Mackinac Island: The Do’s and Don’ts!

October 24, 2023

My family has a tradition. At the end of every trip, whether it be a week-long, long weekend, or just an overnight stay, we discuss our “top and bottom ten.” This can range from an excursion, to a restaurant, to the comfort of the bed in a hotel room. Everyone that went on the trip has to participate and it usually culminates in a week’s worth of fun, reminiscent e-mails post-trip to soften the blow of a wonderful vacation that is now in the rearview mirror.

Our most recent trip has inspired me to share some items that were trending in all of our top and bottom tens of Mackinac Island. Enjoy!

Do check out Mission Point!

Mission Point Resort is on the “sunrise side” of Mackinac Island and it’s truly breathtaking! There are tons of adventures to be had there. The best ones include the pumpkin lattes from Boxwood Coffeeshop + Cafe, the apple cider slushies from Round Island Kitchen and the Lobby Bar, and their sunrise hike. Don’t forget to check out their spa services for some pampering, and trivia on Wednesday nights. Plus, their Main Lobby is basically a giant living room–the whole family can cozy up to one of the fireplaces and reminisce about the best parts of the day!

Don’t pack the wrong clothes.

Mackinac Island can be a tricky place to dress for. Unless you visit in the dead of summer, plan to bring some clothes that will keep you warm, especially during the evening hours. A light jacket or a cardigan will suffice for the most part. Depending on the length of your stay, you might consider bringing one summer outfit and one fall outfit to cover all your bases. Finally, plan to walk a lot, so pack comfortable shoes. And while we’re at it, make sure they are closed-toed shoes for (ahem), you know!

Do ride bikes around the island.

Riding bikes around the eight-mile stretch is Mackinac’s signature attraction! So if you have to cut some things out, don’t let it be this. You can rent bikes from many different places, and again, they have something for everyone. For the real little ones, Burleys are a great option that will attach to a regular cruiser AND they have mid-level options for those kids that haven’t ditched the training wheels yet.

The ride takes about an hour to two depending on how often you stop to admire Lake Huron and the Mackinac Bridge, skip rocks, and/or take pictures. It’s a venture worth taking and one you won’t regret!

Don’t forget to train for your visit.

Mackinac Island hosts some fantastic outdoor activities. Whether it’s the well-known eight-mile bike around the island or the many hiking trails, you are sure to get your movement on. Our favorite is hiking to the Mackinac Island Equestrian Center. Here you can take horseback riding lessons, pet/feed the horses, and learn more about their background from knowledgeable trainers.

Do visit Fort Mackinac.

Here you will learn about Fort Mackinac and its history. They have something for everyone. Adults might enjoy learning about the British invasion while in the “Kids Quarters,” kids can build a digital fort and/or an actual wall that might keep the British out if they were to invade again! They also have guided tours or you can explore it on your own. There is an admission fee but once you are in, you can stay for as long as you want.

Don’t complain about the island aroma.

(This tip is straight from the horse’s mouth–I swear!) Hello, we can hear you talking about us! Remember, we live here. And you know this before you visit. So you can dislike the smell (we do too), but please keep your comments to yourself.

Do eat dinner at Pink Pony (and sit on the back deck)!

If you follow Pink Pony on any of their social media sites then you might already know what I’m talking about. If you don’t, imagine lush landscapes and fruity-looking drinks in and around pink umbrellas. They have delicious food and if you pair it with great company, it is sure to be a memory that you will think about long after you’re back on the mainland.

However, please note: they don’t take reservations. If you want to eat during peak hours, you will have an hour-and-a-half wait. So plan ahead and put your name in well in advance, and then go shopping or enjoy the Painted Turtle Flight. Rest assured, they will text when your table is ready!

Don’t miss a sunset.

Mission Point is the best place to take in the sunset and for great views of Lake Huron in general. They have Adirondack chairs that are open to the public to rest on while you have a cocktail from the bar at Bistro on the Greens. Or, you can play mini glow golf while taking in the sights and sounds of the island settling down for the night!

Do eat breakfast at Watercolor Cafe!

Watercolor Cafe is a bit off the beaten path. It’s one you might miss if you weren’t looking for it, but a treasure once you find it. Set right on the water, enjoy a coffee and their signature “Poppy”: a homemade poptart! They also double as an art studio in the evening. There is a “kid’s art corner” so anyone with little ones will appreciate a free activity while the family dines.

Do get a pre-dinner cocktail from Great Turtle Brewing Company.

My family and I love to walk down to the Great Turtle Brewing Company while we wait for our dinner reservations. They have a lot of fun cocktail options but be sure to get the Painted Turtle Flight. It offers their four signature cocktails in one. And isn’t a flight of anything better?

Don’t choose fudge over ice cream.

Choose them both. This might seem like an oxymoron after the last tip but come on, we’re on vacation! Mackinac Island is home to homemade fudge and also has delicious ice cream options. My recommendation is to splurge on fudge one night and ice cream the other OR buy a pack of fudge and take it home and indulge in the many ice cream options during the trip.

Do expect meltdowns.

Mackinac Island is a wonderful place because of all the sights, activity, food, and special treats. Visitors want to experience everything, and so they try to. It’s hard to pass up that late night ice cream or fudge after waiting in line for dinner. So once that ice cream or fudge is consumed and you are walking back to the hotel, expect to manage toddler-like meltdowns (whether your child is a toddler or not). It’s okay, it happens to the best of us. Bottom line–indulge in the extra treat, but expect it to come at a cost!

Mackinac Island is truly a magical place! There is so much to do that it will keep you coming back for more. With the summer winding down, you might want to keep these tips for next year, but Mackinac Island is open through October. Although I’ve never been, I’ve heard Halloween weekend is something you have to experience at least once. So if you aren’t done traveling this year, consider Mackinac Island and make the memories of a lifetime.

For more travel and planning tips be sure to check out Detroit Mom’s Travel Series!

Systems: How Engineering Cured My Eating Disorder

jennifer stallings dewey

October 23, 2023

DISCLAIMER: The following post outlines the writer’s personal journey with an eating disorder. It is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about how to improve your health.

Would you believe me if I told you that systems based on engineering principles changed how I think about life, informed the way I approach motherhood, and cured my eating disorder? Well, it’s true, and hopefully this philosophy can help you tackle some of the challenges in your life.

W. Edwards Deming was an engineer, author, statistician, professor, and leader in the field of quality management. I know, he’s not the person you would imagine curing eating disorders and helping new mothers, but stay with me here. Deming is credited with the following quote: “Every system is perfectly designed to get the results it gets.”

