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Guide to Farmers Markets In + Around Detroit

Detroit Mom partnered with the amazing people at Higher Living Real Estate to bring you this post. All opinions are our own.

*last updated 5/13/2024

Summer means farmers market season! In Michigan, we only get to enjoy most of our favorite fresh produce for a few short months, so we’ve got to take the markets in while we can. Some markets are indeed open year-round, but to get the most out of our summer fruits and veggies, now is the perfect time to start exploring.

We’ve done a complete roundup of all of the farmers markets in and around Detroit. Be sure to click on the linked websites for further information. Let us know if we missed any of your favorite farmers markets in the Metro Detroit area and we’ll get them added in!


Farmers markets are a great way to scope out your potential future neighborhood. Most community-based farmers markets are an amazing opportunity to get the inside scoop on local businesses, vibes, and upcoming community events. When helping clients decide on their next community, I always encourage them to immerse themselves in the perspective areas to get a real-time perspective so they can decide which feels best for them.

Local farmers markets are a great place to start, but make sure to chat with the vendors and notice who is there–this will tell you a lot more about the community than google can!

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Livingston County Farmers Markets

Brighton Farmers Market | 200 N 1st St, Brighton

The Brighton Farmers Market offers food, plants, arts and crafts, and more. It’s the perfect place to shop for gifts or to treat yourself! The market is open no matter what the weather is like, so be sure to bring your umbrella if it’s rainy and you want to get out of the house.

When to go: Saturdays from 8:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Hartland Farmers Market | 10400 Highland Rd, Hartland

In addition to the usual farmers market goods, the Hartland Farmers Market is proud to also have local artisans and vendors. A great opportunity to support local business! There are so many unique businesses in the farmers market, you’ll definitely want to check it out!

When to go: Saturdays from 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Macomb County Farmers Markets

Dodge Park Farmers Market | 40620 Utica Road, Sterling Heights

Head out to Dodge Park for the fun, and stay for the farmers market! You’ll find fresh food and produce from local vendors. They have special events planned all summer long. Oh, and food trucks!

When to go: Thursdays from 3:00-8:00 p.m.

Mount Clemens Farmers Market | 141 N River Rd, Mount Clemens

You’ll find flowers, produce, conversation with local farmers, and more at the Mount Clemens Farmers Market. Please note: no pets allowed.

When to go: Saturdays from 7:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

New Baltimore Farmers Market | 50976 Washington St, New Baltimore

The New Baltimore Farmers Market prides itself on being handmade, homemade, and homegrown. They also host special events when they’re open, like yoga!

When to go: Sundays from 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

St. Clair Shores Farmers Market | 24800 Jefferson Ave, St. Clair Shores

The St. Clair Shores Farmers Market is a family-friendly destination! You’ll find food, produce, handmade items, entertainment, and activities for kids. There’s so much to do there!

When to go: the second Thursday of the month from 5:00 p.m.-9:00 p.m. and the fourth Sunday of the month from 8:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Shelby Farmers Market | 49965 Van Dyke Ave, Shelby Township

The Shelby Farmers Market is held on the Packard Proving Grounds–how cool is that?! They’ll be there no matter the weather. You’ll find fruits, veggies, syrup, bakery items, and more.

When to go: Open Saturdays from 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Oakland County Farmers Markets

Birmingham Farmers Market | 666 N Old Woodward Ave, Birmingham

The Birmingham Farmers Market is another great family-friendly option. You’ll find food, produce, artisan goods, flowers, and more. So many options! They’re also hosting special events all season long.

When to go: Sundays from 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Clarkston Farmers Market | 6558 Waldon Rd, Clarkston

The Clarkston Farmers Market focuses on providing wholesome, locally grown food to residents in the area!

When to go: Saturdays from 9:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Clawson Sunday Summer Park Market | 1080 N. Custer, Clawson

The Clawson Market takes place on Sundays throughout the summer and features a special musical guest each week along with special events and activities. Come for the farmers market, and stay for the playground afterwards!

When to go: Sundays from 9:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Farmington Farmers Market | 33316 Grand River Ave, Farmington

The Farmington Farmers Market is award winning. Need we say more?! You simply have to check it out. You’ll find produce, music, special events, and more!

When to go: Saturdays from 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Milford Farmers Market | 115 E Liberty St, Milford

The Milford Farmers Market is turning 15 this year! And, they only sell produce that is grown or made by their vendors, in Michigan. They also offer cooking demos, kids activities, and special events, so it’s really something the whole family can enjoy.

When to go: Thursdays from 3:00 p.m.-7:00 p.m.

Oakland County Farmers Market | 2350 Pontiac Lake Rd, Waterford

Here, you’ll find produce, artisanal food and crafts, cooking demos, items for home, and more. They also have a ton of fun events planned, like Spring Flower Days, Saturday Yoga and Tai Chi, and Thursday Yoga!

When to go: Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays from 7:00 a.m.-1:30 p.m.

Rochester Farmers Market | Corner of E Third + Water St, Rochester

The Rochester Farmers Market is celebrating 25 years this year. You’ll find tons of vendors and if you’re lucky, donuts and the freshest lemonade! There are tons of vendors to shop from and it’s pet-friendly.

When to go: Saturdays from 8:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Royal Oak Farmers Market | 316 E 11 Mile Rd, Royal Oak

The Royal Oak Farmers Market is a year-round market! So you can shop anytime you’d like. You’ll find specialty food items, dairy free items, vegan and gluten free baked goods, flowers and plants, and more.

When to go: Fridays (May to Thanksgiving) from 7:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.
Saturdays (year-round) from 7:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.
Sundays from 8:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m. for Antiques and Collectibles

South Lyon Farmers & Artisans Market | 335 S Warren St, South Lyon

The South Lyon Farmers and Artisans Market supports local businesses and farmers, and you know we love supporting local here at Detroit Mom. Rain or shine, they’re there! You’ll find food trucks to, so plan to go around lunch time and grab something to eat before you head back home!

When to go: Saturdays from 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Washtenaw County Farmers Markets

Ann Arbor Farmers Market | 315 Detroit St, Ann Arbor

At this farmers market you’ll find food items, produce, beverages, artisan items, seasonal items, flowers, gift items, and so much more! Oh, and 125 vendors from the mitten state. Yes, 125!

When to go: Saturdays and Wednesdays from 7:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m.

Chelsea Farmers Market | Downtown Chelsea (Saturdays) or Main St./Old US 12 (Wednesdays)

Chelsea offers TWO markets: one on Saturdays, and one on Wednesdays. You’ll find plants, handmade items, and more! There’s new (and old favorite!) vendors, musical acts, and events.

When to go: Saturdays from 8:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.; Wednesdays from 10:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m.

Dexter Farmers Market | 3233 Alpine, Dexter

The Dexter Farmers Market is your one-stop shop for all things fresh: cut flowers, baked goods, bread, poultry, eggs, honey, local produce, and more. They also have lots of events planned all summer long!

