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5 Ways to Improve Fertility Naturally

DISCLAIMER: The following post is not intended to act as medical advice. As always, please consult your doctor with any questions about fertility.

When it comes to starting or growing your family, it can be really difficult to “sit and wait” and see what happens each month. It’s normal to want to know if there is anything else you can do to increase your chances of becoming pregnant.

When talking about fertility, it’s important to remember that every person’s situation is unique. However, if you have been looking for ways to improve your fertility naturally, this is the post for you.

Our friends from Michigan Center for Fertility and Women’s Health are here to support you on your fertility journey. You might have caught their Fertility Friday series over on our IG page–quick videos to answer common questions and provide information. Below, they’re sharing how to try to improve fertility naturally.

How can I improve my fertility naturally?

We’re seeing it more and more–patients wanting to know what they can do on their own to help improve their fertility. It’s great that people are interested in, and willing to try, other interventions on their own–in addition to what we recommend medically in the office. There are five ways to help naturally improve your fertility; here are our five suggestions:

1. Aim for a healthy body weight with a BMI that’s not too low and not too elevated.

Regarding specific ranges, there are general recommendations, but these can vary per patient depending on multiple factors. When reviewing BMI ranges, our practitioners will consider these variables and help determine what specific range is most applicable to each individual patient.

2. Incorporate some exercise into your daily lifestyle.

Patients can feel intimidated about exercise–especially if they are not currently participating in any form of activity. Incorporating exercise into your life does not require going to the gym every single day for an hour each time. Working to incorporate 30 minutes or so at least three to four times a week can really be beneficial for your overall health and fertility–even if it’s taking a walk or adding in a quick workout at home throughout the day in smaller increments. Exercise can be a great benefit for fertility purposes, as well as for your general health.

3. Look into vitamins and supplements.

We do typically recommend that all of our female patients be on a prenatal vitamin. There are also additional vitamins that we may incorporate such as vitamin D, antioxidants, or other supplements that have been shown to potentially help with egg quality (such as Coenzyme Q10 and Truniagen). Our providers will help determine what supplements are recommended and best for you as a patient. 

We also have a vitamin list for our male patients. Our providers also help determine if these vitamins are of benefit, pending the results of their work up and history.

4. Eat a balanced diet.

Typically, the primary diet recommended for fertility purposes is the Mediterranean diet, which is usually high in vegetables, plants, fruits, and lean proteins such as fish and chicken. Carbohydrates are included but tend to be in moderation; aim for lower glycemic index foods and more fiber-rich foods that our bodies can more easily digest. Overall, the general carbohydrate and sugar intake is limited.

A Mediterranean diet is generally high in antioxidants, which has been shown to have a positive impact on fertility, as well as general health!

5. Be mindful of your lifestyle choices.

Certainly, no tobacco use, no recreational drug use, and alcohol in moderation. Choices that are good for our overall health are typically also beneficial to our fertility health. These positive choices can help with the overall success of getting and staying pregnant, and help improve our egg and sperm quality.

In summary: maintain a healthy weight, exercise, take vitamins, and pay attention to your dietary and lifestyle choices. These are five things that you can incorporate right off the bat on your own to help improve your fertility when you begin your journey.

If you’re growing your family and having some issues, secondary infertility may be why. Read our last post about secondary infertility and what to expect if you’re navigating it.

The Parenting Post: Tips for Navigating Holiday Transitions

Do you have a parenting hurdle you’re working through? If so, “The Parenting Post” is for you! One of our writers, Albiona, has been answering all of YOUR parenting questions over on IG. We’ve turned her series into blog posts on our website as well. We just can’t get enough of her helpful advice, and we thought you’d appreciate it, too!

Her videos cover a wide variety of parenting questions–honestly, anything and everything! If it’s something you’re wondering, there’s a good chance that another parent in our community is also struggling with it. And Albiona is here to help!

This week, she’s sharing about navigating holiday transitions with your little ones in order to have less meltdowns and more ease. The holidays can be filled with jumping from house to house–so it’s super important to have a plan ahead of time and get everyone on board.

