Meet Heather, a Southfield Mom!

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May 2, 2016

Hello fellow Metro Detroit Moms! I’m Heather Todero, a small town Iowa girl who moved to Michigan in 2008 to attend Oakland University (Go Grizzlies!) and then met a boy, married him, and I now consider myself to be officially transplanted. I am so excited to join DMB as a contributor and talk all things mom with all of you ladies. I have become so passionate about learning all there is to figure out in this new mom life. As you can see from my initial photo in this post, I try not to take myself to seriously, this is especially true with selfies–I just can’t do them seriously! Anyway, here we go!

My husband, Vince, and I got married in 2012 at the Farmington Civic Theatre, I’m a sucker for small towns and we enjoyed living there for two years. We then moved to Troy and had our son, Atlas, in July of 2014. I’m one of those women who LOVED being pregnant, even with the massively swollen feet and the hip pain and the heartburn. I never felt more beautiful and amazed and proud of my body.

Atlas has been a joy since the beginning. He is a precocious 20-month-old and keeps me on my toes. His current favorites are puppies, Star Wars, and dunking everything in water. He is a very social child and thrives when he can entertain people. He’s a pretty even mix of Vince and I, and it is interesting seeing our own characteristics come out in him.

In December of last year we bought our first house in Southfield and we have been slowly putting our spin on things and making it feel like our own. We officially moved into our house at the end of January and have slowly been exploring things in the area that are NOT Home Depot.

Here are our current family favorites:

My family has a major sweet tooth and Donut Bar being around the corner from our house has been a blessing to our taste buds and a curse to our waistlines! This cute new donut shop has a wide variety of unique donuts, shown here are fruity pebbles, peanut butter cup, and something covered in chocolate. They also have coffee if you need a caffeine pick-me-up as well. Highly recommend stopping in and grabbing a box next time you host brunch or want to suck up to your coworkers.

Detroit Kid City was such a blessing when we were moving, it was a place out of the house that I could have grandparents take Atlas to play for a couple of hours. There are so many fun things for the kids to play with and build their imagination. Atlas loves the art projects and mom loves the coffee. It’s a great place to meet up for a play date, too! The also just opened a location in Clinton Township for East-siders.

I have so many memories of the library in my youth, the way the books smell, summer reading programs, playing the newest computer programs, and paying late fees – I always have late fees, I’m a procrastinator to my core! I was so excited when I walked into the Southfield Public Library and so was Atlas. They have story time twice a week for toddlers, many other youth programs, and SO MUCH TO DO! If you want a fun couple of hours but don’t want to shell out any cash, get yourself to the library. And while you’re at it, there is a park across the parking lot with every sporting court you could want, nature trails, a playground, an ice rink, and a water park. We will be there a lot this summer!

After eating too many donuts I decided I also needed a place to burn some of those calories off and I headed straight for the Birmingham YMCA. The YMCA is so much more than a work out facility, it truly is about community and I love that. I want Atlas to know that he has a place to go to burn energy and he can’t wait until he can play basketball in the big gym but for now he’s enjoying Child Watch while mommy and daddy sweat it out in cycling class.

There are so many great parks around Southfield and we will be checking them all out now that the weather is warming out. I was so impressed with Inglenook Park when we visited. The snow had just melted so there were a ton of puddles which made for some fun splashing but there is so much to explore here. And a bonus is so much of this park is handicap accessible. Atlas can swing for hours but also enjoyed climbing and sliding and running around. There’s a walking path and sports fields here too, lots to keep the whole family busy.

That’s my top 5 for now! I look forward to learning more about Southfield and getting to know more local hot spots. And I look forward to interacting with all of you moms more here on DMB, Thanks for having me!

Our Top Picks for Celebrating Mom this Mother’s Day

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Kim C.

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May 2, 2016

Here at DMB, everyone is a mom. So if there is one thing we understand, it’s that mommin’ ain’t easy!

While we wouldn’t trade it for anything, we can now certainly appreciate the late nights, early mornings and every painstaking effort in between that our moms gave to us. We have a whole new appreciation for toddler meltdowns and teenage attitudes. Sometimes a card is just not enough to say, “Thank you mom. I get it now.”

So if you are searching for a way to celebrate your mom; all the wonderful moms in your life; we also want you to take some time to celebrate yourself. You’ve earned it! Detroit Moms Blog has you covered. Listed you will find some unique ideas and our Top Picks of things to do this Mother’s Day.

THINGS TO EAT: BRUNCH/DINNER

Bird and the Bread (Birmingham): May 8, 2016

A new brunch tradition; also offering food made to go so you can spend more time with mom!