When to go: Tuesdays from 11:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m.; Saturdays from 8:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Manchester Farmers Market | Adrian St., Manchester

Here’s where you’ll find incredibly fresh fruits and veggies, plants, baked goods, and activities the whole family will enjoy! They have tons of events planned all season long.

When to go: Thursdays from 3:00-6:00 p.m.

Saline Farmers Market | 100 S. Ann Arbor St., Parking Lot #4, Saline

There are so many amazing vendors to check out at the Saline Farmers Market. And, local master gardeners that can answer all of your gardening questions.

When to go: Saturdays from 9:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Ypsilanti Farmers Market | 16 S. Washington St., Ypsilanti

You’ll discover all sorts of vendors at the Ypsilanti Farmers Market. And, you can also shop their online marketplace!

When to go: Saturdays from 9:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Wayne County Farmers Markets

Allen Park Farmers Market | 15915 Southfield Road, Allen Park

Spend your Friday evening at the Allen Park Farmers Market! You can shop all things handmade items, food, produce, and more.

When to go: Fridays from 3:00-7:00 p.m.

Canton Farmers Market | 500 N. Ridge Road, Canton

The Canton Farmers Market is open rain or shine. You’ll find fresh produce, local goods, handmade items, and more.

When to go: Sundays from 9:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

The Congregation | 9321 Rosa Parks Blvd, Detroit

In addition to the regular farmers market items, The Congregation also offers The Farmers Market Jam! It’s an open mic jam session and how cool does that sound?!

When to go: Wednesdays from 4:00-8:00 p.m.

Dearborn Summer Market | 1034 Monroe St, Dearborn

Here, you’ll find seasonal products, flowers, produce, baked goods, and more. They also offer live entertainment and food trucks!

When to go: June 14, July 12, August 9, and September 13 from 3:00-8:00 p.m.

Eastern Market | 2934 Russell St, Detroit

Another farmers market that is open all year long! There’s seriously so much to do here, and so many markets to check out. Plus, they have some special events planned, like weekly fitness classes at their Tuesday markets!

When to go: Saturdays from 6:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m.
Sundays (June through September) from 10:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m.
Tuesdays (June through September) from 9:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m.

Lincoln Park Farmers Market | 1661 Fort St., Lincoln Park

You can count on the Lincoln Park Farmers Market to have in-season fruits, veggies, and more. It’s been around since 2007!

When to go: Sundays from 11:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m.

Livonia Farmers Market at Wilson Barn | 29350 W. Chicago, Livonia

The Livonia Farmers Market consists of a few farmers and some craft businesses. You can also find honey and cottage food vendors! Oh, and a food truck AND ice cream. Seriously, you do not want to miss this one!

When to go: Saturdays from 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Northville Farmers Market | 43039 W Seven Mile Road, Northville

Here, you’ll find monthly cooking demonstrations, weekly musicians, and more. They recently moved to a new location!

When to go: Thursdays from 8:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. (no market July 4)

Northwest Detroit Farmers Market | 18445 Scarsdale St., Detroit

The Northwest Detroit Farmers Market sells more than just produce and flowers–you’ll also find an incredible sense of community and activities for the whole entire family. You’ll be able to connect with community resources and get to know local businesses, too!

When to go: Thursdays from 4:00-8:00 p.m.

Plymouth Farmers Market | 736 Penniman Ave, Plymouth

At the Plymouth Farmers Market you can shop for baked goods, produce, crafts, and flowers!

When to go: Saturdays from 8:00 a.m.-12:30 p.m.

Redford Township Market at the Marquee | 15145 Beech Daly, Redford

The perfect place for seasonal, fresh produce. You’ll also be able to purchase honey, baked goods, and more!

When to go: Sundays from 10:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m.

Westland Farmers Market | 1901 N. Carlson, Westland

The entire season is jam packed with entertainment at the Westland Farmers Market! And your kids are sure to love the Power of Produce Club–each week, kids get tokens they can use on fruits and veggies at the market!

When to go: Thursdays from 3:00-7:00 p.m.

Looking for more things to do in and around Detroit this summer? Check out Three Michigan Islands to Visit Within an Hour of Detroit.

This post was originally written by Kailyn Boggess and updated by Whitney Cornelli in 2024.

Your Home Should Tell a Story: The Home Museum

In a time of great need and self-exploration, I dove into my love of home decor to release my mind from anxious triggers. My initial intent was to just make spaces more appealing. But, the process and end result became so much more. 

Home: How would you define it? 

For some, home is simply a location. For others, home is a feeling. Home should be a place of safety and security. Home can also be a place of escape. No matter how you define it, your home should be able to tell a story and truly feel like a museum of your loved ones. 

When I am working on a space, the ultimate goal of the interior design and home decor is for people to walk into a room and feel like it is a perfect mimic of the family that it secures. My evolution with home decor did not start with the objective of presenting a family’s story through art. The process of choosing pieces to display really gained purpose when I was dealing with my most intense struggles with anxiety. 

Looking back, I now realize that anxious feelings were always present in my life, but went ignored. These feelings intensified soon after the birth of our first child in April 2018. Paired with my lack of understanding of mental health and extreme self-consciousness as a mother, I isolated myself and maintained a closed mindset to change for almost a year.

My personal anxious spectrum spans from simple daily worries to complete debilitation and panic attacks. It most often manifests in spiraling thoughts, worries, and worst-case-scenarios. As much as I am aware that I am in a state of anxiety like this, I cannot typically shake these beliefs without physically putting my mind and body into a mode of creation.

With all of this, my obsession with home decor soon became one of my core coping skills. It not only forces my body into needed movement, but I also shift my mind to focus on positive production rather than negative what-ifs.  

Your Own Home Museum

I have learned over my years of amateur-interior-design that decorations can act as so much more than pleasing the eye. When stuck in a mindset of anxiety, people (myself included) often resort to staying in safe spaces. For me, my safe space is my own home. I ultimately ended up creating visual reminders of the tangible greatness in my life to help bring my mind out of worrying and back into reality. Our homes are where we spend the most time, so why not make them a museum of us and our loved ones? 

Think about a visit to an exhibit. Art can be organized by theme, artist, or time period. Art ignites emotions. It holds value. It tells a story. Now, look around your home. Would visitors get a glimpse into your family, history, and core beliefs?

home decor, heritage, color pallet

Where to Start

An easy starting place for this process of making your own home museum is to pick a color scheme. I recommend choosing up to four major colors with the understanding that shades of these choices will provide variety. Below are some simple tips for finding the perfect color pallet for your home: 

1. Target what you already own.

Focus on items that you love and/or that cannot be changed (like furniture). These colors are must-haves. 