How do you manage transitioning from house to house during holiday season visits?

First off, navigating holiday transitions is such a common situation. The important thing here is to really think about your own situation and what works and what doesn’t. But hopefully, these tips will be super helpful for you this holiday season! You don’t have to take every tip from this post and think it’s the only right way to do it. Parenting is all about being flexible!

To start, work out a game plan with your partner.

Start with you and your partner. Work out a game plan that you both agree to. More often than not, one partner wants to do it one way, and the other wants to do it another way. Then, you begrudgingly commit to one type of a plan. One the day of, when things fall apart, you kind of go after each other. This can be a little problematic. You need to be on the same page here–otherwise, it can become a really stressful situation.

Use bridge incentives!

When navigating holiday transitions, frame it for your kids ahead of time so they know exactly what to expect, and what the day will look like. If you have a child who has a harder time transitioning from one place to another, you can build in a bridge incentive. Find something exciting they can look forward to, and use it as an incentive for a positive transition.

For instance, if you know they’ll have a hard time leaving grandma’s house to go to the next house, you could have a little surprise in the car waiting for them. You can build it up in a way so that your child is really looking forward to what’s next. They’ll be excited about getting in the car and heading to the next house, and hopefully the transition will be a smooth one!

You don’t have to do this every single time your child transitions between houses. But, when it’s the holiday season, and excitement is high, it’s okay to use an incentive to help the day run as smoothly as possible. It really helps them to become excited about getting in the car and going to the next location.

Another tip for navigating holiday transitions is to try to end up at their more favored place (maybe it’s running around their aunt’s house with their cousins!), so it’s even more exciting to look forward to going. This is not the time to take things personally with one side of the family vs. the other. It really just comes down to where the kids have more fun, and where they’ll be more excited about going to. Often, it’s wherever their cousins or kids their age are. So, try to end there (if you can!). And if you can’t? That’s okay too.

So, make a plan with your partner and stick to it. Let your kids know your plan, and let them know about any bridge incentives that will be included. This will get them super excited and on board, and you’ll be ready to tackle the holiday season–and alllllll of the visits that come with it. Happy holidays!

Do you have more parenting questions for Albiona? Leave them below so she can possibly answer them for you. To learn more, you can follow Albiona on Instagram. Or, subscribe to her weekly newsletter and download her free guide for teaching parents how to get their kids to listen.

Looking for more parenting advice? Our previous Parenting Post blog post covered how to talk with kids about sexuality.

Detroit Mom’s Guide to Sweet Treats In + Around Detroit

sweet treats displayed on wooden table

Maybe it’s just me, but during the holiday season, give me all the cookies, cakes, and pies! I often blow the dust off of my stand mixer and get creative in my kitchen. My late grandmother’s Lemon Meringue recipe is a staple, and a Kentucky Derby Pie I’ve put my own twist on makes an appearance on my family’s table.

Sometimes, my sweet tooth has specific cravings–cravings for cookies, or cupcakes, or cakes that I have not yet mastered. If you’re looking to sweeten your holiday gathering, family dinner, or just a late-night craving, this list of places to find sweet treats in and around Detroit will be your go-to. You can reference this list all holiday season for special holiday treats, and beyond!

Here are the BEST places to find sweet treats in + around Detroit!

Astoria Pastry Shop | Detroit + Royal Oak

Astoria offers a variety of special sweet treats from ice cream to decadent brownies. As a teen, I would venture to the Greektown location for their amazing oatmeal cookies (that they still offer!). In my adult years, I still get the cookie, and I now add in a lemon bar. It’s the perfect treat for myself. This is a one-stop shop kind of bakery, offering tarts, pastries, coffee, ice cream, and more!

Bakehouse 46 | Various Locations

With locations throughout Metro Detroit (Ann Arbor, Birmingham, Grosse Pointe, Plymouth, Rochester, and a new Ferndale location!), you are sure to be pleased with the sweet offerings from Bakehouse 46. Each location houses a menu full of breakfast sandwiches, coffee, and two of my favorite things from the local Blake’s Cider Mill–donuts and cider!

