Entertainment. If you’ve been to any of our other events you already know they are the best of the best

6. The overly delicious Costco cake! Come learn about the insane deal Costco has for Detroit Moms Blog readers. You’ll be able to take advantage of it right there!

5. Come hang out with Bloomfield Hills Fire Department and their Fire Truck!

4. Trunk or Treat sponsored by Eastman and Wozniak.

3. Fun science experiments and hands on activities.

2. Over 15 local giveaways! Ones you don’t want to miss out on.

1. The Pope Francis Center! They provide incredible services for Detroit’s homeless and they need our help. Bring travel-size toiletries, socks, hats or gloves to Fall Family Festival and receive EXTRA raffle tickets for our awesome giveaways!

>>>GET YOUR TICKETS HERE<<<

Tonight I Cried (Confessions from a Single Mom)

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KatieBeth

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October 25, 2016

Tonight I walked upstairs and as soon as I walked in my bedroom, I broke down. There, lying on my bed, was a pile of my daughter’s toys. We played with these toys earlier while her younger brother napped. After he woke up, we went downstairs and went about our day. I had completely forgotten about these toys. They were still on my bed because my children had been picked up by their father after dinner and we hadn’t gotten around to cleaning up.

As soon as I felt the feelings bubbling under the surface, I rushed to get in the shower. For some reason, I feel like the shower is a more appropriate place to cry. For one, it’s private. And two, I can hide how much I’m actually crying with the water.

So I sat in the shower, and cried. I clutched my chest because it felt like my heart was actually breaking. I cried because their childhood is split between two households. I cried because my divorce has forced me into the role of a part time parent. I cried because I did not grow and birth children to only spend fifty percent of the time with them.

Ever since I stepped into this single mom role, I am finding that I cry All. The. Time. I cry when I’m driving and look back to see the empty carseats. I cry when I drive past their daycare/preschool on days that are not my day to pick them up. I cry when I walk in their rooms at night to put laundry away and I’m reminded why they aren’t in their beds sleeping. I cry when my daughter tells me she wants to go back to her old home (“the home with mumma and daddy and my brother”). I cry when either of my children cry. I guarantee you that I can find some way every day that I feel like I’m not good enough as a single mom; and for that, I cry.

Every one of these reasons stem back to how I am reminded of how much of their lives I am going to miss out on. My daughter is almost four and has developed the most incredibly independent and loving and stubborn personality; and every single day she says and does the most hilarious things. My son just turned one and he is THIS (imagine me holding my finger and thumb super close together) close to walking! This week the kids are with their dad the majority of the time and my heart breaks thinking of everything I could be missing. What will my daughter say when her dad asks about her day at school? Will she try to parent her little brother like she does when she’s with me? Will my son finally gain the confidence to go forth and walk on his own? What new trick will he learn and start doing that I won’t find out about until it’s my time with them?

The hardest part about divorce is putting my personal feelings about my children’s father aside and putting what’s best for my children at the forefront of every decision I make. It may break my heart not being able to see them as often as I would like, but I have to do what’s best for them. And them spending time with their dad is just as important as spending time with me.

Any single moms out there? How to do you handle the time when your children are with their father?

DMB Neighborhood Mom Groups

By

Elizabeth Lewis

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October 24, 2016

Hey there Mama, our DMB Neighborhood Mom Groups are waiting for you! This is a great way for us ALL to connect with our neighborhood moms. I don’t know about you, but I am always looking for another rambunctious four year old for daughter to play with or a little mom support after a long work week and a few too many sleepless nights. To bring us all a little closer, join Our DMB Neighborhood Mom Groups! If you don’t see your city, don’t worry, jump into the one closet to you. Lets get connected!

Neighborhood Groups

Our primary goal in creating Detroit Moms Blog was to connect moms online, as well as offline through playdates and our events. We know that being a mom is the most rewarding job we can do, but it’s also the hardest. We all need some support now and then from others who know just what we are going through! We’ve loved doing this through our larger events, but this year we are also looking to incorporate some more intimate ways for moms to connect with one another

Detroit covers three different counties and we would like to make it feel a little smaller! We’ve decided to create Neighborhood Groups that will help you all facilitate playdates, mommy meet ups, learn more about your specific neighborhood or simply pose a question to a group of moms. Whether you’re a new mom, new to the city, or just want to meet new friends, these groups will be the perfect way to connect with moms in your area.

We currently have 19 neighborhood groups available to join. Don’t see your neighborhood? Because Detroit is so large, we aren’t able to list every suburb – start with the group closest to your city and hop in. We’re just starting this program, so please let us know if your city isn’t close to the listed groups so we can get your area covered. Just click on your neighborhood and ask to join the group!

Each group will be run by volunteers called Mombassadors – these ladies will plan events each month with the intention of gathering people in person. Some of the neighborhood groups have Mombassadors while others are seeking them. If you’re interested in being one of our Mombassadors please send an email to [email protected] and let us know. We absolutely love our online community, but what we’d love most, is to help you get connected in person to other moms in your own neighborhoods within Detroit!

Working Moms

Homeschool Moms

Ann Arbor/Ypsilanti

Auburn Hills/Lake Orion/Oxford

Bloomfield Hills/Bloomfield Township/West Bloomfield

Clarkston/White Lake

Clinton Twp/Harrison Twp/Warren/Centerline

Commerce/Walled Lake

Detroit

Dearborn/Dearborn Heights/Westland/Garden City

Downriver (includes Lincoln Park, Melvindale, Riverview, Wyandotte, Flat Rock, Taylor)

Farmington/Farmington hills

Ferndale (includes Oak Park, Huntington Woods, Berkley)

Livonia/Plymouth/Canton

Novi/Wixom

Macomb, Shelby Twp and Washington Twp.