Birds and Brunch at Lake St. Clair Metropark (Harrison Township): May 7, 2016

Take mom on a nature hunt and enjoy a brunch afterwards.

Charles H. Wright Museum of African American History (Detroit): May 8, 2016

Live music and a fashion show during brunch.

Coach Insignia (Detroit): May 8, 2016

Children under 6 eat brunch free.

Cranbrook House Lunch & Tour (Bloomfield Hills): May 6, 2016

Don’t forget your hat! In celebration of the Kentucky Derby, guests are encouraged to attend sporting their finest spring fashions.

Detroit Zoo Mother’s Day Breakfast (Royal Oak): May 8, 2016

Held in the Wildlife Interpretive Gallery with access to the Butterfly Garden

Gandy Dancer (Ann Arbor): May 8, 2016

Take mom to their Sunday brunch.

Greenfield Village Eagle Tavern (Dearborn): May 8, 2016

Making Mother’s Day unique with this family style dinner.

King’s Court Castle Canterbury Village (Lake Orion): May 8, 2016

Free mimosas for mom!

Toasted Oak (Novi): May 8, 2016

Take mom to their Sunday brunch.

Wildflower Walk and Brunch at Hudson Mills Metropark (Dexter): May 8, 2016

Take a walk to enjoy the spring wildflowers, and enjoy a pancake brunch after the walk.

THINGS TO DRINK: TEA

Fairy Tea at Crazy Wisdom Tea Room (Ann Arbor): May 8, 2016

Tea and cookies served by real fairies. Wear your wings!

Tea in the Garden at Wolcott Mill Metropark: May 8, 2016

Tea and light snacks plus a free gift for Mom!

Tea at Matthaei Botanical Gardens (Ann Arbor): May 8, 2016

Bring mom and help us celebrate her day with a special tea in the conservatory.

Tea at the Townsend Hotel (Birmingham): May 8, 2016

Dine on salads, soups and a selection of finger sandwiches and desserts.

THINGS TO DO: SHOWS AND SHOPPING

Artisans Market at Matthaei Botanical Gardens (Ann Arbor): May 7, 2016

Local artisans and craftspeople offering unique and hand-crafted wares.

Detroit Tigers at Comerica Park (Detroit): May 7 and May 8, 2016

Bring mom to watch the Tigers beat the Rangers!

Eastern Market (Detroit): May 7, 2016

Detroit’s most original destinations for fresh flowers, local art and good eats!

Flower & Art Fair (Lake Orion): May 6-7, 2016

The 15^Th annual fair hosts 60-70 vendors offering everything from flowers to crafts!

Forgotten Harvest’s 24th Annual Comedy Night the Fox Theatre (Detroit): May 7, 2016

Proceeds will benefit Forgotten Harvest’s 280 agencies in Wayne, Oakland and Macomb counties.

Gladys Knight & The O’Jays at the Fox (Detroit): May 8, 2016

Get ready for a double shot of soul from these award winners!

Motherhood Out Loud at the Matrix Theatre Company (Detroit): May 6-8, 2016

Stage-read monologues about childbirth, life with kids, and tales of motherhood.

Royal Oak in Bloom (Royal Oak City Hall): May 8, 2016

A 23-year tradition flower and garden sale.

Sistas the Musical at Meadowbrook Theater (Auburn Hills): May 7 – May 8, 2016

Story of five women celebrating their stories (and their family matriarchs) and African-American history through music.

THINGS WITH KIDS: EVERYTHING!

Moms ‘n’ Marshmallows at Stony Creek Metropark (Shelby Township): May 7, 2016

Bring Mom to this celebration campfire. Relax around the fire then celebrate your Mom by making her a special s’more.

Mudpies for Mom at Indian Springs Metropark (White Lake): May 7, 2016

Kids can get their hands dirty to make a muddy masterpiece for mom. Dress for a mess.

Picture Frame for Mom at Wolcott Mill Metropark (Ray Township): May 7, 2016

Kids can make a handmade gift for Mother’s Day. Wolcott will provide a variety of materials and ideas so children can create a custom frame perfect for a family photo.

Sundae and Wagon Ride at Wolcott Mill Metropark (Ray Township): May 8, 2016

Enjoy a delicious ice cream sundae before or after a scenic wagon ride through the farm.

Walk-a-Mom at Stony Creek Metropark (Shelby Townshgip): May 8, 2016

Take mom on walk through the wood and get a garden flower to plant at home!