2. Look in your closets.

Remember, your home should be a copy of your family. We tend to wear colors that make us feel comfortable. Your home can do the same. Is your closet full of neutrals? Bright colors? All black? Run with whatever already makes sense to you. I have literally been told that I dress like my home, and that is honestly the ultimate compliment to me! 

3. Think of your familial or personal history.

Is there a color that comes to mind that represents a school, flag, or location? My husband and I both graduated from Michigan State University. We also both have strong Irish roots. So for us, it is inevitable that green would be a color that is easily welcomed into our home decor. 

color pallet, paint, home decor
Our color palette development: Our couch and walls are gray, and we have a faux leather caramel colored accent chair. Our closets are full of shades of black and green. Plus, green is a color with connections to our heritage and education.

What colors stand out to you and what makes you choose them? It may seem odd to put meaning behind colors, but it will create a strong foundation for all of my other tricks to follow. I can’t wait to hear what colors you choose. Stay tuned for more home decor ideas!

Our homes (and home decor) can reflect everything about us. Orna shares how to be intentional in our homes!

End of the School Year Group Gift Ideas

end of the school year gift ideas

The end of the school year is upon us. While it can be an overwhelming time of year with class parties, school events, and a mile long to-do list, we want to show our wonderful teachers how great they are and treat them with something nice to kick off summer break. If you’re like me, each of your children has a list of amazing teachers/support staff that deserve recognition. You may be looking for some end of the school year gift ideas.

end of the school year gift ideas

Here are three end-of-the-school-year gift ideas that work for groups and are budget-friendly:

Make a Bouquet

If you’re feeling crafty, you can use the card clips from the florist to create your own “bouquet” gift. These could be gift cards, candy bars, or even lotto tickets. This would be great for a group of teachers and can be personalized and can look however you want.

My son is an ice cream aficionado. In the past we have given each teacher a gift card to a local ice cream spot. For my daughter’s teachers this year, we picked up individual plants from Trader Joe’s with a card that said “Thanks for helping me grow.” Kids can be a part of the decorating like in these teacher gift ideas.

Pick a Theme

When my son was in preschool he had up to 10 teachers, paraprofessionals, and therapists on his team. Multiple gifts can add up quickly. Something I have done is put together a themed basket with many items in it that the team can divide up amongst themselves. This was an easier way for me to include the other staff members who deserve thanks at the end of year as well.

One year I did a “Box of Sunshine” theme and everything in the basket was yellow. Items inside varied to include candy, healthy snacks, school supplies, beauty products, chip clips, a candle, and a cute set of lemon dish towels. I found many of the items at the dollar store or the Target Dollar Spot. I put them in a cute wooden box that I thought the teacher could use in her classroom afterward. My hope in sending in such a variety was that each person on his teaching team could find something they would enjoy.

I’ve also seen “Orange you glad it’s summer?” with orange items, or just fun colorful items in a big bucket with a tag that says, “I hope your summer is buckets of fun!” Kids can be involved in picking out the items, and a personalized note or drawing to go along with it adds a heartfelt touch. You could probably find everything at one store and schedule a curbside pickup and be able to cross this off your list!

Team Up

This one takes a bit of lead time. Pooling together with other families takes something off everyone’s to-do list. It gives you a chance to really splurge on your teachers. If you don’t already have a parent group established, teachers or directors are often happy to forward along a quick e-mail. Pool money together and put it towards a generic gift card or cater a staff lunch.

As a teacher myself, years ago I had a group of parents who would do this around the holidays. I honestly preferred to receive one gift card as opposed to multiple small things. Something generic like a VISA gift card that can be used anywhere allows your child’s teacher to choose whatever they want. Providing lunch or breakfast for teachers is a great “bang for your buck” and can show appreciation to everyone at once. Bonus points if you can support a local restaurant at the same time. The end of the year is such a busy time, so not having to think about a meal is appreciated!

We hear from teachers again and again that gifts are never expected, but appreciated. As a teacher myself, I can agree that any type of thank you is welcome. It truly is the thought that counts. A quick note or a child’s drawing can mean more than anything. Hopefully these ideas are helpful in finding a way to thank your teachers in a way that works for you. Happy summer!

Looking for other gift ideas? Stacy shares some ideas for the educators in your life!

A Mom’s Guide to Ticks

girls walking in woods, paying attention to ticks

DISCLAIMER: The following post is not intended to act as medical advice in regards to ticks and tick bites. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about ticks and tick bites. 

It’s summer, and for a lot of families who are camping or enjoying time in nature, summer means ticks. Yes, those tiny, crawling bugs are out in full force. As moms, we want to remain vigilant and protect our families from this summertime pest. Would you know what to do if someone in your family was bitten by a tick?

Recently, Elizabeth, owner of Detroit Mom, dealt with this. She had just braided her daughter’s hair when she noticed a little mark on the back of her head. When she looked closer at it, she realized what it was–a tick!

After sharing her experience with our community, she realized there’s a lot of important information that needs to be shared. And, other websites weren’t exactly Mom-friendly in terms of explanations. So, we decided to put together a guide of our own. We present to you: A Mom’s Guide to Ticks.

What is a tick?

Let’s start with what a tick is NOT–according to Nemours Kids Health, they are actually not insects; they’re part of the family that includes spiders. Ticks are essentially small creatures that feed on blood. Deer and dog ticks, according to Nemours, are the most common types of ticks talked about, but there are actually more than 100 types of ticks. So, they’re quite the summer pest.

photo retrieved from https://www.cdc.gov/ticks/tickbornediseases/tickID.html 6/21/2022

Where are ticks commonly found?

The Michigan Department of Health and Human Services has a really handy map showing you where the different Michigan ticks are generally found. Generally, though, plan to be on the lookout for ticks if you’re near grassy or wooded areas. And, remember–some ticks can be found on animals. If you’re out near the woods or grassy areas, make sure to check your furry family members, too.

Why should we worry about ticks?

So, the thing about ticks is that some kinds of ticks can transmit diseases to people by biting (like Lyme disease, as mentioned by the CDC). The CDC also makes mention of the fact that ticks can’t jump or fly, so it’s not like you’ll be seeing the tick make its way to you. According to the CDC, ticks will hold onto grasses with their third and fourth legs and keep their first legs stretched out in order to climb onto the host as they walk by. Some ticks also have an anesthetic property, so the host may not even realize they have been bitten. This is why it’s so important to do tick checks regularly.

What should I do if someone in my family gets bitten by a tick?

If you notice a tick, stay calm (easier said than done, I know!). The American Academy of Dermatology Association recommends using tweezers to remove the tick and to do so by pulling upwards with steady pressure (watch the video below!). They recommend disposing of the tick by putting it in a sealed container. You can also find tools on Amazon that can be used to help remove the tick, like this 3 in 1 kit or this tick remover. And, according to OSF Healthcare, it’s important to note that ticks can bite, but they do not burrow under the skin.

