Top 10 Practical Gifts For New + Expecting Moms

December 9, 2023

When you’re expecting a new baby there are countless lists of things you’ll need. Everything from diapers to high-end strollers–there is no shortage of baby registry must-haves out there!

But what about the simple gifts just for moms? We asked our Detroit Moms what gifts they received that were simple, but made all the difference! Here’s our list of the top 10 practical gifts for new and expecting moms.

Bath Robe for Hospital + Home

By far the number one suggestion out of all of the gifts for new and expecting moms! Some of our Detroit Moms took it to the hospital, while others mentioned they lived in it during the fourth trimester. It can be extra comfy, or just practical for all the spit-up and mess. Finding one that is bright and cherry can definitely make mom feel a boost of energy when she’s tired–and hasn’t showered in a day or two.

C-Table

New and expecting moms tend to get stuck a lot–first we can’t get up or are too tired to move when pregnant. Then, we bring our kiddos home and find that we’re stuck under them feeding or sleeping. An affordable c-table will help mom out with having a place to set her water bottle and phone, do some computer work, or be able to grab a quick bite. It can move from room to room, and has so many uses!

Depends Adult Diapers or Period Underwear

It’s common to find a baby diaper stockpile in a new and expecting mom’s home, but what many first-time mothers don’t know is that adult diapers can be your best friend! They are not only a great alternative to the mesh underwear (which many find uncomfortable), but they also provide a safety net for new moms who experience incontinence. They fit nicely under all clothes and are easy to change and toss. After a few weeks, switching to some period underwear is a great alternative to help new moms start to feel human again!

E-Reader

New and expecting moms need their “me” time! They’re also awake a lot and often only have one hand free. An e-reader can not only help moms relax, but it can also offer an easy, one-handed reading option for book lovers. It can make those 2:00 a.m. feedings less daunting, or help mom get through the evening witching hours.

Loop Earplugs

New and expecting moms will face a lot of noises. Not only can a newborn’s scream be deafening, but over-stimulation in hospitals, doctors’ offices, and in homes with multiple children is common. A pair of Loop earplugs can help moms focus and relieve anxiety. A great tool to have in your back pocket (literally!) for infancy and beyond.

Sleep Mask

With so many unique and fun prints out there, a sleep mask is a perfect gift. Hospitals can be busy and bright, moms can use it to catch some shuteye before and after baby is born, and it acts as a perfect headband when baby wakes. New and expecting moms notoriously have trouble sleeping late in pregnancy and when newborns come home, it’s a thoughtful way to say “rest when you can.”

Slip-On Shoes

The gift that keeps on giving! Starting off with expecting moms who just need a quick shoe to slip on when their feet are swollen. Add slip-on shoes to your hospital bag, and then use them at home for a quick run to the car, mailbox, or short walk. These popular target finds are also waterproof–easy to clean and can be used in the hospital shower!

Tiered Bedside Caddy

Being able to easily access what you need is important during pregnancy, when you’re feeling sick or just very pregnant. A bedside caddy is a great gift for middle of the night feeding and changing, too. It’s a useful addition to your home that can hold things like a soft glow nightlight, water bottles, baby and mom nighttime essentials, phones and chargers, tissues, snacks, and other things you might want within quick reach. Plus, it’s easily re-purposable in other areas of the house!

Towel Scrunchie

Whether mom is in her third trimester or recovering from birth, the last thing she wants to worry about is wet hair getting in the way. Nothing feels better than a nice, long, hot shower, but many us know that the “after-shower” routine can be a lot of work. Throwing your hair up into a bun with a Kitsch towel scrunchie while also having the power to dry it frees up time and relieves stress for new and expecting moms!

Water Bottles

Another top tip from Detroit Moms was a large water bottle . . . or three. Not only is motherhood exhausting, but you’re going to want to stay hydrated while you heal (especially if you’re breastfeeding!). A Stanley is an awesome practical gift for new and expecting moms, in a variety of colors. We recommend having multiple around the house. A great affordable and durable water bottle brand is Contigo. Have one in every room or keep one to drink, one to wash, and one as spare. And, this Contigo water bottle from Amazon is affordable and bang-proof!

And remember . . . It’s The Thought That Counts

When chatting with Detroit Moms to compile our list of top 10 practical gifts for new and expecting moms, we saw a lot of the same favorite gifts! But there was also one resounding sentiment among these mommas–it was the thought behind it! So whether you’re clicking over to your favorite shop to purchase something from our list or just sending a mom-to-be a virtual hug, know that any and all support is appreciated!

Do you have a new mom in your life? Check out Sofia’s thoughts on the advice we need to stop giving new moms.

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Detroit Mom Connect | Create Your Calm Attendees

Whitney Cornelli

December 6, 2023

We are so excited to get together for our next Detroit Mom Connect event! Below you will find some of the incredible women who will be attending the event so you can get to know them a little before we get together!

I'm the owner and founder of AMPed Hybrid Academy, a project based learning microschool. I'm also opening a co-working space for parents next month with educational programming for 2-5 year olds. We will also have office space available for child-related therapists and other practitioners.

Anne Marie Palazzolo
I am a Child of God, wife, mama of 4 littles, lover of nature, traveler, and small business owner. I love being creative and have found such joy and passion in creating jewelry!

Ashley Modde
Hey! I'm Becca. I am a wife, mom of two (with one on the way!), and entrepreneur. My two businesses are: Heylo Creative, a branding and web design agency; and Studio Neue, a blank canvas rental space located in Plymouth, Michigan. I can't wait to meet you!

