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Ultimate Holiday Guide :: In + Around Detroit

With so many fun and festive events going on in
Metro-Detroit, we are so excited to feature all of the upcoming holiday events In + Around the “D” on Detroit Moms Blog! 

Holiday Lights

 

Auburn Hills Tree Lighting | Auburn Hills

Friday, December 4, 6:00 p.m.

At the corner of Auburn and Squirrel roads, downtown Auburn Hills

Free | This Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony is sure to dazzle the downtown area of Auburn Hills. Enjoy a joyous festival centered around the arrival of Santa Claus, Mrs. Claus and lighting an enormous Christmas tree. Your child can write a letter to Santa and send it to the North Pole by dropping it into Santa’s mail box. Bundle up and take a ride through downtown on a horse drawn carriage. Take the time to send a special note to a soldier and donate hats, scarves and gloves to local charities in need.

Holiday Lights Parade | Berkley

Saturday, December 5,  5:30 p.m.

Free | The celebration starts with free vintage Trolley Rides from 1 – 5 p.m. also enjoy special activities and holiday treats at your favorite Berkley stores and restaurants.  Carolers, snow princess and other entertainment with free hot chocolate near some of the trolley stops.  There will be a petting zoo at 2 pm at 12 Mile Road and Tyler.  The tree lighting ceremony kicks off at 5:30 with a visit from Santa.  The evening is complete with Horse-Drawn Carriage Rides (corner of Rosemont & Coolidge). Ticket charge per person/family rate available.  

Annual Tree Lighting Celebration | Canton

Wednesday, December 2, 6:00 – 8:30 pm

$5 per family | Along with a visit from Santa the Tree Lighting Festivities include seasonal entertainment, holiday themed crafts and activities! Located at Summit on the Park

Tree Lighting Ceremony | Chelsea

Friday, December 4, 6:00 p.m.

Free | The Rotary Club will kick off this event with a re-dedication of the Pierce Park Gazebo, built by the Chelsea Rotary Club 25 years ago. Sounds of the holiday season will be performed by members of the Chelsea High School Choir  followed by the Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony and a visit from the 2014 Chelsea Fair Queen.  Don’t forget the big guy in the red suit: Santa will arrive by Chelsea firetruck!

Holiday Lights Night + Parade  | Clarkston

Saturday, December 12, 6:00 p.m.

Depot Park, 375 Depot Road, Downtown Clarkston

Free | Kick off the holiday season with the annual Holiday Lights Night! After the parade, join Santa and his reindeer in lighting the tree at Depot Park while enjoying complimentary Kona coffee & Kona Kocoa. Hot dogs, roasted almonds and baked goods available are for purchase as well. Drop off a letter to Santa, visit the live reindeer, and take a photo in front of the glittering tree.

Christmas Aglow | Clinton Township

Saturday, December 5, 6:00 p.m.

Clinton Township Parks and Recreation, Township Gazebo, 40700 Romeo Plank Rd

Free | Kick off the holiday season with this long standing tradition in Clinton Township. Join everyone in the Township Gazebo to see Santa arrive on a fire truck. Visit Candy Can Trail to receive some goodies.

Tree Lighting + Sing-Along | Dearborn

Monday, December 7, 6:00 p.m. – 9:30 p.m.

Ford Community & Performing Arts Center, 15801 Michigan Ave.

Free | This annual Christmas tree lighting and sing-along event will feature visits with Santa and the lighting of the City Christmas tree!

Holiday Nights at Greenfield Village | Dearborn

Friday – Sunday, December 4 – 6, 6:30 – 10:00 p.m. | Friday – Sunday, December 11 – 13, 6:30 – 10:00 p.m. | Thursday – Wednesday, December 17 – 23, 6:30 – 10:00 p.m. | Saturday – Monday, December 26 – 28, 6:30 – 10:00 p.m.

Greenfield Village, 20900 Oakwood Blvd.

Cost – $24/adults, $18/kids ages 5 -12, free/ages 4 and under | Take a night to walk the lantern-lit paths, admire costumed presenters, and watch a  spectacular fireworks display that will leave you in the Christmas spirit. Step into the past with everything from the sound of carolers, the scent of roasting chestnuts to the jingle jangle of sleigh bells. What child doesn’t love watching/riding horse drawn wagons and Model T cars? Come enjoy an event voted the Top Holiday Event by USA Today and Reader’s Digest.

Menorah in the D | Detroit

December 6th, 3 – 8 pm

Campus Martius, Detroit

Menorah in the D is a community-wide menorah lighting event in downtown Detroit taking place this Chanukah.  This event is full of inspiration and pride for our entire community and local Jewish families throughout Metro-Detroit. The 26 ft Menorah was designed and built by artists Erik & Israel Nordin of the Detroit Design Center in Corktown.  Enjoy a concert with the Soul Farm Band along with lots of family fun including strolling jugglers and acrobats, roasting marshmallows, pose with the Detroit Mascot Paws, as well as a free food court serving traditional Chanukah doughnuts called sufganiot, hot soup bar, hot apple cider, snacks and lots more! 

Tree Lighting | Farmington

Saturday, December 5, Immediately following the parade

Governor Warner’s Mansion

During Holly Days at the Governor Warner Mansion you’ll enjoy watching the tree-lighting celebration to kick off the holiday season in Farmington. Enjoy listening to carolers and sampling freshly baked cookies while sipping hot chocolate, yum!!!

Tree Lighting | Fraser

Saturday, December 5th, 5:30 p.m.

This event will kick off the holiday season with caroling and your favorite Christmas music, a visit from Santa, holiday treats, and the iconic tree lighting ceremony. 

Tree Lighting Ceremony + Holiday Open House | Lake Orion

Saturday, December 5th, 5 p.m.

Downtown Lake Orion

Enjoy this community event with your family followed by the annual lighted parade at 6:00 p.m. in Downtown Lake Orion.

Tree Lighting + Caroling Ceremony Livonia

December 1, 7:00 p.m.

Located at the Livonia City Hall and Civic Center Library. 

This community event features Santa, holiday crafts, magic show and drinks.

Tree Lighting + Afterglow | Macomb Township

December 1, 7:00 p.m., 6:30 – 8:00 p.m.

Holiday Tree Lighting | Madison Heights

Monday, November 23, 6:30

Civic Center Plaza, City Hall, 300 W. 13 Mile Road, Madison Heights

Free | The Mayor will welcome Santa and present him with the key to the city. Watch as Santa and Mrs. Claus turn on the holiday lights for city to see. Come enjoy cookies + cocoa while listening to your favorite holiday music.

Light Up the Night | Novi

Friday, December 4, 6:00 – 9:00 p.m.

Novi Civic Center, 45175 Ten Mile Road

Free | Come enjoy an evening of fun roasting marshmallows, ice sculptures, live reindeer, train rides (behind the Civic Center) and FREE refreshments. Don’t miss an appearance by our favorite {jolly} guy, Santa and the main tree lighting event happening at 6:15 p.m. If you want to warm up, step inside to do a little shopping at the craft show. There is something for everyone at this event.

Walk of Trees | Downtown Plymouth

November 20 – January 1  | 24/7

Kellogg Park, Plymouth

Free | Bring the family to walk quaint Kellogg Park in downtown Plymouth. Approximately 75 trees have been decorated by the local businesses, clubs and families for your viewing pleasure. This exhibit is lit 24 hours from the Saturday after Thanksgiving until Christmas. So bundle up your family and start a new family tradition!

Heritage Holidays  | Ray Township

Friday and Saturday evenings, December 5 & 6, 12 & 13, 19 & 20, 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.

Wolcott Mill Metropark Historic Center, 64000 Knustman Road, Ray 48096

This special celebration is something the whole family is sure to love. You can enjoy a stroll through the park admiring all of the holiday decorations and twinkling lights. Stop by and visit Santa in the mill and make a festive holiday craft. Don’t forget your blankets to snuggle up with while riding a horse-drawn wagon. Warm up with a delicious cup of hot chocolate by the bonfire. Ready to make a holiday memory with your loved ones?

 The Big, Bright Light Show | Rochester

{Debut} November 23th – January 3rd, all weekends in January

You are invited to brighten your holidays in downtown Rochester with The Big, Bright Light Show, celebrating its 10th Anniversary! The buildings in downtown Rochester will be covered with more than 1 million points of glimmering holiday light. As a BONUS, the lights will continue through all weekends in January, through the Fire & Ice Festival.

Gibraltar Christmas Parade, Tree Lighting + Kids Christmas Party | Rockwood

Saturday, December 5, Parade starting at 5:30 p.m.

Starting at City Hall and ending at the Community Center 

The Beautification and Recreation Commission will be hosting their annual Christmas Parade, Tree Lighting and Christmas Party party for the kids. 

Tree Lighting + Holiday Party | Romeo

Friday, December 4, 7:00 p.m. – 9 p.m.

Main Street to Romeo Village Park  

Free |Kick off the official Christmas Season with the annual tree lighting at Romeo Village Park. Immediately following, the Washington Lions invite you to attend a Christmas party including visits with Santa, hot dogs, refreshments and entertainment.

Tree Lighting Ceremony | Royal Oak

Thursday, December 3, 6:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.

Outside of the Farmer’s Market

Free | Royal Oak’s Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony will include caroling, refreshments, and a special visit from Santa! Hot dogs, hot chocolate & coffee are complimentary. The Farmer’s Market will be also be hosting the Holiday Magic Marketplace, featuring over 60 local artisans and crafters, starting at 4:00 p.m.

Wild Lights at the Detroit Zoo Royal Oak

For 24 Nights| November 20–22 + 27–29 and December 4-6, 11-13, 18-23 + 26-31 | 5:30 – 9 p.m.

Experience the magic of the Detroit Zoo lit up with more than five million LED lights illuminating trees, buildings and more than 100 animal sculptures. There will be live entertainment, arts and crafts, ice craving, holiday train displays and an exhibit featuring the Wildlife Photographer of the Year. Seasonal refreshments (wonderfully delicious hot chocolate) will be available for purchase. Photos with Santa “Paws” will be available for purchase until December 23rd. Advance purchase per person/$9, at the gate for ages 2 and up/$11 – purchase tickets here. Parking per car/$6

Saline Tree Lighting Ceremony | Saline

Tuesday, December 1, 7:00 p.m.

In Front of Key Bank, corner of Michigan Ave. and North Ann Arbor Street

Free | This tree lighting ceremony will bring joy to all with a Christmas Carol sing-a-long, hot chocolate to warm your soul, and delicious cookies. 

Christmas Aglow Tree Lighting | Shelby Township

Thursday, December 3, 7:00 p.m.

Shelby Township Municipal Grounds

Free | Christmas Aglow is one of the oldest and largest events in Shelby Township.  Santa will light the town tree, and then make his way to the historic Hope Chapel where he will join Mrs. Claus to hear the children’s holiday wish lists. There will be arts & crafts for the kids and horse-drawn carriage rides. The Shelby Township Lions Club will provide coffee & cookies. Don’t forget to stop by the campfire to warm up and roast marshmallows. The Eisenhower High School Choir will perform.

A Sterling Christmas | Sterling Heights

Saturday, December 5, 5:45 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.

Recreation Center/Dodge Park, 40620 Utica Road, Sterling Heights

Free | This family fun holiday event – in its 39th year – is filled with caroling and holiday music,  horse-drawn carriage rides, wagon + pony rides, a petting farm, campfires, the annual tree lighting ceremony, refreshments and more!

Christmas Tree Lighting + Holiday Sing-Along | Taylor

Wednesday, December 9, 6:30 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.

Taylor Conservatory on Northline Road, east of Pardee Road, next to Heritage ark Petting Farm 

Free | You’ll love this old-fashioned Christmas tree light ceremony that will light up a 20-foot Christmas Tree under the conservatory dome.  Enjoy singing your favorite Christmas songs inside the Petting Farm Visitors center while sipping on hot cocoa and cider. 