Nemours KidsHealth also recommends watching the area for any changes–especially for if the bump turns red and starts to form a rash that resembles a bull’s-eye, red dots on the wrists and/or ankles, or flu-like symptoms. These are all instances in which you should get seen by a doctor. That being said, it can’t hurt to have your doctor take a look, regardless of the severity of symptoms.

What should I do with the tick after removing it?

It is recommended to dispose of the tick by putting it in a sealed container. You may want to save it in case you develop symptoms and need the tick to be tested for disease (Nemours KidsHealth suggests storing it in a sealed container or a ziploc bag). Honestly, it’s worth the peace of mind to hang on to it for a bit, just in case. You never know if you might develop symptoms, and you’ll feel much more at ease knowing you have the tick and it can be tested. (Nemours Kids Health did note that a tick needs to be attached for 36 hours before it can transfer germs to the host–but, it can’t hurt to get seen by a doctor, just in case.)

How can I prevent tick bites?

  • The Michigan Department of Health and Human Services recommends using a bug spray with no more than 30% DEET to prevent ticks, and for your clothes using a repellent that contains permethrin.
  • One of our favorite local small businesses, Natural Red, sells a ticked insect repellent.
  • If you’re going for a walk on a trail, Nemours Kids Health recommends walking in the center of the trail, away from grasses and trees, and wearing long pants, long sleeved shirts, and closed toe shoes (and remember to tuck your pants into your boots, if you can!).
  • Last but not least, before going indoors–CHECK for ticks!

Summer is the best time to be outdoors and we know that with being outdoors, comes ticks. We hope that you feel a little bit more prepared about what to do in the event of a tick–and that you’re able to be the cool, calm, and collected mama that you know you are!

Having a plan for an emergency is so important! Read what Danielle shares about having a family emergency plan.

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Detroit Mom’s Local Love Spotlight: A Life You Love Now, LLC

Detroit Mom’s Local Love series highlights local women and the businesses they have built. We love supporting small business! Today’s Local Love Spotlight belongs to Tamara Zoner, owner of A Life You Love Now, LLC.

To start, we asked Tamara to share a few fun facts about herself with us!

  • She has lived in two countries other than the US: Singapore and the UK.
  • Her three kids are half-French.
  • She is the happiest person that she knows!

We asked Tamara to share a little bit more about her business with us, too. Get to know Tamara and her business, A Life You Love Now, LLC, below!

How did you come up with the idea of your business, and how did you start?

“Years ago, I was miserable and angry and began a path of personal development back toward being a person and parent that I could love and respect. The tools and experiences that I embarked upon and utilized were so powerful and transformational that I knew I wanted others to experience the same purpose and joy that I have. 

“I began coaching and speaking as a side gig a decade ago. When COVID hit, it gave me an opportunity for deep reflection and I decided to take it full time! The tools of happiness and well-being were making such a massive difference in my small circle of clients and in the senior community that I worked in at the time, that I knew it was time to take it out into the world on a bigger level.”

Knowing what you know now, is there anything you would have done differently when you were first starting out?

“Not a thing!”

What is the best business advice you’ve ever been given?

“Keep showing up!!! It’s all working! Being an entrepreneur can be as crazy and unpredictable as Michigan weather, so it’s vital to do the mindset to stay focused and confidently on track.”

Have you faced adversity in business due to being a woman? How did you navigate that?

“I would say that the real adversity is being an entrepreneur and a mom! It’s challenging to navigate all of the responsibilities that come with both roles and we never feel like we’re doing enough in either. Fortunately, I teach tools of well-being and I USE them!!!”

How do you persevere in challenging times?

“I up-level my self-care to make sure I’m staying healthy physically, emotionally, and mentally. I remember that I’m human and I allow myself to feel what I feel, reach out to friends for support, and ride the waves of life!!!”

What impact do you want your business to have?

“I want my business to change lives. If only we learned what I teach when we’re young . . . that happiness and well-being are more skills and practices than something that just happens to us after we check a bunch of boxes off our list of to-dos or achievements. When we learn to take better care of ourselves on every level and to be kinder and more compassionate to ourselves, we give permission to others to do the same. We can create a better world one happier person at a time!”

What are the pros and cons of being a woman business owner in 2024?

“One of the pros of being a woman business owner in 2024 is that there are more of us than ever!!! There’s a huge system of support out there and we just have to be willing to [be] open to it and receive it. A con is that we still have to do so much more than a man does to achieve the same level of success.”

What knowledge would you share with someone who wants to become an entrepreneur?

“Be willing to ride the waves!!! There are ups and downs and it’s taking care of yourself mentally and physically that will help you to handle the emotional roller coaster of being an entrepreneur, especially if you’re a mom wearing the many hats that it brings.”

What do you do for personal and professional development?

“I always have a business coach to help me stay on track, manage my mindset, and keep me focused on my goals. Plus, you’ll always find me reading some kind of professional development book (possibly a few at a time), and I love learning, so I’m always adding to my own tool belt (of skills and certifications) so that I can be of the highest service to my coaching clients.”

What mantra or quote do you live by?

“Everything happens FOR me.”

What’s your favorite place in Detroit or Michigan?

“My own home on a lake!!! I can’t wait for summer!!!”

Where can our readers find you on social media?

You can follow A Life You Love Now, LLC on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and on their website!

We hope you loved getting to know more about Tamara + A Life You Love Now, LLC. Be sure to check out our previous Local Love Spotlight featuring Rachel + TRV|FIT Berkley!

The Meaning of Memorial Day

On the last Monday of May each year, my normally affable husband is quiet and somber. He can’t help but think about the meaning of Memorial Day. For him, this day isn’t just the end to a long weekend or the unofficial start to summer. Instead, this day is a reminder of his time in the Army and the people he served with–especially those that didn’t make it home.

Photo by Jakki Zirbel Photo

Imagine a Young Soldier

My husband, Fred, joined the Army Reserves at 17, motivated more out of paying for college than patriotism. This was in the summer of 2001, when the idea of war seemed distant and unlikely. His basic training was scheduled for September 12, 2001. The day before he left, on September 11, 2001, two airplanes crashed into the twin towers, forever changing the history of our country and the trajectory of his life.

He spent nearly a decade in the service, including two tours overseas. I believe I have the Army to thank for much of his work ethic and ability to remain calm in emergencies. The military paid for much of his school and likely helped the stars align such that we would meet while working at the same law firm. Although he is several years older than me, Fred and I graduated from law school the same year due to the delay in his education caused by deployments.

On the rare occasion that Fred talks about his time in the military, it is normally a funny anecdote about a training exercise or the absurdity of their living quarters. He almost never talks about anything scary or dangerous that occurred. When he does, I find myself filled with gratitude that he made it home alive. It would be untrue to say that he is completely unscathed; his time in the service left him with significant hearing loss and a lack of the peaceful ignorance most of us have of the realities of war.