Roseville/Eastpointe/Fraser

Royal Oak/Birmingham/Berkley/Clawson

South Lyon/Milford/Brighton/Howell

Southfield/Redford

Troy/Rochester/Rochester Hills

We hope this will be an opportunity for you and your kids to make some new friends and connections in our community! In order to stay up-to-date on ALL the connection opportunities Detroit Moms Blog offers, “like” our Facebook page, and follow us on Twitter (@detroitmomsblog), Instagram(@detroitmomsblog), and Pinterest! We look forward to hearing from you!!

Embracing Change: Goodbye Only Child

By

Danielle S

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October 23, 2016

A few months ago I saw a picture while scrolling through Facebook. Perhaps you saw it. The picture showed a pregnant woman in what appeared to be a hospital embracing a young child who was sitting on her baby bump. Intrigued I clicked on the article to read what it was all about. The woman in the picture was indeed in the hospital, preparing to be induced. The child was her first born, and her photographer captured the moment of the mother saying goodbye to her child. It went on to explain how heartbreaking it is to say goodbye to that only child status. While it was a very touching moment, it made me stop and think.

Wait.

Does everyone feel like that? Does everyone feel so overwhelmingly sad? Was there something wrong with me that I didn’t feel like this?
When we welcomed our second daughter, Autumn, I don’t remember being sad that my first, Annabelle, wouldn’t be an only child. Don’t get me wrong, I knew that it would be a huge change, but I was overjoyed that Annabelle was getting a sibling.

As an only child I always knew that I wanted a big family, so sadness was not a major emotion I remember feeling. Was I curious how our lives would change? Of course. Was I worried how Annabelle would handle sharing her mom? I would be lying if I said I wasn’t. But, did I feel an incredible sadness that Annabelle would no longer be an only child? Nope.

When we brought Autumn home from the hospital, it was a change, but Annabelle was a champ. She loved on her sister like no ones business. If Autumn cried, she was the first to say “Autumn crying. Pick her up!” She showed Autumn toys, and helped me whenever possible. As Autumn grows it is obvious Annabelle still loves “her Autumn” (well maybe not quite as much when she touch’s Annabelle’s toys). Plus, as much as Annabelle loves Autumn, Autumn simply adores her sister. The look on her face when she spies Annabelle is one of pure joy. I love watching their relationship grow and strengthen, and can’t wait for what the future holds (although with how much Autumn already steels her sister’s shoes, I’m a bit worried as well).

Seeing the love they share is why I think I was never sad that Annabelle wasn’t going to be an only child any longer. Why instead of sadness, I felt joy.

What about you? How did you feel when you added a second or third child to your family?

I Used To Judge Your Mommy Skills.

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Meredith Weston-Backaitis

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October 20, 2016

I remember when my first son Charlie was two weeks old. My husband and I had taken him out to a nice little Italian restaurant. Charlie, being a normal newborn was in a milk coma and sleeping peacefully in his car seat. Two tables down, a couple was wrangling an impatient two-year-old. He was whining, not sitting still and making a scene. I smugly looked down at my little angle and thought: “We are really good parents. Our child would never act like that. He’s being so quiet and sweet.”

I’m not kidding. I honestly thought because of my superior parenting skills, my two-week-old was ‘behaving’ in a restaurant.

My 'perfect' angles. — My ‘perfect’ angels.

I was horrified when my friend bought her three-year-old a personal electronic device for Christmas. Why wouldn’t they choose to read books to them? I read to my infant several books a day. They must not care as much as I do about my child.

And don’t get me started about sugar for babies. Pure poison. I actually shuttered at a play date when my friend gave her eight-month-old daughter a tiny taste of frosting on a cupcake. How could she do that to her child? She must not be as good of a parent I was.

I didn’t judge other parents purposfully. I had just been force-fed through parenting books, parenting classes, parenting blogs and everything else I was supposed to be reading that there was a certain (i.e. right) way to raise your children. If you didn’t they will probably grow up to be dumb, overweight and most likely be in jail by they time they turn eighteen.

Let me fast forward several years and add in another little boy. Charlie, now four, has his own kids Kindle and head phones. It makes road trips a magical time. I can read a magazine and my husband can listen to a podcast. Everyone is happy. He still has to ask permission to use it and we monitor closely what he watches.

My one-year-old, Henry, LOVES ice cream. Whoops. I just can’t bear to watch him look at his big brother with puppy dog eyes as he enjoys a scoop of chocolate ice cream after dinner.

We still go to restaurants. But, we pick wisely and eat quickly. And, often kids Kindles and iPhones will be brought out, so my husband and I can enjoy ten minutes of conversation. My rule is, if the restaurant has high chairs it’s fair game.

So to all the moms I used to roll my eyes at and audibly gasp at (not kidding- I wanted you to hear my disgust in your poor parenting), I’m sorry. As I’ve learned the hard way this is not an easy job. Most of us don’t have the money, time or energy to be as perfect as all those blogs and books want us to be. As much as I thought I wanted to be that perfect blog-like mommy, I realized that it does not make me happy.

Yeah, I’ll be the first one to admit I’ll make my family pose for thirty takes to get that perfect Facebook picture and I still try to feed my kids healthy homemade foods most days, but some days I’m getting by on three hours of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and cereal for dinner.

It’s all about balance, right?