An Irish Music Celebration: The Songs That Uncle Roger Sang

March 6, 2024

Growing up Irish, music plays a large part in your life. I have memories from early childhood being at the old AOH on Grand River in a smoke-filled bar while live music is being played. And, Ireland is the only country in the world with a musical instrument as its national symbol: the harp!

Especially around St. Patrick’s Day, the songs of Ireland are playing. My Uncle Roger had a band called “Irish Wakes and Weddings.” His band played songs like “What Do You Do With A Drunken Sailor?”, “O Danny Boy”, and “The Fields of Athenry”, among others.

The “Irish Wakes and Weddings” band; my Uncle Roger is seated with the guitar.

The songs that Uncle Roger sang tell the stories of many of the 31.5 million Americans that identify as having Irish heritage. If you are unfamiliar with the songs, let me introduce you. Irish music is “catchy,” which makes the chorus’s of each song irresistible to sing along with. Audience participation is almost expected when you are listening to certain songs–so if you are listening to “Wild Rover,” you will hear four fist pounds or claps after the first lines of the chorus.

And it’s No, Nay, Never

(4 claps or fist pounds on the table)

No Nay Never, No more

Shall I play the Wild Rover

No Never, No more

I grew up singing these songs at funerals and weddings, as well as on St.Patrick’s Day.

One of the most popular Irish folk songs is a song that I am proud to say contains my first name: “Molly Malone.” There is a famous statue of her in Dublin. And, the most famous modern Irish band is none other than U2. Who remembers “The Joshua Tree”?

When the Irish gather in groups, music is something that is ever present. You can hear the fiddle, tin-whistle, bodran, spoons, and harp, as well as guitars, flutes, drums, pianos, and even accordions. People of all ages gather to listen to these songs; men, women, boys, girls, and babies can all be found in these gathering places.

Irish music is storytelling.

Often these stories are of love, loss, and nationalism–themes that are universal. Still, many others are about libations and the shenanigans that often go hand-in-hand with ingesting alcohol (a.k.a. drinking songs)–themes of the songs that Uncle Roger sang. This has led to the popular misunderstanding of St. Patrick’s Day as being just for drinking. The fact of the matter is that the Irish celebrate a mass on St. Patrick’s Day, and gather as families.

From a young age, we learn what exactly it is you “do with a drunken soldier,” as well as what went on “at Finnegan’s Wake”. Always lively in descriptions, these songs weave stories that are irresistible to tap toes to and sing along with.

If you have ever wondered what would happen if you got stuck in a bathroom for a week, there is a song for you: “Seven Old Ladies”. If you ever wondered where to find a Guinness Distributor worldwide, there is a song for you as well: “wherever you go across the world you can find The Irish Pub”.

You don’t need to be Irish to Celebrate St. Patrick’s Day and sing along with the songs. In the city of Detroit, there is a St. Patrick’s Day parade every year. It is an experience that the whole family can enjoy.

I share this Irish music with my children often.

When March finally rolls in, you can find me listening to St. Patrick’s Day Radio on Pandora. My third child was born via Cesarean section, and during my surgery we were listening to songs that my Uncle Roger sang!

Over the years I have learned many of the words to these songs. I had my first Irish Pub Song Book before the age of 10. Irish folk music makes you want to join in, regardless of your musical ability. It is not uncommon to hear the whole bar singing out to the classics like “The Black Velvet Band” (petty theft anyone?) . . . “AND SHE WAS” is what the audience shouts every chorus.

My Uncle Roger may not be signing the songs to my children; nonetheless we remember him when we gather in March. When March rolls around I am always listening to Irish folk music. My children are now learning the words and the parts of audience participation and will spend hours on the dance floor dancing. Every year, they pick up a few more of the songs, and are old enough now to follow the stories.

Whether it was at the AOH or the Gaelic League of Detroit, music is often playing all year round in these places where Uncle Roger sang. My first cousins, Dan and Roger McCarville, carried on their father’s legacy, both playing alongside him in the band for many years. Though he is no longer with us, his legacy lives on in me and all of my cousins, because to this day we sing the songs that Uncle Roger sang.

March is Irish American Heritage Month! Learn more about the McCarville family story and their Irish roots in the community.

Detroit Mom’s Local Love Spotlight: Sunny Side Up Wellness

Whitney Cornelli

March 6, 2024

Detroit Mom’s Local Love series highlights local women and the businesses they have built. We love supporting small business! Today’s Local Love Spotlight belongs to Alicia Long, owner of Sunny Side Up Wellness.

To start, we asked Alicia to share a few fun facts about herself with us!

She was born at Luke Air Force Base in Arizona on Easter Sunday, facing Sunny Side Up. She feels like that fact has propelled her into so much purpose in her life!
Before kids, she and her husband fostered dogs. They would rescue from shelters in Michigan, Ohio, and Georgia and find homes for “last chance” fur babies.
She loves to travel! A few places she has never been that are on her bucket list are Sedona, Greece, and Amalfi Islands.

We asked Alicia to share a little bit more about her business with us, too. Get to know her and her business, Sunny Side Up Wellness, below!

Photo by Kim Skirah

How did you come up with the idea of your business, and how did you start?

“20+ years ago I started teaching fitness at MSU (Go Green!) and that’s really when my passion for health ignited. Every job I’ve had in my life has tied into wellness of some kind; it’s really just in my bones and a part of who I am. In 2020 I decided to take the leap and build a full blown business, starting with a podcast to address mental health and then enrolling in a four year program for natural medicine! Today, my business, Sunny Side Up Wellness, is a culmination of all of [my] experiences and God given gifts.

“[I started with] a lot of Grit and a lot of God. 🙂 ‘Sometimes you just have to take the leap and build your wings on the way down.'”

Knowing what you know now, is there anything you would have done differently when you were first starting out?

“Not that I would do anything differently, but I will say this: surround yourself with people that inspire you and emulate the kind of person, product, and passion you aspire to achieve. Walk into a room and exude the kind of energy you desire. Stay grounded and true to YOUR PATH, not swayed by opinions or projections of others. Always ask yourself, ‘Is this decision in alignment with my intuition and God’s plan?'”

What is the best business advice you’ve ever been given?

“TWO THINGS:

“1. Your Superpower is YOU. No one is going to do it like you, so if there are a million widgets in the world and you feel like, ‘Why does mine matter? How can my widget possibly make a difference?’ Remember that NO ONE is you. Get very clear on who you are and what you want to bring to this world, and then make it happen.

“2. Collaboration over competition–every single time. We are better together.”

Have you faced adversity in business due to being a woman? How did you navigate that?

“Honestly, I left. LOL I can think of three jobs I walked away from because of adversity and being put into a box. No thank you. Life is too short. Peace out.”