Support the Troops

In the months and even years following 9/11, there was an incredible affinity towards the Armed Forces. Bumper stickers and signs in shops enthusiastically declared, “We support our troops!” Now, when people learn that my husband is a veteran, they almost always regard this status with a sense of respect and gratitude. But the fervent swell of support for the Armed Forces we experienced in the beginning of this new millennium has settled down. Today, the divisive political landscape seems to dampen this sentiment.

Personally, I have complicated feelings about our government and sometimes find myself conflating the military, the people that control it, and the people that serve in it into one giant stew. But when I think about my husband at the age of 17, I picture a child. My own children are four and six and it strikes me that when Fred joined the army, he was far closer to their age than mine (36). It breaks my heart to picture him, old enough to risk his life for our country but too young to drink alcohol, rent a car, or even to vote for the politicians making the literal life or death decisions that directly impacted him.

Acknowledge Sacrifice

From World War II through the War on Terror, the United States has experienced almost 600,000 military fatalities. Many of these casualties were as young as my husband when he enlisted or only slightly older. Data suggests that as of 2022, the largest age group of the active-duty Armed Forces in the U.S. are ages 25 and younger. These people, barely at the dawn of adulthood, risk and far too often lose their lives in the name of our country.

This Memorial Day, I hope you get the day off from work or school. With any hope, the weather will be sunny, and the pools will be open. Between grilling and spending time with loved ones, I invite you take a brief moment to consider the meaning of Memorial Day by honoring and mourning the many individuals that died serving our country. Have a safe, happy, and reflective Memorial Day.

For tips on how to talk to children about difficult topics, check out our resource guide: How to Talk with Kids About Traumatic Events.

How We Support Our Mental Health (and how you can, too!)

Lets face it . . . parenting can be rough. The days are long and it certainly takes a toll on our health and well-being. Parenthood is more of a journey than a quick race. I think we can all admit that there have been points of highs and lows in our mental health along the way–and that it’s not always easy to find ways to support our mental health.

Everyone’s view of self-care is going to look different. From prioritizing sleep, to weekly therapy sessions, to making time to hang out with friends–only you personally can know which ways will help fill your cup and allow you to be the best version of yourself.

Just as each person is different, so is every mom within our community. Take a look at all the ways we find self-care for ourselves to best support our mental health in the Detroit Mom community.

Here’s how our team supports their mental health:

Amanda

“I prioritize movement and meditation in my day. In the morning I usually do a 5-10 minute Peloton meditation and then find time to workout, either at the local YMCA (with childcare) or a walk outside. My husband and I also take turns doing mornings/bedtimes and check in regularly to see where we can help each other out to prevent parent burnout.”

Amber

“In addition to regular sessions with my therapist, I’m intentional about making time to do things that feed my spirit. Sometimes this includes making time to read a new book or go to a museum, other times it means making time for dinner with friends or seeing a new movie. Working out is also something I make time for to help my mental health. I adjust my schedule to ensure I can incorporate time to do the things that help me feel and operate at my best.”

Annie

“I participate in regularly scheduled therapy sessions with a trusted therapist that I have had for years. Some meetings are celebratory and some are deep and emotional. I always leave with a sense of relief, closure, and/or [an] action step. It is something I will forever do whether life is in its peak or valley state. It is an essential piece of my mental health wellness.”

Emily

“I say I’m overstimulated and need me-time. We both have learned to work with each other to make it happen. We each get at least one night a week to fill our cups, and that’s in addition to my 45 mins a day to do a workout!”

Elizabeth

“I’ve had to learn that I can take care of my mental health even when I can’t get away from my children or have totally quiet, peaceful me-time. Sometimes it looks like dealing with whining kids while we get outside because fresh air always helps my mood; sometimes it means dealing with their complaints when I listen to the music I like rather than what they want because I need a quick pick-me-up; and sometimes it means doing the hard work of enforcing the family rule that we all clean up after dinner because a clean house in the morning sets the right tone for my day. But it turns out these little moments throughout the day are just as invaluable as the bigger things like weekly yoga classes or date night with my spouse.”

Faten

“It took me a long time to learn to prioritize my mental health and take care of myself. One thing I do now that is very important to me is spending time alone! Whether it’s sitting in silence or going for a walk in nature, I usually feel much better after taking about fifteen to twenty minutes a day to myself! Some other things I do include journaling, finding a good support system, and setting boundaries, [which] all help prioritize my mental health!”

Fotini

“I wake up 30 minutes earlier and do a quick 20 minute workout. I have learned to say no, and set boundaries. My family comes first now.”

Franki

“I sit in front of The Today Show with my coffee for 10 minutes every morning. I see this time as sacred and work hard to protect it!”

Jennifer

“I aggressively prioritize things that bring me joy and improve my well-being. It takes a lot of planning and effort but it’s worth it!”

Karli

“My husband and I each get one night “off” a week, where we aren’t responsible for bedtime tasks. Having that one guaranteed night a week helps me stay regulated, and I have complete autonomy to choose what I do that night. Sometimes I’ll go browse a bookstore, meet a friend, take a bath–whatever I am feeling that day. I focus on spending my time getting out of the “motherhood” headspace, which is the source of a lot of my anxiety. My husband typically goes to the gym to workout or plays video games. We try to keep it the same night every week (like I take Mondays and he takes Thursdays) but depending on schedules and events it switches around.

“We have a five- and three-year-old, and our three-year-old has a lot of allergies so we have a smaller caretaking circle to babysit them which makes consistent date nights tough. Hopefully frequent date nights are on the horizon, but for now we will take our individual parenting breaks weekly.”

Kate

“Honestly, it varies depending on what season of life we’re in. We have a newborn in the house, so life is turned upside down right now. But something I started during my pregnancy that I’ve kept up with pretty much every day is a hot shower ritual. It’s the time where I do my deep breathing and listen to my favorite podcast. And I do a skincare routine after. It’s simple, but it’s been incredibly healing. I find time in the evening when my husband can be with our kids and I prioritize it.”

Katie

“I take medication unapologetically. I love taking epsom salt baths before bed to help unwind the mind and body for a good night’s sleep.”

Kelly

“My husband and I take turns waking up early with the kids on the weekends. We each take one day. It’s nice to just sleep in, wake up slowly, get myself prepared for the day ahead without all the chaos.

“I also use my commute home from work each day to decompress and reflect. Sometimes I’ll drive home in silence, sometimes I’ll listen to a podcast that resonates with me, and sometimes I’ll just listen to music.”

Lauren

“Prioritizing sleep has always been a non-negotiable for myself and my children in order to help my self-care and well-being. I have instilled clear guidelines on bedtimes and wake times which in turn allows for everyone to have adequate amounts of sleep, and it also allows myself an hour in the morning to shower and listen to a podcast before the kids wake up and an hour after bedtime routine to wind down with a shower, a night time tea, and a good book.”