I love that they switch up their cupcake flavors monthly and offer all flavors in both mini and regular size. The minis are my go-to, and I have not had a disappointing flavor! And here’s a little secret: if you’re in the Grosse Pointe area, every Wednesday, they offer BOGO for any of their full-sized cupcakes!

Cannelle | Detroit

These pastries are elevated and sure to impress any guest. The pastry offerings are like a work of art. The bakery is filled with fresh bread, croissants, and savory options. It’s so hard to pick a favorite here, but this is definitely a “treat yourself” type of bakery!

Grab something for yourself after you have strolled the Holiday Markets in Downtown Detroit. Locations are also in Ann Arbor and Birmingham!

Crummies Sweets & Treats | Detroit

This black-owned, women-owned business is located on Detroit’s west side and offers an array of delicious treats! You can purchase customized cakes and find the cutest heart-shaped cakes here created with their signature buttercream. This unique location also holds classes and is a cake supply store for aspiring bakers.

If you can’t make it to their flagship store, you are able to find these yummy treats in the Rivertown Meijer Market, close to Downtown Detroit.

Detroit Cookie Company | Various Locations

Known for their insanely delicious flavors of cookies, this woman-owned business is a staple for any cookie lover! With locations in Ann Arbor, Ferndale, and St. Clair Shores, you are sure to find something you love with the daily 25+ flavors that are offered.

They also have cookies to match any time of the season, but I must admit, my favorite isn’t a cookie. My absolute favorite–and it rivals with everything else they offer–are their cinnamon rolls! Don’t look for these if you are on a diet! They are so warm and gooey and delicious, and only available on the weekends, and they sell out fast!

For the Love Of Sugar | Detroit

It truly is hard to pick one favorite thing here at For the Love of Sugar. I had not experienced pillow-soft macarons until I discovered this midtown-based bakery. The celebration platter they offer allows you to pile on cookies, brownies, macarons, and/or their cake slices. You can order their cake by the slice, whole, or get one specially made with their brilliant artwork. The treats here will elevate any event you’re having!

Good Cakes and Bakes | Detroit 

This LGBTQIA+ and black-owned bakery is known throughout Detroit for their vegan options. They also ship nationwide! They are also known for their strawberry crunch cake. My favorite has to be the 7Up cake. It is divine! You can find their amazing treats at their Livernois location, and their new location in the alley of Columbia Street located in Downtown Detroit.

JoJo’s Shake Bar | Detroit 

If you are looking for a place to overindulge, JoJo’s Shake Bar is where you can find it! They are known for their over-the-top shakes and I must say that their seasonal selections are top notch. The girl scout shake gives me all the nostalgia feels with the marshmallows and dark chocolate peppermint flavor.

Located on Columbia Street in Downtown Detroit, they now have a Winter Wonderland. They have upcoming family-friendly activities that will definitely put you in a mood! It is the perfect place for a family outing. You can have dinner, an adult cocktail, and of course the amazing shakes!

Modern Cone | St. Clair Shores

Just because it’s chilly, doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a cool treat. Modern Cone has an innovative selection and warm treats to also enjoy. My son is obsessed with the ice cream nachos. Yes, you read that correctly! They are the only place I know that offers ice cream nachos. You can build nachos or a stacker with the many delicious options they offer.

A staple of mine is the lemon cheesecake ice cream, but I almost always try any of their seasonal offerings. Their newly remodeled space houses amazing coffee drinks and quick-grab treats. You are also still able to request unique cakes for any event you may have coming up.

Shatila Bakery | Dearborn

This bakery offers delicious Mediterranean sweets that look just as good as they taste! You are able to order customized cakes from them for any of your special holiday gatherings. A chocolate bar went viral for being so delicious and Shatila’s Bakery has it! They also have scrumptious baklava, tres leches, premium ice creams, and holiday gift boxes that are perfect for gifting. Offering a variety of beverages as well, you can’t go wrong grabbing a sweet treat from here this season.