How do you persevere in challenging times?

“Numero uno always is PRAY and get back to God’s word. When the storm is really raging and I cannot find my way through the mess, I lean on God. He is my refuge and my peace. This is the reason I created Sunny Side Up Podcast; to share stories and perspectives through the storms. Overcoming challenges is not a linear journey and the more tools we have in our tool box, the better.”

What impact do you want your business to have?

“What if we lived in a world that focused on the ROOT cause of imbalance? Can you imagine what that might look like? Thriving instead of surviving? That’s my goal. That’s the impact I hope to have. My mission is also about spreading sunshine and empowering others to do the same. We can’t shine from a dim light.”

What are the pros and cons of being a woman business owner in 2024?

“No cons. All pros. Women rock and are busting through glass ceilings!”

What knowledge would you share with someone who wants to become an entrepreneur?

“You will want to quit 1,000 [times] and that’s okay. Keep going! Reprioritize when you need to, take a break when you need to, and make sure your mental health comes first!”

What do you do for personal and professional development?

“I always have a book in my lap and listen to podcasts daily. When you incorporate learning opportunities into your everyday it makes it more manageable. For example, listening to 10 minutes of a podcast every time you get into the car is better than not listening at all because you don’t have 60 minutes to spare. Frequency is better than duration.”

What mantra or quote do you live by?

“Be yourself. Everyone else is taken.”

What’s your favorite place in Detroit or Michigan?

“Lake Michigan is my happy place.”

Where can our readers find you on social media?

You can follow Sunny Side Up Wellness on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and on their website!

We hope you loved getting to know more about Alicia + Sunny Side Up Wellness. Be sure to check out our previous Local Love Spotlight featuring Becca Lamar!

Packing for Vacation With Baby . . . in 31 Easy Steps

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March 4, 2024

DISCLAIMER: The following post mentions the writer’s personal journey with OCD. It is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about your mental health.

When my child was younger, leaving the house was always a chore. Packing up baby and all her things for just a few hours was laborious and I was already sleep-deprived! It was just easier to stay home. But all the mommy blogs I read at the time recommended–even encouraged–moms with babies to leave the house once a day, because it was so good for both mommy and baby. And I’m not denying that. While it was hard, it was desired and yes, good.

What was even harder, though, was packing for vacation with baby.

OCD and Me

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, also known as OCD, is something I have been living with (in tandem with anxiety) since my first year in college. I’ve been to therapy and learned strategies to deal with it, but still, life with OCD can be a nightmare at times. Then when you pick apart those fragments of life like packing, forget it. This is why I start packing weeks in advance before any trip. For those that know, you know.

But now you throw in baby’s things on top of everything and yeah, I was a little freaked out. I’ve since thought back on my first trip with my child all those years ago and how I dealt with it, and thought I would share a tongue-in-cheek version of packing for vacation with baby!

Although OCD is a serious condition, sometimes you have to poke fun at yourself because, what else can you do? So I encourage you to come on this journey with me and feel free to laugh because OCD or not, we’ve all been there!

The “To-Do” List

The first time packing for vacation with baby brings up so many questions, like: where does one even start? How should I pack so it all stays in place and in order? What exactly should I bring? Car seat? Formula? Medicine? Cups/lids? Spoons? Bowls? Cereal? Fruits/veggies? Clothes? Winter clothes? Summer clothes? All season clothes? Shoes? Diapers/wipes?

As my mind was about to explode from all the stuff she needs and in what way to pack, I thought, let’s make a “to-do” list. Ahhh yes, my safe haven: the “to-do” list. The list that ends up having a cool 352 things on it will get me through. Okay, let’s start ticking away, shall we? I mean, I only have 14 whole days to get everything done.

And so it begins: The Pre-Packing.

1. Make a food “to-do” list.

Yes, the first thing on my to-do list is to make a food to-do list. (If you are already laughing, you are in good company.) With a baby and very few teeth at the time, I wanted to ensure she had a fruit, veggie, and smoothie every day no matter where we dined.

2. Do the laundry.

Oh the laundry. The never-ending laundry situation. I’m reminded that one day there won’t be a “laundry situation” so I really do try to embrace it, but some days it’s just really hard to love every flip, every fold, every put away. Nonetheless it’s a great way to start the packing for vacation with baby process. I do all the laundry then start putting aside outfits I would like my daughter (and myself) to wear while we’ll be away.

3. Take baby to doctor to head off a potential ear infection.

I swear I’ve taken my child to the doctor more times than I can count because I thought she had an ear infection. Nope, she’s healthy! She just likes pulling on her ear and driving mommy crazy by always asking myself, “But what if this time it’s an actual ear infection?!”

4. Finish laundry.

Thank God.

5. Lay everything out.

Build outfits, fold up neatly, and set aside to pack away at a later date.

Don’t forget the food “to-do” list.

6. A couple days before the trip, grocery shop for food.

The real question is: when should we go grocery shopping? Should we go right after breakfast and risk missing her first nap, or should we go after her first nap and risk missing her second nap? The choices are so enticing.

I choose after her first nap so that she is refreshed and less likely to have a meltdown at the store. Rookie mom move: I try a new grocery store. Not only do I not know where anything is, it is under construction. I got this though; my daughter is cool, calm, and collected while she eats her snack and looks around in awe. Until she’s not.

About 45 minutes into our trip, she loses it. I head straight for the cashier in an all-out meltdown mode (both her and I). I think about abandoning ship, taking my daughter, and running, but then I mom up and power through. Sorry other people. This was the very reason I was so patient when I was child-less because I knew one day I would be “that mom.”

7. Prepare the food.

I made all her meals during her first year of life, so before our trip I doubled up on food for the days leading up to and during the trip. (Side note: for those like me with older children, remember the food ice trays? They were a lifesaver!)

8. Pack the cooler.

9. And then put car keys in fridge on top of cooler so that I won’t forget precious cooler.

Things are about to get real . . .

10. Pack the suitcase.

My stomach is nauseous. No seriously, I feel sick. OCD sick. There is no way around this packing for vacation with baby thing, so away we go. Baby and I are sharing my large suitcase (seems legit for a four-day trip). I begin by putting my shoes and baby’s shoes at the bottom of the suitcase. My shoes need to be wrapped in plastic bags so as to not get the bottoms of my shoes on our clothes. Get plastic grocery bags and wrap shoes.

11. Then place complete outfits evenly over the shoes.

12. Then, pajamas on top of clothes.

Because, we need those first when we arrive. Intimates go in the netted zipper pocket that lines the suitcase. Okay, we are getting somewhere! Having a thought though . . . what about bumming around clothes?

13. UGH. Grab some yoga pants, t-shirts, and tennis shoes.

14. Take everything out of the suitcase because I HAVE to put the wrapped tennis shoes on the bottom with the other shoes.