Deming said this in the context of his work as he believed that the vast majority of business problems were created by systems that weren’t functioning properly, rather than individual actions. From the first time I heard this quote, I was hooked. It felt applicable to so much more than business problems. Almost EVERY problem is the result of a system and would take systemic changes to fix.

Photo by Melissa Douglas Co.

My first exposure to this concept was through my work in diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI). The concept is used in that space to explain systemic issues relating to DEI. For example, a company may notice that it is lacking diversity in its leadership. Using Deming’s principle, we know that this issue is not caused by one diverse employee not getting promoted, but rather, a system in the company exists that creates a larger issue.

A Perfectly Designed System

At the time this quote moved into what has become a permanent spot in my brain, I was dealing with several mental health issues. I was experiencing severe anxiety, periodic depression, and struggling with an eating disorder that spanned almost 20 years. It probably was not apparent to most people since I had always been a good student and had become a successful attorney. As a type-A overachiever, I had always been a fan of organization and systems, and loved the idea that this concept could be applied to issues beyond business and diversity.

A few months before my 30th birthday, I found out I was pregnant with my first son. At that point, I was in a relatively stable place in my life. I was married, owned a beautiful home, and had a good job. Unfortunately, I was still juggling anxiety and depression, and struggling to keep my eating disorder under control. The idea of having a baby was exciting and joyful but also piqued my existing anxiety and introduced new concerns about how my body would grow and change.

Making A Decision

I knew I had to figure out how to get through my pregnancy and keep the baby healthy. For almost two decades, I had cycled between dieting, disordered eating, and several varieties of full-blown eating disorders. Over the years, I had tried various types of therapy and a few different medications. Things would get better for a while, but I would eventually slip back into the cycle.

One night, while flipping through the pages of What to Expect When You’re Expecting, I made a decision. I would keep this baby healthy, repair my relationship with food, and start to build a better body image. I thought about systems and how my issues had not been caused by a singular event, person, or comment.

These issues were the result of a system: stick-thin models in magazines, shelves full of diet foods at the grocery store, dancing during my formative years, and the oh so many comments I heard from women about food and their bodies. As Deming might have noted, the systems of fatphobia and diet culture had operated perfectly to get the results of me hating my body.

My System

After a lot of research, therapy, and soul searching, I started to develop a system to change these results. I thought through every minute of my day and the things that prompted negative thoughts about weight or food.

Please note that I am not a doctor, nutritionist, or mental health professional. These are just things that I found helpful that may or may not be helpful to others. Here are some of the components of the system that helped me.

I have a loose and flexible plan for most meals.

Instead of limiting or restricting what, when, or how much I eat, I focus on making sure I get plenty of certain nutrients such as protein, green leafy vegetables, and fiber.

I plan to be physically active every day.

But, only doing things that I genuinely enjoy. If I do not feel like working out or don’t enjoy the workout I am doing, I don’t do it.

I speak openly about my issues with food and body image.

To keep myself on track with recovery and lessen any potential shame or isolation, I talk with my therapist, friends, family, and strangers on the internet.

I stopped tracking.

I stopped tracking my weight, calories, or any sort of body measurements. When buying clothes, I try to completely ignore the sizes and sometimes cut the size tags out.

I tried to remove anything that triggered me.

This included getting rid of clothes that no longer fit, unfollowing influencers that made me feel bad, and telling people when I felt uncomfortable with their conversations about diets or body image.

And, I started using two mantras.

At night, I thank my body for carrying me through the day. I think less about what it looks like and more about what it can do. Secondly, while pregnant, I started saying a phrase in my mind before I ate: “I am keeping this human alive.” This reminded me that I needed to eat enough to keep the baby living and growing. Only after I had the baby, and continued to use this phrase, did I realize that I was also a human that needed food to survive. If I could eat for the baby, I could eat for myself.

Recovery from an eating disorder is a long and ever-evolving process. This system has helped me work towards a happier, healthier existence on planet earth. However, like all systems, it takes maintenance and updates. Would you like to change any systems in your life?

The more we talk about health, the more we encourage others to do the same. We shared snippets of our team members’ mental health journeys to help others feel seen + validated.

Detroit Mom’s Local Love Spotlight: Luxury Bounce Detroit

Whitney Cornelli

October 17, 2023

Detroit Mom’s Local Love series highlights local women and the businesses they have built. We love supporting small business! Today’s Local Love Spotlight belongs to Ashley Gomillion, owner of Luxury Bounce Detroit!

We asked Ashley to share a few fun facts about herself with us so we could get to know her a little bit better.

She is compassionate.
She loves to cook!
She enjoys spending time with her little family.

We also asked Ashley to share a little bit more about her business with us. Get to know her and her business, Luxury Bounce Detroit, below!

How did you come up with the idea of your business, and how did you start?

“In 2021, we saw a need for something different so we took a chance. We purchased and launched Detroit’s first all-white bounce house company. Inspired by my daughter and my love of party planning, white was just so clean and crisp. I always wanted to do something in the event world, and here it was. It came from being turned down by so many out-of-state companies I was looking to [to] see if someone could ship it to me. I asked where they [got] it from, [because] I needed this for my daughter’s second birthday. After so many denials to my questions, I decided to just take a chance [and] start one here in Michigan.

“Starting with just one bouncer back in 2021, we took a chance and made the biggest purchases we would have ever made. I say take a chance because it comes from overseas, and you never know what will come of it. But that same year we [welcomed] the first white bouncer (this is to our knowledge, another company launched a white bouncer at the same time in Michigan).”

Knowing what you know now, is there anything you would have done differently when you were first starting out?

“This is a tough question. Starting out, it’s extremely difficult to get your name out there. So you begin to try multiple avenues as a source to let your name and brand be seen. I think as I think back on it, I would have tried making friends in the beginning. But friends [are] hard to make when people just see you as competition; you’re not seen as someone who is just here to not compete but to start something they enjoy.”

What is the best business advice you’ve ever been given?

“The best advice was ‘Stay true to your brand.’ [There] can be 10 other companies offering the same thing, but it’s something about you that makes you different. Lean on what makes you different. People want to see the unique personality behind the brand.”

Have you faced adversity in business due to being a woman? How did you navigate that?

“I have seen adversity in business for being a woman. In the beginning when I was questioned about who I worked for, people always seemed shocked when I said myself. I suppose thinking we can’t lift bouncers, [but] nothing a dolly couldn’t help with.”

How do you persevere in challenging times?

“One way to cultivate perseverance is to set achievable goals and work towards them consistently, even if progress is slow. It is also important to maintain a positive attitude and focus on the things that you can control, rather than dwelling on the things that are outside of your control.”