Sister Pie | Detroit

Their peanut butter paprika cookies are Santa’s favorite in my house! They offer an amazing champagne chess pie during the holiday season as well. Other offerings include a sweet or savory option for scones, lunch options that change daily, and of course pie by the slice or whole. I’ve purchased the cookbook by the lovely owner, Lisa Ludwinski, for when I want to experiment in the kitchen! 

Waffle Cabin | Seasonal Pop-Up

What’s better than having your waffle, and eating it, too? Adding toppings to it and shopping all at the same time! The Holiday Markets are back near the award-winning Campus Martius and one of the pop-ups offers crisp yet soft waffles that you can carry and enjoy while you take in the festive lights and shop for the season. We got one drizzled with chocolate and topped with marshmallows, and it was delicious.

These are just a few places that offer a variety of sweet treats in and around Detroit. These treats can be quick pick-me-ups or for guests during a festive gathering. Make sure you check them all out for their holiday offerings!

After you buy sweet treats this holiday season, don’t forget to take care of yourself! Treat yourself at one of these local small businesses in our holiday gift guide!

Make Blake Farms Your Winter Wonderland Destination!

Detroit Mom partnered with the amazing people at Blake Farms to bring you this post. All opinions are our own.

As the snow begins to blanket Michigan’s countryside, there’s no better place to embrace the magic of the winter season than at Blake’s Orchard & Cider Mill. Known for its sprawling orchards and vibrant fall festivities, Blake Farms transforms into a picturesque holiday haven in the winter where families, couples, and friends can create cherished memories. From cutting down your own Christmas tree to enjoying festive treats, there’s something for everyone to enjoy.

Below, you’ll find five attractions they’re offering this season, plus an overview of what you can look forward to all winter long!

Five Ways to Spend Your Winter at Blake Farms

Find your perfect Christmas tree.

No holiday season is complete without the centerpiece of your home: the Christmas tree. At Blake’s, we offer the quintessential holiday experience of picking and cutting your very own tree. Stroll through rows of snow-dusted evergreens, from towering pines to perfectly shaped firs, and choose the one that will brighten your home. Equipped with saws and holiday cheer, you can channel your inner lumberjack and bring the magic of the farm to your living room. 

Prefer to skip the sawing? Blake’s also offers a selection of pre-cut trees, expertly chosen and ready for you to take home. Each tree is freshly harvested, ensuring it will last throughout the holiday season. Our friendly staff is always on hand to help you, making the process seamless and fun. 

Visit with Santa on the weekends.

The holiday magic doesn’t stop at the trees. On weekends, Santa himself makes appearances at Blake’s to delight children and adults alike. Capture the perfect holiday photo as your little ones share their Christmas wishes with the man in red. With warm smiles and plenty of cheer, Santa’s presence adds an extra touch of wonder to your visit. 

Dine in cozy comfort. 

After an afternoon of tree hunting or visiting Santa, warm up with a delightful meal at Blake’s Tasting Room. Whether you prefer the cozy indoor dining area with rustic charm or the unique outdoor igloos, you’re in for a treat!

Our igloo dining experience is like no other—imagine enjoying a hearty meal under a canopy of twinkling lights, surrounded by the wintery beauty of the farm. The igloos are heated and beautifully decorated, providing the perfect blend of warmth and holiday ambiance. It’s an excellent option for date nights, family gatherings, or even a festive outing with friends. 

No matter where you choose to dine, you’ll discover a menu filled with delicious dishes crafted to satisfy every craving. To make your meal even better, pair it with one of Blake’s signature hard ciders–the perfect sip to complement every bite!

Indulge in treats to sweeten the season. 

No trip to Blake’s is complete without indulging in the delicious treats that make our farm so special. Stop by the Cider Mill to pick up a fresh jug of sweet cider, perfect for sipping on cold winter nights. Pair it with our famous donuts for a cozy snack that embodies the season’s spirit!