I mean you can’t have shoes haphazardly thrown on top of clothes. They NEED to be with the other shoes. Okay, now we are getting somewhere! Oh wait, what about jewelry and purses? Forget it, I’m using one purse the whole time and only going to bring my “every day jewelry” so I can wear it on the plane. But, what if . . . ?

15. Go and grab one extra purse and a couple other pieces of jewelry.

Just in case.

16. Lay out plane clothes.

I do this solely because it makes me feel more prepared for the day we leave.

Time to mentally prepare.

17. Consult list to ensure I’ve accounted for anything and everything.

But also to reassure myself that IF I forget anything, they do have stores in other states.

18. Go through my daily routine in my head.

Because consulting the list with 352 items isn’t enough, I have to mentally prepare for our trip. From the moment I wake up, to the moment I lay my child down to sleep. No . . . to the moment I close my eyes for the night I will think about every step of the day to ensure I didn’t forget anything. IF I do though, there are stores in other states (I quickly remind myself).

19. Shower the night before.

20. Enjoy the 15 minutes of hot water and silence.

21. Get a good night’s rest.

Yeah, okay. Instead I set about 25 alarms on my phone and still wake up every hour for fear that we will miss our flight.

We are not done yet: Post-Packing(ish)

22. Wake up and quickly get myself ready for the day.

We all know how this goes. Creep by my child’s room and into the bathroom without her waking up (yay!). Wash my face, brush my teeth, put on makeup, and throw my hair up. I would love to actually do my hair, but can’t wake up a sleeping child with a pesky blow dryer, so up in a top knot it goes. As I walk past baby’s room again to go get dressed, I hear her let out a soft mumble and I ignore it as I continue with my lightning fast routine. I pack all my toiletries away in the space I carved out in the suitcase the night before.

23. Wake up baby . . . WITH A COLD. Seriously?!?

The child who never has a cold (well, so far in her short life) gets a cold the DAY we leave for our trip? She’s smiling, laughing, and there’s no fever, so no problem! Okay, let’s make sure I’ve packed the boogie wipes. I find out that we are fresh out of them so I make sure we have Kleenex for the plane ride and make a note to stop at a store when we arrive (stores in other states have already saved us and we haven’t even left our house yet.)

24. Clean baby up and get her ready for the day.

25. Feed baby breakfast.

Today’s the day she decides to take the oatmeal and put it in her hair. “Okay, let’s not do that . . . ” I gently tell her through seething, clenched teeth.

26. Throw a granola bar down my throat.

(Cue quiet elevator music here as husband eats his bowl of cereal in peace.)

The home stretch: Post-Packing

27. Notice it’s raining outside . . . Cool!

Well, since it hasn’t rained in months, it seems par for the course that it would be down pouring as we try to get out the door and to the airport in time. Where are all the umbrellas? Grab a couple and off we go.

28. Anxiety disorder enters the chat with the feeling of a panic attack rising.

For many reasons at this point–but specifically because I can’t find my car keys. As I ransack every place it could possibly be (which is really only one place: the key hanger by the mudroom door) it dawns on me that they are sitting on top of baby’s cooler in the fridge. I think to myself, “Next time I need to make a note by the key holder reminding myself where my keys are.” (Yes, this is my life.)

29. Finally, off we go!

30. Upon landing, have a cocktail.

Phew. We made it and all in one piece. Boy that was exhausting. So that leaves us with our last bonus item . . .

31. Enjoy the moment.

No really, enjoy the moment. Because you’re a mom and even if packing isn’t something that stresses you out–OCD or not–something else will soon!

Epilogue

Now that my daughter is eight, life is so much easier when we travel. She doesn’t need pre-packed food, bottles, smoothies, etc . . . and she now helps with laundry and packs her own suitcase. So if you are in this stage of life and feel like I did, just know that this too shall pass (and all too quickly!).

Author’s note: I do want to say that this post sounds like I did all the work without the help of my husband. Yes, he was there, yes he was helping, and yes he was (and always is) very present. We have a really nice balance of responsibilities helping each other where one may falter.

BUT even though I have a partner, this is still what our brains go through with this disorder. Does it break me down every day? No. But there are times it can very debilitating and I hope that if anything, I’ve brought awareness to it.

If you are suffering from OCD, anxiety, or another mental illness and need some support, check out The Importance of Sharing our Mental Health Journeys to find that you are not alone.

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The Parenting Post: Child Fears + Feeling Brave

Detroit Mom

March 3, 2024

Do you have a parenting hurdle you’re working through? If so, “The Parenting Post” is for you! One of our writers, Albiona, has been answering all of YOUR parenting questions over on IG, and we’ve turned her series into blog posts on our website as well. We just can’t get enough of her helpful advice, and we thought you’d appreciate it, too!

Her videos cover a wide variety of parenting questions–honestly, anything and everything! If it’s something you’re wondering, there’s a really good chance that another parent in our community is struggling with it, too. And Albiona is here to help!

This week, she’s focusing on our kids’ fears. Specifically–fears around monsters. It’s something that can feel so real to kids, and we need to validate how they feel while also reminding them that they are safe.

How do I help my child work through their fears around monsters?

Fears become more prevalent in kids as they start to move through the toddler phase into the preschool/early elementary phase. This happens simply because they know more. And, they are starting to understand more. They’re connecting more dots, and realizing that things could go wrong or backfire. Once they start to recognize these things, they start to become more fearful.

Also, kids aren’t always clear on what’s real and what’s not real in the same way that an adult is. So for them, monsters can feel very real depending on what experience they’ve had with it–did they see it in a show? Or, was a sibling or friend talking about it?

The difficult thing with this, as a parent, is that we don’t really know exactly what it is that they’re conjuring up in terms of what “monster” means. But, we know we want to really, really be there for them and hear them out.

Don’t be nonchalant about it–instead, validate.

Sometimes, parents might be nonchalant about their child’s fear of monsters, or they might brush it off a bit like it’s not a big deal. But the truth is this: to our kids, it’s a big, real fear. So, we want to validate it–without supporting the realness of it. We want to be there for our kids, and listen to what their fear is. But we don’t want to say that we’re scared of monsters too, or that it’s a scary thing.

We need to be a little more careful in how we talk to our kids about this because the truth is, it’s not real. And we want to show them exactly that. This can be something as simple as saying, “Monsters aren’t real, but fear is real. It’s good that you came and talked to me about this, because we can come up with a plan to help us so that we can work through it!”

Perform a bedtime monster check!

Fear is real, but the thing your child might be afraid of is not quite so real. So, one idea is to perform a monster check at night, before bedtime. Give your child a flashlight, and together, you can search the whole house (or wherever they want to search), letting them take the lead. Allow them to look anywhere and everywhere that they want to, turn their flashlight on, and check for monsters.

