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Why The Mama Drama?

When you have kids you naturally assume that you are going to be dealing with grownups, right? I thought that when I became a mom I entered a very mature and supportive community…and yet I was shocked when the mama drama started early on. No matter how much you hear about the mommy wars or women not supporting each other, you will always be shocked the first time it happens.

We all know how it starts and that’s with the natural competition about milestones. Sure you think that your baby is doing great, crawling and babbling sweet little words—and then you see Jack. Wow this kid is only 9 months, how can that be? The mom proceeds to brag about how he was pulling himself up at 6 months and is uttering full words now at this tender age. While you smile on the outside, you kind of want to barf a little too.

Mama Drama Happens At All Ages and Stages

This is the earliest and perhaps the most innocent form of mama drama, but it continues on from there. The common areas for debate are usually the type that you find yourself avoiding. The breastfeeding vs. bottle feeding moms, the stay at home vs. the working moms, the attachment parenting vs. letting them cry it out moms—there seems no end to the platforms for which we all work against each other rather than respect and support each other.

As your child gets older the drama continues as you deal with some downright insecure and crazy moms. Sad but true the competition is alive and well with academics and activities. Are these moms trying to live out their life dream to be a ballet dancer? Did they do poorly in school and therefore they want their kid to be valedictorian? I personally have always helped to support my kids in doing well, but also placed realistic expectations on them too. Novel concept, huh?

So as I sit here and think about this with young children, I recognize that the mama drama will always be around. I find that being confident in who you are as a mother is the best anecdote. I also find that surrounding yourself with the normal ones and tuning out the super crazy ones works well. Sometimes you just have to recognize that you can’t keep up with the Joneses—and that maybe you don’t even want to!

Think About What Really Matters and Ignore The Rest

When you can say that your kids are healthy and happy, and that you are doing the best job that you can as mom then that’s a success. Forget the other stuff—there will always be something to worry about or some drama to get involved in if you seek it out. I have learned through trials and tribulations this to be true, and now I feel like I have grown as a mother because I can tune out the unnecessary drama. No time for it, and wow look how I’ve grown as a person!

I have such a wish that moms would unite and support each other. Rather than bashing each other for choices such as working or breastfeeding, that we would instead understand and appreciate each other’s differences. Moms are a very cool and unique niche and if we allowed ourselves we could be truly supportive. Don’t get me wrong—there are some truly amazing moms out there and they make for some of the best friends! You just have to know how to tune out the noise and never let yourself get sucked into the things that don’t matter in the end.

So why do I write this? For awareness, for new moms who can go in with their eyes wide open, and for those of us moms who are still trying to figure it out and hoping for a good support network. The next time that you feel judgmental about a mom who is sweating as she tries to wrangle her kids into the cart at Target, feel for her instead. Yes that may have happened to me, but that’s really not important here.

The next time you judge a working mom, consider that she may have to work. The point is that mama drama is so unnecessary and YOU can control how much of it you allow into your life. Be the exception to the rule and be the super cool mom that the other down to earth mamas can dig—your kids and you will be so much happier that you did!

Frugal Fridays with Brandi

When I became a mom I knew pennies would be pinched. So we did as most new/parent’s to be do and shopped around for best diaper and wipes prices. Little did I know that not even 2 months into mommy hood we found out that our sweet little Babycakes was allergic to disposable diapers :0/ What’s a {new} mom to do?! Cloth Diapers here we come!

Budget wise it was it actually made more sense, 1 upfront cost and then diapers for life! Only problem now was cost of special detergents to wash said super economical cloth diapers. The new style cloth diapers need to be washed in special detergents with no whiteners, scents, no fuss no muss and low suds! Oh and I have an HE washing machine!

After about 2 months of buying special and expensive detergents for just the diapers and wipes. I started doing some research and that’s when I found my fist recipe for homemade laundry detergent. Well the Hubster thought it was a waste of time, too much of hassle and not cost effective. But me being me I had to prove him wrong. After all he did quickly jump on board the breastfeeding, cloth diapering, & homemade baby food wagons!!