Becca LaMar
I am a mom who works as an executive assistant and in finance. I’m currently working on building my own virtual assistant business which I’m set to launch on January 1st! I’m very excited to utilize the skills I’ve learned over the last 10+ years to help small businesses and entrepreneurs streamline their business to run more efficiently and effectively. I love spending time with my family, physical fitness (especially weight lifting), mental health/wellness, being in the mountains, learning new skills, and traveling!

Beth Thomas
I am a human in progress, helping others progress! I am a part of a collective of female therapists who specialize in all things motherhood. Outside of work I am generally busy mothering my three littles, working on house projects, going to the gym, and spending too much money at coffee shops.

Brooke Stone
I work for Troy School District as an English Language Development Specialist. My husband and I are blessed to have two beautiful children. I have a passion for traveling and gardening, and enjoy expressing myself through writing. I am always up for a cup of coffee and an inspirational chat!

Danielle Andresen
Hi this is Dipali Patel, mother of a teenage daughter and son. I just adopted a cute little fur baby this year. I am the co-founder and active CMO of my two restaurant brands: Neehee's and Pizzawala's. Along with my financial education background I have expertise in branding, strategic communication planning, public relations, marketing, and advertising to achieve brand visibility and positioning.

Dipali Patel
I am a fully licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I am an amazing wife, mom of 3 (2 girls, 1 boy), and lover of love! Being a night owl is my superpower.

Dr. Cherry Jones
Hi! I am Nicole Lorenz, a wife, mother of 2, and physical therapist. I started my own physical therapy clinic approximately 3 years ago, in order to better serve the women of our community. I have been learning to navigate the wonderful, chaotic puzzle that is motherhood and business.

Dr. Nicole Lorenz, PT, DPT
I believe peace on earth begins with birth, and when necessary, rebirth. As an international prenatal and postnatal yoga teacher and womb circle facilitator, I am dedicated to empowering women in transformative times of life. I teach weekly classes in West Bloomfield and facilitate online to help more yoga teachers learn how to bring pregnancy and postpartum yoga to their communities. I extend my impact as a volunteer and donor with Birth Detroit, building the first free-standing birth center in the city.

Elise Bowerman
I’m a mama of two little boys. I currently teach art and also own a wedding planning business.

Emily Wilson
I am a registered nurse and a mom of two boys. I provide education and support from pregnancy and beyond. I help parents to feel empowered and confident in their parenting journey.

Fervy Jimenez
I'm Jessica, a stay-at-home mom to two incredible boys aged 7 and 2. In addition to navigating the joys of motherhood, I'm a sleep consultant and newborn care specialist, dedicated to helping families with babies aged 0-18 months get better sleep. Outside of this, you might find me dancing, being creative, watching reality TV, or exploring the city with my amazing husband and kids. I'm all about embracing life as an adventure, prioritizing intentionality, seeking happiness and peace, and finding magic in even the smallest moments.

Jessica Turner
I’m a woman on a mission to learn all there is to learn about myself, and lifting others up while I’m on my journey. I’m an anxious, ADHD, and allergy mom who works a full-time engineering job, and I love my husband and two sons.

Karli McNeill
I am a corporate sales coach, a mom, and a mental health advocate. I recently started the Detroit Mom Anxious Moms Support Group as a way to grow community for fellow anxious moms. I also recently brought my dream to life of opening a mobile sauna business, Sisu Mobile Sauna!

Katie Moore
I am a Trauma-Informed Retreat Leader, Breathwork & Somatic Practitioner, and the Co-Founder of Retreat to Reclaim, a community dedicated to belonging and improving your overall well-being. I live in Metro Detroit with my husband and four kids. I also lead the Sanctuary Circle: Loss Support Group at Fourth Tri Sanctuary every first Thursday of the month for mamas of loss.

Lauryn Laszczak
I was born and raised in southeast Michigan. I’ve been married for 11 years. I have two daughters, 5 and 2 years old. I am in my 12th year in education and currently a reading specialist for a K-4 elementary school.

Linda Borton
Lindsaya, the driving force behind the Wellness Warrior Collective, channels her expertise in soulful branding and self-love from Metro Detroit to broader communities. Her background as a brand director, handling multimillion-dollar projects, seamlessly blends sharp business acumen with a profound commitment to sustainability and personal wellness. Renowned for her engaging and empowering approach to wellness and personal development, Lindsaya’s passion for holistic living extends her influence beyond the business realm, fostering community strength and positively impacting lives in numerous spheres

Lindsaya VanDeusen
I am a mom, sister, wife, friend, and mental health therapist. I love nature, mountains, being a mom, and meaningful social connections.

Meheret Kassa
I am a Certified Life + Conscious Parenting Coach, a mom to my 14-year-old son, speaker, host of the "Co-Parenting with Confidence" podcast, and author of the "People Pleaser’s Guide to Co-Parenting Well."

Mikki Gardner
I am a wife, mother, writer, daughter, sister. My own health and wellness and that of my family take up most of my time at the moment. I have 3 elementary school aged girls, and am temporarily living on the west side of Michigan while my husband finishes his post graduate Physician's Assistant Program at CMU.

Molly Ann Nagelli
Hello there, I'm Natasha, the proud owner of Live Light Birth & Family. I'm a mom to the spirited Opal, my vibrant 4-year-old, and the partner of my love, Jason. I find joy in connecting families with essential prenatal and postpartum support. In addition to running the agency I serve as a doula, childbirth educator, and prenatal yoga teacher. It means the world to me that I'm able to contribute to the well-being of families. I love to travel and I embrace new experiences!

Natasha Kinner
I am a wife, mom to a teenager, a marketing professional, and a chocolatier who runs a small business. I was born and raised in Dubai, UAE with family roots from India. I have been living in Michigan for 25ish years.