Usually, kids will look under everyone’s bed. Or the closet. Maybe a kitchen cabinet. You can have a good laugh with it and make it playful and silly. Eventually, they’ll start to feel playful and silly with it too, and that fear that they had will start to lose its hold on them.

Ask your child what they need.

You can also simply ask your child what they need. Do they want a lamp in their room that emits more light than a night light? If it’s not too distracting, go ahead and plug one in. Would a dream catcher help them with bad dreams? Make one together. Do they have a favorite stuffed animal? Remind them to look at it every time they’re scared.

It’s also important to remind your child of all the things that YOU will do to make sure that they are safe. Remind them that you lock the doors, and that you practice really good safety rules. Tell them that your job is to keep them safe, and that you are always aware and doing that.

They might also want a flashlight to keep in bed next to them at night. A lot of times, having it there empowers kids to feel like they can check at any moment if something is going on. And once they work thought it enough nights in a row, enough times in a row, and they start to see that it’s really not there, they feel seen and heard. And they’ll feel better.

Fear is a natural thing as kids get older. Even though it doesn’t always feel tangible or realistic to talk about the fear they might have, we have to remember that it is very real to them. So we want to handle it in a very real way.

Do you have more parenting questions for Albiona? Leave them below so she can possibly answer them for you. To learn more, you can follow Albiona on Instagram. Or, subscribe to her weekly newsletter and download her free guide for teaching parents how to get their kids to listen.

Looking for more parenting advice? Our previous Parenting Post blog post covered how to create an optimal sleep environment for your child!

Detroit Mom’s All-Time Favorite Books + Authors

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March 2, 2024

March is reading month! And what better way to spend this last month of winter than cozied up with a good book?! In 2023 I finished 60 books, and found that my favorite books came from recommendations from my friends and family. The contributors at Detroit Mom have provided a list of their all-time favorite books and authors for you to read. So if you’re looking for a new book, this is the post for you!

Our all-time favorite books and authors:

Adelaide by Genevieve Wheeler
“Just . . . wow. I really connected with Adelaide and all she experienced in this book, even though I hadn’t been through exactly the same situation as her–there were enough similarities that I really found myself hopeful for her and how things would turn out, because I saw a lot of myself in her story. A great read that led me to uncover some understandings about my own personal journey through life.”
-Whitney Cornelli

All the Ugly and Wonderful Things by Bryn Greenwood
“I love this book because it’s different from anything I’ve ever read, and it’s gritty and heartwarming at the same time. It’s the only fiction book I’ve read multiple times.”
-Laura Herr

Carrie Soto is Back by Taylor Jenkins Reid
“This fiction book was a reprieve after several serious, non-fiction books I had read. I couldn’t put it down and I really enjoyed the story of this retired female tennis star coming back to her sport to attempt to reclaim her grand slam record. It was a fast-paced, emotional journey right to the last chapter. You don’t have to love tennis to enjoy this book, but it’s an extra bonus if you do!”
-Jessica Rischar Johnson

Dan Brown
“The author of [the] The Da Vinci Code series really weaves a web of interesting characters, descriptive settings, and a page turning plot.”
-Molly Nagelli

Dan Siegel
“I loved The Whole-Brain Child. I have learned so much about myself and my children reading his books.”
-Molly Nagelli

Diana Gabaldon
“The Outlander series tell[s] amazing stories in the backdrop of events that have really occurred.”
-Molly Nagelli

Freida McFadden
“This is the author that really got me back into reading. Her thrillers are quick reads that have so many twist[s] and turns . . . and just when you think you have it figured out . . . you’re wrong! I have read more than half her books and each one had me on the edge of my seat right up until the very end. I also love that all her books have audiobooks released the same day as the electronic and print versions, making her books accessible to everyone.”
-Lauren Dalton

Good Inside by Dr. Becky Kennedy
“This is the most helpful parenting book I’ve ever read! Her science-backed methods and suggestions coupled with her experience in psychology helped me with my own parenting as well as reparenting and healing myself. It’s beautiful, eye opening, and beyond helpful.”
-Natasha Kearney

Happy Place by Emily Henry
“This is a story about a group of college friends who meet up annually at a lake house. Harriet and Wyn had been dating but broke up. They never told the friend group and are now forced to stay together as if they are still a couple. The story is written in a way that will keep you guessing. ‘You are in all of my happiest places’ is a quote I love from the book and think of all the time now.”
-Amanda Nihem

Harry Potter Series by J.K. Rowling
“This will always be my favorite book/series. It’s not only nostalgic for me since I’ve been reading it since I was a kid, but it was truly innovative for its time and paved the way for other future fantasy fiction novels. Plus the entire concept of how J.K. Rowling came to write it is also outrageous and innovative, showing us all that even the craziest idea can actually be a successful one if we take a chance on it.

“This series still has the capacity to transport me into another world when I want to be, and sometimes I pick it up just for that purpose. As a former teacher it was my top suggestion for students who said they’d never found a book they love to read, and it usually made the student like reading. As a mother now it’s my kids’ and my favorite book series to listen to together.”
-Rana Makki

“The Harry Potter series is by far and away my favorite series. I’ve read them all countless times and listened to the audiobooks even more. The books transport you to another world. I was lucky enough to be in middle school when they first came out and got the experience of waiting in line at the bookstore at midnight when new books were released. J.K. Rowling’s writing is second to none and is a series people of all ages can enjoy.”
-Kristin O’Neill

Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet by Jamie Ford
“This is one of my all-time favorite books. First off, I love historical fiction. Learning and entertainment blended together is my jam! Secondly, this book made me realize that I did not know as much as I should about this dark time in recent American history. The struggles Japanese Americans were subjected to during WW2 are heartbreaking. This novel has deep themes of forgiveness and incredible characters that you will undoubtedly fall in love with. It will also ignite a fire in you to learn more about one of the most volatile times in our history.”
-Jamie Freeman

Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans by Michaeleen Doucleff
“The author, also an NPR reporter, takes her toddler around the world to three different cultures to explore their parenting styles. She gives practical tools to raise children who help you (without asking) and to grow humans that are just generally enjoyable to be around. Her tips to stop yelling and nagging are practical in a way I’ve never seen any other parenting book be. I think I’m on my third time reading it in six months–it’s THAT good!”
-Dana Abraham

It’s What I Do: A Photographer’s Life of Love and War by Lynsey Addario
“This was a deeply moving book that was told both through the author’s words and her photos of a life that brought her to crisis zones around the world. It reminded me of the struggles innocent civilians endure during wars and the sacrifices that journalists make to have those stories not be lost during conflicts. It also highlighted the challenges she faced as a female photojournalist. It’s stayed at the top of my list for many years.”
-Jessica Rischar Johnson

Ken Follet
“The Pillars of the Earth series tell[s] amazing stories in the backdrop of events that have really occurred.”
-Molly Nagelli

Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia Hersey
“This book is peace and permission wrapped in a righteously revolutionary cause I didn’t even know I needed. I thought I was doing so good with my work-hard, play-hard mindset. What I discovered is the body is not designed to operate at the machine pace of capitalism, that pushing myself beyond my limits is a by-product of my ancestors that couldn’t rest.