So there I was on the hunt for washing soda, borax and Fels Naptha {yeah what’s that?!} Brandi frugal friday 5

First recipe I tried was for liquid {almost gel} detergent and honestly was a little time consuming. Then I found a powder version and fell in LOVE!

Now over the years and as my needs have changed I have tweaked the recipe and made it work for us. With 2 very messy little’s and stinky sweaty clothes from Hubster and I, I’ve added an oxy cleaner and  baking POWDER to help eliminate stains and odors!!

I hope you enjoy and also find your perfect blend! Here’s mine for you to give a whirl, recipe and tutorial!

 

Brandi’s Laundry Detergent Blend

 

takes approx. 15mins to make (with hand grating the soap)

Makes approx. 160 Loads.

 2 Cups Borax

2 Cups Washing Soda {different from baking soda}

2 cups SunOxy or Oxyclean {optional}

2 cups Baking Soda {also optional}

1 bar Zote {originally used pink one, now use half pink and half whitening}

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First in a very large bowl shred your Zote (or Zote blends); I use the super fine side on my hand grater. I have found that it dissolves easier and less sudsy that way.

Now add each of the other ingredients one at a time mixing very well in between each. You want to make sure it is as evenly distributed as possible.

Guess what…YOU’RE DONE!

That was it!

I use 1 TBSP per load, I do adjust with dirtiness and smelliness of loads also.

Price breakdown per load

Borax – $3.97/ 76oz = $0.052/oz   x 16oz = $0.83

Washing Soda- $3.97/55oz = $0.72/oz   x 16oz = $1.12

Sun Oxy- $5.94/96oz = $0.063/oz x16oz = $1.28

Baking Soda- $3.47/40oz = $0.084/oz x16oz = $0.99

Zote – $0.97/bar

Total per batch is $5.19 divided by 160 loads

Is……. $0.03 per load!!!

 

I really hope you enjoy this recipe and have fun making your own detergent!

For those who like added scents to their laundry stay tuned for my scent booster hacks! How to make your own or make your store bought last 2-4x as long!

Farewell my Frugal friends!

A Summer Gathering :: Stone Fruit Salad and Easy Mocktail

Annette Recipe A Lovely Evening with Mommy Friends

I truly love having a social get together with friends.  Especially the kind of gathering where you get to try out new culinary skills.  Or at least pretend like you have culinary skills!  The kind of skills that are needed to turn Pinterest into real life…..!  {Sometimes it’s all about the presentation, a perfect white dish and colorful food can be all you need!}

Pretty food does make my heart sing!  This recipe caught my eye when I was browsing the recent issue of Cuisine at Home.  When we decided to host our first contributor get together I had to give this recipe a try! And, it was delish!  It has even inspired my own play on the recipe to change the stone fruit to a melon mix!

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Cuisine at Home Issue No. 106
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Cuisine at Home Issue No. 106 Stone Fruit Waldorf Salad

 A Summer Waldorf Salad

{Sweet enough for dessert!}

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It is such a colorful salad! I left the dressing on the side because I just loved the colors and didn’t want to hide them under the creamy lime dressing.

Ingredients :: Salad

2 cups of pitted plums

2 cups of pitted peaches

2 cups of pitted cherries

1 cup of sliced celery

1/2 cup of slivered almonds

1/2 cup finely chopped fresh mint

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Chop fruit, gently toss with chopped celery, almonds and mint.  Add a dollop of the dressing recipe on top!

Ingredients :: Dressing

1 container of plain Greek yogurt {like oikos} about 1 cup

2 tbsp. fresh squeezed lime juice about 1 lime

1 tbsp. honey

zest of about 1 lime

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Empty container of yogurt in small bowl, squeeze and add lime juice, add a little zest and honey, then mix.