City of Troy Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony | Troy

Wednesday, December 2, 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.

City Hall

Free | Begin this event with your favorite Christmas carols led by Athens High School Choir. Genisys Credit Union will be providing sweet treats and hot cocoa to all. Santa will make his grand entrance with the help of Troy High Colt Drumline. Make sure you bundle up and join him for the annual Christmas tree Lighting. 

Tree Lighting Ceremony | Warren

Saturday, December 5, 5:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.

City Square

Free | You’ll enjoy a day of ice skating absolutely free! If you don’t have skates, don’t worry – rent them for $3. Stop by the petting zoo to see your favorite animals. Photos with Santa and see live reindeer with your own two eyes. Other activities include an ornament give-a-way, caroling, horse-drawn carriage rides, stage entertainment and hot chocolate to warm up. If you’re stopping to see Santa, please support the Salvation Army and bring a canned food item. 

Waterford Tree Lighting + Santa Celebration | Waterford

Tuesday, December 1, 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. 

Waterford Town Hall
5200 Civic Center Drive, Waterford

Free |  Grab a non-perishable food item or unwrapped toy and head down to Waterford Township Hall. Get ready for cookie decorating, visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus, children’s crafts and performances by Waterford Mott Jazz band and Pontiac-Waterford Big Chief Chorus. Refreshments will be sold.

Holiday Fest + Mill Lighting | Westland

Saturday, December 12, 4:00 – 6:00 p.m.

$3/adults, $6/children, 3 & under Free |  This 28th annual Annual Mill Lighting will add more lights to the already beautiful and festive Hines Drive. From 4:00 p.m. to 5:15 p.m. children can make holiday crafts and play games with prizes. Families can participate in holiday games such as “Fruitcake Bowling”, “Candy Cane Scavenger Hunt”, and “Reindeer Antler Wreath Toss”. You can visit Santa Claus. during the Nankin Mills Traditional Mill Lighting and Sing-A-Long.

33175 Ann Arbor Trail, Westland

**No Strollers Please**

*Registration required! Call 734.261.1990 for more information. Limited spots available. 

 Wayne County Lightfest | Westland

November 19st – December 31st (closed December 25th!) | 7 – 10:00 pm (Monday thru Thursday) 6:00 – 10:00 pm (Friday thru Sunday)

$5 a vehicle. Enjoy this drive through an animated holiday lighting display along Hines Drive, featuring more than 1 million lights!  Visit Santa’s Workshop at the end of Warrendale Park starting November 19th until December 23rd.  Don’t forget to bring your letter to Santa, you can drop it in the giant mailbox!

Wixom Tree Lighting  | Wixom

Friday, December 4, 6:15 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.

49015 Pontiac Trail, Wixom 

Free | Walled Lake Western’s Band will kick off the holiday festivities.  Sing-a-long with the First Baptist Church as they sing your favorite Christmas carols. Don’t forget to visit Santa and his reindeer during this event. Light refreshments will be served. 

 

HolidayParades

 

Annual KindleFest + Children’s Lantern Parade | Ann Arbor

December 4th, Parade 6:30 p.m. {Festivities from 10 a.m. – midnight with the Outdoor Market from 6  – 10 p.m. Lanterns for sale, 4:00 p.m.}

Free | Kerrytown District’s annual outdoor holiday market featuring local and regional artists and farmers.  Selling hand-crafted holiday goods and unique holiday gifts.  Enjoy live music and fire pits to keep you warm.  Along with a warming tent, s’more roasting and a Lantern Parade in the Kerrytown neighborhood.  Stores also feature Midnight Madness, open from 10 am to midnight! Bring your own lantern, or purchase one for $10 to have your child participate in illuminating the neighborhood.

Hometown Holiday Light Parade | Chelsea

Saturday, December 5, 6:00 p.m.

Free | The 11th annual parade, featuring dozens of lighted floats and vehicles, marching bands & Santa!

**NEW ROUTE: Parade starts at Chelsea State Bank’s south-end lot (corner of M52 and Old US12) and proceeds down Main St. to Jackson Street. The parade will end South of the Rail Road tracks at Jackson Street.

Holiday Lights Parade | Clarkston

Saturday, December 12, 6:00 p.m.

Starting at Renaissance High School/Community Education Building, 6558 Waldon Road, Clarkston, 48348

Free | This year’s theme is “Robots Invade the Holiday Parade”. Enjoy this event as it travels through downtown Clarkston. Tree Lighting & Santa visit immediately following at Depot Park. Please visit the above link for parade route and parking information.

Light Up the Grand | Farmington 

Saturday, December 5, 5:00 p.m.

Downtown; find your spot between Warner St. and Wilmarth St.

Free | Spectacular display of lights, music, dancing & floats. Follow Santa’s sleigh to the tree lighting!

*Canned goods will be collected by the Goodfellows along the parade route.

Santaland Parade | Garden City

Saturday, November 28, 10:00 a.m.

Starts at Garden City High School, 6500 Middlebelt Road, Garden City

Free | The 55th annual Santaland Parade! The theme is “Christmas in the Mitten”. Garden City resident and UofM Softball player Kelsey Susalla will serve as Grand Marshall. The parade route ends at the Garden City Town Center, where a post-parade event will be held for all!

Orion Area Lighted Parade | Lake Orion

Saturday, December 5, 6:00 p.m.

Downtown Lake Orion

Free | A community-wide event, taking place every year in the heart of Lake Orion. Floats and vehicles display brightly colored lights, marching bands feature holiday music, and community groups proudly march down the street. Santa joins the event in his sleigh! Fun for all ages.

Chamber Christmas Parade | Milan

Saturday, December 5, 6:00 p.m. {Festivities begin @4 p.m. in Tolan Square}

Downtown Milan

Free | Join thousands of spectators along Main and Wabash Streets for this annual event! This year’s theme is “Winter Wonderland”. Santa will ride into town on the Boogie Woogie Choo Choo Train, and will visit with children at the Milan Fire Station. Food vendors, a greens market and a firepit will be featured. Tree lighting to follow!

Huron Valley Annual Christmas Parade | Milford

Saturday, November 28, 10:00 a.m.

Downtown Milford

Free | The Huron Valley Annual Christmas Parade features more than 40 floats and attractions. Santa will cap off the event with a special message for all!

Holiday Extravaganza Parade | Pontiac

Saturday, December 5, 11:00 a.m. – 12 p.m.

Downtown Pontiac

Free | This event, in its 34th year, features professional Parade Company floats and over 100 of your favorite costumed characters! Marching bands, dancers, and fire trucks will be featured as well. Join in the fun from Cesar E. Chavez Avenue to the Pontiac City Square.

Hometown Christmas Parade | Rochester

Sunday, December 6, 2:00 p.m.

Downtown Rochester

Free | The largest Christmas parade in Michigan! This year’s theme is “The Sounds of Christmas”. Santa & Mrs. Claus will join in the fun, and will feature numerous activities in Santa’s Warming Tent.

*Free shuttle service available, beginning at 12:15 p.m. Please see above link for more details*

Holiday Parade | Saline

Saturday, December 5, 5:30 p.m.

Downtown Saline

Free | The 40th annual parade’s theme is “Sights and Sounds of Christmas”. 23 floats, 47 walking groups, 8 performing groups and 27 animals will be featured!

 

Holiday Festivities

 

Belle Isle Holiday Stroll | Belle Isle

Friday, December 11th, 2015, 5- 8p.m.

Free |Explore the Conservatory, Aquarium & Dossin Great Lakes Museum with family & friends! Enjoy holiday music, free mulled cider & Dutch Girl Donuts at the Conservatory, or cocoa cookies and crafts at the Dossin. *Bring a new teddy bear to donate to the Michigan State Police “Trooper Teddy” Program, or a new toy for “Toys for Tots”* An event for all ages!

Friendship Church Living Nativity| Canton

Sunday, December 13 at 4:30 pm – 8:30 pm

1240 N. Beck Rd, Canton, Corner of Beck and Saltz Roads

Free | The Living Nativity is a FREE event that is an outside guided walking tour that will transport you back to ancient Bethlehem and Jesus’ birth with costumed actors and with live animals. 

Christmas on the Waterloo Farm | Chelsea 

December 5th – 6th, Saturday 10:00 am – 4:00 pm | Sunday noon – 4 pm

Annual tours of the ten-room farmhouse, log house, Dewey School and other outbuildings.  Free refreshments and live music.  Located at Pierce Park.

Cost | $5 adults | $2 ages 5-12 | FREE 5 and under | no charge for Waterloo Area Historical Society members

Live Nativity & Community Advent Night | Clarkston

Clarkston United Methodist Church, 6600 Waldon, Clarkston

Wednesday, December 2nd 5:00 pm – 8:00 pm

Free| Dinner, petting zoo, Christmas carol sing-along, cookies & hot cocoa. All are welcome!

Christmas Story Express| Clarkston

Brigewood Church, 6765 Rattalee Lake Road, Clarkston

December 4th – 6th, 5:30 – 8:30 pm

Free|A drive-through narrated version of the Christmas story featuring over 150 live characters, animals and a beautiful light display. All are welcome.

Holidays in Henry Ford Museum | Dearborn

November 27th, 2015 – January 3rd, 2016 | Santa Hours 10 am – 4 pm Monday – Friday | 9:30 am – 5 pm Saturday + Sunday

This fantastic holiday event includes a giant Christmas tree, trains + Santa! 

Cost | $18 adults | $13.50 ages 5-12 | FREE 4 and under & members |$6 parking

Holidays Nights in Greenfield Village  | Dearborn

December 4-6, 11-13, 17-23 and 26-28th, 2015 | 6:30 – 10 pm

Your family is sure to enjoy a lantern lit walk through the village with live music, skating, fireworks, Santa with his reindeer and more!

Cost | $24 adults | $18 ages 5-12 | FREE 4 and under |$6 parking

Holiday Sunday Street Market | Eastern Market

Sundays: November 29th, December 6th & December 13th | 10:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.

Free | Your chance to SHOP LOCAL! Be sure to check out the sheds, district shops & new wall art throughout the Market.

Noel Nights | Midtown Detroit

Saturday, December 5, 2015: 5:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.

Free | Enjoy the 43rd annual Noel Night in Detroit’s Midtown District. There will be over 70 institutions, including the Detroit Institute of Arts, Detroit Public Library, Michigan Science Center and many more opening their doors for an evening filled with holiday fun! You’ll love the horse-drawn carriage rides, holiday shopping, activities for the whole family and performances by over 200-area music, theatre, and dance group. The list of performers is absolutely amazing! Click above for a complete list.

Round your evening out with a community sing-along on Woodward Avenue led by the Salvation Army Band {a long-standing Noel Night tradition}. 

Kwanzaa Celebration at the Wright Museum | Detroit

Saturday, December 26 – Thursday, December 31, 6:00 – 9:00 p.m.

Charles H. Wright Museum of African American History, 315 E. Warren Ave

Free | This annual event will bring four days of unique activities your whole family is bound to love! You can come indulge in the rich cultural heritage through storytelling, musical performances, and a Kwanzaa marketplace.

Campus Martius Park | Detroit

November 20 – January 2 : 11:00 a.m. – 10:00 p.m.

Who doesn’t love a skating rink right in the middle of downtown? A little Christmas gem!

Campus Martius is known as one of the best skating rinks in the Metro Detroit area and is sure to amaze you. Twinkling lights and a beautiful 60-foot Christmas tree surrounds the rink

It will be an absolutely magical experience for the whole family! Skate up to the Rink Side Bar to sip on a delicious beverage. From Monday to Thursday you can skate from 11:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. The hours are extended on Friday (11:00 a.m. to midnight) and Saturday (10:00 a.m. to midnight). Sunday you can skate from noon to 8:00 p.m. Admission prices: adults (13-49)/$8, child (12 and under)/$7, seniors (50 & older)/$7

If you don’t have your own skates, don’t worry – you can rents skates for $3. Don’t forget to snuggle up and enjoy a nostalgic carriage ride around Campus Martius, Friday through Sunday.