Meet Kelly: A Small Town, Working Mom

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April 29, 2016

My name is Kelly and I was raised and reside in the small town of Marysville, Michigan – just south of Port Huron and just under an hour north of Detroit. I am a new mom to an 8 month active, inquisitive and beautiful baby girl named Finley, and step-mom an intelligent, compassionate and fun 5-year-old, Lailah. My boyfriend, Mike, and I have been together 4 fun-filled, crazy years – and I wouldn’t change one minute.

I help manage my family’s restaurant, Junction Buoy. It’s a small restaurant on the St. Clair River that has been owned and operated by my mother and grandmother for nearly 33 years. I love what I do and I’m very lucky to work alongside my family – The Buoy has grown very close to my heart over the last few years.

I’m a Spartan and lover of all things MSU! Go Green! I’m a passionate person, I’m strong willed and loyal and I love my family and friends more than anything. I’m sarcastic and witty, honest and caring. I’m excited to be part of the DMB Family and connect with moms from different backgrounds that are on a similar journey.

Here are 5 things that I love about my hometown:

Junction Buoy – It wouldn’t be right if my family’s restaurant didn’t make my {Favorites List}, right? Perfectly placed on the St. Clair River is the only waterfront restaurant in Marysville serving American favorites from burgers to sirloin to our specialty, Fresh Great Lakes Fish. Watch the freighters pass by from just about any seat in the house, including a full service deck. You’ll surely feel like family from the minute you walk in the door!
The St. Clair River – It’s beautiful and it’s always changing! The freighters, the wildlife, the ice jams in the winter…there’s always something to take your breath away. I almost forgot to mention: you can see Canada on the other side! Be sure to bring your camera along while you’re enjoying Marysville’s waterfront park and/or splash pad, enjoying a riverside lunch or building sand castles on our newly renovated beach.
Blue Water Bridge – Living near the Blue Water Bridge is something a lot of people from my area probably take for granted. There’s something so relaxing about visiting the boardwalk at night, looking up at the massive bridges and listening to the waves. If you’re into biking, I highly suggest the Bay to Bridge Trail!
Seasonal Events – Port Huron’s Blue Water Fest, St. Clair Riverfest, Volleygrass, Float Down and Art in the Park are some of the major events we have during summer weekends in our area. It draws a lot of people from the surrounding areas to our community, and it’s always a party! Check out the Family Night (usually the first night of the event weekend) during the Port Huron and St. Clair Boat Race weekends. In the winter, bring your kids to the Marysville Christmas in the Park Display and Chilly Fest in Port Huron!
Sense of Community – Our area has a very strong sense of community. Everyone knows each other, everyone looks out for one another, and everyone comes together during a time of need. I value this aspect of my area, especially since it’s often easier to focus on the negatives of the world. I hope my kids learn to appreciate this aspect as much as I have and love calling the Blue Water Area their home.

Plan a day trip for your family to the Blue Water Area, you won’t regret it!

Been to the area? Where are your favorite places to visit?

An Open Letter of Gratitude to My Big Sister on Mother’s Day

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Nicole Torres

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April 29, 2016

To My Big Sister:

You know this st Nicole_Steph_Baby ory as well as I do: When the nurse came into the delivery room after I was born, she asked, “How many mothers does this child have?!” She counted four: my mother, my grandmother, my godmother, and you. At ten years old, you were already my caretaker, my protector, and my guide.

With a decade between us, we are — by many definitions — a generation apart. As I’ve grown up and joined you in the ranks of adults, then wives, and now mothers, our lives have come close enough to frequently converge. And yet, there is one constant to who you’ve always been in my life, and that maternity nurse saw it right away.

You were the one who taught me how to ride a bike and how to jump from the high dive. When I was young, you brushed through my matted, curly hair and when I got older, you taught me how to blow out those same curls. As a child, I used to sit cross-legged on your comforter and watch as you flawlessly applied your make-up and slipped on your high heels (that I would secretly walk around your room in when you weren’t home). As a grown woman, I still look on in awe as you somehow manage to look so perfectly put together, regardless of whether you are getting ready to go out or go to bed. Most days, I still feel like that little girl on the foot of your bed, hoping to one day catch up.

More than that, though, I’ve watched your courage, your confidence, and your compassion. You have always been the one paving the way. You applied for college all on your own, breaking through our anxious mom’s ambivalence about letting her children move away from home. You were the one who planned a trip to Disneyworld when I was twelve because you decided I couldn’t leave childhood without the Magic Kingdom. You took on jobs that put you in charge of men twice your age, never letting anyone else set your limitations. You were the one to tell me that dad was sick; you were the one to get the strongest and most stubborn man I’ve ever known to admit he needed help. You were the one who called me when mom’s diagnosis was final. “I know,” you told me, “we just went through this. But here we are again.” You were the one who taught me to accept both my feelings and my fates. You are the one who, in the most difficult situations I face, I find myself asking: “What would you do?”