What impact do you want your business to have?

“I want to make a conscious effort to contribute to the greater good. I want to be available to all communities and walks of people. I don’t want to categorize myself. I want to be open.”

What are the pros and cons of being a woman business owner in 2023?

“Pro: you are the boss. Cons: running your own business comes with uncertainty, it’s up to you to find motivation, [and] networking–some women I have found don’t like to give away connections; everyone is in competition.”

What knowledge would you share with someone who wants to become an entrepreneur?

“[To have] good and effective communication, being able to sell both themselves and their idea or product, strong focus, eagerness to learn and be flexible, [and] and a solid business plan.”

What do you do for personal and professional development?

“Currently nothing, but always open.”

What mantra or quote do you live by?

“Today is a gift, and I embrace it with positivity.”

What’s your favorite place in Detroit or Michigan?

“Campus Martius Park.”

Where can our readers find you on social media?

You can follow Luxury Bounce Detroit on Facebook, Instagram, and on their website!

We hope you loved getting to know more about Ashley + Luxury Bounce Detroit. Be sure to check out our previous Local Love Spotlight featuring Julie + Sweet Mitten Dreams!

An Introvert’s Guide to Navigating Social Situations

kristinoneill

October 14, 2023

As an introverted woman who is married to an extroverted husband and raising an extroverted daughter, I feel it’s safe to say that I regularly find myself in loud, high-energy, social places. I typically find myself locked inside my mind wondering if it’s too early to suggest leaving or frantically wracking my brain to come up with dreaded small talk for the hundredth time in one outing. An extroverts will never understand the feelings of pure exhaustion and overstimulation that an introvert feels after being in social situations.

As appealing as the thought is to spend every day at home in my comfy sweats and no bra, I’ve found the way to survive–and dare I say even enjoy–social gatherings as an introvert is to go into them prepared with a toolbox of strategies. Let’s break down how introverts can navigate social situations.

Have an exit strategy.

The first thought on every introvert’s mind going into a social event: having an exit strategy. If you’re going with a significant other or friend, ask them how long they would like to stay at the event. Is this a brief appearance to have a drink and say a few hellos? Or is this a reunion that could go into the wee hours of the morning (ugh . . . let’s hope not.)?

Either way, talk to the person you’re attending with so you have a general idea of when it’s an okay time to leave. Then, you can begin the countdown in your head as the event goes on. Headed solo? When you’re ready to go, say your goodbyes, perhaps mentioning you have another commitment to attend (i.e. watching Netflix with a glass of wine.)

Don’t guilt yourself into attending.

While not a strategy, it’s important to remember: you do not have to attend every event you’re invited to. Let me say that again. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO ATTEND EVERY EVENT YOU’RE INVITED TO. Being an introvert typically goes hand-in-hand with being a people pleaser. We all find ourselves having to attend events out of obligation, but if you find you’re guilting yourself into going to an event you’d rather not go to, say no and save yourself the mental and physical discomfort.

Master small talk.

With every social situation comes small talk. If you’re like me, I see someone approach and quickly start thinking of things I should remember or things I could ask. This usually leads to becoming tongue tied, stressed, and so deep inside my own head that I’m not actually listening to the person speaking . . . resulting in looking ridiculous when I stand there having no idea what they just said.

People enjoy talking about themselves. To take the spotlight off of you, ask them open-ended questions that require more than a one-word answer. Rather than just asking where they work, ask about their position and what details it involves on a day-to-day basis. Instead of asking how many kids they have, ask them to tell you about their family and what they enjoy doing together. Listening to their answers will help guide you through the rest of the conversation.

Take a break.

Need a breather? Go to the bathroom. The amount of times I’ve escaped to a bathroom stall without actually having to go, but simply needing a moment’s peace, is too many to count. Scroll social media, text a friend who understands what you’re feeling, or run some cold water over your wrists. Anything you might need to take a moment to reset and prepare to head back to the event feeling a bit more calm.

Find fellow introverts.

Finally, look for other introverted people. We’re always around; we’re usually the ones listening rather than talking, watching and observing, or getting a drink solo. Introverts are masters at reading body language, and getting a feel for the energy in the room. You’ll be able to notice fellow introverts and might be lucky enough to escape to a quieter area of the event together and lament on all the things you’d rather be doing. You might even make a new friend!

Social situations can be extremely daunting for introverted people. Rather than bowing out of every event, try some of these techniques to keep yourself sane. And, always look for the balance that best suits your needs. What are your favorite ways to navigate social situations? Share your ideas in the comments!

Feeling like you could navigate brunch with a few close introvert friends? Check out our list of the best brunch spots in + around Detroit!

Navigating Through the Storm: Dealing with Miscarriages

fotinicallis

October 12, 2023

[Deep inhale] I never thought I would have a miscarriage story to share. I was in my early twenties–got pregnant the first month of “trying.” I didn’t know the heartache of getting a negative pregnancy test or experiencing a miscarriage. Well . . . now I do.

I learned I was pregnant on my birthday weekend. We planned to announce to our family at my birthday brunch and we told everyone that we were getting a special Christmas gift that year. Our baby would be born on December 21st.

On Good Friday, I walked into church with my mom. I purchased a memorial candle and told my mom that I was lighting it for my baby. I knew I wasn’t going to hold this baby–but prayed that my fears were just because of being a first-time mother. Mother’s Day weekend, I publicly announced to the world that we were going to be parents. I was thirteen weeks, we heard the heartbeat, we saw the baby, we were in the safe zone.

Pregnancy after a miscarriage is a testament to your resilience and determination.

Hours after announcing, I started cramping and knew something wasn’t right. It was at that exact moment that my sister-in-law showed up at our house. I opened the door and told her to take me to the hospital.

When my husband arrived, we were wheeled back for the ultrasound. The ultrasound technician was quiet. I will never forget the words the doctor uttered: “I’m so sorry, the baby has no heartbeat.” I screamed, and my husband cried as we embraced in the hospital emergency room.

Numb. Disbelief. Our dream died.

Our little baby passed at 13 weeks. My doctor wanted to see if I could naturally pass the baby before scheduling a D&C. One night I woke up with the worst pain of my life, and over the course of an hour, I passed our little one. I felt like a failure as a woman. [Exhale]

I couldn’t talk about my miscarriage for the first couple of months, but then as I realized how common they are I started talking about it–saying out loud, “I am 1 in 4 women that have experienced a miscarriage.” It became therapeutic and the more I talked about it, the less alone I felt. It really is common. The terrible thing that happened to me, has happened to so many other women.