Holly Days | Farmington

Saturday, December 5, 10:00 – 6:00 p.m.

Downtown Farmington

Free | Enjoy the sweet sound of carolers while sampling freshly baked cookies while sipping delicious hot chocolate. You can bring your family to the historic Farmington Civic for a FREE viewing of two movies (surprise popular winter princess movie and Ice Age: A Mammoth Christmas). Make your way to Santa’s Headquarters (Baker’s Studio, 33316 Grand River) to tell Santa exactly what you want for Christmas and receive a free photo with him from 12:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m.

Christmas at Crossroads Holiday Magic  | Flint

November 27-29, December 4-6, 11-13, 18-20, 22, 23, 26-27, 29-30 (Drive through ONLY nights :: December 7, 14, 21, 24, 28) | 5 – 9 pm |Christmas Departures :: 5:00, 5:50, 6:40, 7:30 pm {additional trains available!} 

Crossroads Village & Huckleberry Railroad

Costumed villagers prepare for the holiday season in the Village.  The Colwell Opera House presents live entertainment and Santa Claus!  Featuring model trains, craft demos, holiday music and thousands of lights sparkle through the village and a nighttime train ride!

Cost | Village tickets $8 – $10, Combo Village + Train tickets $10 – $13

Journey to Bethlehem  | Grand Blanc

Friday-Sunday, December 11-13, 2015 | Friday, 6-8 p.m., Saturday & Sunday, 3-6 p.m.

Faith Lutheran Church, 12534 Holly Road, Grand Blanc, 48439

Free | This event – celebrating its 10th year – is a guided walk-through story of the first Christmas. Join shepherds and wise men, meet kings and prophets in the marketplace, witness the birth of Jesus, and stay for some cookies and treats!

Winter Wonderland at the Ford House Grosse Pointe Shores

December 4th, 5th, 11th, 12th, 18th, 19th, 26th, 2015 | 5 – 8 pm

Edsel and Eleanor Ford House

$10, add $5 for a candlelight stroll through the house

Dickens Festival | Holly 

November 28th, 29th & December 5-6, 12-13

Free | Holly’s Victorian architecture comes alive in its 42nd annual Dickens Festival.  Featuring Characters from Dickens’ Novels, music from the Festival Singers, crafts and pictures with Santa!

Winter Fantasyland | Lincoln Park

November 25, 2015 – December 24, 2015 | Wednesday – Friday, 4 – 8 p.m. Saturday – Sunday, 2 – 8 p.m.

*December 24, 10 a.m. – 2 p.m.

$1 Admission  

Lincoln Park Bandshell, 3240 Ferris Ave, Lincoln Park

The Greenmead Historical Park Livonia

Livonia Christmas Walk | December 5, 2015 | 10:00 am – 4:00 pm 27th annual Christmas Walk along with the Simmons/Hill House at Greenmead tour 5 homes within Livonia.  Advance tickets are $9, on the day of the event $10.

Christmas Tea at Blue House | December 12, 2015 | 3:00 pm – 5:00 pm | Advance tickets $25

A Visit with Santa| December 6th | 1:00 pm – 4:00 pm | $3 Adult + $2 Children

Crocker House Museum |  Mount Clemens

Victorian Christmas Wassail & Bazaar | December 13th, 2015 | 12: 15 p.m. or 3:15 p.m. | Tickets $25/$30 |*reservations required

Create a Christmas Memory: Art, Trains & History in Mt. Clemens | December 6th, 2015 | 1 p.m. – 4 p.m. |Entrance fee at each location visited: Anton Art Center, Crocker House Museum & the Mount Clemens Depot.

Christmas Carols & Afternoon Tea | December 20th, 2015 | 1 p.m. | Tickets $35/$40 |* reservations required

Holiday Walk at Meadow Brook Hall | Rochester

Friday, November 27 – Tuesday, December 23, 11:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.

Meadow Brook Hall, 480 South Adams Road, Rochester

Admission is $20 for adults and $5 for 17 & under. Children 2 and under are free. OU staff (with ID) pay $12 and OU students (with ID) pay $5.| Celebrate the 44th annual Holiday Walk in this 110-room Tudor-revival style mansion beautifully decorated with historic and holiday treasure. This is a National Historic Landmark you don’t want to miss seeing during the holiday season.

Extended Holiday Hours at the DIA | Detroit

Saturday December 26th – Wednesday December 30th |  10 a.m. – 7 p.m.

Detroit Institute of Arts
5200 Woodward Avenue, Detroit

Bring your family & friends to the DIA for extended holiday hours this season! Shop the Museum Shop, or see the “30 Americans” exhibit.

 

WinterFun

 

Ann Arbor Ice Cube Ann Arbor

2121 Oak Valley Drive

Open Skate

Monday, Wednesday, Friday – 6:00 a.m. – 7:50 a.m., 10:30 a.m. – 11:50 a.m. | Tuesday, Thursday – 10:30 a.m. – 11:50 a.m. | Saturday – 12:00 p.m. – 1:20 p.m., 5:30 p.m. – 6:50 p.m. | Sunday – 1:00 p.m. – 2:20 p.m.

Adults/$4, Children (12 & under) & Seniors/$3 | Skate rental $3

Birmingham Carriage Rides | Downtown Birmingham

Carriages load at the corner of Henrietta & Merrill

Weekends from November 25 – December 19, 2015

FREE

Mt. Brighton | Brighton

Ski and Snowboard Season Open now!

Be sure to check snow conditions + lift status before you head out!  | Weekdays :: 10 am – close | Weekends :: 9 am – close

$27-$61 lift tickets | Rentals available | Check current rates here. | Ask for Pre-season rates if it is still early!

Artic Edge Ice Arena  | Canton

46615 Michigan Ave.

Open Skate

Check here for schedule

Adults/$5, kids (ages 14 and under)/$3 | Skate rental/$3

Artic Coliseum Arena | Chelsea

 501 Coliseum Drive

Click here for 2015-16 hours – the hours vary day-to-day

Weekends & non-school days: adults/$5, kids (under age 14)/$4 | Mondays – Fridays (when school is in session): adults & kids/$3 | Skate rental – $3

Pine Knob | Clarkston

Ski and Snowboard Season Open!

Be sure to check snow conditions + lift status before heading out to the powdery hills! | Weekdays :: 10 am – 10 pm | Weekends :: 9 am – 11 pm

$24-$55 lift tickets | Rentals available | Check current rates here. | Ask for Pre-season rates if it is still early!

Ice Skating at Campus Martius | Detroit

Campus Martius Park was designed to be the central square of Detroit.  During the winter months the offers a venue for ice skating, and the nearby cafe offers hot chocolate to keep Detroiters warm and toasty.  The rink opens officially after the Tree-Lighting Ceremony.

Ice Skating Season November 21, 2014– January 3, 2015 | See Schedule HERE

Adults (13-49 years) $8 | Child (12 & under) $7 | Seniors (50 & older) $7 | Skate Rental $3 | Shoe Check available for people with their own skates $2 | Skate Sharpening $5 | Monthly Skate Pass $30

Riley Park Ice Rink | Downtown Farmington

Outdoor skating this winter in Downtown Farmington! FREE to the public!  They encourage a little donation, there is a secure donation box on site. 

Open Daily, Weather Permitting | 8:30 am – 10 pm Sunday – Thursday | 8:30 am – 11 pm Friday + Saturday

FREE

Mt. Holly | Holly

Ski and Snowboard Season Open!

Be sure to check snow conditions + lift status before heading out to the powdery hills!  | Weekdays :: 10 am – 10 pm | Weekends :: 9 am – 11 pm

$27-$55 lift tickets | Rentals available | Check current rates here. | Ask for Pre-season rates if it is still early!

Anton Art Center Christmas Market Mount Clemens

Shop for unique gifts my Michigan artists, and check out the decorated trees

Sundays November 13th thru December 20th | 10 am – 5 pm Tuesdays – Thursdays and Saturdays | 10 am – 6 pm Fridays | noon to 4 pm Sundays

FREE

Lakeland Hockey Arena  Waterford

7330 Highland Road

Public Skating. Please click here for daily schedule.

$4/person with skate rental available

Alpine Valley Ski Area  White Lake

Ski and Snowboard Season Open!

Be sure to check snow conditions + lift status before heading out to the powdery hills!  | Weekdays :: 10 am – 10 pm | Weekends :: 9 am – 11 pm

$34-$50 lift tickets | Rentals available | Check current rates here. | Ask for Pre-season rates if it is still early! 

 

VisitwithSanta

 

Cookies with Santa | Shelby Township

December 12th | 10 am – 12 pm

Childtime Center, 5959 24 Mile Rd, Shelby Township

Get a photo taken with Santa by Wildflower Photography, hang with the Snow Queen and her lovely sister, enjoy delicious snowflake cookies + coffee (for mom and dad) and hot chocolate bar + snacks, write a letter to Santa, make ornaments, facepainting and more… Purchase tickets here

Santa Visits Kerrytown | Ann Arbor

December 5th, 12th + 19th | 10 am – 2 pm

407 N. Fifth Ave, Ann Arbor 

Briarwood Mall | Ann Arbor

Thru December 24, Santa’s hours here!

Make your appointment online now!

100 Briarwood Circle, Ann Arbor

Santa’s Wonderland| Bass Pro Shops, Great Lakes Crossing

4500 Baldwin Road, Auburn Hills

November 15 – December 24, 2015 | see schedule here

FREE photos, games, crafts, carousel rides & more!

Birmingham Santa House  | Downtown Birmingham

November 25 – December 24, 2015 | Weekends, see hours online

$5 donation

Pavilion of Shain Park, West of Birmingham City Hall, 151 Martin Street 

Stars & Stripes Kids Activity Center |Clarkston

4630 White Lake Road, Clarkston

December 5th- 6th, 11th, 18th-19th | Call to register, space limited: 248/625-3547

“Visit With Santa Claus”: $33/family which includes unlimited pictures with Santa in a cozy, winter wonderland setting. Bring your letter for Santa to read, and receive reindeer food direct from the North Pole. All ages welcome. *Must pre-register*

Holidays in Henry Ford Museum | Dearborn

A giant Christmas tree, trains + Santa!

November 27th, 2015 – January 3rd 2016 | Santa Hours 10 am – 4 pm Monday – Friday | 9:30 am – 5 pm Saturday + Sunday

$20 adults | $15 ages 5-12 | FREE 4 and under

20900 Oakwood Blvd., Dearborn

Fairlane Mall  | Dearborn

Thru December 24, Santa’s hours online !

*Santa breaks from 1:00 p.m. – 2:00 p.m. and 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m.

18900 Michigan Ave., Dearborn

A Visit with Santa at the Greenmead Historical Park | Livonia

December 6, 2015 | 1:00 pm – 4:00 pm

$3 Adult | $2 Children

20501 Newburgh Rd., Livonia

Laurel Park Place | Livonia

Thru December 24 | Monday – Saturday: 10:00 a.m. – 9:00 p.m.  | Sunday: Noon – 6:00 p.m.

Check the website for scheduled breaks

37700 Six Mile Rd., Livonia

Santa Visits Maybury Farm | Northville 

Saturday & Sunday, December 5, 6, 12, 13, 19 and 20, 12:00 p.m. – 3:00 p.m.

Warm + Cozy Welcome Center, Maybury Farm, 50165 Eight Mile Road, Northville

Bring your cameras to take photos with Santa!

“Christmas Impossible”| Northville

Saturday & Sunday | December 5 – December 20

$17 Children | $20 Adults 

*Photos available with Santa after Children’s Lunch Theater

Genitti’s Hole in the Wall Theater 108 East Main Street, Northville

Santa’s Sleepy Storytime | Novi 

December 12, 2015, 6 – 7:30 p.m., Novi Civic Center

$5/person, must pre-register here

Twelve Oaks Mall | Novi 

Thru December 24, 2014, Holiday Mall Hours with breaks

{Ice Palace featuring Frozen} 

27500 Novi Road, Novi

Heritage Days at Wolcott Mill Historic Center  | Ray Township

Friday and Saturday evenings | December 4 & 5, 11 & 12, 18 & 19 | 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.