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A Refreshing Summer Mocktail

{Turn it into a cocktail, it was perfect over ice, or add a little rum or white wine!}

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It was perfect with white wine poured over in a glass to make a quick mock-sangria! A little Rum can turn this into a perfect summer twist on the classic mojito!

Ingredients :: Summer Strawberry Mint Limeade

Squeeze about 7 limes

4-7 tbsp. sugar {or your sweetener preference!}

A handful of fresh mint leaves pressed in lime juice

Finely sliced strawberries about 6-8

64 oz. of cold water

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Add all ingredients to a pitcher except water and strawberries, dissolve sugar as much as possible and smash mint leaves to release some natural juice.  Add water and sliced strawberries.  Pour over ice and enjoy!

For  a little mommy attitude adjustment add a little rum and turn it into a summer mojito.  Or pour with your favorite white wine and enjoy a citrus mint sangria!

Weekend Happenings :: August 15th~17th

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Family Fun Fest Carnival

Fun for everyone, thrill rides to kiddie rides and lots of yummy carnival food.

{Date}

Thursday, August 14th – Sunday, August 17th

{Times}

Thursday and Friday – 5 p.m. – 11 p.m.

Saturday – noon – 11 p.m.

Sunday – noon – 9 p.m.

{Cost}

Admission and Parking are FREE

$1 per ride ticket {rides require 2, 3 or 4 tickets}

Wristbands are $18

{Location}

Founders Park
8 Mile Road
Farmington Hills

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Ypsilanti Heritage Festival

Parade, kids entertainment, live music, historical & museum tours, rubber ducky race, arts & crafts, live painting and much more……..

{Date}

Friday, August 15th – Sunday, August 17th

{Times}

Friday – 12 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.

Saturday – 10 a.m. – 8 :30 p.m.

Sunday – 11 a.m. – 6 p.m.

Beer tent open until midnight Friday + Saturday!

{Cost}

FREE

{Location}

Downtown Area on Huron River Drive
Between East Cross Street and Michigan Avenue

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Assumption Greek Festival 2014

Rides, music, Greek food + marketplace, carnival, games and more

{Date}

August 15, 2014 – August 17, 2014

{Times}

Friday + Saturday – 11 a.m. – 11 p.m.

Sunday – 11 a.m. – 8 p.m.

{Cost}

Adults – $2

Children 12 and under – FREE

{Location}

Assumption Greek Orthodox Church
21800 Marter Road
St. Clair Shores

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African World Festival

African drumming and dance, vendors, crafts, kids activities, cuisine and much more….

{Date}

August 15, 2014 – August 17, 2014

{Time}

Friday through Sunday – 11 a.m. – 11 p.m.

{Cost}

FREE

{Location}

Grounds of Charles H. Wrights Museum of African American History
315 E. Warren Ave
Detroit

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Birmingham Cruise Event

20th annual car show and cruise with entertainment.

{Date}

August 16th, 2014

{Time}

9 a.m. – 7 p.m.

{Cost}

FREE

{Location}

Downtown Birmingham
Old Woodward from Merrill to Lincoln Streets

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Woodward Dream Cruise

World’s largest one-day auto event featuring over 40,000 muscle cars, street rods, collectors’ vehicles and more.

{Date}

August 16, 2014

{Time}

9 a.m. – 9 p.m.

{Cost}

FREE

{Location}

Spans over 9 cities from Ferndale to Pontiac.

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Melvindale Street Fair

Live music joins daytime vendors, crafters, entertainment, and tours.

{Date}

August 16, 2014 – August 17, 2014

{Time}

10 a.m. – 10 p.m.

{Cost}

FREE

{Location}

At the corner of Oakwood Boulevard and Allen Road.

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The 13th Annual After-School, Back-To-School, College Fair

They will be giving away FREE backpacks, FREE school supplies, FREE books and a chance to win a bike + computer. Enjoy entertainment, food and lots of hands-on fun!!