And I know I haven’t always been easy on you. When you graduated from college and wanted to explore the world for yourself, I cried on a regular basis until you came home. You were a victim of “Mom Guilt” long before you ever gave birth. You had the pressures of a mother wanting the best for me with the added burden of being my confidante — giving you all that much more to worry about. You knew the details of my jobs in inner-city schools, work I sugar-coated for our over-protective mom. I’ve given you an undue share of stress while simultaneously pushing back against your concern; I’ve sometimes placed my independence at odds with your involvement.

At the same time, I’m also sure you know already that you’ve been the punchline to more than one joke. You know, those usually reserved for mothers-in-law about panic-induced cleaning before a visit. Or the slights about your health-food fanaticism when I promise to sneak your children junk-food like prison-style contraband. But the truth is, I’ve always wanted from you what every daughter wants from a mother: for you to approve and to be proud.

Maybe this is the lot in life of the oldest sibling. I watch my son, not even five years old, bear the responsibility for his little sister’s well-being. And I appreciate the tremendous weight taken upon those tiny shoulders. And I realize I’ve always felt what I don’t always say: Thank you, and I love you.

Happy Mother’s Day.

Love,

Your Little Sister

What honorary mom are you paying tribute to this Mother’s Day??

Meet Megan, Home Again in Metro-Detroit!

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Megan G.

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April 28, 2016

Like a deep-seeded friendship, Metro-Detroit has always been there for me. After over a decade apart we’ve been able to pick-up right where we left off. Together and apart we’ve seen unexpected challenges and roadblocks, overwhelming growth and rebuilding. I’m so excited and thankful to be a part of the Detroit Moms Blog team and share my journey with you!

Here’s a quick catch-up of the last 10 years…

I grew up in Novi and pursued my undergraduate degree at Central Michigan University (Fire Up Chips!) where I met my awesomely kind and patient husband Aaron. The day after we got married we packed a U-Haul and moved down to Oxford, MS where I earned my Master’s degree at the University of Mississippi (Hotty Toddy!). After that we settled in Chicago for six years. Upon learning we were expecting our first child (daughter Ro), my husband and I hightailed it back to Livonia – sound insane and a bit familiar? I landed a job at a company downtown so I get the best of both worlds: city and suburbia! There are so many mini miracles that made this whirlwind transition amazing and serendipitous but that’s another story for another day. For right now, I’ll tell you why I love Livonia and Detroit….

Livonia Public Library
As a working mom I appreciate any place that offers kids activities after normal business hours or on weekends. I LOVE any place that offers those things for free! Enter the library. Livonia has three separate branches and as if that weren’t enough a Livonia Public Library card is also a library card at nearly sixty (yes, 6-0!) other Metro Detroit libraries, offering you the all the same privileges. Our closest branch has pretty consistently offered Family Story Time on a weekday evening. They also have a huge children’s section, board books for check-out (please tell me I’m not the only one happily surprised by that?!), book clubs, volunteer opportunities, Michigan Activity Passes, an e-newsletter, special events, an art gallery, and so much more! So much FREE fun! (Not a Livonia resident? Check out DMB’s Library Guide here.)

Ro at Musical Mayham, a children's event offered at the Livonia Public Library — Ro at Musical Mayham, a children’s event offered at the Livonia Public Library.

Campus Martius Park
A lot of people ask me if I miss Chicago. Heck no! I mean, don’t get me wrong Chicago is an inspiring city and we still have many friends there. But I step outside my office building out on to Woodward Avenue and am seconds from the epicenter of downtown Detroit! Campus Martius offers year-round after-hours and weekend fun, family activities, or just a quick break from the daily grind. Not to mention if you’ve found yourself in Campus Martius, you’ve found yourself walking distance to Comerica Park, Ford Field, the Opera House, several theaters, Cobo Center, the RenCen and many other iconic, entertaining, and delicious venues. Oh, and Chicago does NOT have a volleyball court in between skyscrapers!

Team G at Comerica Park, just walking distance from Campus Martius, in June 2015.