$5 Per Person

Wolcott Mill Metropark Historic Center, 64000 Knustman Road, Ray

Kris Kringle Market | Downtown Rochester

Friday, December 5, 4:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m., Saturday, December 6, noon – 10:00 p.m.

West Fourth Street between Walnut and Main streets, Rochester

The Village | Downtown Rochester Hills

View Santa’s Schedule here

Don’t forget your camera! You can get your own picture absolutely FREE!

104 N Adams Rd, Rochester Hills

Royal Oak Farmers Market | Royal Oak

Thursday, December 4, 4:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. | Santa to arrive around 6:15 p.m.

316 E. 11 Mile Rd., Royal Oak

Detroit Zoo | Royal Oak

Saturdays, December 5, 12 & 19 | 8:00 a.m. – 10:00 a.m.

Buffet style breakfast with Santa and a few of his animal friends

$25/30 Adult | $20/25 Children 14 and under 

8450 W. 10 Mile Road, Royal Oak

Lakeside Mall Sterling Heights

Thru December 24| Check here for hours

Lower Level in Center Court, 14000 Lakeside Circle, Sterling Heights

Oakland Mall | Troy

Thru December 23, Mondays – Sundays, 10:00 a.m. – 9:00 p.m.

*December 24, 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.

Make sure you check the times Santa takes a break!

Lower Level JCPenney, Oakland Mall, 412 W. 14 Mile Road, Troy

The Somerset Collection | Troy

Thru December 24, 2014, 8:00 a.m. (daily) until the mall closes

Holiday Hours

2800 W. Big Beaver, Troy

Waterford Tree Lighting | Waterford

Tuesday, December 1, 2015, 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 pm.

Waterford Town Hall, 5200 Civic Center Drive

Westland Shopping Center | Westland

Thru December 24, 2014

One hour after the mall open to one hour before the mall closes.

Mall hours here

Check out the Santa Fast pass here!

 

DinewithSanta

 

Rainforest Café | Auburn Hills

Saturday, December 12th & 19th

4310 Baldwin Road, Auburn Hills 

6th Annual Lunch with Santa at Antonio’s | Canton & Dearborn

December 5th & 6th (Canton), December 13th (Dearborn Heights) | Two seatings: 11:00 a.m. & 1:00 p.m.

2220 N. Canton Center Rd. or 26356 Ford Rd., Dearborn Heights

Breakfast with Santa at Comfort Inn + Village Conference Center  | Chelsea

Festivities include seasonal entertainment and Santa arrives on a fire engine!  Luminaries on Main Street, visit with Santa and Santa’s Workshop, Live Nativity Scene with live animals and Christmas choir, Common Chords Concert, cookie decoration and story telling!

December 5,  2015

8:30 am – 10:30 pm

FREE

Holiday Nights Supper with Santa Package at Greenfield Village Dearborn

Following your horse-drawn wagon ride to a A Taste of History Restaurant, enjoy a festive family buffet with a visit from Santa.  Followed by Holiday Nights through the Village.

December 4-6, 11-13 + 17-23rd, 2015

4:45 – 6:30 pm dinner | 6:30 – 10 pm

Starting at $48 adults | $33.75 ages 5-12 | $15, 4 and under

20900 Oakwood Boulevard, Dearborn

Saturday Santa Brunch at The Whitney Detroit

Saturday, December 5th & 12th at 10:00 a.m.

Adults $29 | 10 and under $19

4421 Woodward Ave, Detroit

Brunch with Santa at the “Snake” | Detroit

Sunday, December 13th at 11:00 a.m. – 2:0 p.m.

Adult $35 | 12 -4yr. $15 |under 4, FREE


Rattlesnake Club
300 River Place Dr. Detroit 

Adams/Butzel Complex Jack Adams Ice Arena | Detroit

December 12th -13th at 9:30 a.m.

$8/person which includes letter to Santa, craft, face painting, ice skating & more.

Kulick Community Center Ferndale

Saturday, December 5, 9:30 a.m. – 11:30 a.m.

1201 Livernois

Register by calling 248.544.6767

Breakfast with Santa at Grosse Point War Memorial Grosse Point

December 6, 12 & 13 | 10:30 a.m. – noon

Per person $20

32 Lakeshore Drive

Make sure you register here. 

Howell Conference & Nature Center | Howell

Saturday, December 5, 6, 12, 19 & 20 at 9:00 a.m. & 11:00 a.m.

Adults/$8, kids/$6, children 2 and under/FREE

1005 Triangle Lake Road

Breakfast with Santa at Canterbury Village | Lake Orion

November 29th, December 5th, 13th, 20th, 2015

Register ASAP: 248/391-1900 | $15.95/adults, $10.95/kids under 11, 2 & under: FREE

Thomas Dining Livonia

December 12-13th | seating times begin at 9 a.m.

Sacred Heart Banquet & Conference Center

Child (3-11yrs) $15 | Adult (12 & older) $17 | two and under FREE

Click here for reservations, space is limited

29125 W. Six Mile Road

Dave & Buster’s Breakfast with Santa| Livonia

Saturday, December 19, 8:00 a.m.

19375 Victor Pkwy

Call 734.452.4608 for tickets!

Pancake Breakfast with Santa New Baltimore

New Baltimore Fire Department

Sunday, November 29th at 8:00 a.m.

36535 Green St.

Breakfast with Santa at Macy’s {Twelve Oaks Mall} | Novi

December 5 – 20, weekends only, 9:00 a.m.

27550 Novi Road

Adults $21.95 | Kids (under 10) $14.95 | Under 1 Free

Dinner with Santa at Macy’s {Twelve Oaks Mall} | Novi

December 17th, 6 p.m.

27550 Novi Road

Adults $24.95 | Kids (under 10)  $15.95 | under 1 Free

Annual Brunch with Santa at Boulder Pointe Golf Club Oxford

Sunday, December 13th at 10:00 a.m.

Adults $17.95 | ages 10 to 4 $12.95 | 4 and under FREE

Dinner with Santa at Wild Lights | Royal Oak

December 18th – 19th, 2015 | 6 – 7:30 p.m. |$39/adults (15 & up), $34/children

Detroit Zoo

Celebrate the season with a feast in the Wildlife Interpretive Gallery. The buffet-style dinner includes a special gift for each child, arts & crafts, storytime and a visit from Santa. Admission to Wild Lights included as well. Tickets required, seating limited.

Breakfast with Santa | Shelby Township

Saturday, December 5 at 9:30 a.m. and 11:30 a.m.

51670 Van Dyke, 1 light north of 23 Mile Road

Resident $7| Non-resident $14

Bring your camera and wish list!

Macy’s – Lakeside Sterling Heights

December 12-13, 19- 20 at 9:00 a.m.

 14200 Lakeside Circle

Adults $21.95 | Kids (under 10) $14.95 | under 1 Free

Macy’s Somerset Collection | Troy

December 5-6th, 13th & 20th at 9:00 a.m. 

2750 W. Big Beaver Road

Adults $21.95 | Kids (under 10) $14.95 | under 1 Free

 Macy’s – Oakland Mall  | Troy

December 13th at 9:00 a.m.

500 West 14 Mile Road

Adults $21.95 | Kids (under 10) $14.95 | under 1 Free

Breakfast with Santa – Granite City | Troy

Sunday, December 13, 10:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.

699 West Big Beaver Road

Reservations suggested. 

Dave & Buster’sUtica

Saturday, December 13, 10:00 a.m.

45511 Park Avenue

Adults $12.99 | Child $17.99 (includes $5 power cord)

Wixom Community Center  | Wixom

Saturday, December 13th at 8:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m.

For children under 10 years old (Wixom residents only) 

Registration deadline is December 3.

 

Christmas Tree Farms

 

Braun’s Tree Farm | Ann Arbor | 796 Warren Road | F-Sun – 10 a.m. – dark

Lodi Farms | Ann Arbor | 2880 South Wagner Road | M-F 9  a.m. – 6 p.m., Sat. 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Blake Farms Orchard + Cider Mill | Armada | 17985 Armada Center Road | 8 a.m. – 5:30 p.m. (daily)

Urquhart’s Tree Farm | Chelsea | 10050 Jerusalem Road |  Wed. + Thurs. 3 – 5 p.m, Fri. noon-5 p.m., Sat. + Sun. 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Hodgson Tree Farm | Clarkston | 5461 Whipple Lake Road | Weekdays by appointment, Weekends 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Ratalee Lake Tree Farm | Clarkston | 7650 Ratalee Lake Road | Daily 10 a.m. – dark

Runyan’s Tree Farm | Clio | 10235 N. Webster Road | Weds – Fri – 9 a.m. – dark

Westman’s Tree Farm | Dexter | 8000 Chamberlin Road | Mon-Thurs – 3:30 – dark, Fri – Sat – 9 a.m. – dark

Top Hill Farms | Goodrich | 5767 Fox Lake Road | Weekdays – 1 – 5 p.m., Weekends – 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Arend Tree Farms | Grass Lake (village) | 3512 Notten Road | 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (daily)

Middle Road Tree Farm | Highland | 4235 Middle Road | 9 a.m. – 6 p.m. (daily)

Broadview Christmas Tree Farm | Highland | 4380 N. Hickory Ridge Road | Daily 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Middle Road Christmas Tree Farm | Highland | 4235 Middle Road | Daily 9 a.m. – 6 p.m.

Stanczyk Tree Farm | Holly | 7355 Fish Lake Road | Sat. + Sun. 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Trim Pines Farm | Holly | 4357 E. Baldwin Road | Check website

Cohoctah Meadow Tree Farms | Howell | 11450 Durand Road | Sat. + Sun. 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Huron Christmas Farm & Nursery | Huron Township | 32120 King Road | 9 a.m. – dark

Matthews Evergreen Farm | Ida | 13416 Lulu Road | 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. (daily)

Ryan’s Nursery | Ida | 7258 Jackmen Road | Weekdays – 3 p.m. – dark, Weekends – 9 a.m. – dark

Huron Christmas Tree Farm | New Boston | 32120 King Road | Daily 9 a.m. – dark

Addison Oaks Christmas Tree Farm | Oakland | 355 Lake George Road | Weekdays noon – 5 p.m., Weekends 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. 

Candy Cane Christmas Tree Farm | Oxford | 4780 Seymour Lake Road | 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Hillside Christmas Tree Farm | Tipton | 4714 Michigan Ave | Sat – Sun – 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.

 

We want to know, what are you planning on doing with the family this holiday season?

 

Transitioning to Solids: What You Should Know

I couldn’t wait for the day that my daughter began her transition from milk to solid food– to see the expressions of interest, excitement, even disgust. I couldn’t wait to watch my baby experience food, especially since it is something I love so much. But, I worried; I am a mother after all.  

I have read the news about childhood obesity, and childhood diabetes rates increasing in America. Then there are the more immediate concerns: allergies, choking, etc. You know the questions, I’m sure you’ve thought them too. The only thing I knew for sure is that every baby develops at slightly different rates, and has different preferences. On to the adventure of learning about my own baby.

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Baby Led Weaning (BLW)

I admit, I’m a crunchy mom. I’ve personally tried it all. I’ve been vegan, Paleo, even gluten free for a short time. So it shouldn’t be a surprise that I tried BLW first. “Baby Led Weaning, quite simply, means letting your child feed themselves from the very start of weaning,” according the site www.babyledweaning.com (which has lots of resources and tips.) I thought, “great! This is the most ‘natural’ approach, isn’t it? I mean people didn’t have high powered blenders 100 years ago, and their babies learned to eat!” What I had forgotten: my reasoning was the same I used when I began to eat Paleo. Neither experience lasted very long, because I hadn’t fully thought things through. I learned, through experience, what works with the lifestyle of my family.

