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“Were You Forced to Wear the Hijab?” + Other Common Questions

World Hijab Day, celebrated annually on February 1st, is a global initiative that nourishes solidarity, understanding, and tolerance. It encourages people from all walks of life to experience and appreciate the hijab for a day. And, it breaks down misconceptions and builds bridges of empathy.

When I discovered there was a day dedicated to honoring women who choose to wear the hijab, I knew I had to participate. This year, for World Hijab Day, I want to share my personal journey of wearing the hijab and address some of the most common questions surrounding it.

My journey began at a young age. I knew that wearing the hijab was a way to honor my faith and felt an indescribable spiritual connection to it. At just nine years old, I confidently approached my parents and shared my decision to start wearing the hijab. While they seemed a bit frazzled, they emphasized the commitment and dedication that this choice would require. Despite their concerns, I felt certain about my decision. I assured them that this was what I truly wanted.

With determination and a clear sense of purpose, I insisted on taking this meaningful step. 

The next day I confidently walked into my third-grade classroom, filled with mostly non-Muslim classmates, wearing my new apparel: my hijab. Was it awkward? Absolutely. Walking in looking very different from the day before drew stares, whispers, and questions. The first came from my concerned teacher, who asked if anyone had forced me to wear it. I smiled and confidently assured her it was my decision—and I was happy with it. 

The hijab, for me, was never just a head covering. It was a statement of my values, a symbol of my faith, and a lesson in resilience. It taught me to be confident in who I am, to hold fast to my beliefs, and to navigate the judgments of others with grace. Wearing the hijab opened the door to meaningful conversations, broke barriers, and cultivated understanding between myself and those from different backgrounds.

For me, these conversations were opportunities to educate others about Islam and what it truly means to be a Muslim. I welcomed the curiosity openly, especially when it came from a place of genuine interest.

In honor of World Hijab Day, I want to take this opportunity to answer some of the most common questions about the hijab and dispel some misconceptions.

1. Does your religion force you to wear a hijab?

Absolutely not. Contrary to popular belief, wearing the hijab is a personal choice for most women. It symbolizes empowerment and reflects a woman’s decision to take control of her body and identity. The Quran clearly states, “There is no compulsion in religion,” reinforcing that hijab is a choice made from within—a commitment rooted in one’s own values and faith.

2. At what age does one begin to wear the hijab?

While it is recommended for girls to start wearing the hijab at the age of puberty, it remains a personal decision. Many women choose to begin wearing it at different ages, depending on when they feel ready to commit.

3. Who is allowed to see you without the hijab?

Other women can see you without the hijab, as well as close male relatives, specifically your father, grandfathers, brothers, uncles (on both parents’ sides), and husband.

4. If you choose to wear the hijab, can you change your mind?

Just like any personal decision, someone may change their mind about wearing the hijab. While it is a significant commitment, it is a choice that must come from the heart, and there should not be any judgment if someone decides to take it off.

5. When are you allowed to remove the hijab?

The hijab is worn in public or in the presence of men who are not the aforementioned “close relatives.” It can be removed at home, in private settings, or among other women. Additionally, elderly women may choose to stop wearing the hijab if they wish, as they are not obligated to continue.

6. What does the hijab represent, and why do you wear it?

For many Muslim women, the hijab is a visible and profound expression of their faith and modesty. It serves as a constant reminder of their connection to God, embodying values of humility and spiritual devotion. Beyond modesty, it symbolizes a commitment to placing faith and the relationship with God above all else.

7. Are there different ways to wear the hijab?

Yes! The hijab varies widely across cultures and regions, reflecting the diversity of the Muslim community. Whether it’s the simple drape of a scarf, or the full-body Chador, the hijab is as unique as the women who wear it.

8. Do Muslim women in the U.S. style their hijab differently?

In the U.S., you’ll see Muslim women expressing modesty in a variety of ways, reflecting diverse interpretations and practices. There are general guidelines and cultural or religious rules about what modesty entails and what should be covered. However, it’s essential to recognize that this is deeply personal and often a journey for many women.

There are numerous gray areas in how modesty is understood and practiced, as it’s influenced by individual experiences, beliefs, and circumstances. Understanding this allows us to approach the topic with empathy and respect, honoring each woman’s unique path.

World Hijab Day is a celebration of faith, empowerment, and individuality. Through my story and these answers, I hope to inspire understanding and cultivate meaningful conversations. The hijab is more than just fabric—it is a symbol of choice, spirituality, and resilience. Whether you wear it or simply seek to learn more about it, take this opportunity to celebrate the diversity and richness of the world around us. Together, let’s create a culture of respect, empathy, and solidarity.

Interested in learning more about Islam and Muslims? Rana shares about what Ramadan is like for her Muslim family.

National Hot Chocolate Day: The Best Hot Chocolate In + Around Detroit

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National Hot CHOCOLATE Day is here! And, there’s no shortage of local hot chocolate spots to visit in + around Detroit. You’ll definitely want to warm up with a delicious and delectable treat on a cold winter’s day.

Check out this updated list of “must-try” cute and family-friendly places to satisfy your sweet cravings and keep you and your loved ones cozy during this chilly Detroit winter.