Prereeta Mathur
As a Life Alignment Coach, I mentor women who are ready to face the reality of the duality that life is chaotic and chaos is manageable. I guide those women to cycle through the seasons by living in alignment with realistic expectations of their time and energy--one week at a time. Together, we do the work in The Hive Collective, my online community.

Rachel Antone
I am mom of two feisty boys. I am a clinical therapist and deeply passionate about helping others navigate through life. I love trying new coffee shops and shopping. My family is my biggest value and support.

Rachel Brejcha
Hi! I’m Rachelle and I empower relaxation for women to 1.) Go on cool trips with fun people and experience fricken amazing natural spas, and 2.) Learn unique and powerful alternatives to healing + living.

Rachelle Beazley
I am the owner of KB Event Co. I specialize in luxury backdrops, balloon styling, event decorating, and luxury picnics. You dream it, I can create it. I started this business to live out my God-given talents while also being a stay-at-home mom to my two children Kora and Beau--hence the KB in my business name.

Rosie Palarchio
A wife and mom to three. Starting an illustration business as a Type 1 diabetic with twins and a first grader. Rediscovering my happiness through art.

Samantha Panek
General Surgeon at Ascension St. John in Detroit. CEO of nonprofit Operation Breast Density. Breast Cancer Survivor. Bonus mom to two stepsons.

Shoshana Hallowell
Dr. Stephanie Kelly is the owner of Berkley Chiropractic. She has completed her advanced training in Pre-Natal and Pediatric Chiropractic Care. For the last 15 years, she has enjoyed taking care of all types of patients and focuses on helping patients accomplish their specific health goals using various chiropractic methods. When she is not adjusting patients, Dr. Kelly enjoys spending time and travelling with her husband and daughter, cheering for the Michigan Wolverines, and venturing downtown to try everything Detroit has to offer.

Stephanie Kelly
I'm the Client Manager and Managing Editor for Detroit Mom and I'm a mom to three girls. I am a crocheter, a writer, and a tap dancer! I'm an introvert but trying to put myself out there a little more. I'm a former teacher who loves learning. I'm working harder on putting myself first and dropping the guilt of doing so!

Whitney Cornelli

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The Parenting Post: Tips for Navigating Holiday Transitions

Detroit Mom

December 5, 2023

Do you have a parenting hurdle you’re working through? If so, “The Parenting Post” is for you! One of our writers, Albiona, has been answering all of YOUR parenting questions over on IG. We’ve turned her series into blog posts on our website as well. We just can’t get enough of her helpful advice, and we thought you’d appreciate it, too!

Her videos cover a wide variety of parenting questions–honestly, anything and everything! If it’s something you’re wondering, there’s a really good chance that another parent in our community is struggling with it, too. And Albiona is here to help!

This week, she’s sharing about navigating holiday transitions with your little ones in order to have less meltdowns and more ease. The holidays can be filled with jumping from house to house–so it’s super important to have a plan ahead of time and get everyone on board.

How do you manage transitioning from house to house during holiday season visits?

First off, navigating holiday transitions is such a common situation. The important thing here is to really think about your own situation and what works and what doesn’t. But hopefully, these tips will be super helpful for you this holiday season! You don’t have to take every tip from this post and think it’s the only right way to do it. Parenting is all about being flexible!

To start, work out a game plan with your partner.

Start with you and your partner. Work out a game plan that you both agree to. More often than not, one partner wants to do it one way, and the other wants to do it another way. Then, you begrudgingly commit to one type of a plan. One the day of, when things fall apart, you kind of go after each other. This can be a little problematic. You need to be on the same page here–otherwise, it can become a really stressful situation.

Use bridge incentives!

When navigating holiday transitions, frame it for your kids ahead of time so they know exactly what to expect, and what the day will look like. If you have a child who has a harder time transitioning from one place to another, you can build in a bridge incentive. Find something exciting they can look forward to, and use it as an incentive for a positive transition.

For instance, if you know they’ll have a hard time leaving grandma’s house to go to the next house, you could have a little surprise in the car waiting for them. You can build it up in a way so that your child is really looking forward to what’s next. They’ll be excited about getting in the car and heading to the next house, and hopefully the transition will be a smooth one!

You don’t have to do this every single time your child transitions between houses. But, when it’s the holiday season, and excitement is high, it’s okay to use an incentive to help the day run as smoothly as possible. It really helps them to become excited about getting in the car and going to the next location.

Another tip for navigating holiday transitions is to try to end up at their more favored place (maybe it’s running around their aunt’s house with their cousins!), so it’s even more exciting to look forward to going. This is not the time to take things personally with one side of the family vs. the other. It really just comes down to where the kids have more fun, and where they’ll be more excited about going to. Often, it’s wherever their cousins or kids their age are. So, try to end there (if you can!). And if you can’t? That’s okay too.

So, make a plan with your partner and stick to it. Let your kids know your plan, and let them know about any bridge incentives that will be included. This will get them super excited and on board, and you’ll be ready to tackle the holiday season–and alllllll of the visits that come with it. Happy holidays!

Do you have more parenting questions for Albiona? Leave them below so she can possibly answer them for you. To learn more, you can follow Albiona on Instagram. Or, subscribe to her weekly newsletter and download her free guide for teaching parents how to get their kids to listen.

Looking for more parenting advice? Our previous Parenting Post blog post covered how to talk with kids about sexuality.

I’m Leaning On My Seasoned Mom Friends More Than Ever

Megan Moore

December 5, 2023

You’re likely familiar with the phrase, “It takes a village to raise a child.” But how about “It takes a village to raise a child, and one to raise a mother?” The bone-weary, stressful, and confusing lows of motherhood require community. But so do the joyous, unexplainable highs.