This is how it went: One morning, at almost 6 months, my excitement to feed baby L was so great that I couldn’t wait any longer. I cooked a sweet potato, let it cool, and gave it to her in a chunk to gnaw on. ”Babies will not choke,” they said. “They will not eat a lot, but just gnaw to get the hang of things,” they said. Well, not my baby. She wanted sweet potato, and she wanted it in her belly, now! I quickly removed the chunk from her hands and mouth when she began gagging. I couldn’t wait to see if she was going to figure out how to fix it herself.

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Dr. Sears Method

I quickly re-analyzed the situation and went back to Google. Dr. Sears came up next. His baby-feeding technique involved mashing food, unlike BLW (but not to the extent of puree), and feeding baby with your own fingers, instead of using a spoon. 

This is how it went: I took the sweet potato and mashed it with the back of a fork, making a lumpy paste on the tray in front of her. I picked it up with my clean hands, and put it in her mouth. She looked disgusted. I watched in amazement, and tried giving her a little more. She was interested. After a few bites, she seemed to be enjoying herself. success! 

I tried the same approach, following the recommended 3-4 day waiting period before trying another food. In the same fashion, baby L has tried banana, peas, carrots, broccoli, avocado, peaches, pears and black beans and more.  As soon as she starts playing with the food, or looking around, I know meal time is over, which prevents most food-flinging.

Drawbacks:

  • Every day, for three meals, my baby is a huge mess! After buckling her in each meal, I put a tea towel over her lap and around her waist, snap on a bib, and roll up her sleeves. You see, rather than feeding with a spoon from a jar, most of the time, baby’s food is directly on her tray.
  • After each meal, I wipe off her hands, mouth, shirt, chair, tray, and sometimes floor and wall.  
  • I also have more time put into meal prep since I make the food myself, which means, of course…
  • More dishes– pots and pans, as well as food storage devices. 

 Benefits:

  • At 7.5 months old, baby L let me know that she was ready to take more control. She is beginning to feed herself avocado, pear and squash. Other foods are too messy, even for me, or too difficult for her to grasp and I continue to feed her with a spoon. But, I am so proud of her for the effort she puts in, and the independence she is gaining!
  • I haven’t priced everything out, but another positive factor is cost. This weekend I made broccoli and apple mix, which cost about $.32 per container.
  • I know that the food is fresh when cooked, and has the texture and flavor that I choose.
  • I can add spices or flavors when and where I find appropriate.
  • Finally, the other night, the whole family shared the same meal: sweet potatoes, black beans, avocado (plus seasoning and tortillas for the adults)!  Thus far, this approach is leading to an (crossing my fingers) easy transition to truly solid food. 

Jarred Baby Food

I was less than impressed when my pediatrician handed me a photocopied list of foods and food-types (from puree to food puffs) supplied to her by a well-known baby food/clothing company. I was skeptical. Of course the company wants me to buy their food from infant to toddler! On the other hand, the convenience is there. On a weekend away, I bought jarred food for the sake of convenience (pre-made, disposable, no refrigeration necessary, yes ma’am!). But, it was odd feeding baby L some of the same foods she is used to, in a near-liquid form. For me, that was a sign that I was indeed on the right track toward my own baby-feeding goals. 

What we ended up with: A little of everything.

I heartily admit that my baby-food-philosophy would be different if I was working outside of the home, or if money wasn’t an issue. But one thing I have a lot of is time, and the opposite is true for cash, so this is what works for me! I’ll be following up this post with some recipes and resources on baby food making and storage.

One thing I haven’t learned yet– how to get food stains out of clothes!

What works for you when feeding your little one? Do you wish you had done anything differently? I’d love to learn from your experiences!

Note the empty cereal bowl and full cup of coffee-- Momma's gotta eat too!
Note the empty cereal bowl and full cup of coffee– Momma’s gotta eat too!

2015 Holiday Lights In + Around the D

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Auburn Hills Tree Lighting | Auburn Hills

Friday, December 4, 6:00 p.m.

At the corner of Auburn and Squirrel roads, downtown Auburn Hills

Free | This Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony is sure to dazzle the downtown area of Auburn Hills. Enjoy a joyous festival centered around the arrival of Santa Claus, Mrs. Claus and lighting an enormous Christmas tree. Your child can write a letter to Santa and send it to the North Pole by dropping it into Santa’s mail box. Bundle up and take a ride through downtown on a horse drawn carriage. Take the time to send a special note to a soldier and donate hats, scarves and gloves to local charities in need.

Holiday Lights Parade | Berkley

Saturday, December 5, 5:30 p.m.

Free | The celebration starts with free vintage Trolley Rides from 1 – 5 p.m. also enjoy special activities and holiday treats at your favorite Berkley stores and restaurants. Carolers, snow princess and other entertainment with free hot chocolate near some of the trolley stops. There will be a petting zoo at 2 pm at 12 Mile Road and Tyler. The tree lighting ceremony kicks off at 5:30 with a visit from Santa. The evening is complete with Horse-Drawn Carriage Rides (corner of Rosemont & Coolidge). Ticket charge per person/family rate available.

Annual Tree Lighting Celebration | Canton

Wednesday, December 2, 6:00 – 8:30 pm

$5 per family | Along with a visit from Santa the Tree Lighting Festivities include seasonal entertainment, holiday themed crafts and activities! Located at Summit on the Park

Tree Lighting Ceremony | Chelsea

Friday, December 4, 6:00 p.m.

Free | The Rotary Club will kick off this event with a re-dedication of the Pierce Park Gazebo, built by the Chelsea Rotary Club 25 years ago. Sounds of the holiday season will be performed by members of the Chelsea High School Choir followed by the Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony and a visit from the 2014 Chelsea Fair Queen. Don’t forget the big guy in the red suit: Santa will arrive by Chelsea firetruck!

Holiday Lights Night + Parade | Clarkston

Saturday, December 12, 6:00 p.m.

Depot Park, 375 Depot Road, Downtown Clarkston

Free | Kick off the holiday season with the annual Holiday Lights Night! After the parade, join Santa and his reindeer in lighting the tree at Depot Park while enjoying complimentary Kona coffee & Kona Kocoa. Hot dogs, roasted almonds and baked goods available are for purchase as well. Drop off a letter to Santa, visit the live reindeer, and take a photo in front of the glittering tree.

Christmas Aglow | Clinton Township

Saturday, December 5, 6:00 p.m.

Clinton Township Parks and Recreation, Township Gazebo, 40700 Romeo Plank Rd

Free | Kick off the holiday season with this long standing tradition in Clinton Township. Join everyone in the Township Gazebo to see Santa arrive on a fire truck. Visit Candy Can Trail to receive some goodies.

Tree Lighting + Sing-Along | Dearborn

Monday, December 7, 6:00 p.m. – 9:30 p.m.

Ford Community & Performing Arts Center, 15801 Michigan Ave.

Free | This annual Christmas tree lighting and sing-along event will feature visits with Santa and the lighting of the City Christmas tree!

Holiday Nights at Greenfield Village | Dearborn

Friday – Sunday, December 4 – 6, 6:30 – 10:00 p.m. | Friday – Sunday, December 11 – 13, 6:30 – 10:00 p.m. | Thursday – Wednesday, December 17 – 23, 6:30 – 10:00 p.m. | Saturday – Monday, December 26 – 28, 6:30 – 10:00 p.m.

Greenfield Village, 20900 Oakwood Blvd.

Cost – $24/adults, $18/kids ages 5 -12, free/ages 4 and under | Take a night to walk the lantern-lit paths, admire costumed presenters, and watch a spectacular fireworks display that will leave you in the Christmas spirit. Step into the past with everything from the sound of carolers, the scent of roasting chestnuts to the jingle jangle of sleigh bells. What child doesn’t love watching/riding horse drawn wagons and Model T cars? Come enjoy an event voted the Top Holiday Event by USA Today and Reader’s Digest.

Menorah in the D | Detroit

December 6th, 3 – 8 pm

Campus Martius, Detroit

Menorah in the D is a community-wide menorah lighting event in downtown Detroit taking place this Chanukah. This event is full of inspiration and pride for our entire community and local Jewish families throughout Metro-Detroit. The 26 ft Menorah was designed and built by artists Erik & Israel Nordin of the Detroit Design Center in Corktown. Enjoy a concert with the Soul Farm Band along with lots of family fun including strolling jugglers and acrobats, roasting marshmallows, pose with the Detroit Mascot Paws, as well as a free food court serving traditional Chanukah doughnuts called sufganiot, hot soup bar, hot apple cider, snacks and lots more!

Tree Lighting | Farmington

Saturday, December 5, Immediately following the parade

Governor Warner’s Mansion

During Holly Days at the Governor Warner Mansion you’ll enjoy watching the tree-lighting celebration to kick off the holiday season in Farmington. Enjoy listening to carolers and sampling freshly baked cookies while sipping hot chocolate, yum!!!

Tree Lighting | Fraser

Saturday, December 5th, 5:30 p.m.

This event will kick off the holiday season with caroling and your favorite Christmas music, a visit from Santa, holiday treats, and the iconic tree lighting ceremony.

Tree Lighting Ceremony + Holiday Open House | Lake Orion

Saturday, December 5th, 5 p.m.

Downtown Lake Orion

Enjoy this community event with your family followed by the annual lighted parade at 6:00 p.m. in Downtown Lake Orion.

Tree Lighting + Caroling Ceremony | Livonia

December 1, 7:00 p.m.

Located at the Livonia City Hall and Civic Center Library.

This community event features Santa, holiday crafts, magic show and drinks.

Tree Lighting + Afterglow | Macomb Township

December 1, 7:00 p.m., 6:30 – 8:00 p.m.

Holiday Tree Lighting | Madison Heights

Monday, November 23, 6:30

Civic Center Plaza, City Hall, 300 W. 13 Mile Road, Madison Heights

Free | The Mayor will welcome Santa and present him with the key to the city. Watch as Santa and Mrs. Claus turn on the holiday lights for city to see. Come enjoy cookies + cocoa while listening to your favorite holiday music.

Light Up the Night | Novi

Friday, December 4, 6:00 – 9:00 p.m.

Novi Civic Center, 45175 Ten Mile Road

Free | Come enjoy an evening of fun roasting marshmallows, ice sculptures, live reindeer, train rides (behind the Civic Center) and FREE refreshments. Don’t miss an appearance by our favorite {jolly} guy, Santa and the main tree lighting event happening at 6:15 p.m. If you want to warm up, step inside to do a little shopping at the craft show. There is something for everyone at this event.

Walk of Trees | Downtown Plymouth

November 20 – January 1 | 24/7

Kellogg Park, Plymouth

Free | Bring the family to walk quaint Kellogg Park in downtown Plymouth. Approximately 75 trees have been decorated by the local businesses, clubs and families for your viewing pleasure. This exhibit is lit 24 hours from the Saturday after Thanksgiving until Christmas. So bundle up your family and start a new family tradition!

Heritage Holidays | Ray Township

Friday and Saturday evenings, December 5 & 6, 12 & 13, 19 & 20, 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.

Wolcott Mill Metropark Historic Center, 64000 Knustman Road, Ray 48096

This special celebration is something the whole family is sure to love. You can enjoy a stroll through the park admiring all of the holiday decorations and twinkling lights. Stop by and visit Santa in the mill and make a festive holiday craft. Don’t forget your blankets to snuggle up with while riding a horse-drawn wagon. Warm up with a delicious cup of hot chocolate by the bonfire. Ready to make a holiday memory with your loved ones?

The Big, Bright Light Show | Rochester

{Debut} November 23th – January 3rd, all weekends in January

You are invited to brighten your holidays in downtown Rochester with The Big, Bright Light Show, celebrating its 10th Anniversary! The buildings in downtown Rochester will be covered with more than 1 million points of glimmering holiday light. As a BONUS, the lights will continue through all weekends in January, through the Fire & Ice Festival.