Feeling festive? Try one of our caramel apples or warm up with a cup of hot cocoa. These simple yet decadent treats are perfect for enjoying on the farm or taking home to savor later. 

And for the adults looking to add a little extra cheer, don’t forget to grab a case (or two!) of Blake’s Hard Cider, perfect for sharing with family and friends this holiday season.

Shop for all things festive + gifting.

Blake’s isn’t just about trees and treats—it’s also your one-stop shop for holiday gifting! Our farm market is brimming with thoughtful gift sets featuring farm favorites like salsas, jams, BBQ sauces, and even wine. These locally crafted goodies make the perfect gift for everyone on your list.  

Why Blake’s is the Perfect Winter Destination 

Blake’s Orchard & Cider Mill isn’t just a place to visit—it’s a place to make memories. The farm’s charm lies in its ability to offer experiences that cater to every generation, from the youngest children meeting Santa to adults sharing laughs over a pint of hard cider in a glowing igloo. 

Winter at Blake’s is about more than activities; it’s about connecting with loved ones, embracing traditions, and creating moments you’ll treasure forever. Whether you’re picking out the perfect tree, indulging in holiday treats, or simply enjoying the beauty of the season, Blake’s offers a magical escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life. 

Plan Your Visit!

Blake’s Orchard & Cider Mill is open throughout the holiday season, ensuring there’s plenty of time to experience the magic. Here’s what you can look forward to: 

  • Christmas Tree Shopping: Open daily for u-cut and pre-cut options through December 23rd 
  • Cider Mill & Market: Open daily for all your holiday treats and shopping needs
  • Dining at the Tasting Room: Reservations for igloo dining are highly recommended
  • Santa Visits: Weekends, check out our website for times

This winter, make Blake’s Orchard & Cider Mill your destination for holiday cheer. From the twinkle of lights on freshly fallen snow to the smell of cider and donuts wafting through the air, Blake’s is where the magic of the season comes to life. 

We can’t wait to celebrate the season with you. Happy Holidays! 🎄 

Detroit Mom’s Local Love Spotlight: Motor City Gymnastics

Detroit Mom’s Local Love series highlights local women and the businesses they have built. We love supporting small business! Today’s Local Love Spotlight belongs to Sandra Brand, owner of Motor City Gymnastics.

To start, we asked Sandra to share a few fun facts about herself with us!

  • She is originally from Germany and has lived in the U.S. for 11 years, with time spent in Birmingham, AL, and Birmingham, MI, since 2019.
  • She loves immersing herself in stories through audiobooks—they’re her favorite way to relax and learn.
  • Her family is excited about planning to welcome a dog into their lives, and they look forward to the adventure ahead!

We asked her to share a little bit more about her business with us, too. Get to know Sandra and her business, Motor City Gymnastics, below!

headshot of Sandra, owner of Motor City Gymnastics wearing glasses and a black button-up shirtHow did you come up with the idea of your business, and how did you start?

“The idea for my trampoline and tumbling gymnastics business was inspired by my two daughters’ passion for trampoline gymnastics and my desire to create a place where kids of all ages and skill levels could grow, learn, and have fun. I noticed a gap in our community for an exclusive program focusing specifically on trampoline and tumbling, which are fantastic ways to build strength, coordination, and confidence. I wanted to create a space that welcomes everyone, from toddlers to competitive athletes, where they can progress at their own pace in a safe, supportive environment.

“Community is key. When I started this journey, it was crucial for me to understand my local community’s needs. I spent a significant amount of time researching and listening to what was needed. It was apparent there was a demand for a space that catered to all ages where you could come to develop skills, coordination, and build community in a safe and supportive environment. With that, I secured a location with enough space for trampolines, mats, and safety equipment. I knew I wanted Olympic-sized, high-quality, specialized equipment for students to fully enjoy and to recruit certified coaches who share my passion for working with kids.