“I am learning to create more pockets of stillness in my day, to set and apply boundaries at work, and release my drive to hustle and grind my way to the top. If you are looking for a way to create intentional rest into your life but feel like it’s impossible because life is moving so fast, then you MUST get this book. A bonus . . . get the audiobook. Her voice makes you feel like you’re wrapped in a warm blanket with a cup of hot cocoa.”
-Charmaine Johnson-Fuller

The Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor
“It is a transformative book about making peace with your body through the practice of radical self love.”
–Jennifer Stallings Dewey

The Guest List by Lucy Foley
“This book is reminiscent of Agatha Christie mysteries which are excellent at sucking you in by not [having] too many clues. Similarly, The Guest List is all about a group of friends and former connections attending a wedding on a remote island when things go awry. It slowly builds the tension from multiple view points and doesn’t give anything away until the end in the most dramatic, thrilling, and he-said-she-said way.”
–Megan Moore

The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini
“This book holds a special place in my heart as one of my favorite books. Written by Khaled Hosseini, an Afghan American novelist and humanitarian, this novel weaves a tale of friendship, redemption, and the profound impact of choices. The story takes place in Afghanistan, unraveling a narrative that delves deep into human emotions and societal complexities. Through the characters of Amir and Hassan, the novel explores themes of loyalty, guilt, and the enduring quest for redemption. It is a powerful exploration of the human spirit, making it a timeless and cherished piece of literature for me.”
–Faten

The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
“Beautiful, moving, and heartbreaking tale of what women left behind during WW2 must’ve went through. This takes place in France and follows the story of two sisters in very different situations. I was sad when I finished this because I didn’t want to leave the characters behind.”
–Natasha Kearney

The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky
“I’ve been reading and re-reading it since I was a teenager, and I’ve found that as I grow, my perspective on the coming-of-age theme changes and grows too. It makes me alternate between laughing out loud and crying cathartic tears. There are so many relatable and beautifully written moments throughout the book that make me feel so deeply, which is exactly what I think a good book should do.”
–Elizabeth Ireland

Toni Morrison
“Reading The Bluest Eye in college was transformational. It opened my eyes to not be ‘colorblind’ and the inequity of American society.”
–Molly Nagelli

Untamed by Glennon Doyle
“This is an amazing memoir about letting go of others’ expectations and living as your most authentic and true self.”
–Jennifer Stallings Dewey

Looking for a book written by someone local? Check out our guide to local Michigan authors!

Rediscovering Childhood Magic this Read Across America Day

Renee Bolla

February 28, 2024

Read Across America Day is a celebration of the magic that unfolds when we crack open a book and . . . so much more. It is a chance to rediscover childhood magic. As I reminisce about the stories that shaped my childhood, I am reminded of the profound impact reading had on my life.

My love for reading began with the infamous book The Monster at the End of This Book by Jon Stone. Its pages, weathered by time yet brimming with nostalgia, now hold a cherished place on my children’s bookshelf. But what made me fall in love with this book about loveable, furry Grover, and why do I still love it today? I assure you, it is not the accolades it received—it’s the memories it evokes.

As a child, my parents’ divorce fragmented my world into weekends spent shuttling between households. Amidst the upheaval, one constant emerged: my father’s devotion to bedtime stories. He was the person who introduced me to The Monster at the End of This Book. With each turn of the page, he transformed into Grover himself, infusing the narrative with laughter and love.

The anticipation that bubbled within me as he read each page: what lurked at the end of this book? I still get that feeling. And I remember the scent of well-worn pages mingled with the warmth of our shared laughter, a comforting embrace amidst the uncertainty surrounding me.

It was in those moments that memories were etched into my brain, bringing me a lifetime of joy every time they resurface. Such is the power of reading. It is a simple act that transcends time and space, transporting us to moments frozen in time.

So, I invite you this March 2nd to rediscover childhood magic by celebrating Read Across America Day. Here are six ideas to create everlasting memories rooted in the love of reading.

Book-Themed Cooking Adventure

Select a favorite book and bring it to life through a culinary adventure. Whether it is baking cookies inspired by a character’s favorite treat or creating a themed meal based on a story’s setting, cooking together can deepen the connection to literature in a fun and delicious way.

Community Book Drive

Pay it forward by organizing a community book drive to collect gently used books for those in need. Instill the values of empathy and generosity in young hearts as they witness the transformative power of sharing stories with others.

Family Story Time

Get cozy in your favorite reading nook and embark on a literary journey as a family. Choose a beloved classic or explore new worlds with local Michigan children’s authors. Take turns reading aloud and breathing life into the characters that populate the pages.

Literary Scavenger Hunt

Transform your home into a treasure trove of literary delights with a themed scavenger hunt. Hide books throughout the house, each one offering a clue to the next destination. As children unravel the mysteries, they’ll discover the magic that lies within the written word.

Reading Fort

Gather blankets, pillows, and lights to construct a cozy reading fort in your living room or backyard. Let imaginations run wild as you snuggle up together with a stack of books. This magical space will foster a love for reading and provide cherished memories for years to come.

Virtual Storytelling Party

Gather friends and family from near and far for a virtual storytelling party. Each participant can take turns reading a favorite passage from a book, sharing personal stories, and discussing the magic of reading. This digital gathering will not only celebrate Read Across America Day but will also strengthen bonds through the love of literature.

Read Across America Day is more than just a day on the calendar; it’s a celebration of the profound impact reading has on our lives and the emotional connections it fosters. Through the simple act of reading, we immerse ourselves in captivating stories and create lasting memories that shape our identities. It’s a journey that transcends generations, bringing families together and igniting imaginations.

By celebrating Read Across America Day, we not only honor the legacy of beloved authors like Dr. Seuss but also reaffirm the importance of nurturing a love for reading in the hearts and minds of children everywhere. So, let’s embrace this opportunity to rediscover the magic of childhood, one book at a time. Happy Read Across America Day!

Follow Detroit Mom for more inspiration on fostering a love of reading in the hearts and minds of children everywhere. After all, the greatest adventure begins with the turn of a page!

Black-Owned Businesses to Try In + Around Detroit

CarminIssa

February 27, 2024

*updated 2/29/2024

An important footprint on the amazing growth of Detroit and the surrounding cities is the presence of the many amazing Black-owned businesses. Our rich culture is embedded in the city–in the graffiti, the music, the food.