Gibraltar Christmas Parade, Tree Lighting + Kids Christmas Party | Rockwood

Saturday, December 5, Parade starting at 5:30 p.m.

Starting at City Hall and ending at the Community Center

The Beautification and Recreation Commission will be hosting their annual Christmas Parade, Tree Lighting and Christmas Party party for the kids.

Tree Lighting + Holiday Party | Romeo

Friday, December 4, 7:00 p.m. – 9 p.m.

Main Street to Romeo Village Park

Free |Kick off the official Christmas Season with the annual tree lighting at Romeo Village Park. Immediately following, the Washington Lions invite you to attend a Christmas party including visits with Santa, hot dogs, refreshments and entertainment.

Tree Lighting Ceremony | Royal Oak

Thursday, December 3, 6:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.

Outside of the Farmer’s Market

Free | Royal Oak’s Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony will include caroling, refreshments, and a special visit from Santa! Hot dogs, hot chocolate & coffee are complimentary. The Farmer’s Market will be also be hosting the Holiday Magic Marketplace, featuring over 60 local artisans and crafters, starting at 4:00 p.m.

Wild Lights at the Detroit Zoo | Royal Oak

For 24 Nights| November 20–22 + 27–29 and December 4-6, 11-13, 18-23 + 26-31 | 5:30 – 9 p.m.

Experience the magic of the Detroit Zoo lit up with more than five million LED lights illuminating trees, buildings and more than 100 animal sculptures. There will be live entertainment, arts and crafts, ice craving, holiday train displays and an exhibit featuring the Wildlife Photographer of the Year. Seasonal refreshments (wonderfully delicious hot chocolate) will be available for purchase. Photos with Santa “Paws” will be available for purchase until December 23rd. Advance purchase per person/$9, at the gate for ages 2 and up/$11 – purchase tickets here. Parking per car/$6

Saline Tree Lighting Ceremony | Saline

Tuesday, December 1, 7:00 p.m.

In Front of Key Bank, corner of Michigan Ave. and North Ann Arbor Street

Free | This tree lighting ceremony will bring joy to all with a Christmas Carol sing-a-long, hot chocolate to warm your soul, and delicious cookies.

Christmas Aglow Tree Lighting | Shelby Township

Thursday, December 3, 7:00 p.m.

Shelby Township Municipal Grounds

Free | Christmas Aglow is one of the oldest and largest events in Shelby Township. Santa will light the town tree, and then make his way to the historic Hope Chapel where he will join Mrs. Claus to hear the children’s holiday wish lists. There will be arts & crafts for the kids and horse-drawn carriage rides. The Shelby Township Lions Club will provide coffee & cookies. Don’t forget to stop by the campfire to warm up and roast marshmallows. The Eisenhower High School Choir will perform.

A Sterling Christmas | Sterling Heights

Saturday, December 5, 5:45 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.

Recreation Center/Dodge Park, 40620 Utica Road, Sterling Heights

Free | This family fun holiday event – in its 39th year – is filled with caroling and holiday music, horse-drawn carriage rides, wagon + pony rides, a petting farm, campfires, the annual tree lighting ceremony, refreshments and more!

Christmas Tree Lighting + Holiday Sing-Along | Taylor

Wednesday, December 9, 6:30 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.

Taylor Conservatory on Northline Road, east of Pardee Road, next to Heritage ark Petting Farm

Free | You’ll love this old-fashioned Christmas tree light ceremony that will light up a 20-foot Christmas Tree under the conservatory dome. Enjoy singing your favorite Christmas songs inside the Petting Farm Visitors center while sipping on hot cocoa and cider.

City of Troy Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony | Troy

Wednesday, December 2, 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.

City Hall

Free | Begin this event with your favorite Christmas carols led by Athens High School Choir. Genisys Credit Union will be providing sweet treats and hot cocoa to all. Santa will make his grand entrance with the help of Troy High Colt Drumline. Make sure you bundle up and join him for the annual Christmas tree Lighting.

Tree Lighting Ceremony | Warren

Saturday, December 5, 5:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.

City Square

Free | You’ll enjoy a day of ice skating absolutely free! If you don’t have skates, don’t worry – rent them for $3. Stop by the petting zoo to see your favorite animals. Photos with Santa and see live reindeer with your own two eyes. Other activities include an ornament give-a-way, caroling, horse-drawn carriage rides, stage entertainment and hot chocolate to warm up. If you’re stopping to see Santa, please support the Salvation Army and bring a canned food item.

Waterford Tree Lighting + Santa Celebration | Waterford

Tuesday, December 1, 6:00 – 8:00 p.m.

Waterford Town Hall
5200 Civic Center Drive, Waterford

Free | Grab a non-perishable food item or unwrapped toy and head down to Waterford Township Hall. Get ready for cookie decorating, visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus, children’s crafts and performances by Waterford Mott Jazz band and Pontiac-Waterford Big Chief Chorus. Refreshments will be sold.

Holiday Fest + Mill Lighting | Westland

Saturday, December 12, 4:00 – 6:00 p.m.

$3/adults, $6/children, 3 & under Free | This 28th annual Annual Mill Lighting will add more lights to the already beautiful and festive Hines Drive. From 4:00 p.m. to 5:15 p.m. children can make holiday crafts and play games with prizes. Families can participate in holiday games such as “Fruitcake Bowling”, “Candy Cane Scavenger Hunt”, and “Reindeer Antler Wreath Toss”. You can visit Santa Claus. during the Nankin Mills Traditional Mill Lighting and Sing-A-Long.

33175 Ann Arbor Trail, Westland

**No Strollers Please**

*Registration required! Call 734.261.1990 for more information. Limited spots available.

Wayne County Lightfest | Westland

November 19st – December 31st (closed December 25th!) | 7 – 10:00 pm (Monday thru Thursday) 6:00 – 10:00 pm (Friday thru Sunday)

$5 a vehicle. Enjoy this drive through an animated holiday lighting display along Hines Drive, featuring more than 1 million lights! Visit Santa’s Workshop at the end of Warrendale Park starting November 19th until December 23rd. Don’t forget to bring your letter to Santa, you can drop it in the giant mailbox!

Wixom Tree Lighting | Wixom

Friday, December 4, 6:15 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.

49015 Pontiac Trail, Wixom

Free | Walled Lake Western’s Band will kick off the holiday festivities. Sing-a-long with the First Baptist Church as they sing your favorite Christmas carols. Don’t forget to visit Santa and his reindeer during this event. Light refreshments will be served.

Let us know if we’re missing anything! Email us at [email protected]. Happy Lighting!

Online MOM2MOM Sale Tips!

There are dozens of sites on Facebook that you can join – just do a search for Mom2Mom sale,  Swap, Kids Swap, or even Virtual Garage Sale (where you can sell more than just baby/maternity items!).  Groups are created by city (Troy Mom 2 Mom Swap) or for an area (Massive Metro Detroit Mom 2 Mom).

 

TO JOIN

Do a search on FB for any key words. Here are some of the groups that I belong to. Once you try to “join” the Admin will review your request.  Once it is approved – you can post!  I only belong to “closed” groups (these are private and your activity does not show up on your newsfeed). Some groups are public and anyone can join.  Make sure you read the “Rules” for each group when you join.  Each group runs a little different.

 

THE GROUPS (all closed except where noted)

Berkley Royal Oak Birmingham and surrounding areas Mom 2 Mom

Birmingham/Bloomfield/Beverly Hills Mommy and Me Resale Boutique

Commerce Mom 2 Mom

Massive Metro Detroit Area Mom 2 Mom (public group)

Metro Detroit Baby Children & Maternity Items Metro Detroit Moms Group

MOM to MOM Sale – Oakland County

Mom to Mom Sale Rochester Hills/Troy Area

Novi/Wixom Mom to Mom

Oakland County KIDZ (Buy, Sell or Trade)

Oakland County, Sales, Swap & Shop

Oakland County Virtual Garage Sale

Online Garage Sale / Vendors / mom-to0mom (Northern Oakland County)

Sell Swap Buy

Royal Oak Area Moms

Troy, Rochester, Oakland Township, Orion Mom to Mom

Troy, Bloomfield Hills & Birmingham Michigan Area Swap & Shop

West Bloomfield, Keego, Commerce- Buy, Sell, Trade

Wixom/Novi/Commerce/Walled Lake area’s Mom’s Connection Corner (Closed Group)

 

THE LINGO

For the online Mom2Mom sales (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) there is a specific lingo that you need to learn. When I first started, I had no idea what the ads meant!

GUC       Good Used Condition

EUC        Excellent Used Condition

NWT      New With Tags

NWOT   New With Out Tags

POOS    Posted On Other Sites

ISO         In Search Of

PPU       Porch Pick Up

PUO       Pick Up Only

FCFS      First Come First Serve

 

ORGANIZING YOUR ITEMS

  • Organize all clothes by size/gender. Organize by size & gender. I have been saving diaper boxes and organize by size (newborn, 0-3/3M, 3-6M/6M, 6-9M/9M, 9-12M/12M, etc.)

 

  • Make all items are clean, no stains/wrinkles and in Good or Excellent Used Condition (GUC / EUC). It always helps to press those wrinkles out of items to help sell them faster and for more money! Plus – they look better in pics

 

  • Using clear baggies helps! You can easily identify the sizes and brand of each item without having to unfold or pull every item out of the box/crate when looking for a specific item.

 

  • Keep sets together. That Carter’s 3 piece set that you want to sell? Use a large safety pin or a clear plastic lunch bag to keep the pieces together.

 

  • Baby shoes, socks, and accessories can be placed in zippered baggies.

 

  • Put toy pieces in small bags and attach to the larger toy/game piece.

 

  • If the toy requires a battery – make sure it is in working condition. If not – clearly state “needs batteries”. You don’t want to sell a broken toy.

 

POSTING YOUR AD/ITEM ONLINE

  • On the picture itself, use an App and write on the picture the Price & size – that you way you want forget what you are looking to sell it for when posting on multiple sites.

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  • Identify items that are New With Tags (NWT) or New Without Tags (NWOT)

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  • Keep a spreadsheet of all the different groups you are posting on. When an item sells, you know exactly which site has which item and you can go back to delete that post (proper etiquette).

 

  • When posting on other sites (POOS), identify: Description, Size, and Location and if you are willing to meet. The individual city groups has a rule that you can only do a porch pick up in that city unless you are willing to meet.
    • Porch Pick Up – for items that you don’t’ need to swap in person. Leave the item on the porch (I use a plastic tub to keep dry and clean) and place an envelope for the money. The person buying the item retrieves the item and leaves the money. The downfall: you are giving out your address to complete strangers.

 

  • Be specific on your item for picking up: First Come First Serve, No holds, Firm Price, willing to meet, Pick Up only, Will not separate Items

 

  • You can get more bang for your buck OR get rid of items faster when “bundling” items into a “Lot”. The buyer can’t pick and choose the items – they pay one lump sum and get everything in the lot. Keep sizes together (all newborn, or 6-12M lot).
    • Newborn Lot: 5 short sleeve onesies, 10 sets (pant/top), socks, 2 shoes, 4 sleepers = $25 for all!

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Have fun! Make money! Make friends even! These groups are for moms just like you and I.  It’s a great way to get rid of items that you don’t need any more AND make a few extra dollars. And if you want to just donate – you can always say “FREE” and know that your gently used items are going to another home to help those in need.

 

 

What Mommy Really Wants from Santa

Dear Santa,

I’ve been a very good girl this year. Well, except for the few sudden outbursts I had in Target trying to wrangle up the kids. But besides that, and, well, the time I sent myself to bed early to try and escape the madness that is a husband and kids, I’ve been an exemplary girl. I’ve thought long and hard about what I want for Christmas this year and here’s what I’ve come up with. If you don’t have time to make these things happen, just let me know and I’ll figure out a way to get it done (like women always do). Without further ado (in no particular order):

 

  1. Help with Holiday Activities (the decorating, shopping, baking, wrapping, etc.) –

    It’s hard to enjoy the holiday season when you’re running around like a crazy lady trying to make it perfect for everyone else. A little help with the stressfulness that is the holidays would be more than appreciated. 