Miscarriage stories are considered taboo and aren’t talked about enough.

The experience is physically and emotionally draining. I needed to know at that time that it wasn’t just me that it happened to, that I wasn’t a failure, that it wasn’t my fault. That unfortunately I am not the only one in this “club.” While no words can truly alleviate the pain, understanding that there is support can help navigate through the journey.

After a miscarriage, it is crucial that you give yourself and your partner time to heal. Allow yourself to process the emotions. I started therapy that allowed me to simply share my feelings with someone. Self-care was prioritized, and I maintained a healthy lifestyle. I took part in activities that help manage anxiety, such as yoga or meditation.

Remaining pregnant after a miscarriage can be an emotional roller coaster.

It is normal to have those feelings of hope and excitement but also feel anxious and fearful. Remind yourself that every pregnancy is unique and that miscarriages are often due to factors beyond your control.

I was nervous until I held both my rainbow babies. I was worried that every cramp was the ending of our journey together. With the help of my husband, I learned to celebrate the milestones of the pregnancy. No matter how small, each ultrasound, flutter, or week was one step closer to holding our baby. I deserved to celebrate and be excited for each pregnancy.

Pregnancy after a miscarriage is a testament to your resilience and determination. Embrace the hope and belief that your baby is on the way. Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Many couples go on to have successful pregnancies after experiencing a miscarriage. Ride out the storm and know that your rainbow is coming.

If you’ve experienced pregnancy loss, we are here to hold space for you. Learn more about Detroit Mom’s Infertility and Loss Support Group.

How to Upsize Your Home with a Busy Family

Katie Purcell

October 9, 2023

Detroit Mom partnered with Ashley Oshinsky from Higher Living Real Estate to bring you this post. All opinions are our own.

Let’s be real, as a mom it’s a good day if you remember to brush your hair and put deodorant on. That’s just how life is when you have a growing family and that’s ok! But living in a home that adds daily stresses and no longer serves your family just adds to the chaos. If this sounds like you, you might be ready to upsize your home. But, you’re already strapped for time. The thought of adding on the ultimate project of selling your current home and looking for something new and better makes you anxious. Where do you even start?

As a realtor and a mom, I’m here to help you navigate the process and make it a little bit easier on you. Here are my answers to some of the most common questions I get from families who are looking to upsize–some of which are questions that people are afraid to ask.

Where do we start?

I always start the upsize process with an informational gathering meeting or Zoom call. Every family’s situation is different. I need to get to know where you’re at so I can create a customized game plan for you. When we work together, you will have a clear road map for you and your family.

How much will buying/selling cost us?

This is a long one. Let me break it up for you.

Buying

If you’re buying, you will need a down payment of anywhere from 1%-20% (if not more). This depends on how much you plan to make on the sale of your current home, and the financing you’re getting.

Closing costs include lender fees, title policy, taxes, insurance, and recording. You can expect about 2% of the purchase price in closing costs.

For home inspections, I always recommend doing as much due diligence as possible–and this may cost $1,000 or more. Look at it this way: you’ll spend $1,000 to save $10,000 in a possible issue found in the inspection. Inspections include, but are not limited to, a general home inspection, sewer camera scope, radon gas testing, well water testing, septic field inspection, and an air quality test.

Selling

When you sell with me, I take care of a lot for you. I charge 6% of the sales price and I offer half of that to the buyer’s agent. I include a detailed walk through of your home to give you a guide for what needs to be done. Also, I provide you with a credit you can use for house cleaning, professional organization, or a pre-listing home inspection.

Marketing is also covered by me. It includes, but is not limited to, professional photography, videography (including aerial photography/video), staging if needed, social media marketing campaigns, and database e-mail blasts.

The only other costs that sellers should be aware of are closing costs. These are title policy, title transfer fees, and state/county transfer taxes. You may elect to do some additional repairs like painting or landscaping to spruce up the property. This could be an additional cost. I will make sure to advise you on what you should/shouldn’t do.

How long do these processes take?

The selling process takes about 45 days from pre-listing photos to signing at the closing table. Keep in mind that you can ask for up to 60 days post-close occupancy. This means you can rent your house back for that time to allow extra time to move out.

The buying process can vary depending on what inventory is available. Generally speaking, it can take 30-45 days once a purchase agreement is signed, a.k.a. you found your next home and the offer is accepted. Cash sales generally take less time due to having no financing contingencies. Buying will likely take longer than selling due to less inventory in the market.

Can we buy before we sell?

Most likely, yes. I highly recommend buying before selling for a multitude of reasons. The biggest reason is that you can move on your own timeline. You’ll then feel less pressured to buy a home due to time constraints. Instead, you’ll buy something you actually love. Also, in this competitive market, it is best to have a clean offer free of contingencies like having to sell your house first.

The biggest reason to buy before you sell is that it’s an easier transition for you and your family. You can move out of your current home and then sell to least disturb your routine.

There are a plethora of ways you can buy before you sell. My favorite method is utilizing a bridge loan, which essentially is a short term loan to cover the costs of buying your next house. Once you sell your current home, it will automatically pay off the bridge loan. Another option is utilizing the equity in your current home with a Home Equity Line of Credit, keep in mind that this should be done a couple months in advance so you can use some of that money for home repairs before listing or debt reduction/consolidation.

The truth is, in this busy season of life we don’t move because it’s fun. We move because it’s the right choice for our family. Trying to “time the market” or waiting for a less busy season is really just delaying what you know is going to be the solution to many of your lifestyle problems.

I’ve put a lot of thought into my signature process that I utilize at Higher Living Real Estate, The Alignment Method, to make sure the upsizing process is a little (or a lot) more manageable. I support my growing households as much as possible through specific processes, clear communication, and an amazing team of professionals at your disposal.

What do we do with all our stuff?

Before you panic about your amount of belongings, I come to your home and do a thorough walk through for you. It outlines everything that should stay and should go. I tell you where to put things, what the kitchen counters should look like, and how the beds should be made. I want it to be as simple as possible for you so all you need to do is execute. If you need support with anything, I have a team of professional organizers/packers that I can refer you to.

When it comes to storing your belongings, there are actually a lot of different options here. The most common suggestion I have to sellers that are still living in their house is to select one or two designated areas in their home (like the unfinished basement/storage room or garage) to neatly store all the paired down household items. Another option, while more expensive, is to rent a storage unit or POD to pack full of your stuff that will be going to the new house. When the unit is full, they’ll move it to your new space.

How do I have showings at our home that work around nap schedules or for work-from-home commitments?