My Neighborhood
Cliche and Mr. Rogers-like? Ok maybe so. Completely unfounded? Not a chance! Ever a homebody it’s very important to me that I love where I live. But being pregnant and a smidge rushed on finding a house this is one of those serendipitous things I mentioned. The subdivision we live in is minutes from downtown Plymouth and downtown Northville; obviously places I also love. In true Livonia subdivision form, we have a pool club and elementary school in the center with a sprinkling of playgrounds, jungle-gyms, and ball fields. Within a few miles radius I have my favorite grocery stores, ice cream place, chiropractor, salon, expressways, mall, my mom, and daycare. My family and I, which includes two French Bulldogs, love to take walks around the neighborhood on our warm days. It’s our go-to family activity when the winter cabin fever sets in.

Aaron and Little Ro coming down the slide on one of our many walks around the neighborhood. — Daddy and Little Ro coming down the slide on one of our many walks around the neighborhood.

I could keep gushing about all the reasons we moved back to Metro Detroit and settled in Livonia. What do you love about Livonia?!

Why I’m Happy to Return to Work After Maternity Leave

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Meghan Simonie

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April 28, 2016

It was such a different feeling after my first baby. I spent my maternity leave tired, but full of snuggles and bonding time with my little girl. The thought of leaving her 4 days a week for over 10 plus hours a day was tough. I knew I wanted to keep working, to have that essential adult time, but I was also unprepared for how often I would feel a pull to be home with her. It was a constant inner battle. I think I felt this way until my first full day home alone with my second baby.

My husband returned to work after our second child after about a week. There I was, ready to figure things out all on my own. My newborn son was still in the ‘sleep all the time only wake up to eat’ phase so I was looking forward to that snuggling and bonding time I had with my daughter. Except this time, I had a two-year-old.

My daughter became this crazy combination of terrible twos and a jealous older sibling all in just a matter of minutes during that first day that she had to share her mommy with someone else. Suddenly, everything, and I mean everything, turned into meltdown city. It was one of the longest days ever. My husband came home visibly stressed after a long day back to work (to a business which he co-owns and operates). Most days I can understand how stressed he is coming home after dealing with so much at work but this day, this day I was at a breaking point. I think all he did when he got home was ask me how my day was… and I lost it. I started talking about everything that went so horribly wrong that day and how much I craved the days of my first maternity leave when I could just snuggle my adorable little baby. Before I had finished my synopsis of the day, I realized tears were coming down my face. I realized in that moment, I wouldn’t be counting down the days of my maternity leave with dread, but with anticipation.

I do have a greater appreciation for those moms that stay at home, I honestly don’t know how you do it. I was a few days short of pulling my hair out when it was finally time to return to work. Obviously, over the course of my maternity leave, my daughter’s behavior improved once she figured out this second kid wasn’t going anywhere. She and I figured out ways to make things work and she is really trying to understand the word ‘patience’. I know I am more tired now than I will probably ever be. My husband and I are doing alternate night feedings so at least one of us gets a full night of sleep every other night (even though the mom in me wakes up every night checking the monitor anyway). I get up at 5:30 in the morning to get ready for work, get the kids moving with my husband, and head off to work. I get home from work around 6:00 at night and try to take the kids for a walk before my husband gets home and we sit for dinner. It’s definitely hard work working full-time and being a mom, but it is totally worth it for me, for my sanity.

12049341_10108050596342214_273444430395345174_n — Lots of coffee on day 1 back at work after baby #2.

I love my kids more than anything, but I am totally fine with admitting the fact that I am not cut out to stay at home full-time. They are lucky to have alternating days with their grandparents and it makes the time I do have with my kids outside of work, that much better. I am excited to come home and see them and cuddle them. I look forward to our time on weekends together. I am not so utterly spent and overdone with kid time all week that I feel like I am only part of a mom. Working helps me feel like a stronger, more confident mom with the time I do have with my kids, while allowing me the adult time I need doing a job I worked very hard to obtain.

It may seem crass or cold that I am not so warm and fuzzy about spending every waking second with my children, but for me, it is more about putting value in myself. It is about admitting that I need adult time in order to be a happier person and therefore happier mom. It is about showing my kids that your world doesn’t have to revolve around them and that a mom doesn’t have to give up her work because she feels guilty not being at home. It is all about teaching my kids balance and showing them that I am happy working AND being at home with them. This may not be what works for other people, but this also shows my kids that you have to figure out what works best for you.

Detroit Moms Blog on FOX 2 MORNING News!

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Courtney

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April 26, 2016

BLOOM: A New & Expectant Mom Event at Rust Belt Market in Ferndale is less than a day away! Join us for an amazing evening of relaxation and pampering, chat with local experts, and enjoy some of our favorite sweet treats and shop with wonderful local businesses! Why should you attend BLOOM? Let us share our TOP TEN REASONS!