  2. Homemade gifts from the kids –

    His little hands and feet won’t be this little for much longer so help me capture the moments with homemade gifts/photos. I’d love to be able to fill up the Christmas tree with homemade ornaments one day. 

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  3. A maid or someone else to help with the daily cleaning –  

    This doesn’t mean we need someone that comes to the house everyday or even every week, just someone (that lives within these walls) to put away the clean dishes and fold the laundry. 

  4. A day to myself –

    An hour, maybe four, that’s all I ask. I might head to the gym for a workout, or to the mall to shop. I’ll keep my options open.

  5. Magazine subscription –

    Don’t get me wrong, I love reading to the kids but sometimes this mama wants to Keep Up with the Kardashians via People or try a new recipe I saw in Bon Appetite

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  6. Date night –

    Dinner, drinks & a show? Yes, please. I don’t care where we go or what we do, I would just love a night out with my man.

  7. Makeup –

    For the few nights out a year I get with my husband, I’d like to look presentable. Take a peek in my makeup drawer, snap a photo of the back of my bronzer, foundation and blush, and head to the department store to get a refill on my favorite colors. If you see any nice lipsticks, feel free to grab those, too.

  8. A Massage and/or Mani/Pedi –

    Mama needs a spa day with a warm, fuzzy robe and silence. Check Groupon for local deals and/or drop a hint to my hubby to buy a membership so that I can go a throughout the year. 

  9. New wardrobe –

    Or maybe just a few new staple pieces: jeans, leggings, a sweater and basic t-shirts. Don’t forget about the accessories: scarves and necklaces can be mixed and matched to create new outfits (AKA no need for a completely new wardrobe).

  10. Vacation –

    Take me somewhere warm and tropical. Away from cold and snow. Is it too much to ask for a drink with a little umbrella in it? Oh, make sure my family is with me, too, please.

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  11. Jewelry –

    After all, diamonds are a girl’s best friend. I don’t need 5K, just something that sparkles.

  12. Family time –

    Nothing beats family togetherness. The holidays seem to fly by so if you can schedule a little family time before it all gets away from us, that would be lovely.

  13. A surprise –

    I don’t care what it is, I just want to be surprised. You can even wrap it with a big bow on top!

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With love,

Aubrey

‘Why is There Pee All Over the Floor?!’: Life Raising Boys

Life with kids is messy. Life with little boys is the messiest!

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I grew up in a quiet household, just my parents and myself; we read, we cooked as a family, we went to the theater. Sure, I played outside but I definitely avoided dirt and getting dirty at all costs.

Fast forward thirty some years, and here I am the mom of two boys! I was completely unaware of the chaos capable of being caused by my lovable little mischief makers. No one could have ever prepared me for the complete mayhem of living with two little men. Yet, I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

While my guys can drive me absolutely crazy sometimes, I am undoubtedly a better person for being their mom: they have taught me how to relax, how to dig for worms, to roll with the punches, to find humor is almost every situation, and ultimately how to love absolutely unconditionally.

It is my fervent hope that my boys will always know how much they are loved, and that one day – perhaps when they are grown men – they will have learned not to pee all over the bathroom floor!

Until that fateful day, I am sure that I will continue to expound upon the below truths that living with and raising my little guys has taught me thus far.

 

You bathroom will always have that funky smell

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It just will. No matter how many times you clean that toilet seat, bowl or – let’s be honest here – the entire area surrounding the toilet, it will continue to stink. I used to think it was just my bathroom, and my boys. Nope. It’s a secret club that moms are understandably hesitant to admit membership to. However, once you own up to being a part of the group, you’ll find that we all agree: Bathroom Funk is a confirmed and verified powder room pandemic! While it’s extremely gross and often very annoying, it’s actually really funny. I’ve had many, good laugh-until-you-cry moments with my girlfriends, comparing, contrasting and even describing our own smelly experiences.

Your house will often look like a tornado ripped right through it

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If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard the phrase “wow, he sure is busy!”, my husband and I could retire comfortably tomorrow. I used to be a little put-off when people said this to me about my kids, but really it’s a compliment. “Busy” is more of an umbrella term, encompassing so many different traits and characteristics of my little guys. Yes, they are both physically active; we try to get outside everyday to work off the amazing amount of energy that they possess. They are also curious, intelligent and eager to learn. A typical day inside includes train track building, drawing, painting, puzzle configuring, Lego building, creating cities and skyscrapers out of blocks, or helping to make something in the kitchen. While we try our best to contain the inherent mess, more often than not it takes over the entire house! I try not to let it bother me. Everything has a place, and eventually finds its way back where it belongs. Amidst the chaos, fun is being had and memories are being built.

Your furniture will become a trampoline

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Yes, you can tell your boys that jumping on the furniture is not allowed. You can say it until you’re practically blue in the face. It doesn’t matter. At some point, your furniture will eventually be used as a trampoline. This used to drive me absolutely crazy! I eventually decided to broker a deal with my guys: the basement couch (in the toy room area) is a-OK for limited and supervised shenanigans; all other pieces of furniture are off limits, especially other peoples’ couches!

The outside will inevitably come inside

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Dirt, sand, snails, worms – you name it, I’ve either seen it in my home or I’ve spotted my little culprits attempting to sneak such contraband inside. We had a snail and slug collection going all summer long on our patio. My older son even built a little house, complete with a garage and a thatched room to contain his new “pets”. Naively, I assumed he understood that the snails and slugs didn’t belong inside. But then it rained, and he didn’t want his snails to get wet. Thankfully the slugs didn’t come in, but the snails enjoyed a few days of air conditioning. Their smell eventually alerted my husband to their presence. Yuck!

Bodily function sounds are the ultimate in funny

If it makes a sound and especially if it smells, it’s funny. Potty words are also a major source of entertainment and amusement. What can I say? I definitely didn’t teach my little guys to wax poo-etic, it’s just what they do! I definitely make sure they understand that there’s a time and a place for such silliness. But ultimately, they’re little boys and little boys love potty talk! …Truth be told, I might know a few adults who find it humorous as well!

Why walk when you can run?

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Running is not allowed on the first floor of our home. My boys know this. They understand when I tell them ad nauseum that running is simply not permitted. Does this stop my kiddos from running? In a word, NO! The pitter patter of feet across the wood floor getting faster and faster is not a welcome sound to my ears: I can actually feel my anxiety build and my blood start to boil. Something always breaks, someone consistently hits their head, and the ensuing tears are inevitable. I’ve even tried to confine it to the basement, without much success. The solution? I’m not entirely sure, but I’m hoping the hours spent outside coupled with hockey, swimming and tennis lessons will wear my little dudes out! Why walk when you can run absolutely everywhere? Maybe my fellow boy moms can shed some light on this one?

You will be forced to confront violence in the media sooner than you think

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My children are allowed screen time, be it television or tablet. We definitely monitor content and quantity. Thomas the Tank Engine has always been a favorite. I think it’s adorable, with a positive message. Moreover, we’ve amassed countless toy trains and yard upon yards of train track pieces. My little guys spend hours configuring and manipulating multi-level train tracks. It’s pretty awesome!  That being said, my Kindergartner is getting a little too old for Thomas and his Friends. He’s graduating to the next level of television programming and let me tell you, the options aren’t great. I am just astounded by the HUGE leap from feel-good cartoons with a positive message to ninja warriors, fighting and ultimately violence. Regardless of your stance on the topic, know that you will be confronted with it sooner than you think!

Someone will always be missing their pants

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“Where are your pants?!” is a common question in our household. Not only do they come off, but they disappear. I’ve found errant pants under my bed, behind the couch, even in the freezer. Apparently it’s fun to go sans pants! Being someone who chooses and organizes outfits for the next day the night before, the missing pants game isn’t my favorite. But again, I’m learning to roll with it. There are worse things…..right?

Bumps and bruises are the norm

I will never forget taking my oldest son to the pediatrician for his one-year-old check-up. He had been walking and climbing for well over a month, and had numerous black, blue and even green bruises up and down his legs. They looked terrible! I felt so self conscious, like the doctor was going to look at me as an unfit parent. I actually said something, commenting on how active my little guy was, how often he fell and bumped himself while negotiating with his new skills and expanded environment. Thankfully, the doctor knowingly chuckled: he’d seen it all before and he knew nothing was amiss. Little did I know that I was in for a good six more years (and probably beyond!) of bruise and boo boo mending. We can’t keep band aids in stock, we simply go through them too quickly at our house. Boys are active and busy and bumping and bruising themselves well beyond their toddler years.

You, Mom, will be the center of their world

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My kids love to look at pictures. When they recently discovered our wedding album in the storage closet (purposely “hidden” on an out-of-reach shelf to protect it from being destroyed) they had so much fun flipping through all of the pages. My older son can name everyone in the photos, but my three year old is still working on associating names with faces – particularly with our extended family members. When he came upon a picture of just my husband and myself, I teasingly asked him: “who’s that?”. He looked up at me with wide eyes and in an awed little voice said “that’s daddy, and a princess”. I think I melted right there on the spot! It was funny, sweet and so incredibly cute: definitely a moment I’ll always remember. When I told him it was me, he said “mommy’s a princess”. It just doesn’t get any better than that, and his statement is truly our relationship in microcosm: my little guy adores his mommy, and I try to soak up as much of his demonstrative love and affection as I can. Someday in the not so distant future, snuggles and hugs with mom will no longer be cool or acceptable. But for now, I am fortunate to have them in abundance.

 

Are you a mom of little boys?

What truths have your little men taught you?

What would you add to this list?

Ways to Spread Love and Joy this Holiday Season

The holidays are approaching fast! It is a time when traditions are carried on as family and friends gather to celebrate the love the holidays bring. We decorate our homes, make our grandmother’s sugar cookies and gift our children, family, and friends. It’s simply the most wonderful time of year!

5QBOVTXGES (1)If you are like me, you don’t want your children to believe that the holidays are all about receiving gifts from Santa. There is so much more to Christmas, Hanukkah or Kwanzaa . While we all celebrate differently, I believe the one thing we  can all  agree on is we want to raise children that are thoughtful and caring people. We want our children to spread their love and joy to others and the only way we can raise children to have these character traits is to lead through example.

 I started brainstorming ways we can spread our love to others without simply writing a check. Physically helping others is important to me because I get to experience the goodness through my actions.  It uplifts my spirits and makes me feel good! Plus, my son has no concept of money, but he does understand a helping hand.  But most importantly, when our children witness us helping others, they too learn to help others.  

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Here is a list of ideas for you and your family to spread love and joy this holiday season:

Christmas Caroling:  Gather friends and family from church, school, or the neighborhood and spread the joy of the season through singing.  One place to consider is a local children’s hospital or nursing home.  Seeing the smiles this brings is the best feeling ever!

Make Cards:  Our children love to be crafty.  Gather around the kitchen table and make cards for children and adults in the hospital.  

Decorate Paper Grocery Bags:  My classroom did this for Valentines Day one year and it was so cute.  I contacted the manager of a local grocery store and we colored and decorated the bags so when guests received their groceries they had something to warm their hearts on Valentines Day.  I am sure a snowman or reindeer would brighten anyone’s day this holiday season! 

Hand out Candy-canes: Children love to give and this is one way to share the joy of the holiday season.  Buy a few boxes of candy canes and pass them out to strangers as you do your grocery shopping or shop at the mall. 

Donate a Toy:  Many organizations are collecting new toys for children in need.  

Canned Food Drive:  Collect cans for local food drives.  One family I know collected peanut butter and jelly for families in need.  

Collect Hats, Mittens and Gloves:  Many different organizations will collect hats, mittens and gloves.  Help them out and collect these from your family members and neighbors. 