{Date}

August 16, 2014

{Time}

12 p.m. – 4 p.m.

{Location}

The Casino on Belle Isle
1 Casino Way
Detroit

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Scavenger Hunt

Scour the nature center grounds and Black Pond Woods for textures, colors, insects plants and much more.

{Date}

August 16, 2014

{Time}

9 a.m. – 11 p.m.

{Cost}

Individual – $8

Family – $30

{Location}

Leslie Science & Nature Center
1831 Traver Road
Ann Arbor

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Texture-iffic at {Cranbrook Art Museum}

Pre-K and tweens will explore Paul Evans’ furniture design, then create their own textures in geometric design.

{Date}

August 17, 2014

{Time}

2 p.m. – 4 p.m.

{Cost}

Adults – $8

Children 12 and under – FREE

{Location}

Cranbrook Art Museum
39221 Woodward Ave
Bloomfield Hills

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Marshmallow Fly and Fry at Heritage Park

Come and enjoy the City’s largest campfire ever!  Roast hotdogs and make s’mores!  Enjoy their splash pad, nature walks, play on a bouncer and explore fire trucks.  Then after dinner watch over 1,000 marshmallows fall from the sky and exchange them for goodies with the fire department!

{Date}

Tuesday, August 19th

{Time}

5 p.m. – 8 p.m.

{Cost}

FREE to attend, nominal fees for food items

{Location}

Heritage Park
Farmington Road
Between 10 and 11 Mile
Farmington Hills

Bye-Bye, Baby: An Experience with Chemical Pregnancy

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Less than a month after our wedding, a Sunday morning, I found out I was pregnant.  Although it wasn’t specifically planned, my husband (I’ll call him G) and I were eager to start a family, and had kept “busy” on our honeymoon.  I took this first pregnancy test quite early; understandably, the line was faint.  So faint that G didn’t even believe it.  “You can barely see it, I don’t think it means anything”, he said.  But I told him, with all the faith in the world, “A line is a line, we’re pregnant!” and proceeded to take a picture of said test and text it out to two trusted cohorts for verification.  “A line is a line, you’re pregnant!!” was the enthusiastic consensus, and several more pregnancy tests that day (of different brands of course), also showing faint lines, began our walk on Cloud 9.

Prior to this, as I’ve heard is fairly typical, my concern was that I wouldn’t be able to get pregnant at all.  I feared an onslaught of bleak one-lined tests and the words “NOT PREGNANT” confronting me month after month.  This two-lined test, faint as it was, redeemed me.  Never again would I have to worry about that, why, we had gotten pregnant on our first try, barely even trying!  I was thrilled, my husband was ecstatic, and a series of OBGYN appointments confirming doubling HCG levels (the pregnancy hormone) only made us more confident.  I bought G the book “Dude, You’re Gonna Be a Dad!”, I read “What to Expect When You’re Expecting”, banned all the foods and drinks you’re supposed to ban, envisioned our nursery, thought up creative, adorable baby names for the boy I knew we would have, and shared the news with a couple close friends.  I was going to do everything you’re “supposed” to do to a T and more- typical of my slightly neurotic personality.

Also typical of my slightly neurotic personality (G would contest the slightness of it), was the compulsion to take pregnancy tests daily to confirm to myself that I was “still” pregnant, that everything was going as it should.  Watching that line appear and get darker every day gave me comfort that all was well in there.  Until the day… that it didn’t get darker.  And the following day, when it actually appeared lighter.  And the next day, lighter still.  People told me “Stop taking tests, you’re pregnant!” and that the darkness or lightness of the lines didn’t mean anything.  But I knew.  I knew in my heart that something was amiss and we wouldn’t know this baby.  Armed with the knowledge of my last HCG number, and while G was at a golf tournament, I marched myself into the doctor’s office, told them my fears and demanded another HCG blood draw.  They obliged and time seemed to slow as I waited for those results.  Finally, a doctor I had not met with before came in by herself and by the awful, sympathetic look on her face, I knew my fears were founded.  The number she told me my HCG measured at was far below what it had been last time, even lower than I had dared to contemplate.  Typically, they’re supposed to keep doubling.  All I could do was laugh.  And cry.  She confirmed that I was going through an early miscarriage (a “chemical pregnancy” they call it- too early for an ultrasound, pregnancy can only be monitored by your HCG levels; surprisingly common) and that I would need to keep getting blood drawn until the HCG returned to a “normal”, non-pregnancy level.  A weekly reminder of what was lost, to add insult to injury.