February is a special time to highlight this, but it doesn’t stop there. Whether it’s a vegan-friendly pastry, a relaxing spa experience, or an active cycle class, Black-owned businesses provide the necessities and luxuries of living in the Motor City. You’ll also find:

Business owners to help minimize the profound racial/wealth gap in America
More jobs to help grow the economy
Resources to stay/remain in the local community
True authentic cultural expression

Here are 20 Black-owned businesses to try in + around Detroit:

Beauty

Crème Brûlée Salon | Midtown Detroit

Crème Brûlée Salon is your one-stop shop for all things beauty. It is beautiful and right off Woodward. As soon as you walk in, you are whisked to the back to change into a robe to begin your luxury experience. Oh, there’s also a full bar! Talk about an experience.

The Lip Bar | Detroit

Offering vegan and cruelty-free beauty products for every skin tone. I am obsessed with the 3-in-1 tint moisturizer. It is light and easy. They recently announced adding skin care products! The Lip Bar is still in Downtown Detroit in a new location on Woodward! You can also find them in major stores like Walmart and Target.

Nail Counseling | Roseville

Housed in the new Boho Beauty Studio, you can experience an amazing manicure or even a champagne pedicure! Octavia, the owner, specializes in healthy nail care. Try the innovative chip installation or counseling nail set.

Neon Gold Beauty Lab | Southfield

The owner, Dominique, is a licensed skin care specialist. She is amazing! Neon Gold offers facials, hydrojelly masks, and personalized skin care options and routines. In the fall, they will offer chemical peels.

Clothing + Apparel

Detroit vs. Everybody | Eastern Market

This business embodies the pride of Detroit that has now started a movement. This clothing chain started a movement around the U.S. where everyone wanted to use the coined phrase, “Detroit vs. Everybody.”

Dose Collective | Detroit

Geared in collaboration, this location houses a variety of Black-owned brands providing a unique shopping experience.

Food + Drinks

House of Pure Vin | Detroit

This is a Black-owned tasting bar that is housed in the middle of downtown Detroit. Offering a unique experience with tasting, they also have a variety of wine for sale.

Ima Noodles | Various Locations

Serving Japanese-inspired dishes; check website for operating hours. Their locations have the most amazing Pho. From ramen to dumplings, there is something you can find here to enjoy!

Petty Cash | Detroit

This moody spot is new to Detroit’s Livernois Avenue of Fashion. Providing curated cocktails and seasonal small plates, you will not be disappointed with the food here. One of the signature menu items is the Jerk Lobster with coconut curry rice. Yum!

Health + Wellness

21/5 Grind Fitness Studio | Warren

Motivated by her own desire, owner Theresa Moore uses the motto, “If you strive to make the right decision 21 hours of the day and at least 5 days a week (21/5), you are on a great path.” 21/5 Grind Fitness Studio offers a variety of packages including group sessions and personal training.

Tealing & Co. | Online

Tea “crafted to move the human spirit”; also offers a variety of collections for a true self-care experience. The spiced apple is my favorite.

Woodhouse Spa | Detroit

The Black-owned Detroit location offers an oasis experience in the heart of downtown Detroit. You will walk in and feel like a queen with their plush robes and complimentary mimosas.

Pastries

Good Cakes & Bakes | Detroit

Serving scratch-made organic and vegan baked goods. Their carrot cake is the go-to! Their goodies are found in stores all over Detroit.

Sweet Potato Sensations | Detroit

Rooted in a story of love, this local shop offers all things soul food. Their specialty: sweet potato pie! They are found on the weekends at Eastern Market, and in their storefront in Detroit on Grand River and Lahser. Their sweet potato cookie is AMAZING!

Other Great Black-Owned Businesses

Lettering By Kenisha | Online

Lettering designs for chalkboards, mirrors, wood, etc. This is the perfect personal touch for any occasion. She is now booking calligraphy wedding services, the perfect addition to wow your guests!

Lil Dumplins | Online

Exploring ballet through song and dance–especially created for preschool-aged children. Ms. Shirel hosts virtual dance classes and in-person opportunities to learn!

Little Movers Soft Play

Little Movers Soft Play offers soft play rentals including ball pits, slides, and even an electric merry-go-round. They can customize anything from the color of the balls, to having a grassy play area, to including the birthday kid’s name! They have toddler-friendly soft play materials, and that is what I loved when planning a party for my toddler.

Scent Science Candle Bar | Auburn Hills

Scent Science offers a unique candle-making experience! The candles are handcrafted and 100% soy. Personally, I love warm tones and oak moss, and amber is a favorite!

Small Bites | Online

Small Bites creates and elevates any event you host. From individualized cups for each person, to a full-on graze, EVERYTHING is customizable. You can also catch the monthly drop of curated charcuterie boxes!

Source Booksellers | Midtown Detroit

Offering a unique niche of non-fiction books and more.

Sharing, supporting, and promoting Black-owned businesses is important to increase visibility and bring access to invisible communities. It opens the door to close the gap of inequities and minimize the division that has become our norm.

To read more on how you can support the Black community, check out our post on how to be antiracist.

What Does an Eating Disorder Look Like?

jennifer stallings dewey

February 27, 2024

DISCLAIMER: The following post outlines the writer’s personal journey with an eating disorder. It is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about your health.

February 26-March 3, 2024 marks Eating Disorders Awareness Week. When thinking about awareness, I wonder: what does an eating disorder look like? The answer is . . . me. When imagining a person with an eating disorder, you might picture someone like me in my late teens or twenties.

As a young college student studying dance, I spent mornings in class and evenings in rehearsals. I exercised for hours each day, eating very little and constantly obsessing over my weight. This girl–with bones protruding from her collar bone, down her sternum–is the stereotype of this disease. But what might be harder to imagine, are all the other types of people–including other versions of myself–that struggle with eating disorders.

There was the chubby little girl, no older than 10, eating less and less as she learned about “calories” and “diets.” A teenage version of myself purged anytime she ate too much or ate the “wrong” foods. The woman in her twenties grew obsessed with fitness, diets, cleanses, and detoxes.

I was a mother in my early thirties before I finally got tired of the obsession with food and weight. For nearly 20 years, at different ages and a variety of body sizes, I struggled with an eating disorder. Rather than a single stereotype, this array of sizes and situations is a more accurate depiction of what an eating disorder looks like.

A thin white female with anorexia is likely the first thing that comes to mind. This is likely due to the representation of eating disorders in pop culture and media. The reality is, eating disorders know no bounds. These issues exist across all ages, races, genders, and body types. Even less well known, there are a number of different types of eating disorders and these issues can last from weeks to decades.