“It was also important to me to develop various programs, from beginner classes to competitive team training. I wanted to ensure that there was something for every age and skill level. We launched with a mix of marketing efforts, including social media outreach and advertising campaigns, which helped build excitement and enroll our first students. I’m thrilled to share we have our first competitive team of eight and growing who will represent Motor City Gymnastics in this season’s U.S.T.A. competition.”

Knowing what you know now, is there anything you would have done differently when you were first starting out?

“If I would just start over again, I would put more emphasis on marketing our gym earlier and creating brand awareness prior to launch.”

What is the best business advice you’ve ever been given?

“The best business advice I’ve ever received is always to stay connected to your “why.” Remembering the purpose behind your business keeps you grounded and motivated, especially during challenging times.

“Another piece of invaluable advice is to focus on building relationships, not just transactions. In a service-oriented business like mine, creating a supportive community and building trust with families will be the key to long-term success.

“Finally, I am highly motivated to be adaptable. Listening to customer feedback and being willing to evolve will help the business grow and thrive.”

view inside of Motor City Gymnastics, gymnasts practicing on floor and trampolines

Have you faced adversity in business due to being a woman? How did you navigate that?

“I wouldn’t necessarily say that being a woman hindered my ability to chase my dreams. I stay focused on my goals, and letting the work speak for itself is the best approach to overcoming doubts or biases.”

How do you persevere in challenging times?

“I persevere in challenging times by focusing on actions that help me stay grounded and resilient. Going for a walk clears my mind and gives me a fresh perspective. I focus on moving forward, learning from each experience, and tackling obstacles head-on. Setting clear priorities helps me stay organized and ensures I put my energy into what truly matters. This combination keeps me motivated and steady, even in challenging moments.”

What impact do you want your business to have?

“I created an environment for students to feel supported, empowered, and motivated to reach their potential. So, I want my business to have a lasting impact on the lives of young people in our community by helping them build confidence, resilience, and a love for trampoline and tumbling gymnastics. I hope that through our programs, kids gain athletic abilities and learn life skills like teamwork, discipline, and perseverance. Ultimately, I want to contribute to a positive, active culture in our community, where families see our gym as a place that uplifts and inspires their children.”

outdoor headshot of Sandra, owner of Motor City Gymnastics, wearing glasses, a black shirt, and a navy blue blazerWhat are the pros and cons of being a woman business owner in 2024?

“Being a woman business owner in 2024 comes with unique pros and cons. On the positive side, there’s a growing support network for women entrepreneurs, from grants and funding opportunities to mentorship programs and networking groups. Social awareness around women’s leadership has also led to an increased appreciation for diverse perspectives in business, which can help create a strong, loyal customer base. Additionally, being a woman in business can empower and inspire others, especially in fields like sports and fitness, where female representation is so impactful.

“However, challenges persist. Balancing business ownership with personal or family commitments can also be challenging, as societal expectations around caregiving often remain skewed. Women may also face pressure to “prove themselves” more than their male counterparts. Navigating these challenges requires resilience, but fortunately, with today’s resources and a supportive community, women business owners are increasingly equipped to succeed and thrive.”

What knowledge would you share with someone who wants to become an entrepreneur?

“If you’re thinking about becoming an entrepreneur, one of the most important things to know is that passion and resilience are essential. You’ll face challenges, setbacks, and unexpected twists, but staying connected to your vision will help you push through.

“Another valuable lesson is to do your research—know your industry, your market, and your customers’ needs inside and out. Building a network is also essential; connecting with other business owners, mentors, and community members can open doors and provide support when needed.

“Lastly, be prepared to learn constantly, adapt, and embrace change, as flexibility can often be the difference between growth and stagnation.”

What do you do for personal and professional development?

“For personal and professional development, I work with a business coach who helps me set and achieve strategic goals for my business. Additionally, I regularly listen to business, leadership, and coaching podcasts to stay inspired and informed about new trends and strategies. These resources help me continuously grow and improve as an entrepreneur. Here are a few I recommend to other entrepreneurs: Modern Wisdom podcast by Chris Williamson and the book The Women by Kristin Hannah.”

five gymnasts posing on air bag with Motor City Gymnastics logo on itWhat mantra or quote do you live by?