I didn’t call anyone on the ride home, not even G.  He had believed everything would be fine and that the doctor would reassure me.  Secretly, I’d hoped for that too.  I went straight home, sat in our walk-in closet in the dark, until G got home and found me there.  I couldn’t say a word, but he knew.  He was shocked, he’d felt so positive, and we were both heartbroken.  Couldn’t believe this was happening, and less than a month after our wedding!  How unfair!  He sat down next to me in the closet for what seemed like an eternity, and we felt a sadness completely new to us.  After we began talking, I naively vowed I would never try again, never wanted to risk feeling like that again.  I think he felt that way in that moment too.  And to the few people who did know we were pregnant, did know I was going to the doctor that day to “reassure” myself, I sent them a single text message that night, two words, the saddest words I’ve ever written: “No baby.”

How DMB Owner Burnt my Mouth

My day was spent bee-bopping around the neighborhood entertaining my kids with garage sales. I got a sweet deal on an out beach chair to lounge in this summer while my kids ran free after a winter confined to the house. {I wanted to add a side-note… Do not take your kids garage sale shopping where there are many older people because you WILL come up with more junk than you were selling at your garage sale}.

It had been a busy week and then after slamming my thumb in the car door {seriously, who does that at 29 years-old?!} and then the reality that I haven’t been on a date in… wait I’m not calculating that might be too depressing for some of you to handle. I’m playing – I am soooo content with being single!! A text from Elizabeth Lewis, Owner of DMB, was just what the doctor ordered.

She suggested Sushi at The Sushi House in Farmington. So I swallowed my pride, since I know nothing about Sushi, and said absolutely!

I have to say we had a blast. Chatting about the future, kids, and business. I never knew how much we really had in common until our date night. It was a sweet time to realize, I’m not insane and not the only one who has struggled with XYZ, and not alone in this journey of being a mom. We were able to just sit and laugh without any child pulling on us or demanding our attention. Plus, Elizabeth was able to give me hope my thumb nail wouldn’t fall off {and to update – it hasn’t!}.

And then we ate. She ordered for me {what a date!} and everything was going great until… The forgotten Las Vegas roll appears.

Elizabeth says, “It’s not that hot – you have to try it.” Trusting my friend I shove the whole thing in my mouth and at first it was delicious until… my mouth began to burn and my water cup was low. As we laugh and my ears begin to emit smoke, she says “Oh that may have had a few extra seeds on the jalapeno.” Thanks friend.

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The moral of this story is to not eat the Las Vegas roll unless you enjoy your mouth being on fire, but more importantly make sure you go out with your mom friends every once and awhile to enjoy some Mom Time. It’s essential to feel renewed in order to be a mom full of patience and love! And I highly recommend The Sushi House and a Mom Date ANY time with Elizabeth Lewis!

Mom’s the Word

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If I received a dollar for every time I heard the word “mom” called out to me, I think I would be a millionaire. Ha!

While this is definitely an exaggeration on my part, doesn’t it feel like all you hear all day, every day is Mom? Momma? Mommy? My mom used to say…”Just call me Diane.” I totally didn’t get it then, but boy do I get it now.  Even though she was joking, I am sure at times there was a glimpse of truth behind those words.  My mom used to say that I would say over and over again….”momma, momma, momma.”  Did I potentially exhaust the word as a child? Maybe just a little.  Love you mom!