And while I love my fellow mom friends who are in the trenches with me and can commiserate when my toddler is up at 4:00 a.m. for the fifth time this week, I currently find myself leaning most on my more “seasoned” mom friends.

These are the women who have been in my shoes before. They not only understand what I am going through, but they know that it’s just a phase from which I’ll come out okay on the other side of. More than that, they can counter my lamenting tales of toddlerhood with advice. It doesn’t matter that they raised their children ten, fifteen, or even twenty years ago–some things never change.

They give sage advice.

As I mentioned, my youngest is sleep adverse. Even as an infant, he was up at an ungodly hour each day. It didn’t matter how early or late we put him to bed or how many or how few naps he had that day. Eventually, our physician informed us of the fact that some kids “just don’t need as much sleep as others.” Lucky us.

Nevertheless, my husband and I were growing weary of the pre-dawn wake-up calls. When I lamented to one of my more experienced mom friends that I was desperate and thinking of trying a color-coded okay-to-wake alarm clock, she wholeheartedly encouraged me to give it a try.

I quickly crunched numbers in my head. These types of alarm clocks were relatively new and couldn’t possibly have been around when her now-teenagers were toddlers. How could she be so sure? My friend went on to tell me that long before alarm clocks like the HATCH were on the market, her engineer husband rigged a night light with a colored lightbulb to a vacation timer. If the light was on, it was still time to sleep, or at least quietly play in their room until the light turned off, at which point they were free to “wake up.”

My spirits were lifted by how over a period of several weeks, her kids went from getting up at 5:00 a.m. to 7:00 a.m. thanks to the ingenious night light. While she may not have been able to provide a certified review of the clock I currently had in my Amazon cart, her firsthand account was the hope and reassurance I needed.

They let me be vulnerable.

Aside from advice from my been-there-done-that mom friends, I love that I am free to be myself around them without pressure. There’s much less opportunity to compare yourself when you’re at different ages and stages of motherhood.

I met some of my closest girlfriends through a workout group. If there is one place that is often ripe for comparison, it’s the gym. We’re tempted to sneak glances at one another to see who’s the strongest or fastest and who can manage to make sweating look like a glowy sheen of an illuminator.

But nothing could be further from the truth with my group. After showing up to the first session with color-coordinated fitness attire and a face of freshly applied makeup, I learned I was silly to think I had something to prove. We’re all there to encourage and motivate one another. And, more often than not, it’s as much of a therapeutic talk session as it is a workout.

I now happily show up clean-faced, in whatever clothes I grab before dashing to get my kids on the bus. I don’t worry about how many reps I can do or that I’m not the fastest, strongest, or fittest (even if I am the youngest). The gym, a place often so rife with comparison, has become my haven of vulnerability. Home to a group of women who allow me to be my unguarded self. I’m so grateful for those who fill my cup again and again and never allow me to do motherhood alone. We’ve gone from a fitness class to a closely bonded group of friends who hang out, travel, and generally just do life together–even if it is at differing stages spanning twenty years or more.

They have taught me empathy.

These women have taught me empathy, too. Part of being the least experienced mother in the group means I often don’t have solutions for the struggles or trials they are facing. I don’t have teenagers who are pushing the boundaries or ailing, aging parents.

But these experiences have taught me to show empathy even when I don’t understand or can’t relate. I’ve had to get comfortable with not having all the answers, which isn’t the easiest as an undeniably type-A person. Sitting with them through their tears has given me the invaluable skill of being a better listener and an understanding of what true empathy looks like.

They’ve shown me how much we need one another.

These past few years, I’ve found myself leaning in hard to these precious women. I adore them for being my friend and letting me be theirs, too. For giving me sage advice, challenging my perspective, deepening my understanding of myself and my abilities, and always giving me a shoulder to laugh, cry, or just simply lean on.

That’s not to say we’re all better off with friends not of our age. On the contrary, the mothers of my generation frequently inspire me, and my same-stage mom friends harbor no hurt feelings when I forget to text back for weeks. If anything, I’ve learned that we all need each other–regardless of where we are on this crazy ride called motherhood.

Are you in the second decade of motherhood? Rachel shares all about what it means to be there, and how she’s navigating the journey!

Detroit Mom’s Educator Gift Guide: Holiday Edition

Whitney Cornelli

December 3, 2023

We know there is so much to think about during the holiday season. If an educator gift is an item on your to-do list, we want to help you cross that off your list. So, we asked local teachers to share what’s on their holiday wish list. And, we asked local moms what they planned on getting for the educators in their child’s lives!

Every person’s situation is different; some families purchase gifts for educators, and others do not, and this is totally okay! In fact, you’ll see from our gift guide that many of the educators we talked with mentioned that a gift is never expected. But, if you’re looking for educator gift ideas, we wanted to help you out with that in any way that we could.

You’ll find a wide variety of options in our list, with store-bought and homemade items included. We hope you find this gift guide helpful this holiday season!

Classroom Items

Teachers often pay out of pocket for their classroom supplies. Glue sticks, kleenex, pencils, construction paper . . . these items add up quickly. Some of the teachers who responded to my question about gifts said they love consumables, or things to be used directly in their classrooms.

One gift that I was the most grateful for when I was teaching? A parent who consistently volunteered time in my classroom purchased a three-hole punch for me, because she noticed I didn’t have one. This was so thoughtful, and we definitely used it daily! You could send your child’s teacher a quick e-mail and ask what supplies are running low, and plan to replenish some of those.

Gift Cards

Another idea for an educator gift is to go the gift card route. While sometimes it may seem impersonal, I think it’s honestly perfect if you aren’t quite sure exactly what to buy. The teachers who shared their gift thoughts offered some great suggestions for gift cards: for groceries, Target, to grab some coffee, or even Amazon.