The Best Local Hot Chocolate In + Around Detroit

Alpine Chocolat Haus | Various Locations

Alpine Chocolat Haus has been delighting Michiganians for 40 years! With five locations across Michigan, we’re lucky to enjoy their mouth-watering chocolates and hot chocolates right here in the Metro Detroit area. Don’t miss their famous “Awesome in a Bag,” featuring caramel corn drizzled with dark and white chocolate—yes, please!

Astoria Pastry Shop | Detroit + Royal Oak

Astoria Pastry Shop is the perfect spot for European pastries paired with smooth hot cocoa! Located on Main Street in Royal Oak and Monroe Street in Greektown, this charming pastry shop is a must-visit. Be sure to order a dozen of their assorted brunch pastries for your next “mom brunch” or holiday gathering. With countless awards under their belt, Astoria Pastry Shop is truly a Metro Detroit icon.

Birmingham Chocolate | Ferndale

Birmingham Chocolate is a must-visit—not just for their rich, high-quality hot chocolates but also for their bonbons, bars, and other delectable treats! This spot isn’t just a local favorite; they’re also a wholesale distributor of their unique creations. Check them out and indulge in something special!

Canelle Detroit  | Detroit + More

Dive in and order their delicious “Chocolate Milk,” paired with the finest croissants that’ll transport you straight to Paris! Whether you’re east, west, north, or south, you can find your little slice of Paris right here in Metro Detroit. Feeling like Emily in Paris? Snap a chic photo, channel your inner Parisian, and enjoy this dreamy treat.

Chocolate Bar Cafe | Grosse Pointe Woods

On the eastside–if you haven’t tried Detroit’s Alinosi Ice Cream, now’s your chance! Their hot chocolate comes in so many incredible flavors. Pick your favorite: from classic to white chocolate caramel, you won’t be disappointed! Alinosi Ice Cream parlors have been serving the Detroit community since 1921, and their history is just as rich as their flavors. Step into the retro vibes of the Chocolate Bar Café and feel like Marilyn Monroe in the 1950s.

Coffee Down Under | Detroit

Experience a taste of the land down under in the heart of Detroit! Nestled in the Financial District inside SpaceLab Detroit, this spot is perfect for warming up during a city walking tour or after enjoying winter festivities. Stop in and grab a hot chocolate that’ll prepare you for your next outdoor adventure!

Dessert Oasis Coffee Roasters | Detroit, Rochester, + Royal Oak

With three convenient locations, this spot has Metro Detroit’s hot chocolate needs covered! Warm up with their rich hot chocolate, and don’t miss out on their decadent cheesecakes. They even have a gluten-free brownie on the menu—truly a chocolate lover’s heaven! With an inspiring story behind it, this place combines music, cheesecakes, and coffee for a cozy and uplifting experience.

Farmhouse Coffee & Ice Cream | Farmington Hills 

Made with love and Ghirardelli Chocolate, the signature hot chocolate from Farmhouse Coffee & Ice Cream is a true local love! While the kids enjoy their HoCho, treat yourself to something special from their flavorful menu. Pick your poison: whether the Pepper Mallow Latte or the S’mores Mocha, you simply can’t go wrong!

Just Love Coffee Cafe | Shelby Township

Tucked in a bustling Van Dyke plaza, this coffee shop truly lives up to its name! Welcoming everyone with a kid-friendly vibe, they serve their drinks with care—no paper to-go cups here (unless you need one). Their hot chocolate is made with LOVE and topped with a generous swirl of whipped cream. And don’t leave without trying the white chocolate tiramisu coffee—you won’t regret it!

Main’s Treat Coffeehouse | Romeo

The charming little town of Romeo will make you feel like you’re in a Netflix love movie! Grab a rich cup of hot chocolate, whether with no whip or extra whipped cream, and soak in the cozy atmosphere of this delightful coffeehouse, complete with free Wi-Fi. Plus, they have an app you can download for those busy on-the-go mom errands!

Morley Chocolate Factory | Clinton Township

Morley Chocolate Factory—what better place to enjoy a hot chocolate? They even have an adult hot chocolate recipe on their website for those looking to elevate their cocoa experience. All of their chocolates are made right here in the mitten, so you can also pick up an upcoming Valentine’s gift set for someone special. From Bumpy Cake to Sanders Hot Fudge Cream Puffs, we all get to enjoy the magic of this local chocolate factory.

On The Bay Customs Boutique & Cafe | New Baltimore

This place is every mom’s dream with food, shopping, and a cozy atmosphere! The owners have traveled the country to find unique items for this charming shop, so you can cross off that to-do list while sipping on some delicious hot chocolate.

Though it’s located in a beach town, don’t worry—it’s open year-round. If hot chocolate isn’t your thing, their frozen hot chocolate is just as delightful and delicious! They also have a full bar, so while the kids enjoy their hot chocolate, you can indulge in a coffee cocktail!

Randazzo Fresh Market | Clinton Township

Randazzo Fresh Market Cafe serves a mean hot chocolate, and yes, as moms, we sip and shop! Two of their three locations feature this delicious café, with the third one in Macomb Township. If you ever find yourself not in the mood to cook after grocery shopping, don’t worry—order their Italian wood-fired oven pizza while you’re there. The kids will love it!

The Office Coffee Shop | Royal Oak 

If you’re ice skating in downtown Royal Oak, shopping on Main or Washington Street, or hanging out at the Winter Blast, make sure to try the hot chocolate at The Office Coffee Shop. While it’s a great spot for business and networking, don’t overlook their locally roasted coffees and steaming hot chocolate—it’s the perfect way to warm up!