:: Hot Tip ::

Get a sneak peek of our BLOOM swag bags + giveaways, and meet DMB’s founder & owner on Fox 2 Detroit morning show TODAY around 10:00 am! DMB will be featured on the Parent 2 Parent segment with Jessica Starr. You won’t want to miss it!

10. Panel of Experts Q&A

We have assembled a panel of our favorite local experts, ready to speak to you about ANY & ALL things baby!

Eastman & Wozniak Pediatrics
Jill Reiter, The After Baby Lady
Kelly Doresi, Certified Lactation Consultant, The Honey Studio
Janice Rex-Weaver, Peaceful Birthing
Dr. Natalie Nedanovski, Chiropractor, Essential Family Chiropractics
Brooke Miller, MA, LMFT, RYT, Owner of The Honey Studio
Becca Morse, Babywearing 101

9. Be a part of something NATIONAL!

Detroit is among one of 40+ Sister Sites across the country who will be hosting this SAME event on the 28th and 30th. Moms across the country will be learning and bonding together at the same time and you can join in on the fun! Using #CMBNBloom16, you can be a part of this national event and share Detroit’s BLOOM with other moms. (Know someone in another city? Encourage them to attend their Bloom event, and be together while apart!)

8. Did someone say FOOD?

There will be a variety of yummy eats at BLOOM for attendees to enjoy! Due Venti Northern Italian Cuisine will be providing mini cupcakes & gelato for guests to nosh on. Carolina’s Sweets will be providing bite-sized delights for you to nibble on while mingling, and FROSTING – Cakes & Cookies will be making some absolutely adorable cookies. Detroit’s own Faygo will be providing LaCroix sparkling water in a variety of flavors, for guests to enjoy!

7. FASHION

Have you been to Madison Boutique, or has MB’s adorable pink truck been to your home for a ‘Truck Show’? They have an amazing selection of clothes, perfect for before, during and after pregnancy wear! They will be featuring a new mommy line too – necklaces, baby onesies, and more! You’ll absolutely love what MB has to offer, in styles for any stage of mommyhood! We are thrilled to have Madison Boutique join us for the evening.

6. Take a Night for Just YOU!

We are so excited to provide a relaxing evening of pampering for all of you new and expecting mommas: it’s hard work being a mom, take a break! Our cozy, intimate atmosphere will allow you the time to personally interface with all of our wonderful local sponsors. Detroit has so much to offer young families, and we can’t wait to share and introduce you to our favorite things ALL around the metro area! Children under the age of one, in infant carriers are welcome {sorry, no strollers!}.

5. Interact with our Amazing Sponsors!

Metro-Detroit’s own Goldfish Swim School will be on site. Learn all about their extraordinary infant and toddler swim lessons, taught in a child friendly environment! One lucky mom will have the chance to win 2 months of FREE lessons, and an adorable take-away sand pail of goodies, courtesy of the Goldfish Treasure Island Pro Shop.

4. Local Pediatric Experts!

Doctors from Eastman & Wozniak Pediatrics and experts from their Reach out and Read program will be joining us for the evening. Eastman & Wozniak has been a part of the Metro-Detroit community for over 30 years, making a positive impact in the lives of children and families by providing exceptional health care and compassionate service. Reach out and Read is a national nonprofit organization that gives young children a foundation for success by incorporating books into pediatric care, and equips parents with tools and knowledge to ensure that their children are prepared to learn when they start school. BLOOM gives you the opportunity to personally interface with these local experts, to ask questions, and to consider the best possible pediatric care options for your child!

12512409_10103155167456090_3363448688418897917_n 3. Who doesn’t want to win a few Giveaways?!

We’ve searched high and low for national products and local brands to partner with and we think we’ve done a great job! Each mom will have a chance to win a candy table from Dress up Your Party, designed and decorated with your theme (valued at $250), a Happy Mat, Mini Mat or Happy Bowl from ezpz, a massage from Beach House Day Spa, a Lily Jade cosmetic bag, a BabyMoon near Traverse City(!!), a date night at Town Tavern Royal Oak, a Jenna Kator handbag from Bellezza Salon & Boutique, and so much more!

2. Did we mention that BLOOM will be featured on Fox 2 Detroit Morning show’s Parent 2 Parent segment with Jessica Starr?! Don’t miss a chance to check out the amazing swag & giveaways that we have in store for our lucky guests! Tune in or set your DVR: 4/27 @ the 10:00 hour!