“A mantra I live by is “Progress, not perfection.” This mantra reminds me that growth and improvement matter more than achieving flawless results. It keeps me focused on taking consistent, small steps forward. This mindset has been incredibly helpful, especially when challenges arise. It reminds me to learn from each experience and keep moving forward, knowing that every bit of progress is valuable.”

What’s your favorite place in Detroit or Michigan?

“The Detroit Riverwalk is my favorite place in Detroit because it perfectly blends natural beauty and urban charm. It’s a peaceful escape where I can enjoy breathtaking views of the river, the Detroit skyline, and even across Canada. The wide, open space makes it easy to walk, bike, or relax by the water, which is especially enjoyable on sunny days. It’s also a place where the city’s revitalization is evident, with art, parks, and recreational areas that make it feel vibrant and welcoming. Whether I’m there for a peaceful stroll or to take in an event, the Riverwalk is always a refreshing place to unwind.

“One of my favorite places in Michigan is Sleeping Bear Dunes. The views of Lake Michigan from the top of the dunes are absolutely stunning, and I love the mix of adventure and relaxation it offers—whether hiking, climbing the dunes, or just enjoying the beach. It’s a place that feels both grounding and inspiring, perfect for recharging.”

Where can our readers find you on social media?

You can follow Motor City Gymnastics on Facebook, Instagram, and on their website!

black background with white text with the words Motor City Gymnastics trampoline and tumbling and stars on either sideWe hope you loved getting to know more about Sandra + Motor City Gymnastics. Be sure to check out our previous Local Love Spotlight featuring Sarah + The Little Design Co.!

Unique Experience Gifts In + Around Detroit

kids experiencing art class

As the holidays approach, we are all trying to think of unique gifts to give–particularly ones that spark joy and excitement. It can be a challenge to think of a stand-out gift that won’t be forgotten soon after the presents are all unwrapped.

This is one of the many benefits of gifting an experience to your family and friends. In fact, there is more delight in store as they enjoy the anticipation of the event, and the actual experience. Truly, it’s a gift that keeps on giving!

Additionally, experience gifts can help keep your money local, create fun memories, and surprisingly make great last-minute options when you are short on shopping time. Metro Detroit boasts so many outstanding businesses, creators, and artists. These gift ideas are sure to help you deliver a unique experience that is bound to delight this holiday season.

Unique Experience Gift Ideas for Younger Kids

Toys have their place under the Christmas tree, but clutter in my house is a real problem. To help curb the clutter, I love encouraging family members to help us create a mix between physical gifts and experience gifts. In doing so, my daughter is able to enjoy unwrapping gifts, but also has fun activities to look forward to after the holiday season.

Some fun experience gift ideas for younger kids include:

Creativity

Perfect for little hands with big imaginations! Plus, they won’t be spilling glitter all over your floor all day long because they’ll be where the mess is encouraged!

Movement

Shake those sillies out and find peace (while you sit back and watch) while your kiddos tackle a new sport or activity!

Music

It’s so much fun to get all dressed up for a day at the show! Your kids will love wearing their fanciest outfit and listening to the live sounds.

Nature Camps + Classes

Because a little nature does a whole lot of good!

Unique Experience Gift Ideas for Older Kids

This age group can be daunting when it comes to gift giving. I fret over finding a “cool” gift that doesn’t fall flat on Christmas day. Experience gifts can deliver on fun and entertainmen–two words that this age group is seeking!

Some experience gift ideas for older kids include:

Creativity

These classes truly give your teens + tweens the chance to stretch their artistic muscles.

Entertainment

Who doesn’t love a night out with friends?!

Movement

Because teens + tweens are thrill-seekers.

Unique Experience Gift Ideas for the Whole Family

Who says you can’t also benefit from a gift that you give? Planning and giving an experience you can enjoy as a family creates the perfect opportunity to bond and make lasting memories. Furthermore, those memories just might be the true gift that sticks with your kids for many years to come!