I make sure to block off those times in the calendar so that no showings can be booked during those times. Usually, naps are around 1:00-3:00 p.m., which during the week tend to be less busy times for showings. During the weekend, it might be a good idea to pivot to a car nap. I know it’s not ideal, but it’s a temporary solution). Or, possibly napping at the grandparents’ house.

Either way, when you work with Higher Living Real Estate, we won’t have your home available to show when it doesn’t work for you. There are also a lot of cool co-working spaces you can purchase a day pass for if you do want to work outside of the house for showings if need be.

What do we do with our pets during showings?

Ideally, they’d go with you. But, if that’s not possible, keep the dog in the kennel in the basement or in an area that is a bit more private. Cats can usually roam free and most of the time they hide.

Do I need to keep my house clean 24/7?

No! Honestly, all you need to do is focus on keeping it clean during the times you know it will be shown. In this market usually, the time frame is seven days if not less for it to be shown and under contract.

If possible, I always encourage clients to take that weekend away up north or visit family when their home goes active on the market. This way there’s no one home to create a mess. All you have to do is clean and close the door. Hopefully, by the time you’re home an offer has been accepted.

How long do showings last?

As mentioned above, in this market most homes move very quickly. Meaning if we list on a Thursday, by Sunday we should be done with showings. Most of the time showings are booked between 9:00 a.m. and 6:00 p.m. The rule of thumb is the more you make your home available, the more showings we’ll have.

Will strangers be looking through our stuff?

The rule for showings is to not look in free-standing dressers or nightstands. But, be aware that potential buyers will be looking in closets, cupboards, and drawers to see what the storage space is like. So store any valuables in a safe and make sure there is some organization in spaces people will be looking.

Can we bring the kids to tour homes?

Absolutely, there’s no need to hire a babysitter for this. Trust me when I say I’ve held two babies at the same time during many showings. I am here to be an extra set of hands. Sellers understand that you have a life and a family. For older children, it might be a good idea to have a talk with them beforehand. Let them know they shouldn’t touch things and just to look. A trick that works well for my toddlers is to give them a special item to hold at the showing so they already have something in their hands!

What if we’re not ready now, but will be in six months? What should we do now?

It’s never too early to have your introductory call with me. I will set you up with the right game plan so that you have action items for now. Then when the time comes, you will feel ahead of the game. That being said, it’s always good to start organizing things and paring down now. Tackle any looming home projects that might not be complete.

Also, keep an eye on your finances. Now is the time to really dial in and work on making sure that credit score is optimized and debt is paid off. Your lender will be able to help you with suggestions on how to improve your credit/financial standing if you need more directions. If you don’t have a lender yet, I can offer some suggestions.

If you have more questions on how this process might look for you and your family, please feel free to reach out! You can follow me on Instagram, visit my website, or give me a call at 248-410-7940.

Simple Ways to Create Spooktacular Halloween Traditions!

Renee Bolla

October 8, 2023

It’s that time of year when the air starts to get crisp and the leaves transform into a symphony of colors. The faint scent of pumpkin spice wafts through the house, pumpkins adorn every doorstep, and costumes are chosen with the utmost precision. It’s Halloween season—our favorite time to embrace the spookiness and create spooktacular Halloween traditions that will make your little ghouls and goblins shriek with delight.

If you’re ready to brew up some fun this Halloween season, you’re in for a treat. We’re about to dive headfirst into a wickedly whimsical world of Halloween traditions that will leave lasting memories that are sweeter than the biggest candy stash.

So, gather ’round, all you pumpkin spice lovers and Halloween enthusiasts, as we share a cauldron full of fun, mischief, and spooktacular moments that will make this Halloween the stuff of legends.

Candy Exchange Operation

Now, let’s talk about that enormous stash of candy. How about organizing a family or neighborhood candy exchange operation? Let your kids swap their candies with their siblings and friends. It’s like a mini candy market right at home. Plus, it teaches negotiation skills in the sweetest way possible. You can also donate leftover candy to places in the Metro Detroit area.

DIY Costume Frenzy

Who says costumes have to be store-bought? Get the family together for a costume-making bonanza! Raid your closets, use some imagination, and create DIY costumes that will be the talk of the town. Turn up the volume on The Monster Mash and have your very own Halloween runway show. Bonus points for homemade costumes that are not only cost-effective but also eco-friendly (toilet paper and bed sheets go a long way).

Halloween Book Scavenger Hunt

Introduce a Halloween book scavenger hunt this season: a thrilling hunt for Halloween-themed books that will enchant your kiddos and ignite their love for reading. Who needs candy when you can have a cauldron full of literary treats? Check out the Halloween section at your local library or bookstore.

Mystery Box Madness

Create boxes filled with Halloween surprises like witches’ fingers (baby carrot sticks), brains (boiled cauliflower head), eyeballs (peeled grapes), guts (jello), or a dead hand (plastic glove filed with flour). Each family member takes turns reaching into the mystery box and trying to guess what’s inside. It’s a fantastic way to tickle those spooky senses and keep the laughter echoing throughout the season.

Pumpkin Palooza

Ah, the pumpkin patch—a must-visit tradition! Roaming through rows of orange spheres, searching for the Great Pumpkin, is an experience like no other. But add a little spice to your pumpkins this year. Turn your pumpkin decorating into a friendly family competition for the spookiest, silliest, or most creative pumpkin. And let’s not forget about the pumpkin seeds! Check out these recipes that will be sure to delight all ages.

Roll in the Halloween Fun with Themed Games

Hold onto your toilet paper rolls, because this game will have the family wrapped up in laughter and excitement—The Mummy Wrap! It’s a game where you’ll transform each other into mummies faster than you can say, “Trick or treat!”

Spooktacular Crafts

Crafting is the name of the game, and Halloween offers a treasure trove of crafting opportunities. Make spider plates, paper plate ghosts, or DIY Halloween cards for family and friends. It’s a fun way to bond while creating Halloween traditions and memories that’ll last.

Ready to Accept a Spooky Tradition Challenge?

Start a new tradition this year. Something unique, something only your family does. Maybe it’s a pumpkin seed cooking contest or a homemade costume runway show. Get those creative juices flowing. Will you accept the challenge and brew up a one-of-a-kind spooktacular Halloween tradition?

Don’t be a scaredy-cat—share your fang-tastic ideas with us on Facebook or Instagram using the hashtag #detroitmom.

Looking for other fun ways to celebrate Halloween this year? Check out Lindsay’s 31 Days of Halloween Activities!

The Importance of Sharing Our Mental Health Journeys

Faten

October 7, 2023

DISCLAIMER: The following post outlines our team’s personal mental health journeys. It is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about how to improve your mental health.