1. The SWAG alone out-values the ticket price!!

Each mom will be walking away with an incredible Canvas Tote courtesy of City Moms Blog Network, just overflowing with goodies from brands like BabiesRUs, Boogie Wipes, Sticky Bellies, Goldfish Swim School, The Barre Code Metro Detroit, Michigan’s Outdoor Adventure Center, ubbi, The Dailey Method, Reach out and Read, and so much more! Valued at over $50, VIP swag bags valued at over $75!!

TICKET SALES END SOON & SPACE IS LIMITED!
Take a break, Mom, and join us!!

>>Get Your Tickets Here!<<

To my Mom, The One I Don’t Thank Enough

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April 25, 2016

Dear Mom:

Often when we talk I say “Thanks!” or “I appreciate that!”, but it’s usually because you’ve found something baby related that I’ve been searching for, or recommended a book. I don’t think I thank you enough for the values you’ve instilled in me.

I value your…

Strength

If you asked anyone who knows my mom about her strength, I know they would tell you that she is strong and doesn’t take much from anybody. My dad is retired military and when I complain about my husband working late I always ask “How did you do this with dad gone for months at a time?” Her response is “I had a house to run and kids to raise, I just did it.” And that’s what I remember when growing up, she never dwelled on it. She just kept going.

Realness

When I call her with a problem or question, I prepare myself because she’s a “don’t ask if you don’t want to know the truth” kind of woman. The sugar coated version of things doesn’t get you anywhere and she makes sure of that. Sometimes I find myself saying “Alright let me down easy!” With my personality I don’t need to be let down easy. I need my mom to still be my mother at times and bring my back to reality.

Selflessness (to a point)

My mom gives a lot to her family first and then to herself. Now I know a lot of moms do this, but goodness I have a family and live 14 hours away and she still puts me in that first category. I said “Selflessness (to a point)” because she also reminds me everyday to take care of myself as a wife and mom. She lets me know that you can give and give to your family, but if you aren’t happy or healthy then you can’t give 100%.

Thank you Mom. Thank you for not only catching me up on a TV show I missed and talking to Clari on FaceTime so that I can start cooking dinner, but for guiding and teaching me. I cherish our mother-daughter relationship and friendship more than you’ll ever know. I’m thankful that our children have you to look up to.

If I’m half the mom she has been to me, I will be a happy mom.

LTYM Metro Detroit: Moms Bring Storytelling Show to Detroit

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Angela Amman

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April 24, 2016

My daughter hated naps. We tried reading and rocking, snuggles and shushing, blackout curtains and flat out begging, and her baby blues would still pop open after twenty or thirty minutes. Before I’d finished putting away the pile of books we’d paged through for forty-five minutes before she’d even consider sleeping, she was refreshed and ready to tackle the rest of her day.

I was not.

Finding “me too” moments

We started going for drives every few days, a looping route that took us past a nearby stable. I told her we were “going to see the horses,” knowing her eyes would grow heavy at some point during the ride, and her naps lasted longer that way than they did when I coaxed her to sleep.

I didn’t talk about it, surrounded by friends who seemed to have kids who blissfully fell asleep in their cribs and slumbered for hours. I finally confessed to a friend whose eyes lit up. It seemed she, too, had a nap route, one that took her past a drive through Starbucks and near a construction site with big trucks her son loved to see.

Those “me, too!” moments can link us together more tightly with friends and can forge bonds with people with whom we aren’t sure we have much in common.

Storytelling show celebrates motherhood

Listen to Your Mother Metro Detroit seeks to bring that “me too” moment to audiences by bringing storytellers to the stage at St. Andrew’s Hall and “giving motherhood a microphone.”

The project is half live-stage event, half social media project, with an acclaimed book and YouTube channel nearly 1500 stories deep.

LTYM serves as a bridge that connects local writers with our local community and with the world. Listen to Your Mother Show started with one performance in Madison, Wisconsin in 2010 and has now become a North American movement creating a new way to celebrate Mother’s Day by giving Motherhood a microphone.

LTYM shares stories of every facet of mothering–being a mom, or not being a mom, having a mom or other caretaker, losing a mom, finding a mom — all of the beauty, the beast, and the barely-rested of motherhood.

41 live events are happening in the US and Canada featuring local writers, and our city was selected to produce a show for our community featuring our local writers.

Local moms bring LTYM to Detroit for the third year

I’m honored — and thrilled — to be co-producing and co-directing Listen to Your Mother Metro Detroit for the third year. My co-producer, Angela Youngblood, and I are Metro Detroit moms who are juggling motherhood, jobs, and our passion for giving a voice to storytellers in the Metro Detroit area.