Looking for more hot chocolate inspiration? Check out our guide to where to find hot cocoa bombs this winter!

Detroit Mom Connect Attendees | Envision + Elevate

We are so excited to get together for our next Detroit Mom Connect event all about realigning with what you desire in 2025! Below, you will find some of the incredible women who will be attending the event so you can get to know them a little before we get together.

 

The above photos do not belong to Detroit Mom but to the individuals listed above.

A Guide to Empowering Our Children to be Compassionate, Inclusive, and Antiracist

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If we have learned anything over the past year, it’s that we as humans have a lot of unlearning and a lot of educating—of ourselves and of our children—to do. It’s time to dedicate ourselves to understanding the past and, most importantly, changing the future. We can absolutely empower our children to be compassionate, inclusive, and antiracist. We can make a difference for future generations. The change starts here.

Bookmark this page. Come back and read day after day, week after week, month after month. Understand what it means to raise inclusive, actively antiracist families. Become a part of the solution.

A Kids Book About Racism by Jelani Memory

All Are Welcome by Alexandra Penfold

I Am Enough by Grace Byers

I Am Rosa Parks by Brad Meltzer

Mixed: A Colorful Story by Arree Chung

Same Difference by Calida Rawles

The Skin You Live In by Michael Tyler

The World Needs More Purple People by Kristen Bell

Sulwe by Lupita Nyong’o

We’re Different, We’re the Same by Bobbi Jane Kates (Sesame Street read along)

If you come across something you think would be a wonderful resource to add to this, please comment with it. We want to continue to expand our knowledge, continue to work on raising inclusive and antiracist children, and continue to teach those our families about the beautiful diversity of our world.

What Happens When Ovaries Are Stimulated During Treatment?

DISCLAIMER: The following post is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about your fertility journey.

When it comes to growing your family, we know how difficult it can be when you struggle with infertility or fertility issues. It can often feel like you’re the only one who hasn’t had a baby or gotten pregnant yet. And it can really cause moms-to-be to evaluate every aspect of their life–and their body.

If you’re struggling to conceive, you may be undergoing fertility treatment or even just starting the fertility process and simply wanting to know more about what to expect. If your doctor has mentioned stimulating your ovaries, then you’re going to want to keep reading!

Our friends from Michigan Center for Fertility and Women’s Health are here to support you on your fertility journey. You might have caught their Fertility Friday series on our IG page–quick videos to answer common fertility questions. Below, they’re sharing about what happens when your ovaries are stimulated.

What happens when the ovaries are stimulated in order to produce more eggs in a given cycle?

Based on our treatment plan, medications may be indicated with an attempt to produce more than one mature follicle, or multiple follicles. This is most typically done during an IVF cycle and subcutaneous injectable medications are used most. A common question we see from patients when we stimulate more mature follicles to grow is, do we lose our eggs more quickly or deplete our ovarian reserve faster? 

And the short answer is, no!

When the ovaries are stimulated to produce more mature follicles, we are not depleting our egg supply more quickly.

Each month, there is a cohort of small follicles called antral follicles. If normal ovulation occurs, typically our natural hormones would induce one of these antral follicles to predominantly grow. It would hopefully contain a mature egg which would then release when we ovulate and allow for potential pregnancy to occur. The rest of the antral follicles in that month’s cohort are then gone forever. They do not remain in the cohort for the next cycle. 

When we do treatment (especially when using IVF medications), we are attempting to stimulate more follicles to grow.

When doing IVF we often use medications that induce the growth of more follicles, hopefully allowing for more eggs to be retrieved at the time of the egg retrieval. We hope to utilize more of those small antral follicles in that month’s cohort and try to grow them to maturity with the hopes of having a good/mature egg in them.

This process does not make our egg supply or ovarian reserve decline any faster.

Here’s an example:

When individuals donate their eggs, they do not accelerate their own fertility decline by donating–even after multiple times. We have some wonderful egg donors who have donated four or five times. They do not deplete their egg supply faster or lower their fertility potential compared to those who have never donated. 

In summary: no, we don’t deplete our egg supply faster when we stimulate the ovaries to produce more follicles. We simply attempt to utilize more of what’s available in that month’s cohort that would then be depleted regardless in the following cycle.

Just starting to grow your family? Our previous post shared five ways you can try to improve your fertility naturally.

National Human Trafficking Prevention Month: Local Resources

Is human trafficking taking place in the zip code you currently live in? If you answered “I don’t think it is . . . ,” are you surprised to learn you’re incorrect? According to Hope Against Trafficking, every zip code in Michigan has reported instances of human trafficking. Every. Zip code.

Does that statistic shock you? The number of reported cases is only increasing. Human trafficking can include sex trafficking and labor trafficking. As a community, we absolutely must be aware, vigilant, and working towards changing this.

January is National Human Trafficking Prevention Month. We wanted to bring awareness to the topic, and also offer local resources that are available in our communities. Whether you or someone you know is a victim of human trafficking, or you simply want to know where you can volunteer and support locally, we hope this list is helpful for you. And, if you know of any local resources we should add, be sure to let us know.

*The National Human Trafficking Hotline phone number is (888) 373-7888. It is available 24/7 in a wide variety of languages. If you or someone you know is in need of support, call the hotline or visit the National Human Trafficking Hotline’s website.