One of the most important ways to spread mental health awareness is through sharing our stories. On this day in particular, being World Mental Health Day, let us take a moment and acknowledge all the struggles that mothers go through on their mental health journeys. It is through our efforts to shed awareness on mental health that we can normalize the struggles of motherhood.

Moreover, let us celebrate mothers, and their ability to be resilient in the face of motherhood challenges. Let this day serve as a reminder to prioritize your mental health as a part of your overall health and well-being.

Your mental health journey is unique to you. We all have a story to tell, and we are here to support you through this journey.

Here are some snippets of our team’s mental health journeys: inspiration, encouragement, validation, + more.

Anonymous

“I have lived with bipolar disorder, among other “diagnosable” mental illnesses, for over forty years. When I was 19, I didn’t think I would live a day past my thirtieth birthday, my life taken by my own hand. I am not sure exactly how I survived the deepest darkness and the bouts of mania, with the behaviors that had control over me. I just know that learning Dialectical Behavioral Therapy saved my life and is how I am able to remain “stable.”

“Do I take the medications every day? You bet, because I don’t like the version of myself that I am without them. I still go see a therapist on a weekly or bi-weekly basis. I changed my relationship with addictive substances like nicotine, alcohol, and sugar. I make sleep a priority; it was hard while in my perinatal years. I do my best not to “pour from an empty cup.” But to be honest I almost always feel like I am just keeping my head above water. Life with mental illnesses is hard; nonetheless, I persist through the hard. Which makes some “moments in time” like when I am listening to the sound of my children singing so joyously, even sweeter.”

Anonymous

“My therapist has been so helpful! It’s nice to have someone outside my normal life who will listen to the things I’m thinking and feeling and help me reframe as needed. One tip I’d offer is that your first therapist isn’t always the best fit! I was lucky and my first choice was great. But my husband saw many different therapists before finding the right one.”

Amber

“Healing takes work and it’s a process. Confronting your issues and devoting the time to learn, grow, and heal is so worth the benefits. Books, journals, and podcasts are nice. But nothing is better than finding a certified mental health professional to guide you in your journey. Your well-being and peace of mind are worth the time and effort.”

Elizabeth

“It turns out, mental health journeys are not linear. I thought that once I got my symptoms under control–once I was no longer suicidal or no longer laid in bed all day or no longer felt apathetic about caring for my children–that I was completely on the upswing. But in reality, progress comes in fits and starts. There are still bad days mixed in with the increasingly good days. And, new layers of symptoms to work on hiding under the more obvious ones. I’m working to greet these dips with compassion and understanding that they’re just one more step on the journey.”

Emily

“I know I need extra help when I can’t focus on anything other than my son’s medical needs. Before him, it was when I was focused on the trauma of my childhood. Like, right now, it’s 9:50 p.m. on a Tuesday. I have grad school to do, work to do, and lunches to prep. But instead, I’m sitting here googling his latest test results. I’ll text my therapist. She’ll respond, because it’s rare for me to text this late. I’ll take a deep breath, use some coping mechanisms, and hope tomorrow is a brighter day.”

Faten

“I realize now that mental health is a part of our overall health. After having three kids, I knew I was struggling, but asking for help was a challenge. I wish I had learned early on that I didn’t have to do all of this alone, and that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Some things I learned along the way that have been crucial to my ongoing journey are to prioritize self-care, learn coping strategies, regulate my nervous system, and lean on the support of my family and friends. Healing is filled with ups and downs; it is crucial to be compassionate with yourself along the way.”

Jennifer

“I have struggled with anxiety, depression, and an eating disorder. Mental health isn’t something you have or don’t have. It’s something you have to continually work at. If you think it makes sense to go to the doctor for an annual checkup, it makes sense to take the time to regularly check in with yourself about your mental health.”

Jess

“As the weeks turned into months during the start of Covid, my mental health really started to suffer (I think that was a universal feeling). With the things I did previously to care for myself not being options–like seeing and working out with friends and finding quiet time alone (preferably while roaming the aisles of Target)–getting through the day became more and more difficult. It became harder to get out of bed in the morning. Everyday tasks seemed so overwhelming, to the point that I stopped doing many of them. I felt like I was in this black tunnel, void of any light.

“I remember sitting in the exam room, at my doctor’s office, so nervous and not making eye contact with her when I hesitantly said, “I think I’m depressed.” It’s been a journey to regain my mental health, one that I am still on. It took time to build my toolkit (medication, yoga, running, leaning on my friends and husband for support), but I finally feel like I am headed in the right direction.”

Kaitlin

“My path to finding mental wellness was anything but linear. It initially began 10 years ago when I was experiencing prenatal anxiety and depression while pregnant with my first child. It was then that I began to heal my lifelong battle with anxiety and faced my past trauma head-on. Since then, I’ve seen various mental health professionals, been on various classes of mental health medication, and gained a lot of “do’s and don’ts” along the way. Two things I’ve learned are I am my own biggest advocate, and that healing doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a process, but it’s a process that is so worth pursuing and one you are worthy of!”

Katie

“The most helpful support for me came from hearing stories of other moms who had experienced similar mental health struggles. Their shared experiences gave me hope and inspiration that I would get through the dark times. I leaned on resources like Detroit Mom to find a therapy office, and I started seeing a therapist weekly, along with a doctor to manage my medications. To make time for my mental health now, I prioritize self-care and basic needs. I’ve learned that taking care of myself is essential for a good day.

“Reflecting on my journey, I wish I had reached out for help sooner and not tried to carry the burden alone My advice to someone in a similar situation is to reach out for support early. You don’t have to go through it alone, and there are people and resources available to help. Seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness. Don’t wait until you are in complete burnout mode to seek support if you’re going through a tough time; manage your mental health like your physical health.”

Katie P.

“I was at my very lowest last year while navigating my divorce. I knew I was making the right choice by leaving my marriage but my mental health completely deteriorated in the process. My therapist helped me to find confidence in my decisions and learn how to escape from many of the negative patterns I learned over the years. Seeking help and actually using the tools in my day-to-day life has made me a happier and healthier person.”

Kristine

“Don’t be ashamed! I suffer from PTSD from being in the ICU for over 40 days and I would sometimes get embarrassed or ashamed of how I’m feeling. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. PTSD sufferers can be triggered without any warning and having the tools to help get past the triggers and uncontrollable thoughts is extremely helpful.”

