How to Support Foster Children During National Foster Care Month

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The month of May is National Foster Care Month. In the state of Michigan, at any given time, there are 13,000 children in the foster care system; at any given time, there are around 250 children that do not have an identified family and are waiting to be matched with a family for adoption.

There are so many different ways that you can support the foster care system outside of being a foster parent. This is a guideline of some things you can do to help a child out of the foster care system.

You Can Adopt

The first thing I want to start this off with is to bust the myth that it costs thousands of dollars to adopt a child. Adoption through foster care is FREE. Right now, in Michigan, there are approximately 250 children that do not have an identified family. 

You can visit the Michigan Adoption Resource Exchange website, and you can read in-depth profiles of the children that are currently eligible to be adopted in the state of Michigan. If you want information on the children beyond Michigan, the AdoptUSKids website photolists the children across the county that are available for adoption. 

To take the first step to adoption you can reach out to an Adoption Navigator that will walk you through a step-by-step process to get matched with an agency and go to an orientation to get more information. 

You Can Foster

If adoption is not the route for you, you can look into becoming a licensed foster parent. Also, FREE! There are approximately 13,000 children currently in the foster care system that are looking for individuals that will temporarily take placement while the children’s biological parents are working to be reunified.

Being a foster parent means that you have the heart to love someone else’s children for a shorter period of time, while knowing that this child’s main goal is to be reunited with their family. You’ll be supporting that goal and creating space to be a mentor for that biological parent. The number one goal is reunification. 

The process to become licensed takes about six to eight months, and to get started you can reach out to the Foster Care Navigator program and get information from a navigator that will walk you through the whole process from beginning to end. There are some licensing rules that one will have to follow while being a licensed foster home. The rules are put in place to ensure the safety of the child. 

You Can Sponsor

It is understandable that not everyone is in a position to foster or adopt a child. There are other ways that you can be involved to support the children in this system. You can sponsor a child. This is where we can think outside of the box to support foster children.

You can sponsor an event, such as a golf outing, toy drive, or clothing drive. For the holidays, you can sponsor a child. You can sponsor a child for a college scholarship, or a school field trip. The kids would even love if you could sponsor a birthday party. There are children that I have worked with in the past who have NEVER had a birthday party. How amazing would it be to be able to sponsor a child for their birthday? Especially a child that is placed in a residential center and does not have a placement in a foster home?

There is a link of the agencies statewide that can reach out to to see how to get in contact with a worker about sponsoring a child today. 

You Can Volunteer

It may not be feasible for you to sponsor a child. Another option to support foster children would be to volunteer. There are so many different volunteer opportunities that you could partake in. A lot of the volunteer opportunities working directly with children require a background check for the safety of the children. A way to volunteer can be to volunteer hours at your local Michigan Foster Closet. 

The Michigan Foster Closet is a group of local closets spread around Michigan that provide things such as clothing, shoes, toys, baby items, school supplies, etc. to the local foster child and families FREE of charge! This is a huge asset and so important to the community. You can volunteer your time to organize and support the closet in your area. 

You Can Donate

Not only can you volunteer your time at the Michigan Foster Closet, but you can donate items to the Michigan Foster Closet to support foster children. The foster closet is ALWAYS looking for donations of the things mentioned above for the children in the community.

You may utilize the list of agencies to reach out to ones near you. See if they are looking for specific donations. Some are looking for gas cards for parents. This helps them get to their parenting times to have continuous visits with their children. Some would benefit from grocery gift cards to have the transition of reunification be successful. The children who are transitioning home will be able to go home to a fridge full of food, and take some of the stress off of the parents. 

You Can Educate

Last but not least, you can support foster children by educating! Educate your family and friends about the data of the children waiting to be fostered, or waiting to be adopted. Explain to them where to donate or volunteer. Educate yourself about the process and what it would take to become a licensed foster home or an adoptive parent. Educate yourself on the impact you can make on a child’s life just by doing ONE of the things mentioned above. 

There are so many myths out there like that the process takes too long, or that the cost to adopt is too much. I assure you that the state of Michigan is intentional about the work that they do, and the analysis of families that are studied. I have worked in this sector for many, many years; it is my passion to educate individuals interested in the process, and educate new workers.

Just doing one of the things mentioned above will make a ripple effect on the lives of these children. You may go to the Michigan Department of Health and Human Services website to start to research more information about the foster care system in Michigan. 

To learn more about adopting, read Erica’s reflection for National Adoption Month.

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My name is Kenisha a millennial boy mom to two boys 9 (Victor) and 3 (Jaxson), an expert adoption social worker trainer for the State of Michigan. I got married to my husband,Matt, when I was 19 😱 we have been been married for 13 years! 🥰 We live in Ypsilanti Twp! By day, you will find me trying to dismantle the disparities of black and brown youth in the child welfare system here in Michigan (and starting to get into the national circuit ) and teach others lessons toward becoming anti-racist. By night, I am crafting and creating with my small calligraphy business Lettering By Kenisha LLC- to help others and make them things to bring them joy! Trying to keep this short , some Keywords that describe me😂 ✨true crime ✨pop culture (raunchy reality TV, Shonda shows, twilight 😂, vampires, boy bands) ✨ scrolling TikTok ✨boy mom ✨working mom ✨activist ✨advocate ✨anxious ✨motivating mamas that we can work out of the home and be good moms and partners if we really focus on work life balance! 💕

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