Natasha

“I make sure I take some time before bed to journal and do some reading. I journal on anything I can celebrate from the day and what my focus is for tomorrow. For reading I alternate between personal development books and fun reads depending on my mood.”

Molly

“I ask for it. We are not married to mind readers, so actually saying that I am ‘mommed out’ works for the family members that support me. I may only need an hour however, everyone knows that it ALWAYS makes a difference, so they actually listen when I voice my need.”

Rachel

“I put my mental health first by giving myself grace, always. I quiet the noise around me by clearing my mental clutter. That clearing includes eliminating negative self-talk and simplifying everything I possibly can–reduce physical clutter, delegate, eliminate, or move anything on my to-do list that is not a priority. Additionally, I set realistic expectations of my time and energy and make sure they are my expectations and not someone else’s! Last but not least, I go to sleep and wake up at the same time as often as possible. This regulation of sleep has been the biggest game-changer!”

Rana

“I do a few things: I try and schedule time for myself monthly—for whatever it is I want to do for just me. I wake up earlier than my kids to have quiet time alone daily. And, [I] journal at night before bed to help clear my mind. I outsource when I can such as cleaning, babysitting, and groceries. Most importantly, when I get too busy to make time for me, I remind myself I’m just as important as the family I’m taking care of, and without my mental health being a priority, their mental health might also suffer in a domino effect.”

We know it can be difficult to carve out time for yourself on top of everything else you do on a daily basis. But it is so incredibly important to do so. We hope that we shared a few practical ways to support your mental health that you can incorporate into your day. We are here for you!

There are even more ways to support our mental health that we didn’t mention in this post. Renee shares how to set intentions to make a difference in your day!

What To Expect When Working With a Doula

Detroit Mom partnered with the amazing people from Live Light Birth & Family to bring you this post. All opinions are our own.

Starting the journey into parenthood is like setting off on a thrilling adventure, full of unexpected twists and turns. The birthing process is no exception. At Live Light Birth & Family in Detroit, we truly believe that birth isn’t just about the end goal–but rather, a transformative experience where your autonomy and choices take the spotlight.

In the world of doulas, each practitioner brings their own unique personality and approach to the table. We totally get the importance of finding a doula you click with. This is why we offer complimentary consultations to make sure we’re the perfect fit for you and your family. But what exactly does a doula do?

Let’s break it down: a birth doula acts as a nonmedical member of your birthing team, providing emotional support, advocacy, education, and physical assistance throughout pregnancy, labor, and the postpartum period.

Working Alongside Your Partner

Our role covers a whole range of supportive services. We can guide conversations with your healthcare provider and offer hands-on comfort measures during labor. We’re here to help navigate any unexpected turns during your birthing experience, whether you’re planning for a home birth, a birth center, or a hospital delivery. Research consistently shows the positive impact of doula support, including higher rates of satisfaction, reduced need for interventions, and lower likelihood of cesarean births.

Right from the start, we work closely with your partner to ensure they feel confident in communicating with medical professionals. Together, we’ll dive into your birth plan, clarifying your desires, preferences, and any concerns you may have. With this knowledge in hand, your partner will feel empowered to effectively communicate with medical providers, making sure your wishes are heard loud and clear.

Working Alongside Obstetricians + Midwives

As doulas with Live Light Birth & Family, we operate independently of the hospital or provider. We put the needs and desires of our clients above all else. While we champion your voice, we also give props to the invaluable contributions of obstetricians and midwives to your birthing experience. Obstetricians (OBs), being surgeons, bring top-notch medical expertise to the table. Midwives champion the natural rhythms of childbirth, bringing a whole lot of personalized care and emotional support to the mix.

We don’t usually deal directly with providers as doulas. Most of the time, we talk to OBs or midwives through our clients. Unless they specifically ask us to or they need extra support because they’re feeling unheard or their support person isn’t available, we don’t go to appointments with them. But if our client needs us there we’ll make it happen!

Working Alongside Medical Staff

As we step into the birthing environment, we work closely with nurses and build relationships with doctors and midwives. Some doctors might not know much about doulas. So, our goal is to show how we can work together as a team. We always prioritize our clients, and we want the medical staff to know we’re here to collaborate from the get-go. Standing as a witness in the birth space, we’re there to support our clients every step of the way.

Once we’re settled in the birthing location (usually a hospital for our clients), we keep encouraging our clients and their partners to talk directly to their provider. By focusing on our clients, we hope the provider and nurses will also respect and value our client’s birth goals. Sometimes, if needed, we jump in to chat with the provider, asking questions or clearing things up to better support our clients.

Working With the BRAIN Tool

Primarily, our role is to empower our clients to be strong, confident, and assertive advocates for their preferences. This confidence goes with them into their role as parents. One of the key parts of our prenatal services here at Live Light Birth & Family is the Prenatal Planning Meeting where we go over a tool called BRAIN. It helps clients ask questions that get them talking with their provider. Like:

  • B: What are the good things about this test, procedure, or medicine?
  • R: What are the risks for me, my baby, and my birth plan?
  • A: Are there other options? Can we get more info from other tests?
  • I: What does your gut say? What feels right?
  • N: Can we wait before deciding?

When clients start asking questions this way, providers see that they want to know all the details.

When decisions have to be made before going into labor, we help our clients figure out their next steps and discuss other choices they have. We want them to feel confident when they talk to their provider, by offering evidence-based resources.

The Triadic Support System

Our role as doulas is to create a supportive environment where your voice isn’t just heard but respected. We’re here to enhance the care provided by obstetricians and midwives, serving as unwavering advocates and nurturing companions every step of the way. We’re dedicated to ensuring your preferences are honored, whether it’s crafting a comprehensive birth plan or providing continuous support during labor and delivery.

We know that navigating the healthcare system can feel overwhelming, especially during such an emotionally charged time. That’s why we’re all about fostering collaboration among all members of your birthing team. This creates a triadic support system that puts your physical, emotional, and psychological well-being front and center.

Ultimately our goal is simple, yet profound: to create a nurturing environment where you feel empowered, supported, and deeply cared for every step of the way. Childbirth isn’t just a medical event—it’s a deeply personal and transformative experience, and we’re truly honored to be there to guide you through it with strength, resilience, and unwavering dedication.

For more information about Live Light Birth & Family’s doula services, click the “services” tab on their website!

Setting Boundaries: A Sure Way to Stay Sane as a Mom

I remember the first time I realized I needed to set boundaries. I was completely burned out, ready to give up, and looking everywhere for happiness except within myself. If this sounds like something you’re going through, then setting boundaries might be the missing piece to your peace of mind.

So, what exactly are boundaries?