While the word “mom” is definitely a sacred word in my book, it can be overused to the point of mental exhaustion.  Who is with me so far? LOL!  Sure, I love being a mother and I love hearing the word at times, it also can become stressful and draining.  How can one word be so bittersweet at times?  If I had to weigh the pros and cons though of being a mom, I’d say the positives definitely outweigh the negatives.  I mean they have to, right?  They are only little for so long and they will grow up and eventually not need us as much anymore. {Inserting a deep…sigh.}

Mom is definitely the word of the day every day in our house.  How about yours?  Feel free to share any fun mom moments with us.  We would love to read them.

Homemade Strawberry Ice Cream Sandwiches

Now that summer is pretty much in full swing, I’m still thinking about fun and delicious summer recipes.  I was just recently introduced to these awesome homemade Strawberry Ice Cream Sandwiches.  They are amazing and very easy to make.  * Recipe courtesy of Nielsen-Massey Vanillas. 

Here are the ingredients and directions you need to get you started and then producing scrumptious homemade strawberry ice cream sandwiches:

Ice Cream- Yield 1 1/2 Quarts

Ingredients

  • 1 pound fresh strawberries, hulled and washed.
  • 3/4 cup sugar
  • 2 teaspoons Nielsen-Massey Tahitian Pure Vanilla Extract
  • 1/4 teaspoon Nielsen-Massey Pure Lemon Extract
  • 1/4 teaspoon salt
  • 1 1/2 cups heavy whipping cream
  • 1 cup whole milk

Directions

In a 4 quart class measuring cup, add berries, sugar, vanilla, and lemon extracts, and salt.  Smash with a potato masher; stir in cream and milk; set aside.

Assemble ice cream maker.  Turn ice cream maker on and pour ice cream mixture into *frozen container.  Let mix until ice cream thickens, about 20 minutes.

Transfer ice cream into an air tight container; freeze for several hours, or for a firmer ice cream, freeze overnight.  Scoop ice cream, place between 2 cookies and gently press.  Or, for a perfect ice cream round: line a 9×13-inch pan with foil then evenly spread ice cream with a rubber spatula; cover and freeze overnight.  Then use a cookie cutter to cut desired diameter of ice cream rounds and place between 2 cookies.

 *Follow manufacturers directions for freezing container, 24 hours or longer is ideal.

Don’t these just look and sound fantastic?  I’m looking forward to making homemade strawberry ice cream sandwiches with my girls.  My mouth is watering already!


A Day In the Life of A Working Mom

I have been officially back to work now for 3 weeks. I’m a little tired. But my super busy days also reminds me of how much time I used to have before I had kids. My “downtime” is when I’m at work. Granted – I work over 50 hours a week in a very fast paced environment, but when I go home – job #2 starts. It’s not easy being a working mom and its definitely not easy being a stay at home mom either!

 ROUND 1: THE EARLY WEE HOURS OF THE MORNING

 4 AM

The sound of a baby wailing through the monitor wakes me out of my (not so sound – I can hear a pin drop) sleep. This is actually one of my favorite times of day. Just baby Vincent and I rocking in his room watching the sun come up. Baby is fed, diaper is dry, “school clothes” are put on and back in the cradle he goes.

Now I am awake. Time to get moving.

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5 AM

I jump in the shower, get dressed, throw on some clothes… oh no – the other one is up now! I hurry and put on my makeup and go to Alexandra’s room. (Dan is already up and walking out the door to go to work – I have drop off duty today). She loves zippers and tried to take off her pajamas herself this morning! Such a big girl!

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6:30 AM

Coffee is made, kids are dressed, Daddy went to work and now it’s time for me to get on the road. Strap the kids in the car and it’s a 20 minute drive to “school” then off to work. Yippee! Alexandra wants to sing “Ring around the Rosie” over and over again.