You could ask your child’s teacher where they like to shop or if they like coffee, and go from there. You could add a gift card to a little bag of treats, or give multiple gift cards in lower dollar amounts (for example, think about making a gift card “bouquet” with a few dollars to Target, Amazon, a local coffee shop, a local toy store, and/or the grocery store). Lakeshore Learning is another fun place to shop for classroom items.

Group Gifts

If your child has multiple teachers, you may be wondering how to make gifting work. Don’t forget about the power of the group gift! Consider purchasing one larger gift rather than multiple smaller ones.

One teacher who shared her ideas with us teaches high school, and she provided some great ideas that other parents have done for her staff, like bringing in food or K-cups (if they have a keurig machine). Personally, it always warmed my heart when I passed through the teacher’s lounge and saw a treat was left for the staff. It was a great mid-day surprise!

Non-Coffee Mug

Chances are, your child’s teacher runs on coffee. Especially those early mornings in staff meetings, and getting the classroom ready for a full day of learning! I always had coffee on my desk and just like in motherhood, it would sometimes take me all day to finish drinking it, because I was always on my feet with my students.

One overwhelming response from the teachers who responded was that if you’re thinking of grabbing a cute coffee mug, aim for a travel thermos instead, with a lid! This way they can carry it with them everywhere and they won’t have to worry about spills. I bet your local small business coffee shop would have perfect ones to gift!

Self-Care Items

As a teacher, you spend all day (and most evenings and weekends, too) pouring into your students and their families. It’s easy to put yourself on the back burner while cutting out laminated projects, grading papers, working on report cards, and organizing the classroom library.

Some of the teachers who shared their thoughts recommended items like Bath and Body Works lotions, or even items from local small businesses like Natural Red (the cracks are whack hand and foot cream was recommended!) or Brown Sugared Babies (check out their body butter!).

Snacks

I most definitely had a desk drawer full of chocolate when I was teaching. It was nice to have a little treat when my students were at lunch or specials. Especially after a stressful day of teaching, a little chocolate really went a long way!

If you’re thinking of grabbing some snacks for an educator gift, have your child ask their teacher what they love. And of course, check for any allergies or special preferences. Whether you bake them yourself or purchase at the store, gifting food is a way to gift a little bit of love that will mean so much.

Their Favorite Things

One mom said that she will send out a “favorite things” survey to their child’s teacher to find out exactly what they like, and I think this is such a smart idea. There are tons of templates on Pinterest that you can easily print off and send in to school. Sometimes the school will also send out a weekly newsletter and it might feature little tidbits of information about the staff, so keep an eye out for that.

Once you know some of their favorite things, you could put the items together in a cute bin to be repurposed in the classroom. Or, pair a couple of favorite things with a gift card or coffee thermos.

Personal Cards

When all is said and done, it can really warm an educator’s heart just to hear how much they are appreciated. Many of the educators who shared their ideas also mentioned that personal, handmade, homemade items are ones they cherish. The time spent making and creating will not go unnoticed. And chances are, your child’s educator will hang on to these types of gifts for years to come.

If your child is younger, have them decorate a holiday card and draw a picture inside. For older kids, they could write a meaningful note to their educator about what they’re enjoying about the class or learning from them. It’s appreciated every day, but especially on those hard, difficult days–these notes mean SO much and are a solid reminder of why these educators do what they do.

What I hope you remember this holiday season is that it’s the thought that counts most with these gifts. If you’re able, consider gifting your time by offering to cut out lamination or volunteer in the classroom. If you’re unable to do this, simply send the teacher an e-mail saying thanks for all they’ve done. Our educators love our children like they are their own. Let’s celebrate them as often as we can.

Want to shop local this holiday season? Don’t miss the Detroit Mom-Approved Holiday Gift Guide!

Where to Find Holiday Family-Friendly Fun In + Around Detroit

Jessica Johnson

December 3, 2023

Holiday season is here and Metro Detroit is in its Festive Era! Favorite local spots are transforming into winter wonderlands complete with sparkling lights, fun activities, and the joy of the season. Whether you are a long-time local, new to town, or visiting the area for the holidays, there are many options to experience holiday family-friendly fun in + around Detroit.

Here are 16 of the BEST spots for holiday family-friendly fun in + around Detroit!

Broadway in Detroit presents Frozen | Detroit

Consider heading downtown and starting the holiday season with a live show! Frozen, the Tony®-nominated Best Musical, is now on tour in Detroit and the show is absolutely magical. It features new songs that your kids are sure to love! The special effects, performances, costumes, and sets will leave everyone in awe.
HOURS: the show runs now through December 17
COST: check website for prices

Beacon Park | Detroit

Beacon Park is home to the Detroit Children’s Christmas Tree. Additionally, the green-space is decorated with large light features, over 125,000 lights, and its newest addition, the Design Haus, which is a heated indoor space hosting a variety of events.
HOURS: Open through January 16, 2024.
COST: Free!

Blake’s Orchard and Cider Mill | Armada

Blake’s Winter Wonderland boasts a synthetic ice rink, dining igloos, and an open-air tap room serving 30 rotating taps of their hard cider and beer. Tickets must be purchased online to guarantee skating. Additionally, walk-in tickets may not be available, depending on capacity limits.
HOURS: Open Fridays and Christmas Day from 2:00 p.m.-7:00 p.m. and Saturdays and Sundays from 11:00 a.m.-7:00 p.m. Closed Christmas Eve and New Year’s Day.
COST: $10 for 50 minute skating session, $5 skate rental. Children 2 and under are free.