Does it mean that you set up a wall between you and others in hopes of keeping them out? Not at all! Boundary setting actually helps guard our emotions without putting up walls. Boundaries are routines, habits, and limits that help protect our physical, mental, and spiritual health. They are essentially a part of us and include our beliefs, likes, dislikes, and preferences.

Boundary setting helps others understand what we will and will not put up with. However, this is not the same as telling people what to do. Internal boundaries are like promises that we make to ourselves. This is important to be able to set limits and priorities without getting burned out.

So, where do you start? 

I used to think that setting boundaries was selfish, but it’s important to remember that boundary setting DOES NOT make you a selfish mom. It makes you a healthy mom!

Let’s talk about resentment for a second. Every mom has experienced that feeling of resentment. Where does it come from? It usually stems from being overworked, and under-appreciated. However, it is important to recognize that it is our responsibility to set limits and communicate those boundaries with others in order to help prevent burn out and resentment.

It’s important to be able to have limits in place prior to reaching your tipping point. If we are able to set limits on the things we will and will not do, then we can be a little more comfortable and a little less resentful.   

Five areas in which to set internal boundaries that will help keep you a little happier and a little less resentful include: 

  • Spending time alone
  • Technology
  • Saying no
  • Guilt
  • Self-compassion

Spending Time Alone

Most days as a mom include a child hanging onto your legs or screaming in your face. It’s no wonder we all lose our shit at times! It is crucial that moms spend some time alone to regroup and be able to keep going. This does not have to be a whole weekend or a whole day alone, though. I have found that stepping away in times of chaos, even for five minutes, has helped me regather my thoughts and respond more proportionately to situations.

In order to help you keep this boundary: choose a time where you will spend time alone and try to commit to it. Try to pick a time where you find yourself getting most triggered. For example, bedtime was a major trigger for me on most nights. It was a time when I was tired, and my kids were tired, so my tolerance at that time was at an all-time low.

But of course, this didn’t mean I could opt out of our bedtime routine. Instead, I had to set an internal boundary. The boundary that helped me was spending time alone before bedtime. Each night I made it part of my bedtime routine to go to my room early and read a book. By the time bedtime rolled around I was able to deal with the struggles of bedtime, because I had taken time for myself to replenish.

Each day that you abide by this boundary, your family will begin to recognize that it is a priority, and it will become incorporated into your routine. Remember: you are not only setting a boundary, but you are also modeling healthy habits that you want to pass on to your children. 

Boundary example: “I will spend alone time in my room 20 minutes a day before bed time.”

Technology

Boundaries around technology are crucial in this day and age. Research from thehealthsite.com shows that mindless scrolling can have adverse effects on your mental health, leading to feelings of anxiety, loneliness, and depression. On the other hand, social media helps connect us with others, and relate to one another (hence the reason you’re reading this post!). However, being able to set an internal boundary of when and how much technology you consume is empowering and helps you to be more productive.

In order to keep this boundary: try setting times in the day where you will have no technology, whether it is a couple hours before bed, in the morning, or throughout the day when your kids’ attention is at an all-time high. Turning off the notifications setting on your phone or putting your phone on silent or do not disturb are all options that will help you stick to your boundary. Being able to set time limits on the amount of technology you consume is also helpful (for example, only thirty minute segments).

In addition, finding alternatives to mindless scrolling can help replace your habit with a more positive one such as reading, journaling, or spending time with your partner. As with any other boundary, it is important to commit to this promise you have made to yourself. 

Boundary example: “I will not use my phone after 9:00 p.m.”

Saying NO

NO is a valid answer! So many of us have grown up in environments where we were not able to say no without feeling guilty. An important part of boundary setting is prioritizing the things we can give our energy to, and eliminating things we cannot offer our energy to. Although saying no may be hard at first, like any other skill it gets easier with practice!

In order to keep this boundary: find your safe people and start saying NO! Contrary to what you believe will happen, those that matter will respect your decision and support you. After all, running yourself thin is not what anyone that loves you would want.

Some ways to say no and still be polite include:

  • “Thanks for including me, but I have another commitment.”
  • “I don’t have the mental capacity for this request.”
  • “Now is not a good time.”
  • “That’s not going to work for me.”
  • “Thank you for considering me, but I will have to pass.”

Boundary example: “I will say NO to events that take place on weekdays.”

Guilt

Yes, mom guilt is very real. Everything and anything can cause you to feel guilty, from taking time for yourself to not playing enough with your kids. If you find yourself constantly guilt tripping yourself, then it may help to set some boundaries around feeling guilty. Here’s my unpopular opinion: although mom guilt is real, most of the time it is unnecessary. 

I promised myself that guilt would not be an emotion I overuse as a mom. Yes, mom guilt is very real. But allowing yourself to feel other emotions is also very real, like joy, contentment, inspiration, or awe.

In order to keep this boundary: when you find yourself overusing guilt, try asking yourself if there is another emotion you want to channel in. This is an internal boundary that you can use to help you regulate your emotions of guilt and build on other emotions that you wish to channel in. 

Boundary example: “I will not feel guilty for partaking in a self-care activity once a week.”

Self-Compassion 

Closely related to guilt is our self-criticism as moms. Mom guilt may stem from the high pressures of society and standards that society has set out for moms. We are expected to not only take care of our children, but at the same time be able to maintain a clean home, hold a job, cook, do the never-ending laundry, and the list goes on. Worst of all: we begin to feel inadequate if we cannot live up to these high standards. This is when we must forgive ourselves and have self-compassion.

In order to keep this boundary: we all make mistakes, including moms. Let’s learn to change our self-talk to include compassionate statements such as:

  • “It’s okay to make mistakes.”
  • “I will forgive myself.”
  • “My negative thoughts do not define me.”
  • “It’s okay to ask for help.”
  • “My feelings are valid.”
  • “I deserve compassion.”

This will help alleviate some of the strain of motherhood and validate your own self. The next time your inner voice sounds too critical, feel free to question that criticism and be compassionate with yourself.

Boundary example: “I will forgive myself for making mistakes.”

When you prioritize your own mental health and peace of mind, you begin to set boundaries that support your own well-being and vice versa. This is not an easy task when you are accustomed to people pleasing and putting others before yourself.

Boundary setting will help you become more comfortable and less resentful. Even committing to one or two boundaries from the list above will make a big difference on your overall emotional well-being! When you fill up your cup, you’re able to pour from a full cup and show up as a more present and authentic mom. I hope this list helps you get started on your own boundary setting journey!

Mental health is so important! If you’re looking for more mental health tips, Carm shares six ways to prioritize your mental health–for you, and your kids!

Detroit Mom’s Guide to the BEST Strollers + Wagons

For many of us, when you first learn you’re expecting a baby, your practical mind turns straight to gear. Babies need so much stuff, and as an expecting or new mom, you want to make sure you have the best tools in your toolbox–including the best strollers and wagons. After all, as any seasoned mom will tell you, the right tools can truly make or break your days of “mom-ing.”