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ROUND 2: MY “DAY” JOB

 7:15 AM

Almost time to start my “work” day. The kids are happily eating breakfast at “school” and I enjoyed the rest of my 20 minute drive with the radio blaring loudly to upbeat music. I’m glad I didn’t forget to turn off the DVD that was playing (Giggle Bellies). Yes – there have been times when I make it all the way to work with the songs still playing and I am singing along.

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10 AM

After my 10am meeting, I needed to make a quick stop thru the Starbucks drive thru before heading back to my office. MMMM hot coffee.

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3 PM

“3PM Happy Hour” surprise ice cream cake for everyone. Sure… my diet can wait another day. It just happened to be my favorite flavor (Mint Chocolate Chip). I’ll have a sliver please!

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ROUND 3: THE SPEED ROUND

 4:30 PM

I hurry up at work and finish what I am doing to leave by 4:30PM (the latest!). Drive to daycare, pick up the kids (Mommy Mommy I got a sticker today for being good!), and sit in rush hour traffic on I-75 before pulling into the driveway at home. Oh good – Dan is home. He can entertain the kids while I run around the house. I have about 2 hours to get everything ready before bath time. Here goes nothing.

 5:30 PM

Make dinner (chicken enchiladas) for today and two meals to freeze for later (Pasta with spinach, artichokes, sun dried tomatoes, red peppers and mushrooms with chunky basil marinara). Empty & reload the dishwasher. Meanwhile, running both the clothes washer and dryer. Fold the towels. Put all the toys away (cleaning lady is coming tomorrow). Eat dinner (Daddy eats first with Alexandra while I feed Vincent his bottle). Now it’s Mommy’s turn to eat (alone – yay). Finish organizing the garage while Alexandra plays on her new outdoor toys. “Mommy I have dirt!” BATH TIME!!!! All clean and in new pajamas!

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ROUND 4: GO TO SLEEP… CLOSE YOUR EYES… BEDTIME!

 8 PM

The kitchen is wiped up, the clothes are folded and put away, the garage is organized and I’m all ready for the cleaning lady to come and “clean” the rest of the house. Even the kids are clean! They are snuggled into their pajamas and ready to end the day with a good night’s rest.

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9:45 PM

GET BACK INTO THAT BED! FINALLY, after almost two of hours of stories, tickles, songs, and holding hands, Alexandra is sound asleep. And of course – Vincent wakes up for his last nightly feeding! Back to the rocking chair where Vincent and I started our day. This time, we get to rock and watch the sunset over the trees.

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11 PM

Finally, the day has ended. After a quick rinse in the shower (thanks Vinnie for the baby spit up on my clean pajamas), Dan and I lay in bed. “Goodnight Honey!” And within minutes, we are both sound asleep. 4AM is just around the corner to do this all over again!

 

Weekend Happenings :: August 8th ~ August 10th

Cheeseburger Festival in {Caseville}

 Come enjoy 10 days of non-stop fun!! There will be 50 plus kids events and what would the Cheeseburger Fest be without burgers?!

 {Date}

 August 8, 2014 – August 17, 2014

 {Times}

 10 a.m. – 11 p.m.

 {Location}

 Caseville

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Chalk It Up at Gallery U Boutique in {Royal Oak}

 Come DeCoRaTe the sidewalk with chalk!! There will be light snacks provided. You can also purchase unique chalkboards handcrafted by clients.

 {Date}

 August 8, 2014

 {Time}

 1 p.m. – 2:30 p.m.

 {Cost}

 Free

 {Location}

 Gallery U Boutique
310 Fourth St
Royal Oak

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Full Moon Friday Night Hikes at Heritage Park in {Farmington Hills}

 This event is for all of those campfire + nature lovers!! Ohhhh, and lets not forget s’mores!! You can’t have a campfire without good ole’ s’mores!! You’ll love taking an evening stroll through Heritage Park listening for animals while enjoying time with your family.

 {Times}

 Campfire (7 p.m. – 9 p.m.)