Campus Martius Ice Rink | Detroit

The Rink at Campus Martius offers visitors views of the city’s skyline and holiday lighting, including the Detroit Christmas Tree. Also, it can be easily paired with other downtown Detroit activities such as Beacon Park, the Downtown Detroit Markets, and Winter Monroe Street Midway! Tickets and skate rentals can be purchased on-site and are first come.
HOURS: Open 7 days a week and holidays; check website for detailed hours.
COST: General admission (ages 13-58) $12 and children (age 12 and under) $9 for a 2 hour skate session. Skate rental $6.

Candlelight Concerts | Birmingham + Detroit

Inspiring venues host Candlelight concerts, and elevate live music performed by small ensembles with the glow of candlelight. It is truly a unique experience! They offer both a holiday music concert and a holiday jazz concert. Venue locations and concert dates vary. Tickets must be purchased online.
COST: $40-$63 depending on concert and seating preference. Children must be 8 and older to attend.

Downtown Detroit Markets & Cadillac Lodge | Detroit

The Downtown Detroit Markets are made up of local small businesses who offer unique and artisanal items, perfect for holiday gift giving! Afterwards, visit Cadillac Lodge, a family-friendly heated tent that serves food and drinks, and offers board games and fireplaces.
HOURS: Monday-Thursday and Sunday from 11:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m., Fridays and Saturdays from 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. Christmas Eve hours are from 11:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m., Christmas Day Closed, New Year’s Eve from 11:00 a.m.-10:00 p.m., and New Year’s Day from 11:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m.
COST: Entry to Cadillac Lodge is free!

Glenlore Trails: Aurora | Commerce Township

This one-mile interactive night walk winds through the forest on a maintained path. It is great for all ages and is guaranteed to keep even the littlest of explorers engaged with its wintry imagery. Advanced ticket purchase recommended.
HOURS: Open through December 30, 2023, Thursday-Sunday, from 5:15 p.m. to 9:30 p.m.
COST: General admission (age 13+) $25 and youth admission (ages 4-12) $15. Children 3 and under are free.

Holiday Concerts with the Detroit Symphony Orchestra | Detroit

The Detroit Symphony Orchestra offers a variety of holiday delights. From children’s concerts, to holiday films with live music, to classic Christmas symphonies, there is something for everyone. Concert dates and times vary.
COST: Main floor seats start at $48.

Holiday Nights in Greenfield Village | Dearborn

Henry Ford’s Greenfield Village transports visitors back in time to a historic Main Street decked out in holiday cheer. Carolers, warm bonfires, and decorated spaces are sure to get you and your family in the spirit of the season. A grand finale firework show is a spectacular end to the festive-filled evening. Advanced ticket purchase recommended.
HOURS: December 1-3, 8-10, 14-17, 19-23, and 26-28 from 6:30 p.m.-10:00 p.m.
COST: General admission (ages 12+) $38 and youth admission (ages 5-11) $28.50. Children 4 and under are free. Member discounts available.

Magic of Lights | Clarkston

Magic of Lights is a drive-thru holiday lights display that my family always enjoys in our pajamas. We bring treats and hot cocoa to enjoy as we experience all the dazzling displays along the path. Tickets must be purchased online.
HOURS: Open through December 30, 2023. Monday-Sunday from 5:30 p.m.-10:00 p.m. and Christmas Eve and Christmas Day from 5:30 p.m.-9:00 p.m.
COST: Sunday-Thursday, standard vehicle, $22.50. Friday and Saturday, standard vehicle, $27.50.

Meadowbrook Hall Holiday Walk & Winter Wonder Lights | Rochester

Meadowbrook Hall offers visitors two ways to enjoy this holiday destination. The Holiday Walk invites visitors to take a self-guided tour through the historic mansion. The estate has 110 rooms with 50 beautifully decorated trees, including a 10-foot tall poinsettia tree. At night their outdoor event, Winter Wonder Lights, takes center stage. The manicured grounds are illuminated with lights, displays, and sound. Tickets must be purchased online.
HOURS: Dates and times vary. Events open through December 30, 2023.
HOLIDAY WALK COSTS: General admission (ages 13+) $20.50, youth (ages 3-12) $8, children 2 and under are free.
WINTER WONDER LIGHTS COSTS: General admission (ages 13+) $22.50, youth (ages 3-12) $12.50, children 2 and under are free.

Merry & Bright: The Detroit Holiday Lights Tour | Detroit

Put on your Christmas sweater, pack some snacks, and hop on the Detroit Bus Company’s Merry & Bright tour. This holiday excursion takes visitors to six festive locations in downtown Detroit. It is a three-hour tour. Also, there are two pick-up locations for the tour: One Eyed Betty’s in Ferndale, or at Cadillac Square & Woodward in Detroit. Drinking is allowed on the bus, but the company states that the “mood is easy.”
HOURS: Dates and times vary.
COST: $58.99 per ticket. Group discounts (10-40 people) are available. Children must be 5 and older to participate.

Walk of Trees | Plymouth

75 Christmas trees fill Kellogg Park in downtown Plymouth. Local families, clubs, and businesses decorate each tree. A portion of the trees do have special meanings behind their designs, as they honor memories of loved ones who have passed.
HOURS: The trees are lit 24 hours until Christmas Day.
COST: Free!

Wayne County Lightfest | Westland

The Wayne County Lightfest is the Midwest’s longest drive-thru holiday light display. The five mile stretch treats visitors to 50 animated themed displays and more than 100,000 lights! It’s the perfect way to stay warm while enjoying holiday cheer with your family.
HOURS: Wednesday to Sunday from 6:00 p.m.-10:00 p.m. through December 24, 2023.
COST: Standard cars are $5–cash only. On December 6th and 13th, visitors can bring new, unwrapped toys in place of the car entrance fee.