The Reality

The National Eating Disorder Association reported that as of 2020, almost 10% of the U.S. population, or almost 30 million people, would have an eating disorder during their lifetime. Even more alarming: behind opiate addiction, eating disorders have the second highest mortality rate of any psychiatric illness. With these issues being so prevalent and potentially lethal, it is important to acknowledge that there is no one type of person that might deal with an eating disorder–and anyone might be suffering.

Age

Data from the Cambridge Eating Disorder Center suggests that 95% of people with eating disorders are between the ages of 12 and 25. Although the majority of eating disorders occur in teens and young adults, The Journal of Pediatrics has reported that there is an increase in the occurrence of eating disorders in children. They also reported that in the US, from 2018 to 2022, health-related visits for children relating to eating disorders doubled from previous years. The rates of eating disorders in women over 35 is also on the rise.

Body Type

Not one body type, weight, or size is necessarily indicative of an eating disorder. Although you might assume that most people dealing with these issues would be underweight, less than 6% of people with an eating disorder are medically underweight, according to ANAD.

Gender

According to the National Eating Disorders Association, in the US, around 4% of males have experienced an eating disorder at some point. Also, the rate of eating disorders in men is rising faster than in women. And worst of all, because of the misconception that eating disorders are only experienced by women, men are less likely to receive treatment.

Race

It is easy to assume that eating disorders are less common among minority populations. Part of that misconception is that people of color are half as likely as Caucasian people to be diagnosed with or receive treatment for an eating disorder. Minority populations may be just as likely to experience eating disorders. In some cases, these populations may be at a higher risk; for example, according to the National Eating Disorders Association, Black teens are 50% more likely than white teens to exhibit bulimic behavior, like binging and purging.

Awareness is Key

Do not be fooled by the myths and misconceptions about eating disorders. This is a serious, potentially deadly disease. Raising awareness and understanding is the best way to prevent and treat these issues. Even if someone doesn’t look like the stereotypical idea of someone dealing with an eating disorder, it could impact your friend or family member–or even you.

If you are looking for mental health support for your kids, we have a guide just for you. Check out our local guide for finding mental health support for kids.

Infertility Through Our Eyes | An Interview with Breonna Lusch

Detroit Mom

February 25, 2024

DISCLAIMER: The following post outlines Breonna’s personal journey with infertility. It is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about infertility.

Working with a fertility clinic is personal. That’s why we are honored to walk you through the IVF process with Breonna Lusch, one of Dr. Kowalczyk’s patients from the Michigan Center for Fertility + Women’s Health. Breonna shares about the clinic becoming her family, the uneasiness that can come with graduating from the IVF clinic and seeing a regular OB, and how IVF is definitely not the easy way out.

Breonna is sharing her experience, her journey, and what she’s been through. She also discusses what it’s been like choosing to work with Dr. K when there are SO many options for infertility clinics within the Metro Detroit area.

We’re honored to share the infertility stories of local women in our community. If you’re navigating infertility, you are definitely not alone. We hope these stories help you find the community you need in a difficult time.

Breonna’s story starts back in 2013.

She conceived her first child with no issues, and then decided to get an IUD for a few years. Fast forward to 2016, and Breonna had her IUD removed. She and her husband tried conceiving for a year, but were unfortunately unsuccessful.

Following the line of thinking that many other women in her position have thought, she sought out some help to try to figure out what the issue could possibly be. After undergoing a laparoscopy, it was discovered that Breonna’s tubes were blocked–100%. Along with this, she also received an endometriosis diagnosis, among other health issues. These results were devastating for Breonna and her husband.

Her doctor was able to resume a little flow from her tubes, she was put back on medication, and she and her husband tried to conceive once again. After four or five months with no success, Breonna began to wonder about alternative options–and even though she didn’t know much about IVF or IUI, she thought maybe it could help.

Breonna consulted with her doctor and was recommended to see Dr. K at Michigan Center for Fertility + Women’s Health in October of 2017.

After running a few tests, Breonna and her husband decided to pause; they really couldn’t afford the costs associated with the testing and procedures. They tried to get pregnant for another year and then in 2018, they secured a loan to begin the IVF process.

After their first egg retrieval, they were able to get eight eggs, which then became four embryos. A fresh transfer was performed with one embryo in December of 2018 but unfortunately, it was unsuccessful. The decision was made to freeze the other embryos, as the cost for another transfer was high. Breonna and her husband got to a point where trying to get pregnant became a chore. Yet, they did not give up.

Through her husband’s new job, IVF coverage became available.

They skipped the IUI process and moved right into IVF but then, COVID hit. All procedures and appointments were on pause, much like the rest of the world at the time. In September of 2020, with two embryos left, they transferred one. Unfortunately, this ended in a chemical miscarriage at 5-6 weeks pregnant. Again, they were devastated.

With one embryo remaining in November of 2020, Breonna again underwent an egg retrieval (the previously frozen embryo did not survive the thaw, and was lost). The embryos were tested–three were genetically normal and one was genetically abnormal. They transferred one boy embryo in January of 2021 and were ecstatic to discover that Breonna was pregnant!

However, around 12 weeks, Breonna began to miscarry her baby, Koah Gray, at home. She had already graduated from being seen in the IVF clinic–and after being seen in the IVF clinic so often, it was definitely hard to leave when she graduated from their services. So, she went to see her OB because she felt something wasn’t right. Her OB who confirmed she was experiencing a miscarriage.

Then, about 10 days later, she lost an extremely close work friend during a surgical procedure. The grief from those two losses was immense. When she was ready to get more support, Dr. K. led Breonna to people she could talk to at Michigan Center for Fertility + Women’s Health about her grief, her miscarriages, and her IVF journey.

In August of 2021 Breonna underwent more bloodwork and testing to try to determine a cause for her miscarriages.

But, nothing came up. Her last big testing round included another laparoscopy, in addition to the multiple procedures she had already undergone between 2018 and 2021. Before the procedure, she and her doctor discussed the possibility of removing her fallopian tubes if they didn’t look great. During the procedure, it was discovered that her tubes had no flow. Thus, they were removed.

In December of that year, Breonna underwent another transfer–this time, a girl embryo, named River Lynn. Unfortunately, she miscarried in February of 2022 at 10 weeks.

With both of her miscarriages, she just *knew* something was wrong. Breonna sees so much importance in naming your baby, and following your gut feelings if you think something is off. Throughout all of the loss, Dr. K. stuck by Breonna’s side, and she made a plan. It was comforting to Breonna to know that Dr. K. was with her every step of the way. And not just as her doctor–but as someone who has walked a similar path before and is open about her own story.

In June of 2022–year five of Breonna’s IVF journey–she never thought she was going to get out of IVF.