Soup Kitchens:  As a family spend a Sunday afternoon working at a local soup kitchen.  

Rake Leaves for the Sick or Elderly:  The leaves are falling and many need your help.  Pitch in and help your neighbors.

Shovel Snow:  Once the leaves fall, the snow will soon fall too!  Grab your shovel and help a neighbor.

Pay it Forward:  Buy coffee for a stranger.  It will make anyone’s day!

Make, Decorate and Deliver Cookies:  Make cookies as a family and deliver them to neighbors.  Who doesn’t love the door bell to ring and cookies being delivered?

Collect Dog Food and Toys:  Don’t forget about your local animal shelters.  They too are in need of some help.  They are always accepting donated toys, food and supplies to care for the animals.

Bottle Drive:  Organize a bottle drive and use the money to donate to an organization that is important to you or your family. 

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Can you help me add to this list?  What are some ways your family spreads love and joy during the holidays? 

Holiday Traditions in Transition

As we head into the holiday season, I’ve been reminiscing about what the holidays meant for me as a kid, now that I have my own family. 

My parents divorced when I was young, but the holidays were always a point of consistency that I looked forward to.  It was the time each year when all that mattered was family and FOOD!

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Christmas Eve was always spent with my Dad’s family, and Christmas Day with my Mother’s family.  Eventually, as my Dad’s side of the family grew (I am the youngest of 27 cousins!), the family celebration was moved from my Grandparents basement rec room to a reception hall on the Sunday before Christmas.  Though I am not super close to my cousins due to large age gaps, the tradition is close to my heart, and truly demonstrates to me the depth of family ties as over 100 of my Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Second-Cousins (of which my kids are #52 AND #54!), and now even some Third-Cousins from across the USA and Europe gather each year to celebrate Christmas together!

After college, there was now another family to celebrate with – my husband’s!

We tried to “do it all” for a couple of years, traveling from one house to another on Thanksgiving and Christmas, doing our best to see everyone. It was exhausting! The holidays lost their shine a bit – and we were still young and kid free!

Fast forward a few years and we now had a daughter and our own little family!  We tried to do it the way we always did, shuttling around from house to house – but this time I was a new mother with a nursing infant in tow!  Suffice to say… it wasn’t awesome!  We couldn’t please anyone.  For my husband and I who both grew up loving and anticipating the holiday season each year, it was a huge gut check.  We knew something had to change, but we weren’t sure what, and we knew that whatever choices we made, someone was sure to feel slighted. 

Thanksgiving has settled into a routine that we really enjoy, we spend the day with my sisters and their kids and we rotate the hosting duties each year.  Even that though will probably change again in the next few years as my nephews and niece are all in their 20’s getting into their own adult grooves, and with the oldest having a family of his own now.

present-932219_640Christmas is still evolving as life keeps moving too.  Christmas Eve dinner isn’t the same now that my Dad has passed, though I still make the same meal he would make for us – Chop Suey.  Yes, we always ate Chinese food for Christmas. My Dad made it so well. I still have his electric skillet – a wonderful memento from my childhood – so I like to think he’s celebrating with us in spirit.  We open gifts with the kids on Christmas Eve which I enjoyed as a child with my parents. 

My husband and I decided that it was important to us to form our own traditions.

We spend Christmas Morning in our home, opening gifts from Santa, enjoying brunch, playing with new toys, and sipping coffee in our pajamas in front of the fireplace.  We invite our parents to spend the afternoon and eat dinner with us.  For the past few years, we celebrate with my husbands entire family, usually on the Saturday closest to Christmas which seems to work well and allow us all to celebrate with our kids, in-laws, and still get the whole family together for an afternoon.

Aside from the “day-of” celebrations, there is one tradition that I’ve had with my mom for coming up on 30 years now – Cookie Day!  Since I was maybe 7 or so, she and I have spent an entire day in the kitchen, a week or so before Christmas, baking dozens upon dozens of Christmas cookies to share with friends and family! 

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The holiday season seems even more special now from my newest perspective as a mother, and it’s pretty profound to witness my kids enjoying the same traditions that I did.  To see them surrounded by the love of family.  To watch them roll dough and bake cookies with when I swear they were just newborn babes a minute ago.  To watch their faces as they listen to my Dad’s recording of The Night Before Christmas.  To see their eyes light up looking at lights on the tree.   Watching all of the classic Christmas specials on TV.  And yes, to watch the joy as they tear open a few gifts as well!

family-1003816_640I absolutely love the traditions my husband and I are keeping and creating with our family, but I also know that they will morph or cease, and new ones will begin as time goes on.  I hope that I can be graceful about the changes as they come, and remember that tradition isn’t the heart of the holidays, family is.  And families grow and change too. 

 

What are your favorite holiday traditions? 

How has becoming a parent changed the holidays for you?

 

 

 

DMB Cookies with Santa

Detroit Moms Blog First Annual Cookies with Santa

On December 12, 2015 Detroit Moms Blog + good ole Santa Clause will be taking over Childtime in Shelby Township. 

And with that said, here is everything we anticipate you will need to know (and then some) for this event!

 

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  • Tickets will become available starting on Wednesday, November 25th at 9pm.
  • You can purchase your tickets by using THIS same link – and at the bottom of this post you will see the TICKET section – once ticket sales go live.
  • Everyone ages 1 and up will need a ticket for the event – babies (under the age of 1) are free.
  • We are limiting the event to roughly 50 families in order to ensure that everyone who attends has a wonderful experience. There are no additional expenses once you are there (the ticket includes coffee, hot chocolate, cookies, your downloadable photo with Santa, a little ornament for the kids to decorate, letter to Santa and more).
  • You are able to purchase tickets for friends or family members.
  • Tickets are transferrable, but are NOT refundable.
  • We encourage you to sign in right at 9pm to get your tickets if you plan to attend – and we hope to see you there!
  • If the event has sold out before you try to secure your tickets, we encourage you to add your name to the wait list.

Every child will have a chance to take their photo with Santa Claus and will receive a free digital download of the image from our professional photographer, Wildflowers Photography, after the event! (bringing your own camera is a MUST because there will be lots of photo ops!)

 (Here is the Facebook event page, with more details)

 

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In addition to Santa Claus, the event will include:

Purchase tickets HERE at 9pm on November 25th.

 

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Due to space limitations and our strong desire for every child (and family) to have a great experience and opportunity for a photo with Santa Claus, we will be limiting the event to 50 families. Be sure to register as soon as tickets become available (on November 25th) because we anticipate this will sell out quickly. 

Finding Happiness After A Miscarriage

January 22, 2014 – Days after I find out I’m pregnant for the second time, I experience signs of miscarriage, and soon get confirmation from my doctor that I’m no longer pregnant.

January 22, 2015 – My beautiful daughter is born.

 

Miscarrying is awful. Almost two years later I still can’t really think of much that’s helpful, eloquent, or inspiring about such a horribly sad loss.

But, after talking to SEVEN other friends (that I know of), who have experienced such loss, I’ve committed to trying to at least share the little that I can, in hopes that someone may find it helpful if they miscarry, or have a friend or family member who has recently miscarried.

My husband and I were thrilled to find out we were pregnant again shortly after my son turned one. The newborn fog had lifted, and we could see that while it was crazy hard, having a child could also be simultaneously lovely, even fun. The same Friday night we found out I was pregnant, I began rifling through my sons newborn pajamas, snapping a picture of my favorite pair and sending to a friend, “I forget how tiny they are when they’re newborns!”

The next day, we had planned a one night family getaway to a water park hotel. We had a blast and I woke up that Sunday only mildly concerned when I realized I’d begun spotting. I knew that spotting didn’t necessarily equate to miscarriage, and I remained calm and called my doctor. I’ll always remember the exact words that the nurse used, as she told me to sit tight for a few days and remain “cautiously optimistic.”

Within a few days, it became clearer to me that I was probably miscarrying. My doctor wasn’t in the office, and I insisted on getting seen by another doctor by Wednesday. An ultrasound revealed my worst fear. When the doctor looked on the screen, there was no tiny bean shaped baby.

“I’m so very sorry,” she said, as I tried but failed at fighting back tears. Partially undressed, feet in stirrups, and my husband squeezing my hand, I just felt like I had to get out of there, get home, and pull the covers over my head. I cried all the way home, and avoided our nanny, who was home with my son. I pounded out a few quick emails saying I wouldn’t be coming to work the next day, and thought about the baby I wouldn’t have.

Nine months from then, I wouldn’t be delivering a baby, a brother or sister for my son, and a much wanted addition to our family. I wouldn’t feel his or her kicks throughout my pregnancy, never kiss the top of their head, or send them off to school.

My husband held it together, letting our nanny know why I holed up in my room all day, and that I could use her help as I wasn’t feeling great from cramping. He helped put my son to bed, and we crawled in together, totally beat and defeated. Finally, he began to cry. I think it’s fair to say that men don’t experience miscarriage in the same way that women do, but he was crushed to say the least.

This was common, I knew, and I wasn’t naive enough to think I was immune to the possibility, but it’s just not something you can remotely understand until you’ve experienced it. Slowly, I started telling friends and family members. While no one could take away the pain I was experiencing, I felt truly loved and well taken care of. A friend who knew I’d been laying low, called with a proposal to join her at her daughter’s play. Another stopped by at work for a huge hug and continued to check in with me. I received emails and words of encouragement from moms who’d had miscarriages and gone on to have more babies. I was well loved and taken care of, and for that, I was thankful.

Even though it was early in my pregnancy, almost two years later, I still mourn the loss of the baby I miscarried. While some moms think about their baby every day, if I’m being honest, I don’t. It happens at random times, and not so random times, and it always feels like someone knocked the wind out of me. Two of my best and oldest friends have had miscarriages since then, and in each case, I tried to be supportive of them, but relived the experience myself as I talked to them. I’ve cried for them, and tried to refrain from telling them exactly how to feel, but support them and acknowledge that their grief is valid, and may not disappear entirely right away, or ever.

Though my doctor told me we could begin trying again soon, we waited a few months, and became pregnant a few months later. Like many women who’ve experienced miscarriage, I was more guarded this time. I was happy, but didn’t feel like I could really allow myself to get excited until my 13 week appointment. Getting in the car on the way home, I just broke down and started sobbing. I knew nothing was a guarantee until the baby is born, but felt like I could breathe at that point.

My daughter was born a year from the day I found out I was miscarrying. She is amazing. It is not lost on me that had I carried the first baby to term, I wouldn’t have my daughter. I can’t completely wrap my mind around that, and have decided I won’t let myself think about it too much. I am a Christian, but don’t understand why this happened beyond the vague scientific descriptions I’ve read of miscarriage. However, I can truthfully say that I’ve felt God throughout this process – in the love I received from friends and family, and in knowing that He’s using me to comfort other women going through the same thing. And in the timing. The crazy timing. How my daughter’s birthday will always be a bittersweet reminder of how good can come after bad. I’ve heard the term “rainbow baby” used to describe children born after miscarriage or infant loss, and I can completely agree with that description – she is a burst of color after a dreary period of rain and sadness.

I’m thankful that even in the last year, I’ve noticed more discussion around miscarriage. I can absolutely appreciate that some women want to grieve privately, but am thankful for those who’ve shared their experiences, as it continues to help me deal with my emotions. If you know anyone who is miscarrying, the best things you can do are to apologize for their loss, if you’re a person of faith, offer to pray with or for them, and allow them to talk without probing too much on details unless you’ve been in the same situation or are sure they won’t mind. Asking if a pregnancy was planned isn’t helpful.

I’m praying that this reaches at least one other person who is hurting today. I can’t offer everyone hope that they will successfully carry a baby to term, but can say that one miscarriage is not an indicator that you won’t ever have a baby. I’m thankful for the opportunity to share with this community of women, and for the support of other moms who have shared their stories alongside me.

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My son Oliver, with my “rainbow baby,” Julia

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