Local Resources for Human Trafficking Awareness Month

Avalon Healing Center | Detroit | (313) 964-9701

Located in Detroit, Avalon Healing Center is a nonprofit organization that provides trauma-informed care for those who are looking for support. The services they provide are confidential and free. Some of the areas in which they focus their support on include social justice, crisis intervention, acute and non-acute assault, and human trafficking, among others.

Their website contains a wealth of information and resources on a variety of subjects. If you’re interested in becoming involved, you can fill out an application to become a volunteer with their organization.

*If you need support: there is a phone number link at the bottom of their website. Their crisis number, available 24/7, is (313) 474-SAFE.

Hope Against Trafficking | Pontiac | (248) 499-8416

This organization works with survivors of human trafficking using a trauma-informed, victim-centered approach. Those they work with develop their own individual plan for how to move forward, and they also help them identify and create goals to work towards. Their residential program provides housing, rent-free, for two years. They also have community education resources.

There are numerous ways to become involved with the work that Hope Against Trafficking is doing. You can apply to be a volunteer or fundraise, just to name a couple of ideas.

*If you need support: fill out this contact form on their website.

Michigan Abolitionist Project | Utica

The Michigan Abolitionist Project is working to educate on human trafficking, engage the community in activities centered on the root causes, and eradicate human trafficking both locally and non-locally. They have local community groups but also work closely with local task forces and coalitions. And, they’re working really hard to bring awareness to this complex issue.

Their website also contains a lot of information about all the ways you can be involved–and all the facts on human trafficking. It’s extremely eye-opening. If you’re interested in becoming involved, you can check if there is an active community group in your area, or attend a virtual Volunteer Interest Meet-Up.

Pearls of Great Price Coalition | Plymouth

Pearls of Great Price is working to prevent human trafficking in all forms. They represent various churches in the area and host monthly meetings. Pearls of Great Price works closely with area organizations as well, such as Sparrow Freedom Project and Sanctum House. If you’re interested in being involved with their work, you can volunteer with them, join their mailing list, or make a donation online.

Sanctum House | Novi | (248) 574-9373

Sanctum House is a safe home for women survivors of human trafficking ages 18 and older. It’s voluntary and a 24-month program. They offer trauma-informed support, mental and physical healthcare, therapy, job training, community action, and more.

There are many ways to become more involved with the important work that Sanctum House is doing. Their website lists volunteer opportunities, donation lists, and more.

*If you need support: fill out this contact form on their website.

Sparrow Freedom Project | New Hudson

Sparrow Freedom Project is building a community that is led by survivors of human trafficking. Together with allies, businesses, organizations, and neighbors, they hope to change what’s happening in our communities. Their support services include access to items like groceries, clothing, emergency shelter, transportation, and home furnishings, to name a few. Financial assistance can be applied for as well.

If you want to help Sparrow, you can do things like become an ally, fundraise, or volunteer. There are even more ideas for ways to support their work on their website.

*If you need support: fill out this contact form on their website.

The Joseph Project | Grosse Pointe Woods | (855) GEN-5020

Working with attorneys, The Joseph Project connects human trafficking survivors with the pro bono legal services they need. They hope to empower survivors and help them take control of their future.

For volunteer opportunities, you can fill out their volunteer contact form.

*If you need support: fill out this contact form on their website.

County-Level Resources

You can also search online for the website for the county you live in, and it should bring up local resources to assist and support you. We’ve linked a few of the major counties below.

Every. Zip code. Every zip code in Michigan has reported cases of human trafficking. We must come together as a community to help those who are impacted by this.

If you’re looking for more ways to support local organizations, check out our Local Giving Guide.

Preparing Mind + Body For The Changing Seasons of Motherhood

I never thought I would survive raising two under the age of two until I came across an article explaining the seasons of motherhood. In the trenches of double diaper changes, teething, weaning, and sleepless nights, I recognized this was just a season I needed to get through.

As our children grow, we moms continuously enter and exit phases of motherhood along with them. Infancy, toddlerhood, that weird stage between five and nine, preteen, the teenage years, etc. With every stage our children hit, moms enter a new season of motherhood to endure. Typically, without warning, we prepare our mommy superpowers to develop new skills to help our children grow, and sometimes, just to make it through the day.

Once I got over my trauma in the two under two phase I realized motherhood has many seasons. They are ever-changing, come without notice, linger for what feels like centuries, and take a toll on my mommy brain and body. To be prepared to navigate the continuous change, to be fully present for the good and the bad moments, I needed to invest in the proper artillery. Here are a few battle tactics that keep me on my toes to handle the mental and physical mommy load.

Eating for fuel.

It tastes good, but does it make you feel good? I am no stranger to a sugary treat. In fact, cookies became my reward for keeping the kids alive until nap time. Now I’m not a nutritionist but what I’ve learned from listening to my body wrangling the attitudes of growing humans is that it takes more fuel than the quick satisfaction of a sugary treat. Nine times out of ten, my afternoon fatigue sets in early and it’s hard to get my second wind before dinner if I reach for the cookies.

Start with a solid breakfast. Incorporate leafy greens and complex carbs in your snacks and lunches. “Who has time for breakfast?” you ask. I know it seems like an extra, unnecessary step in the morning, but it’s definitely an undefeated tactic. By not eating, you are more vulnerable to being hangry. Being hangry while managing tantrums, pick-ups, and drop-offs is fun for no one.