But, she knew there was a light at the end of the tunnel at some point. Her journey brought her to a mock trial transfer in which she would endure all of the shots and medicine that is necessary for an embryo transfer, but at the end she wouldn’t undergo a transfer. Instead, doctors took a biopsy and sent it to a lab.

It was discovered that Breonna had strep B, which she also had with her son. She took antibiotics, had another biopsy, and everything was clear. At this time, she thought the abnormal “mosaic” embryo was gone, but it was kept frozen because science and research can change and advance. (Through genetic testing it was determined to have a chromosomal abnormality, and Breonna and her husband can decide later what they’d like to do.)

In August of 2022, Breonna’s doctor transferred the last boy normal embryo.

She tested on day three of the transfer during the two-week wait, because it’s not easy to wait! Even after a positive test and beta, she was still worried. While on vacation, they shared the news with their in-laws, after some deliberation on when was the “right” time to share. Spoiler alert: it’s any time you’d like to share.

Breonna carried her baby for nine months. The pregnancy was full of worry and anxiety, especially after the losses she experienced. There was the consistent worry that something bad might happen if she was too happy and excited about the pregnancy. Her son was born in April of 2023. Breonna is so proud to say that he is a successful IVF + Michigan Center for Fertility + Women’s Health story!

Breonna’s Advice

After five-and-a-half years of waiting for her rainbow baby, Breonna has some helpful, personal advice to share with anyone navigating a similar path:

Don’t give up! Keep going.
You need to have a support system around you whether it’s your IVF family, your friends, other family members, etc. People who will hold your hand, hug you, and be there for you every step of the way.
Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable or to cry. You can absolutely cry!
If a loved one is navigating IVF or something similar, and you’re unsure what to say or do, you can tell them, “I’m sorry you’re going through this, what can I do to help you?”
Lastly, have faith in yourself and in God.

If you would like to hear more about Breonna’s infertility journey with the Michigan Center for Fertility + Women’s Health, be sure to listen to her podcast episode with Elizabeth Lewis on Dr. C in the D!

The Most Unique Co-Working Spaces In + Around Detroit

amandaonoro

February 25, 2024

The future of work is moving towards flexibility, and this is especially true for parents. So many parents are working from home, from their cars, from their phones, and are looking for a place to focus and get their work done–and maybe have the chance to connect and converse with someone in the same boat. Whether you’re a remote worker, a freelancer, a creative, a student, or a small business owner, you might find yourself in need of a co-working space that can meet your individual needs.

At Detroit Mom we want to support parents in all steps of their career or learning journey, so we’ve put together a list of co-working spaces all over Metro Detroit, each with their own unique focus.

11 Unique Co-Working Spots In + Around Detroit

429 Main | Rochester

Located in a historic building in Downtown Rochester, 429 Main has lots of options for your co-working needs. Neutral tones and minimalist decor create a calm ambiance and allow members to focus on their work. Membership options vary from virtual to private offices. They offer a “hot desk” membership that allows you to set up your workspace when and where you like. They also allow their shared space to be reserved for photography sessions and have day passes to check them out.

The Back Office Studio | Ypsilanti

Located at Michigan Ave and Huron St., The Back Office Studio in Ypsilanti offers a variety of membership options. Their goal is to provide everything you need whether you are a night owl, early bird, team leader, or independent freelancer. Members have 24/7 access to their spacious building. The building has lots of exposed brick, and colorful art adorns the walls. Back Office offers affordable day passes that can be purchased in multi-packs.

Bamboo | Detroit + Royal Oak

Bamboo hosts modern and flexible workspaces in downtown Royal Oak and Detroit. Both locations are conveniently located with nearby parking and access to major freeways. Their large building with modern decor has ample natural light and feels inviting. They offer lots of options ranging from virtual offices to private offices. Meeting and event spaces are available, and they emphasize community. An Ann Arbor location is coming soon!

The coLABorative | Mt. Clemens

You’ll find Starbucks coffee and beer on tap at The coLABorative in downtown Mt Clemens. It’s located on Main St. inside a 3-story historic building with lots of character. The decor feels like you’re at a home. Membership options include day passes and an affordable student plan and military plan. They have office, conference room, and event space rentals available.

Detroit Parent Collective | Detroit

One of the most unique co-working spaces on this list is Detroit Parent Collective, a combined co-working space and cooperative preschool. Parents have access to semi-private or private workspaces while their children attend school on site. Free Thinker School is a licensed preschool within DPC designed for ages 2.5-6. Detroit Parent Collective is located on McNichols near the University District.

Folio | Berkley + Ferndale

Folio has two locations in downtown Berkley, and now in downtown Ferndale. Both locations are walking distance to their respective downtown neighborhoods including restaurants and shops. Members have 24/7 access to the space and can find private and quiet spaces as needed. They do not offer day passes at this time, but guests are allowed with current members.

Green Garage | Detroit

Located in the Cass Corridor neighborhood in Midtown, the Green Garage is “a shared workspace for socially and environmentally conscious small businesses and professionals.” They offer shared desks, one or multiple desk offices, and several workshop/maker spaces for businesses. They boast a diverse member community and focus on personal wellbeing including various amenities like an indoor/outdoor space, tons of natural light throughout the building, and on-site yoga.

Host | Utica

Host is both a co-working/event space and a restaurant. This modern building offers space to work and event and private rental space in addition to hosting a delicious restaurant. At Host you can work, network, and grab a drink for Happy Hour all at the same spot. Located just off Van Dyke near M-59.

The Practice Collective | Southfield

If you are a Private Practice professional, look no further than The Practice Collective in Southfield. They provide secure, HIPAA-compliant spaces to meet with clients. Their building is located near 12 Mile Rd. and Southfield Rd. Membership options range from an “as-needed basis” to several days per week. There are also group and event spaces, and a focus on fostering community amongst professionals with their own private practices.

WorkCo | Birmingham

Located in the heart of downtown Birmingham, WorkCo offers spacious, contemporary spaces. Membership options include private office suites, dedicated desks, meeting rooms, and an event space that can accommodate anywhere from 30-200 guests. WorkCo emphasizes beautiful design and includes a showroom retail space with custom high-end furniture available for purchase.

Workantile | Ann Arbor

Workantile is a 100% member-operated co-working space in the heart of downtown
Ann Arbor. High ceilings and exposed brick create a welcoming and professional atmosphere. They have an open floor plan that can be rearranged as needed. They have created a close community which includes scheduled and impromptu social lunches and events.

If you’ve run out of space in your makeshift home office, you miss chatting with coworkers in between meetings, or you’re looking for networking opportunities while you tackle your workload, I hope that one of the co-working spaces on this list can help boost your work life!

If you are a busy working parent, we see you! Fotini shares about balancing work and children.

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