Evening Stroll (9:00 – 10:00)

 {Cost}

 S’mores – $1

Hike – $3

{Location}

 Farmington Hills Nature Center, Heritage Park
24915 Farmington Rd
Farmington Hills

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Birmingham Family Movie Night in Booth Park

 Who doesn’t love watching a movie under the stars?! Bring a blanket or lawn chair and make yourself comfortable in front of the big screen,

 {Movie}

 Despicable Me 2

 {Date}

 August 8, 2014

 {Time}

7:30 p.m.

{Cost}

 FREE

 {Location}

 Booth park
West Side of North Old Woodward Ave, just north of Harmon Street
Birmingham

 *

Saline’s Summerfest

 Enjoy a teen block party, live entertainment, family games, arts + crafts, old-fashioned Historical Trolley Ride and much more.

 {Date}

 August 8, 2014 – August 9, 2014

 {Time}

 Friday: 6 p.m. – 11 p.m.

Saturday: 8 a.m. – 11 p.m.

 {Cost}

 FREE

 {Location}

 Downtown Saline

 *

Walking with Dinosaurs: The Arena Spectacular’ at the Palace of Auburn Hills

 Come see 20 life-size dinosaurs, including the scariest predator of all, Tyrannosaurus. Be amazed by their 200 million year story of existence on Earth

 {Date}

 August 6, 2014 – August 10, 2014

 {Times}

 August 6 – 8 at 7 p.m.

August 9 – 11 a.m., 3 p.m. and 7 p.m.

August 10 – 1 p.m. and 5 p.m.

{Cost}

Tickets range from $19.50 – $59.50

 http://www.ticketmaster.com/Walking-with-Dinosaurs-The-Arena-tickets/artist/1265328

 {Location}

 The Palace of Auburn Hills
6 Championship Drive
Auburn Hills

*

Milford Memories Summer Festival at Central Park in {Milford}

{Dates}

August 8, 2014 – August 10, 2014

{Times}

Friday: 10 a.m. – 8 p.m.

Saturday: 7:30 a.m. – 7 p.m.

Sunday: 7:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

*These times are referring to Art in the Park. For entertainment + other activities please refer to the website for times.

{Cost}

FREE

{Location}

Central Park
151 N. Main St
Milford

*

American Girls Garden Party at Lake St . Clair in {Harrison Township}

Ages 6 plus can bring their American Girl doll or other favorite doll to enjoy crafts, activities and eat garden-themed snacks.

{Date}

August 9, 2014

{Time}

10:00 a.m.

{Cost}

Child – $5

Park Entry/Parking – $7

{Location}

Lake St. Clair Metropark
31300 Metropolitan Parkway
Harrison Township

*

Superhero Open House at Arts & Scraps in {Detroit}

Calling all superheros!!! Come make YOUR superhero costume out of recycled materials + meet Kris Moore, writer and creator of two comic books.

{Date}

August 9, 2014

{Time}

11:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.

{Cost}

FREE

{Location}

Arts & Scraps
16135 Harper Ave.
Detroit

*

Go Wild For a Cure: Detroit Zoo Walk to Cure Lupus in {Royal Oak}

Head to the Detroit Zoo to support an awesome cause and raise awareness for the devastating disease of lupus. Proceeds from this events will aid in the support and research to find a cure for Lupus.

{Date}

August 10, 2014

{Time}

7:30 a.m. – 12 p.m.

{Cost}

$20 per person

{Location}

Detroit Zoo
8450 W. 10 Mile Road
Royal Oak

*

Summer Sunday at Upland Hills Farm in {Oxford}

Open to families for hayrides, visits with animals and a session milking cows. How much fun would it be to milk a cow?!

{Date}

August 10, 2014

{Time}

12:00 p.m. – 5:00 p.m.

{Cost}

General admission – $8

2 and under – FREE

{Location}

Upland Hills Farm
481 Lake George
Oxford

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