Laura

“It was 2012 and my anxiety was at its peak. It was affecting my daily life and I knew it was time to get help. Anxiety caused me to leave a full shopping cart in the grocery store and leave, running for the exit. Anxiety made me miss days of school and work. Anxiety made me miss my college graduation pinning ceremony. I made an appointment with my doctor. Today, things are much better thanks to therapy and medication.”

Natasha

“Nothing has shaken my relationship with [my] own mental health like motherhood has. Being a mom pushes us outside of our comfort zone and challenges us in ways we never knew possible. The main thing that has helped me along the way is remembering that we are always doing our best and it’s okay that our best looks different day to day.

“Self-love and self-care [are] key for me to be able to keep that in mind and ensure I’m taking care of myself enough so that I can also take care of my family. Adding in daily personal development books or podcasts to help with my mindset as well as journaling helps me with that. When I need further help though, I always seek it whether [it] be in the form of a friend, family member, or with life coaching/therapy. “

Sofia

“Anxiety isn’t normal–that’s what I learned in therapy. I thought everyone felt the way I had all my life, I thought white-knuckling it was just part of being an adult, you know–“Dealing with it.” Then the first time I took my anxiety meds I thought, “This is what other people feel like, every day?” I was angry that I needed meds, I didn’t want to be “that” person my parents talked about the entire childhood but I soon realized that they made me a better mom. It made me lighter, happier, a better partner, and more clear headed at work.

“Now I know that if I feel off, if I’m not handling the world well, I can go to my therapists (yes, plural!) and they can help me navigate it. Sometimes it’s just something we need to talk through, sometimes we need to adjust my dosage. I can’t imagine my life without them catching me when I fall!”

Stacy

“Reach out to your child’s school (elementary) or school counselor (secondary). We have so many resources to share with parents if their child is struggling with anything related to mental health. We have many partnerships within the communities we serve to get our students the help they need.”

Whitney

“I wish I would have found support sooner. Or at least, I wish I wouldn’t have convinced myself that I was “fine” for so long. I think I had PPD after the birth of my second child, but was never diagnosed. When my third baby was four months old, we had a sudden, unexpected loss in our family, and I think the grief from that brought out the underlying PPD. I soon found myself sad, crying a lot, overwhelmed, not sleeping well, exhausted, not eating, not wanting to do anything I used to enjoy, losing weight, etc. . . I had all the signs and symptoms.

“My sister was the one who told me she thought I might have PPD, and once I started reading more about it, I realized she was right. I reached out to my doctor and friends and immediately got in to see a therapist, who helped me process everything I was experiencing with the grief and postpartum. It was a long process of therapy, medication, and focusing on myself–and I am still working on myself each and every day. I am so grateful for the family and friends who held me and held space for me to see me through to brighter days.”

Mental health is not just the absence of mental disorders. It is the state of well-being and your basic human right to live a fulfilling life. Take time to prioritize your mental health, and remember you are not alone on this journey.

If you are looking for support, we are here for you. Check out our list of therapists in + around Detroit to find someone in your area.

Host Your Next Event at These Rental Venues In + Around Detroit

Whitney Cornelli

October 6, 2023

Detroit Mom partnered with the amazing people at Studio Neue to bring you this post. All opinions are our own.

When it comes to hosting an event locally, there’s no shortage of rental venues in + around Detroit. And yet, it can feel like such a HUGE task to even figure out where to begin looking. With so many to choose from, how can you possibly narrow down your choices and decide on ONE venue?!

Well, our team wants to help make the decision process a little bit easier for you. We know the Metro Detroit area pretty well, and we wanted to help you narrow down your choices so that you can find the *perfect* venue for your next event. It’s important that you spend your time wisely when touring venues–so, we’re happy to make some recommendations for you!

So grab a pen and paper, and let’s get to work. Let’s take the next step in planning your social event, your work gathering, your sister-in-law’s baby shower, or heck, your own birthday party–because you are fabulous and you deserve it. Here are some of our favorite rental venues in + around Detroit!

Guide to Rental Venues In + Around Detroit

Studio Neue | Plymouth

Studio Neue has hosted a Detroit Mom Connect event, and has also hosted events for other local businesses. It’s is a venue built as a blank canvas to help bring your photography, business, and event visions to life. Located on Starkweather between Old Village and Downtown Plymouth, the space is ready to host your next photoshoot, workshop, meeting, bridal shower, birthday party–the sky’s the limit!

The studio offers 1,000 square feet for you to curate the perfect space by working with vendors, or creating your vision on your own. Studio rates start at $65, and event rates start at $425. They look forward to hosting you!

More information and direct booking can be found on their website or on Instagram.

Chief Financial Credit Union | Rochester + Troy

Between the two locations, there are six different rooms to choose from (five in Rochester and one in Troy) for up to 100 guests–for FREE! They do recommend advance notice for reserving the rooms, and you can fill out a form right on their website, where you’ll provide all of your details.
COST TO RENT: FREE!

The CoLab | Mt. Clemens | $100/hour

The coLABorative is such a unique business. In addition to being a co-working space, you can also host events there. The location is great, and there’s wifi and Starbucks. What more could you need?!
COST TO RENT: $100/hour for the designated event space, other options available

The Eastern | Detroit

The Eastern would be perfect for larger events. Located in downtown Detroit, this rental venue is all industrial and looks so cool! Check out their website for a virtual tour of the space.
COST TO RENT: starts at $150/hour base rental fee, 4 hour minimum

The Fed | Clarkston

One of our contributors told us that The Fed has a downstairs rental space, with a super cute vibe! You’ll definitely want to check out the pictures on their website if you’ve never been there before.
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

Graye’s Greenhouse | Plymouth

The greenhouse at Graye’s is historic and can accommodate up to 25 guests. It would definitely be a cozy event that your guests will always remember! They have a form on their website that you can fill out with your event information.
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

The Homestead Kitchen | Westland

The dining room inside of The Homestead Kitchen is a very cute space! It can accommodate up to 40 people. They also have different packages available, depending on your needs, so they can handle some of the tasks on your to-do list!
COST TO RENT: $275 for 4 hours; $75 each additional hour

Host | Utica

Host is a restaurant, co-working space, and event space all rolled into one. Upstairs, you’ll find a space that is perfect for intimate gatherings or baby showers. If you’re a co-working member at Host, you receive discounted event space rentals.
COST TO RENT: $100/hour for the conference room; other pricing information not available online

Mongers’ Provisions | Ferndale

Private parties can be hosted in this rental venue in Berkley. Food and full bar packages are also available! They have a bar/bistro, and an event space. Mongers’ also offers virtual tasting events, which could be fun if your group is operating long-distance!
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