When I focus on healthy eating, my day goes smoother. It’s as simple as that. The getting dressed tantrums and running late for drop-off vibes don’t penetrate my armor as deeply. So, listen to your body: how do you feel after you eat? Eat for fuel to get the energy you need to manage the seasons of motherhood. Eat your breakfast, snack on fruits and vegetables, and cut out late night snacking before bed–remember, you’re prioritizing sleep now. Ice cream before bed keeps your body awake for digestion and the sugar will make it harder to fall asleep.

Getting physical.

You don’t have to wake up at 5:00 a.m. to go to the gym. But you do need to move your body to stay sane in the seasons of motherhood. As moms, we need all the endorphins we can get.

Organizing a bit of physical movement in your day will boost your happiness, I promise. Instead of driving to a playdate, schedule something you can walk to. Instead of sitting in the bleachers, walk the perimeter of the field or court while you watch. After sitting at your desk, walk to the farthest restroom in the building or even use the stairs.

We are all busy, all the time, but the more physical movement you give yourself, the more serotonin you’ll have pumping through your body–improving everything from your mood, to your sleep, and even your digestion.

Like anything, it’s going to take some getting used to. I didn’t think my boys would ever make it more than two blocks in our double stroller before fighting to get out. With persistence and a few kid-friendly bribes, morning walks became a valuable routine that gave me the energy to stay on my toes to battle the mental and physical mommy load.

Having patience, grace, + faith.

You aren’t going to get it right every time, show yourself a little bit of patience when adjusting to the seasons of motherhood. We practice patience with our children; it’s a right of passage in parenting, but we hardly ever use that same patience on ourselves. If you want to get through the seasons, be patient with YOU first.

Sprinkle in a little grace from time to time too. The family down the street may look like they have it all together. Your children’s peers may be hitting milestones quicker, or jumping into adulthood more gracefully, but it doesn’t make you any less of a mother. Acknowledging you might be transitioning through seasons, or ending the sweetest season you’ve had as a mother, requires grace.

And stay invested in having faith in yourself. Be assured, even when you feel like you’re failing: you are winning. You’ve won another set of good morning kisses, another chance to teach your children a lesson, another second to reflect. Having faith in yourself will give you the confidence you need to be challenged by any other season of motherhood.

Prioritizing sleep.

This may seem impossible with a newborn or a newly potty-trained toddler. It may even sound improbable as a worrying mother of a preteen or future graduate. But the message isn’t to get good sleep–it is to simply start prioritizing it while moving through seasons of motherhood. Prioritizing your sleep could be anything from not falling asleep with kids in the same bed, setting a bedtime for yourself, cutting out naps to get the kids sleeping through the night, or not falling asleep on your phone in bed.

It’s too often we allow ourselves to “Netflix and chill” as self-care. Yes, it feels good, but the gratification is short-lived. Besides, that extra episode isn’t going to give you the energy you need to battle teething and tweening. And the coffee addiction? It’s cute, but it is not serving your body any good. If we value a good night’s rest, we, as persistent and resilient moms, can make it happen. It may take a few days for your body (and your responsibilities) to adjust, but don’t give up.

My tenacity completely changed when I gave up putting my kids to bed. As a stay-at-home mom I handle everything from wake up to dinner by myself. I enlisted my husband to take over putting the kids to sleep without my help. This has given me time to wind down and get to bed at a reasonable hour; fully rested with clarity and energy to conquer all the mommying through the changing seasons.

Taking breaks.

Planning to see my friends, or to take myself shopping–even if it’s to the grocery store alone–is regularly scheduled into the family’s monthly calendar of activities. It’s not an option. My sanity depends on it like my youngest depended on his pacifier to survive. Without it, there will be no peace.

In order to deal with any season of motherhood you have to mother the mother. When you have something kid-free to look forward to, the chaos of the changing seasons loses its power. Put yourself on the calendar and take a break from your family. Take the time to miss your children and to have them miss you. Love does grow fonder in absence and so will your strength to defeat the overflowing load of mommying.

You don’t even have to leave the house. One of my favorite ways to take a break is to kick everyone out of our home for an afternoon so I can enjoy my space in peace and quiet.

And finally . . .

Mommying is hard and wonderful, and challenging, and glorious all in the same breath. You are going to make mistakes, you are going to feel stuck in a season. You are going to mourn a season’s end or cheer when it’s over. And the change of it all will bring you to your wits end. Have patience, have grace, and have a little faith in yourself.

I once worried if my picky eaters would ever just eat the food I made them. Now I worry how I will ever be able to keep up feeding two growing boys. Just remember, it’s only a season–if you can do this, you can do anything. Stay prepared, prioritize your sleep and your body’s needs, and know we’ve all been there, trading one season for the next. You’ve got this!

Parenting can be tough–we’re here for you! Check out some of Albiona’s Parenting Post topics and allow her to help you navigate the tricky moments.

Poverty Awareness Month: Local Resources

January is Poverty Awareness Month. We wanted to bring awareness to the topic, and also offer local resources that are available in our communities to help those in need. Whether you or someone you know is affected by poverty, or you simply want to know where you can volunteer and support locally, we hope this post is helpful for you. And, if you know of any local resources we should add, be sure to let us know.