Wild Lights at the Detroit Zoo | Royal Oak

After dark, the Detroit Zoo is illuminated by millions of lights, 500 light displays, and a walk-through light tunnel. This stroller-friendly event has a newly enhanced enchanted trail this year. Also, the interactive holiday wishing tree is back! Lastly, it has a heated lodge for families to warm up in, while enjoying live entertainment, food, and drinks.
HOURS: December 1-3, 8-10, 13-23, 26-31, and January 2-7. Fridays and Saturdays from 5:00 p.m.-10:30 p.m. and Sundays from 5:00 p.m.-9:00 p.m.
COST: General admission is $17-$25 when purchased online and $26 at the gate. Parking is $8. All children 2 and older must have a ticket for entry.

Winter Monroe Street Midway | Detroit

Monroe Street Midway is a hub for fun and activities, especially in winter. Its interactive entertainment includes an arctic slide, puck-putt, bumper cars, and arcade games. Participants must be 44 inches tall for the Arctic Slide and 42 inches tall and 5 years old to ride the bumper cars solo.
HOURS: Open through January 7, 2024. Thursdays from 11:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m., Fridays and Saturdays from 11:00 a.m.-10:00 p.m., and Sundays from 11:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m. Christmas Eve hours are from 11:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m., New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day from 11:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m. Closed Christmas Day.
COST: Entry and most activities are free! Bumper cars are $5 per session. Arcade games vary from $0.50-$3 per play.

Looking to decorate your home for the holidays? Check out Orna’s tips for preparing your space!

Yes, You Should Celebrate Turning 40 (Along with Every Other Decade)

Renee Bolla

November 29, 2023

This year I am turning 40. I don’t feel 40. But then again, what is 40 supposed to feel like? I have had many people ask me about my feelings toward approaching this new decade with the assumption that I will react negatively. That is the society we live in. It views this decade with a mix of sympathy and apprehension. And that view is so deeply ingrained in our culture that it consciously–and even unconsciously–affects how we view ourselves as women getting older. Aging is simply not embraced.

I’ve read blog after blog about turning 40 and how it is the pivotal age to reinvent yourself or, worse, the beginning of a mid-life crisis. Such extremes. Can’t we appreciate and embrace the beauty that comes with age? From the failures to the triumphs. Let’s value where we have been while looking forward to the personal growth ahead.

We don’t need slogans that tell us 40 is the new 30. And we do not need surprise parties with black balloons and signs that imply we are “over the hill.” Canceled.

Change the Narrative

What if we thought differently about how we aged? What if we looked forward to what each decade does bring, instead of dreading it? We must change the narrative and reframe what turning the big 4-0 feels like.

And I am here to say that I love that I am turning 40. I have 40 years of experience to share with my three daughters. I want them to see me celebrating life. It’s my next chapter. We all know the book gets better as you read on. That’s what life should be: every day adding that much more to your story because reaching your potential does not have a date. We all will find our authentic selves along the way.

So, let’s not conform to what society tells us to think and feel about being 30, 40, or 60 years old. Celebrate you and the story you’ve created.

How I Will Embrace Turning 40

So, I will celebrate this beautiful milestone to the fullest. Embrace the changes in my mind, body, and soul. Take stock of my achievements while striving for personal growth as a woman, mom, and entrepreneur.

Embracing the Changes in My Mind

Remind myself that I may not be for everyone, and that is OK.
Journal the way I want to journal. Not because someone swears that getting up at 6:00 a.m., before the kids and husband wake, to set their intentions for the day is life-changing. Or because someone stresses the importance of ending your day with gratitude. I do not need one more responsibility, chore, or obligation. Simply put, I want to journal when I want to. Journaling is whatever YOU want it to be. If you want a schedule, make it. If you want it to be about gratitude, do it. If you want to vent about your children and husband, that’s on the table too. And if you want nothing to do with journaling, that’s also OK.
Meditate whenever I find time, in the shower, or while waiting in the never-ending school pickup line. It can be five minutes or 20 minutes. But just doing it when I need to find my breath, ground myself, and calm my thoughts is what works for me.
Celebrate the small wins. I will 100% clap for myself when I’ve gotten to all the laundry in one day, increased my IG engagement, or finished revisions on my latest manuscript. I have spent many moments waiting to be validated by someone else to make a happy moment a win. But you are the only one who needs to validate your success.
Read. Enough said.

Embracing the Changes in My Body

Increase my heart rate daily. I have one body; I will take care of it. It doesn’t mean I am running to sign up for a Lifetime Fitness membership. As a mom to three kids, my activity levels are always high. Chasing kids on the playground, sweeping up the kinetic sand four times before noon, or changing the duvet covers on all the beds. That can be enough.
Stretch. My neck becomes my worst enemy with one wrong sleep or one wrong bend to pick up my groceries.
Invest in the best sleep of my life, from the mattress to the sheets to the amount of time I devote to it. Make it luxurious. I’m not in college and do not need to sleep on a futon with the sheets my parents gave me in 1990. It’s time to make my grown-up bedroom and enjoy it.

Embracing the Changes in My Soul

Connect with family and friends every single week. I will not say I don’t have time. I will make the time. We only have so many moments together. And being around ones who love, support, and allow me to be my authentic self is the most valuable thing I can do for myself. Whether it’s sending a text, a meme, snail mail, or whatever, I will let them know I am thinking about them.
Let myself go down memory lane. We all know living in the present and practicing mindfulness has many incredible benefits to our well-being. But reminiscing is an equally powerful tool. Holding on to a happy memory effectively, allowing yourself to relive that moment and its feelings, is powerful and often underutilized.
Sing and dance whenever my favorite song plays. It’s good for the soul. I will not stop if my kids are embarrassed. Instead, I will show them I am unapologetically me. They will need that reminder at some point in their life.