Phoenix Mill Events | Plymouth

Phoenix Mill is new, and boasts itself on being super versatile and adaptable, to any situation or theme! They’re eager to bring your dreams to life.
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

Sage Green Flowers + Events | Keego Harbor

The owner, Erin, has a floral + gift shop on one side, and a small event space on the other. Their Green Room is so dreamy and gorgeous!
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

Spaceology | Westland

Spaceology offers venue tours, weekday rentals, full day rentals (think baby showers, parties, etc.), and vendor events. They offer hassle-free parking and have a list of preferred vendors for you to choose from!
COST TO RENT: pricing varies based on weekday, fullday, or halfday rentals

Suite Studio Co. | Center Line

Suite Studio Co. is a Black- and mom-owned business. It’s perfect for birthdays, showers, graduation parties, and more! Plus, they offer prop rentals for your events.
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

Taylor’d Garden | Livonia

It’s a bit of a blank canvas! Taylor’d Garden is women-owned and can be transformed into just about anything. It’s got a modern architecture feel and tons of amenities perfect for an event of any size.
COST TO RENT: pricing varies–submit contact form on website for more information

Three Cats at Leon + Lulu | Clawson

Yvonne, the event planner at Three Cats, will handle all of your event needs. The space is really unique, and you’ll love browsing through all the Leon + Lulu has to offer next door!
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

Vertical Detroit | Detroit

Vertical Detroit offers rental of their restaurant, retail area, main dining room, bar area, or lobby. Each area offers space for a different amount of guests, depending if they are seated or roaming around the room.
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

The Yard at Corktown | Detroit

The Yard can be the space for your event, for any number of guests! It can be the perfect rental venue for a birthday, a work outing, or a meeting for a business. Please note, they are closed on Mondays and Tuesdays.
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

Zalman’s on Woodward | Bloomfield

Zalman’s offers a cute private room for their rental venue space.
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

Zerbo’s Bistro | Commerce

Zerbo’s has two locations, but it’s the space in Commerce that offers a venue to rent. They have three rooms to choose from, each with its own standard and maximum capacity.
COST TO RENT: pricing information not available online

Why not order pizza for your next event? Sofia shares the BEST pizza shops in + around Detroit!

Detroit Mom’s Local Love Spotlight: Sweet Mitten Dreams

Whitney Cornelli

October 5, 2023

Detroit Mom’s Local Love series highlights local women and the businesses they have built. We love supporting small business! Today’s Local Love Spotlight belongs to Julie McInerney, owner of Sweet Mitten Dreams!

We asked Julie to share a few fun facts about herself with us so we could get to know her a little bit better.

She learned how to sew, which led her to the creation of her teepee business!
She’s a Coca-Cola lover!
She could live in her robe.

We also asked Julie to share a little bit more about her business with us. Get to know her and her business, Sweet Mitten Dreams, below!

How did you come up with the idea of your business, and how did you start?

“After my my husband lost his job in 2019, we both found ourselves looking at what our next chapter was going to be. I was a stay-at-home mom, and we didn’t really know what he wanted to do next, so we looked at each other one day and said, ‘Let’s start a business.’ After learning how to sew in late 2019, I quickly realized my enjoyment out of creating things and doing DIY. When the pandemic started in March 2020 I sewed teepee tents for my three kids, shared it on social media, and everyone loved it. I decided after browsing Pinterest that I could make this newfound hobby into a business, so I did!

“Our business started after four months of research, website design, and many hours spent on my sewing machine. I first got feedback from family and friends who tested my teepees and once I made a few tweaks, I announced the business on social media. My first sleepover was from a second cousin of mine in Beverly Hills. I’ll never forget it.”

Knowing what you know now, is there anything you would have done differently when you were first starting out?

“Yes! Of course, there is always room for growth. I’d suggest new business owners to spend time getting organized and your systems up and running before launching. Make sure your marketing strategy is figured out, you’ve built automations, an e-mail campaign, etc. It’s important because if your business takes off, you don’t want to have to back track. I actually have a course I’m taking currently and promoting to help businesses with this before they get started. I’m here for info if you’re ready to learn!”

What is the best business advice you’ve ever been given?

“That it’s a marathon and not a race. When you are excited about your business you assume everyone else is going to love it and want to be a part of it. You need to nurture relationships and share your concept with others after those relationships have been formed. People buy from people they trust. Things don’t just happen overnight, so you need to be patient with the process.”

Have you faced adversity in business due to being a woman? How did you navigate that?

“I haven’t felt that in this industry actually. If anything, I’ve felt it from my ‘competition.’ Unfortunately, I’ve faced more adversity from other women which makes me sad. When people feel threatened they [choose] to direct that emotion towards the wrong things and people. I handled that by just staying in my lane and [being] focused on what I knew I could bring to my community to bring joy. That’s all that matters. It’s worked so far, I think it’s a great strategy.”

How do you persevere in challenging times?

“Remembering my ‘why.’ Remembering the feeling I get when I do a setup for a family and I hear giggles and see smiles and watch kids hug their moms because they are so happy their vision came to life. That’s everything to me. It’s a rewarding job.”

What impact do you want your business to have?

“I’ve had the opportunity to be a part of so many special memories. Some really fun, some sad believe it or not. But I want people to walk away after they experience our product and service and want to do it again! I want them to talk about it for years to come!”

What are the pros and cons of being a woman business owner in 2023?

“I feel like there are more pros than cons. Pros: Diversity perspective, strong networking opportunities, potential for empowerment and impact, ability to inspire and mentor other women, [and] opportunity to contribute to gender equality in entrepreneurship.

“Cons: Gender bias and discrimination, work-life balance challenges, [and] limited access to funding and resources.”

What knowledge would you share with someone who wants to become an entrepreneur?

“My biggest piece of advice is to remember you’ll always be learning and growing. That’s why I invested in a marketing course and I’m now looking to scale my current business to make multiple streams of income. I’m always learning. It’s a journey.”

What do you do for personal and professional development?

“For personal and professional growth I have been doing business coaching calls, taking digital courses, and am in the process of speaking with another female biz owner about a podcast opportunity! I love how much this business has opened up doors for me for new things.”

What mantra or quote do you live by?

“Life is too short to sweat the small stuff.”

What’s your favorite place in Detroit or Michigan?

“Traverse City.”

Where can our readers find you on social media?

You can follow Sweet Mitten Dreams on Facebook, Instagram, and on their website!

We hope you loved getting to know more about Julie + Sweet Mitten Dreams. Be sure to check out our previous Local Love Spotlight featuring Taylor + Creative Play Studio!

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