Immediate Crisis Relief

First off, if you or someone you know is in crisis, there is immediate help. The 9-8-8 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline is always available by dialing 9-8-8. This is free, confidential support to those who may be experiencing a mental health crisis. This is available nationally to anyone who calls and is always there, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. 

There is also immediate help, 24/7, through United Way by dialing 2-1-1. This helpline provides connection and/or referrals to programs in your area that help with food, shelter, financial support, and more. There are over 30,000 resources just in southeast Michigan. The person on the other side of this call has been trained to provide crisis intervention and will be able to look up all available resources based on your exact location and needs. As someone who has personally worked in this exact position, know that there is no shame or judgment. You can remain anonymous, too.

Local Resources for Poverty Awareness Month

Agape Center | Romeo | (586) 336-6842

The Agape Center provides emergency food relief to those in Macomb County.

*How you can help: If you are interested in volunteering, follow the link here. The pantry also has a list of food donations needed that can be dropped off.
*If you need support: If you are seeking emergency food relief, visit the pantry during the listed pantry hours and provide basic information to qualify. The pantry hours (starting February 1, 2025) are:

  • Tuesday: 9:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m.
  • Wednesday: 9:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m.
  • Thursday: 4:00-7:00 p.m.

Bountiful Harvest | Brighton | (810) 360-0271

Bountiful Harvest serves Livingston County and is located in Brighton. They offer groceries, meals, clothing, and assistance with employment needs.

*How you can help: Donate money or wish list items, or volunteer your time.
*If you need support: Call (810) 360-0271.

CARES | Farmington Hills | (248) 882-7800

CARES provides a food pantry and CARES Market to those who are experiencing food insecurities. They are open to all who live in Farmington Hills, Farmington, Livonia, Redford Twp., Southfield, Northville, Novi, and West Bloomfield. CARES also provides resources for AA, NA, WIC, suicide prevention, and other support group settings.

*How you can help: CARES accepts donations online or via mail. You can also volunteer by completing their Volunteer Application Form.
*If you need support: The food pantry is available by appointment only. In order to schedule an appointment, call (248) 474-8231.

Cody Rouge Community Action Alliance | Detroit | (313) 397-9280

Cody Rouge Community Action Alliance provides youth development programming, neighborhood stabilization, senior support, and community events in Detroit.

*How you can help: You can donate directly here.
*If you need support: Contact directly by calling (313) 397-9280 Monday through Friday between 9:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m.

COTS | Detroit | (313) 831-3777

COTS provides support to individuals and families in Detroit to break the cycle of generational poverty. They provide mentorship programming, housing, and fatherhood support through their Fatherhood Initiative Program and more.

*How you can help: COTS accepts donations on their website.
*If you need support: Find an Access Point and bring your photo ID. Once there, they will complete an assessment and provide you with additional support based on your needs.

Crossroads of Michigan | Detroit | (313) 831-2000 + (313) 831-2787

This organization offers emergency assistance to those who need it. Every Sunday, they host a Soup Kitchen with a hot meal for those in the community. Crossroads of Michigan offers transportation support, birth certificate/identification retrieval, food, clothing, hygiene products, and infant supplies.

*How you can help: Donate approved used items, spend time volunteering, or provide some of their most urgent needs.
*If you need support: Their website has links to local resources and support.

D.O. It For Denny | Livonia

This kindness initiative focuses on helping those experiencing a crisis by providing an online village through donations from the community. They organize projects throughout the year, including a toy shop for Christmas.

*How you can help: You can send a Venmo donation to @doitfordenny or become a corporate sponsor and reach out via email at [email protected].
*If you need support: Check out their Facebook page for current and updated information about Blessing Bags.

Eagles Helping Hands | Redford

Run by volunteers, the Friends of Eagles Helping Hands gather food to help keep pantries and fridges stocked and ready. Any member of the community is welcome to look for what they might need. Become a member of their Facebook group for additional information and support.

Elmwood Blessing Box | Garden City

The Elmwood Blessing Box is open 24/7 for families in need of food. It is run by a local family. They also accept donations.

*How you can help: You can check out their linktree page for more information or donate!
*If you need support: You’ll find the Blessing Box at 29878 Elmwood St., Garden City, MI, 48135.

Forgotten Harvest | Oak Park | (248) 967-1500

This organization fights food insecurity and hunger through their work with local charities.

*How you can help: There are numerous volunteer opportunities on their website.
*If you need support: Use their “Find Food” locator to find a pantry.

Freedge | Rochester Hills | (248) 651-9621

The Rochester Police host a refrigerator sharing program. This is open to anyone who is in need of fresh produce and other foods.

*How you can help: E-mail [email protected] to donate or drop off items at your convenience.
*If you need support: Contact the Rochester Police at (248) 651-9621 for additional information. Freedge is also a program found throughout the world! For more locations, check the Freedge Map.

Gleaners | Multiple Locations | (866) 453-2637

Gleaners provides food to multiple locations throughout Southeast Michigan by supporting about 400 locations with food.

*If you need support: To find a location near you, use their PantryNet to see the map of all of their food pantries, mobile locations, shelters, soup kitchens, and residential programs.

Hospitality House Food Pantry | Commerce Twp. | (248) 960-9975

Hospitality House Food Pantry provides a “client-choice food pantry” as well as a Weekend Food Program for students in local schools.