Happy birthday to all the fabulous women turning 40–and every other decade. Your beauty lies within your journey. What are you most looking forward to as you celebrate your next birthday?

Along with life’s journeys and milestones, we as mothers grow and evolve. Rachel shares insight into the second decade of motherhood and how she is embracing life’s changes!

Detroit Mom Book Club: Book of the Month for December 2023

Katie Purcell

November 29, 2023

Welcome to the Detroit Mom Book Club! To be a part of our discussions, join our Facebook group. For all things book-related, check out our Bookstagram page, Detroit Moms on the Same Page.

Book of the Month: American Housewife by Helen Ellis

Synopsis

Meet the women of American Housewife: they wear lipstick, pearls, and sunscreen, even when it’s cloudy. They casserole. They pinwheel. They pump the salad spinner like it’s a CPR dummy. And then they kill a party crasher, carefully stepping around the body to pull cookies out of the oven.

These twelve irresistible stories take us from a haunted pre-war Manhattan apartment building to the set of a rigged reality television show, from the unique initiation ritual of a book club to the getaway car of a pageant princess on the lam, from the gallery opening of a tinfoil artist to the fitting room of a legendary lingerie shop. Vicious, fresh, and nutty as a poisoned Goo Goo Cluster, American Housewife is an uproarious, pointed commentary on womanhood.

Book Club Reading Discussion Schedule

The dates listed below are the days we will be posting discussion questions in the Facebook group. On those dates, we will be talking about the pages listed.

Monday, December 4: Pages 1-69

Monday, December 11: Pages 73-113

Monday, December 18: Pages 117-145

Tuesday, December 26: Pages 149-end

We hope you enjoy American Housewife and get to discuss with us in our book club this month!

Detroit Mom-Approved Local Giving Guide

Jessica Lukenbill

November 28, 2023

As we approach the end of 2024, we recognize the resilience our communities have shown as well as the hardships they’ve faced. We continue to face challenges many of us have never seen before. Charitable and non-profit organizations are overwhelmed by demand. As many Detroit-area families are struggling to meet basic needs this year, community organizations are stepping up efforts to lend a hand. This Giving Tuesday, they need our support.

2024 is the year to open our hearts and lend a hand. Giving Tuesday is the perfect time to do so. We all have something to give. Detroit Mom has found many, many worthwhile organizations that would gladly accept whatever we have to offer.

Maybe it’s an hour a week reading online with kids, or maybe it’s needed supplies. Perhaps it’s a cash donation. Anything we can give will help make Giving Tuesday 2024 an impactful one for charities that rely on donors like us.

Click the photos below to browse some of the local organizations that would love your donation this year!

Embracing the Inevitable: Preparing for the Death of Your Parents

Orna Fathers

November 27, 2023

DISCLAIMER: The following post outlines the writer’s personal experience with this topic. It is not intended to act as legal advice. As always, please consult your legal team with any questions about how to prepare legal items.

In a recent conversation with my mother, she casually mentioned that she currently doesn’t have a will. I was taken aback by this revelation, and as I had worked in wills and estate law in my home country, I couldn’t help but feel concerned and uneasy about the situation! Often, our society tends to ignore the unavoidable reality of death and the certainty that we will eventually pass away.

Neglecting the reality of death as a natural part of life and failing to plan for it will inevitably create a chaotic situation for families when a loved one is no longer with us. Countless stories abound of families falling apart due to the absence of clear guidance from the deceased. Siblings may engage in disputes over what they believe is rightfully theirs, legal complications can arise, and the process of sorting through the departed’s belongings can be emotionally taxing. As we grow older, it becomes essential to recognize that preparing for our own passing is not just responsible, but also an immense act of love.

Although discussing death may be uncomfortable, it is undeniably necessary. No one wishes to contemplate their parents’ eventual departure, but it is an unavoidable aspect of life’s cycle. Therefore, as parents, our responsibility extends not only to preparing our children for our absence but also to assisting our aging parents in ensuring a smooth transition when they leave this world.

The following steps can help guide and initiate the delicate process of preparing for the death of your parents:

1. Start by having a conversation.

Talk to your parents and see if they have prepared any end-of-life preparations. Hopefully they already have a will and/or trust in place. If they do, ask them where you can locate these important documents. If they don’t, plan to help them navigate getting started.

2. Help them navigate.

Do the research for your parents based on the state they hold residence in. Each state may have a different process and requirements when it comes to establishing a will and/or trust. Help them find a local attorney who can answer any questions and help initiate the process.

3. Go through their belongings together.

One way to help our parents while they are still living is by offering to go through all their belongings together. Help them create piles for items to keep, donate, throw away, and give away.

If there are certain items they want specific family and/or friends to receive, encourage them to gift these items while they are living. If this is not possible, request that they are specific in their will about who will receive what item. This will help ensure their input is heard even after they are gone.

4. Ask questions.

It is always best to ask them any questions while they are living. Do they want to be buried or cremated? Do they desire a funeral service or a fun party honoring their life? If they don’t know the answers to these questions, encourage them to start thinking about these things.

5. Honor their wishes.

The purpose of helping our parents prepare for the end of their lives is to ultimately make sure their wishes are honored when they no longer have a voice. Losing a parent is a life-altering experience and by having everything taken care of prior to their departure, loved ones are gifted the opportunity to properly grieve.

By having a well-thought-out plan in place, we eliminate uncertainties and “what-ifs” from the equation. While initially uncomfortable, discussing end-of-life plans with our parents can be transformative. Preparing for the death of our parents should ideally alleviate some of the stress when the time comes, allowing us to focus on celebrating their life and grieving without unnecessary burdens.

Grief can be really, really complicated. Amber shares tips for managing grief and loss as a family.

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