I absolutely love talking about strollers and wagons. In today’s world, there are thousands of options to choose from. From single-to-double strollers to multi-seater wagons–all of which run the gamut of price points–it can feel absolutely overwhelming to know which one is right for your family.

mom pushing stroller and dog

Here at Detroit Mom, we’ve been in your shoes asking the questions while scanning the websites. How much is too much to spend? And what if I have another baby soon? Will this stroller be comfortable for them? These questions are real and our moms are here to help guide you. Without further ado, we present to you Detroit Mom’s favorite strollers and wagons. Happy shopping!

Detroit Mom’s Favorite Strollers

City Mini

“My favorite stroller was the City Mini! The brand has several options and double strollers as well. It’s lightweight, and easy to open and close! It also has a five point harness and reclines back for when they want to sleep and many accessories you can add for more convenience.” -Faten

GB Pockit Stroller

“The GB Pockit stroller was amazing for us while traveling!!! It folds down to a super small size to be able to easily pack and store it!” -Katie

“My favorite stroller hands down was the GB Pockit. I loved it for its compactness and ease of travel specifically. It’s able to be folded down completely–and once folded can fit inside of a backpack or diaper bag (hence the name “pockit”)! It actually even won a Guinness World Record for being the world’s most compact stroller!

“While I never carried it in my diaper bag, once folded I was EASILY able to fit in an overhead compartment on an airplane—or under the seat if all the overhead compartments were full. This was my favorite feature since I’ve never once had to check my stroller, which meant no broken stroller at my destination. Bonus: no squirming toddlers either since it’s thin enough to fit in the airplane aisles. Yup, I’ve even strolled my squirming toddler to her airplane seat before, and only unstrapped her there—much to the amazement of my fellow passengers!

“Eventually it became my daily stroller since it barely took up trunk space, saving me room for other things like groceries. The only suggestion I’ll make is if you have babies or young toddlers, purchase the one that reclines fully, as there are a couple versions.

“This stroller is beach sand-friendly (stroll it backwards), cruise hallway-friendly, Disney park-friendly, mall-friendly, baby-friendly, toddler-friendly, and I’ve gifted it to friends and family with new babies who all thank me later. Trust me, if you’re looking for a super compact travel and daily stroller, this is the only one you’ll ever need!” -Rana

Graco Infant Carseat + Jogging Stroller Travel System

“When our first was born a few years ago, we had bought the Graco infant carseat with jogging stroller travel system. I wanted a stroller with a good suspension because we like going on trails and camping. It used the Graco Click-Connect system which was a plus! When my first was a couple weeks old, I realized I didn’t need the jogging stroller for shorter walks in the neighborhood so I purchased a Graco stroller frame that the car seat could click into. This was a great decision and worked well for shopping in those early days too!” -Karli

Guava Family Roam

“Our “Adventure” stroller is the Guava Family Roam. I have not met a terrain this thing can’t handle. Snow, sand, mud, off-roading, you name it–it can do it. Plus, it folds up really well for a jogging stroller.” -Dana

Nuna DEMI next

“The Nuna DEMI next is our everyday/neighborhood walk stroller. It is a single-to-double and just so beautiful! It is well-made, which I love, and my toddler loves the rider board. Definitely on the pricey side but we will have this forever . . . like probably for our grandkids.” -Dana

Zoe Twin Double Stroller

“When I had three girls in three calendar years I knew I was in the market for a minimum of a double-stroller. While I was fortunate to have gotten my single infant/convertible from my baby shower, and it served me well, three under age five had me shopping for a double.

“The Zoe Twin double stroller is what we ended up purchasing, and let me tell you, it is worth every penny. It fits through standard size doors no problem, is lightweight, [is] extremely easy to open and fold, and comes with a warranty.

“When I accidentally broke the wheels on it (more than 12 months later), they were happy to ship me out a new set . . . no questions asked. It was the most user-friendly stroller I have come across and we did our research before we invested. Price-point may seem a bit high, but it was worth it. Hands down would purchase again.” -Molly

And, Detroit Mom’s Favorite Wagons

Baby Trend Expedition 2-in-1 Wagon

“We LOVE our Baby Trend Expedition 2-in-1 wagon! I feel like we had three other strollers before this, and then we have the original version of this wagon that sadly broke on our trip back from Florida, so we ended up getting the upgraded version that has the basket on the back for extra storage and rubber on the handlebar, and I have been so happy with it. My kids are now 4.5 and 3 and we still use it weekly.” -Lauren

Enenflo Pivot Wagon

“I love our Evenflo Pivot wagon! It is great for different types of terrain. I’ve used it on dirt trails and through the streets in our neighborhood with no problem. I have a 4.5 year old and almost 3 year old and it fits both kids no problem. I also love how the snack tray/drink holder is removable.” -Laura

Jeep Wagon

“We love our Jeep wagon! Still using it with our five & eight year old. Has held up well since pre-COVID and gotten a ton of miles.” -Amanda

MacSports Wagon

“Didn’t love any of the strollers we ever had! But we love our MacSports Wagon. It collapses easily to put in the trunk and holds at least two children or ALL the gear and chairs I bring to our kids’ outdoor sports events.” -Elizabeth

Veer Wagon

“When our second-born came along, we purchased a Veer wagon and still use it 3.5 years later! It had an attachment for an infant car seat, and is low enough to where a toddler can get in and out by themselves.

“Now my kids are 5 and 3.5, and we still use the Veer two-seater for the farmers market and trips like the zoo or Cedar Point. I like that it has attachments like an extra basket and canopies to block the sun, and it’s really sturdy. I like that it can be pushed or pulled easily, and it is easily cleaned with a hose and some soap. It’s a workhorse wagon, and we’ve used it to carry firewood, pumpkins, and extra nieces and nephews.

“One downside is that it is not easy to nap in. There is an insert you can purchase for naps, but I would just babywear whoever needed a nap. My kids would hardly nap outside of a quiet room anyways, so it wasn’t a big deal breaker for us. Now they make a four-seat wagon, but we have been happy with our two-seater with two kids.” -Karli

Wonderfold Wagons

Wonderfold Wagons offer a significant discount to families of children with disabilities . . .  40%! Their wagons are large and have a capacity up to 350 lbs, which make them ideal if you have a larger child that needs a safe space.

“The wagon’s large enclosure acts as a sensory deprivation space for my Benny giving him his space to decompress, especially if we put the cover on it. For us, it’s wagon over stroller. We need room to bring all the things we could need, and Benny likes to move around. Additionally, with a wagon, my girls can jump in for a ride as well!” -Jamie

Whether you choose a stroller, a wagon, or both, we hope our real moms have helped narrow your search. It can be totally overwhelming to choose the right one for your fam, but know that whatever you choose, the way you push (or pull!) it with love will be what truly counts.

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