*How you can help: Individuals are welcome to apply to volunteer or donate!
*If you need support: Call (248) 960-9975 to apply for food assistance. Check here for the hours and eligibility requirements.

Humble Design | Pontiac | (844) 486-2533

Humble Design provides custom home updates and furniture to those who are coming out of homelessness. Their designs and personal touches make a house feel like a home.

*How you can help: There are many ways to support Humble Design, including donating or volunteering, or checking out their Amazon or Target wish lists.

Judson Center | Multiple Locations | (248) 549-4339

Judson Center is a community-based human service center that focuses on the whole family–children and adults.

*How you can help: You can make a donation through their website.
*If you need support: Fill out the contact form on their website.

Lasagna Love | Metro Detroit

Volunteers are cooking up lasagna to share with neighbors in their own community in a cross-country kindness movement!

*How you can help: Sign up to be a chef (or sponsor one).
*If you need support: Click here to enter your zip code and find a chef near you to coordinate with.

Love Bigger | Rochester Hills

Love Bigger focuses on helping you declutter, and then connects you with organizations to donate your items to. You can use their app to find local organizations to support with your items.

Michigan Department of Health & Human Services | Statewide

The state of Michigan provides immediate assistance for utility shutoff notices, eviction notices, burial services, and home repairs.

*If you need support: Click here to see if you are eligible and to apply on MIBridges.

Open Door Outreach Center | Waterford | (248) 360-2930

Open Door Outreach Center provides immediate clothing, food, and referrals to those in need in Waterford, White Lake, West Bloomfield, Keego Harbor, Sylvan Lake, Commerce, Orchard Lake, Walled Lake, Wolverine Lake, and some of the Wixom area.

*How you can help: Volunteers can sign up for positions in the food pantry and store locations on their website. Donations are accepted as well.
*If you need support: Call (248) 360-2930 to schedule an appointment.

Picking Up The Pieces | Southfield | (248) 238-8587

This organization was started by a local single mother who knows what it’s like to go from homelessness to housing, but needing the basic essentials to help it feel more like home.

*How you can help: You can support this non-profit through their Target or Amazon wish lists.

Yad Ezra | Berkley | (248) 548-3663

Yad Ezra provides kosher foods to those in need in the Jewish community.

*How you can help: If you are interested in volunteering, sign up here.
*If you need support: Please complete the application on their website. Personal information is confidential.

Zaman International | Inkster | (313) 551-3994

Zaman International works specifically to help eradicate poverty experienced by women and families in Wayne County and Metro Detroit. They provide basic need case management that provides food, clothing, shelter, and emergency support, but also vocational training, workforce development, and more.

CNN honored the founder of Zaman International, Najah Bazzy, as a Hero in 2019 for creating the organization and the work she’s done with Zaman International. This gave Zaman national recognition for its work with women experiencing poverty in the Metro Detroit community. You can watch the CNN clip here.

*How you can help: Volunteers can apply to donate their time, or donate funding here.
*If you need support: For more information, email [email protected].

Wayne Metro | Wayne County | (313) 388-9799

Wayne Metropolitan Community Action Alliance (Wayne Metro) provides over 100 programs to support families in the community from food support, tax assistance, financial counseling, and housing support, to Head Start and after-school programming.

*How you can help: You can learn more here on how to donate or volunteer. You can shop their Amazon Wish List too!
*If you need support: They have options right on their website for support, including information on calling, applying online, chatting online, or sending an e-mail.

County-Level Resources for Poverty Awareness Month

You can also search online for the website for the county you live in, and it should bring up local resources to assist and support you.

Churches

  • Many churches have food pantries that operate weekly or biweekly.
  • His Church Anglican: Food pantry every third Saturday of the month from 9:00-11:00 a.m.
  • St. Edith Church: Little Food Pantry (Blessing Box) + Lighthouse Warming Center.
  • Ward Church: Forgotten Harvest every Monday from 9:00-10:00 a.m. (or until food runs out) at Entry 2.

Schools

  • The U.S. Department of Agriculture provides a school meal program that feeds millions of school children every day. To apply, contact your local school. Eligible households include: income of $39,000 or less for a family of four, family receives EBT, youth in foster care, or those who participate in Head Start. There is also a reduced price option for households (family of four) with an annual income less than $55,550.
  • Blessings in a Backpack provides food for the weekends for school-aged kids.
  • Great Start Readiness Program and Head Start provide free preschool programs to those who meet the income requirements.
  • Contact your local school to be connected to the school social worker.
  • All schools do have services for families experiencing homelessness (from the McKinney-Vento Act). Contact your school social worker for more information if you are experiencing homelessness.

According to Michigan.gov, just in Michigan there are 1.7 million people living below the poverty line, and more than 41% of working households have trouble making ends meet between food, housing, healthcare, childcare, and transportation. If you are struggling, you are not alone. Together we can support one another, through every season of life. 

If you’re looking for more ways to support local organizations, check out our Local Giving Guide.

Books for Helping Children Learn About Martin Luther King Jr.

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The legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. continues to thrive years after he changed the world forever. Today, we remember his powerful words and the impact his teachings had on so many of us.

While learning about Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s life and legacy, it is important to share the knowledge with our children so they can appreciate him as a leader and a great activist for civil rights. Here are some wonderful books about Martin Luther King Jr. to read with your children or recommend to them as we celebrate his legacy.