We love that our stage has hosted women — and a man — who range from professional writers and performers to people who have never told their stories in front of an audience. Each story, and each storyteller, shines a light on a different part of motherhood — mothers, daughters, those who love their mothers, those who hate their mothers, every voice has a place in Listen to Your Mother.

This Mother’s Day season, I’d love for you to experience Listen to Your Mother Metro Detroit for yourself.

Join us at St. Andrew’s Hall on Sunday, May 1 at 3:00 p.m. — doors open at 2:00 p.m.

You can buy tickets at Live Nation, and we’re giving away a pair of tickets to a Detroit Moms Blog reader!

To enter for a chance to win, comment by Friday, April 29 and let us know who you’d love to take to the show!

Meet Jesi, a Romeo Mom!

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Jesi FG

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April 24, 2016

Hello DMB Readers!

My name is Jesi, and I am a born and raised Michigander from the small town of Romeo.

I grew up in the typical all-American family. I am the daughter of middle-school sweethearts, and the younger sister to two very protective brothers. Spending time together as a family was always important growing up, and that is a value I still hold near to my heart with my own family.

I graduated from Oakland University with a degree in journalism and communication. My dream was to be the next Katie Couric, and I had the sassy haircut to prove it. While in college, I started working part-time for a pretty amazing company. 11 years and several promotions later, I hung up the news anchor dream for a career in the world of management, HR and recruiting.

A few months before graduation, a mutual friend introduced me to a handsome fella named Matt. We had an instant connection like no other, and I knew he was something special. I even told my Mom after our first date that I would marry him, and now we are celebrating our seven year wedding anniversary. I have always said that Matt is the calm to my storm, and is my true Prince Charming.

We spent a few years settling into married life, our careers and renovating our first home. During this time, and through much of my life, I had bouts of being very sick. Shortly after getting married I was diagnosed with Celiac Disease, which is an autoimmune disease. Initially, it was scary and we were unsure exactly what to do, but with the support of Matt, and my amazing parents, we got through the first year (the biggest hurdle). I am 100% gluten free, and love to share the things I have learned, plus great places/things to eat via my Gluten Free Beauty Queen Facebook page.

After enjoying a few blissful years of marriage, we decided it was time to expand our little family. We tried for two years, using every old wives tale we could find, and to no avail. Realizing there was a deeper issue, we began visiting a fertility clinic. After a year of high dose, low dose, this shot, that pill, and nearly daily appointments, we waved the white flag and gave up.

In the midst of it all, we adopted our ‘furbaby’ and now first born, Teddy. That little fluff ball got us through the disappointing rejection calls each month. We also began to prepare for ‘childless living,’ which is the acceptance that life will be just us with no offspring. We took a long trip to Mexico, rocked out at several country concerts, and even sold our home.

After a few weeks of the ‘flu,’ on November 24, 2014, we got the surprise of a lifetime when we found out we were eight weeks pregnant. There were so many emotions every time we told someone we were expecting, and our pregnancy was celebrated by family and friends as a true gift from God. In July 2015, we welcomed our beautiful son Blake into the world.

Growing up in Romeo was amazing. It is a true small town where you will always run into someone you know, or someone who knows your family. There is always something to do in Romeo, from festivals to just enjoying all of the wonderful shops and restaurants.

Here are a few of my favorite parts of Romeo:

Michigan Peach Festival of Romeo
The Michigan Peach Festival started back in 1931, and this year will be the 85th annual event! There is truly something for people of all ages at the five day festival. There are multiple parades, a car show, craft/vendor show, a carnival and multiple beer tents. This is something I have attended and participated in since I was born, and am excited to share it with Blake!

Terror on Tilson
Halloween brings out the fun for everyone in this yearly tradition. Residents on Tilson Street in downtown Romeo go all out with their Halloween decor, covering almost ever home on the street. Visitors come from all over the state to stroll up and down the street taking in the scary sites at each home. The residents of Tilson street have taken advantage of the large crowds, and have starting selling items to benefit various charities. A good scare to help a good cause!

St. Baldrick’s of Romeo
St. Baldrick’s is an amazing organization that has a goal of conquering childhood cancer. A community member brought this event to Romeo eight years ago, and it has become a yearly tradition in our town. Community members set up a fundraising goal, and shave their heads…girls, guys, young and old, I have seen it all! Since introducing this event to Michigan, over 1.4 million dollars has been raised, and Romeo is consistently in the top five fundraisers in the world!

Mom life sure is the best life! I love being a mom, a wife, a small town girl and a professional. I am excited to share more with you in the future!

Detroit Mom