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Books for Preschoolers

A Sweet Smell of Roses by Angela Johnson

I am Brave: A Little Book About Martin Luther King Jr. by Brad Meltzer

I am Martin Luther King, Jr. by Brad Meltzer

My First Biography: Martin Luther King, Jr. by Marion Dane Bauer

My Little Golden Book About Martin Luther King Jr. by Bonnie Bader

My Uncle Martin’s Big Heart by Angela Farris Watkins

The Story of Martin Luther King Jr. by Johnny Ray Moore

Who Was Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.?: A Who Was? Board Book by Lisbeth Kaiser and Stanley Chow

Books for Elementary Schoolers

Ain’t Gonna Let Nobody Turn Me ‘Round: My Story of the Making of Dr. Martin Luther King  Day by Kathlyn J. Kirkwood

As Good as Anybody by Richard Michelson

A Place to Land: Martin Luther King Jr. and the Speech That Inspired a Nation by Barry Wittenstein

Be a King: Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s Dream and You by Carole Boston Weatherford

Happy Birthday, Martin Luther King by Jean Marzollo

I Am #4: Martin Luther King Jr. by Grace Norwich

I Have a Dream by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Let the Children March by Monica Clark-Robinson and Frank Morrison

Love Will See You Through: Martin Luther King, Jr.’s Six Guiding Beliefs (as told by his niece) by Angela Farris Watkins

Martin Rising: Requiem for a King by Andrea Davis and Brian Pinkney

Martin’s Big Words: The Life of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. by Doreen Rappaport

Martin’s Dream by Jane Kurtz

Martin’s Dream (Ana + Andrew) by Christine Platt and Anuki Lopez

My Brother Martin by Christine King Farris

My Daddy, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. by Martin Luther, III King

My Dream of Martin Luther King  by Faith Ringgold

March On! The Day My Brother Martin Changed the World by Christine King Farris

Martin and Mahalia: His Words, Her Song by Andrea Davis Pinkney and Brian Pinkney 

National Geographic Readers: Martin Luther King, Jr. by Kitson Jazynka

The March on Washington (American Girl: Real Stories From My Time) by Bonnie Bader

The Story of Martin Luther King Jr. by Christine Platt

When Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Wore Roller Skates by Mark Andrew Weakland and Patrick Ballesteros

Books for Middle and High Schoolers 

A Time to Break Silence: The Essential Works of Martin Luther King, Jr., for Students by Martin Luther King, Jr.

Dear Martin by Nic Stone

Free At Last: The Story of Martin Luther King, Jr. by Angela Bull

Great Lives in Graphics: Martin Luther King by Button Books

Martin & Anne: The Kindred Spirits of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and Anne Frank by Nancy Churnin

Martin Luther King Jr.: A Graphic History of America’s Great Civil Rights Leaders by Rachel Ruiz

Martin Rising: Requiem For a King by Andrea Davis Pinkney

Memphis, Martin, and the Mountaintop: The Sanitation Strike of 1968 by Alice Faye Duncan

Portraits of African-American Heroes by Tonya Bolden

Who Was Martin Luther King, Jr.? by Bonnie Bader

If you have a recommendation for books about Martin Luther King Jr., please leave a comment with it so we can add it to our list!

Detroit Mom Connect: Envision + Elevate

Did you know that Detroit Mom has a group designed specifically for moms who are also motivated to take the next step in their business or career? It’s Detroit Mom Connect!

Detroit Mom Connect is where moms come together to build community and network with other women in the Detroit area. Community and connection are the foundation of everything we do here at Detroit Mom. We want to nurture relationships between women, be their cheerleaders, and lift them up. In a world where competition and comparison are the norm, we want to shatter those ideas with compassion, encouragement, and sisterhood.

Networking

The vision behind Detroit Mom Connect is to connect women together. This is a networking group unlike any other because we are focused on supporting moms who are also working towards their career goals every day. We know working moms face a lot of unique challenges in the balance between career success and motherhood. That’s why we want to help you create relationships with other women who are experiencing the same things you are–so that you can feel supported not only in business, but in motherhood as well.

Detroit Mom Connect is for…

  • Moms who are entrepreneurs or own their own business.
  • Moms who work for an employer either at an office or from home.
  • Moms who have been raising their children and are looking to reenter the workforce either with employment through someone else or by starting their own business.

DM Connect January Event

Our next Detroit Mom Connect event will take place on Thursday, January 23 in Ferndale. We would love to see you for an evening of food, learning, and networking with other women! Detroit Mom founder Elizabeth Lewis will be sharing with us about the power in realigning with what we desire for ourselves in the new year. It’s going to be an evening for women who are eager to explore their deepest and wildest hopes and dreams in a supportive and empowering space!

Your ticket includes:

  • Tasty food + drinks, of course, sponsored by Higher Living Real Estate (with more details to come soon!) 🍷
  • Gluten free vegan cookies by Toots Sweets 🍪 (that you’ll never guess are either of those things! 😜)
  • Photo booth from Modern Social 📸 🙌
  • And so many more surprises on the way . . .

You’re going to walk away from this event with a living, breathing document personalized just for you that can hang in your home and remind you all year long about what it is you want to attract in 2025. Tickets are limited and will sell out quickly! Oh, and they’re only on sale until January 20. 🤩 To buy your tickets, click the button below!

We can’t wait to see you there!

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