Here are some ideas for experience gifts for the whole entire family:

Explore

Head out for a day they won’t soon forget!

Hit the Slopes

Not sure where to start? Check out indoor classes at Shredder before hitting the outdoor ski hills.

Gifting these unique experiences can help pack more cheer under the tree this holiday season, bringing happiness and joy to the ones on your list. Wishing you a happy holiday season!

Still not convinced that an experience gift will be appreciated? Read one mom’s perspective of being a minimalist.

This post was originally written by Jessica Johnson and updated by Whitney Cornelli in 2024.

How We Celebrate Chrismukkah in Our Jewish/Catholic Home

chrismukkah

Ironically, I learned that Santa wasn’t real in the temple when I was eleven years old. It was during an adult service. During the sermon, the Rabbi said something like, “You become the tooth fairy/Santa/etc., then your kids become them, and so on.” I looked at my mom, horrified, with tears in my eyes that she had lied to me for all those years. All the cookies we baked for Santa and all the gifts that were left by the fireplace were indeed my mom. Not Santa. I never truly believed that he would visit a little Jewish girl anyway.

Growing Up 100% Jewish

I grew up in a 100% Jewish household. I went to Sunday school and Monday night school so I could become a bat mitzvah. So did my younger brother. But, we still made cookies on Christmas Eve and left them out with a glass of milk for Santa. Santa would leave us some gifts on the fire place. I’ll never forget when Santa left me the No Doubt cassette tape and a cool smiley face backpack–very ’90s!

We also celebrated Hanukkah, lighting the menorah, having family dinner, and opening one present each night. We celebrated the high holidays and I went to a Jewish sleepover camp every summer for eight years. But, I would consider my family to be extremely reformed and not very religious. We just did the bare minimum and never really “drank the kool-aid” and got super involved with our temples or community. I’m not sure why; it just wasn’t our thing.

I Fell in Love With a Catholic Guy

Years later, in my twenties, I fell for a handsome blonde Catholic man. My husband Victor comes from an extremely long line of religious family. Even some of his extended family held jobs in the Catholic church. You could imagine how interesting our partnership was to both sides of our extended family. It was an unspoken rule to try and marry within the same religion. But, I don’t like to follow rules. I couldn’t help who I fell in love with.

Chrismukkah Was Born!

So, that’s how we adopted Chrismukkah in our house: a mixture of all the best Christmas and Hanukkah traditions in one awesome holiday. (And yes, I’m aware that Seth Cohen on the O.C. created it, so I won’t take credit for it.)

This isn’t groundbreaking stuff here; we haven’t recreated the wheel in any way. Chrismukkah is simple. It’s about honoring the traditions of both holidays. We both knew that it was important to honor the traditions we grew up with and share them with one another. This has become more important as we got married and are now raising a family.

Here’s what Chrismukkah looks like for us:

We have a tree.

It’s funny because this is something I have yet to nail in my many years of celebrating. A few years ago at the store, I called my husband numerous times while trying to pick out ornaments for our tree. It was humorous; I was lost yet again. I always end up buying not enough ornaments, forgetting a tree skirt, or missing another key detail. But the spirit of Chrismukkah is still there and that’s all that matters.

We have a Menorah.

Do we light it every night? I’d be lying if I said yes. But, I love how beautiful it looks on our fireplace mantle. As our son and daughter grow up, I envision us doing the candles every night for eight nights. I will give my husband credit; he knows the candle prayer in Hebrew and it’s super cute.

We have a Hanukkah party.

This is with my family. For our family, every Jewish holiday consists of the same menu: turkey, brisket, matzo ball soup, challah bread, and mashed potatoes. Of course, Hanukkah would not be complete without potato latkes with applesauce or sour cream on top. If you’ve never tried these, I highly, highly recommend them!

We celebrate Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.

This is with my husband’s family. I look forward to it every year. Although I still haven’t gotten brave enough to eat the ham, I love Christmas Eve. My husband’s family has someone dress up like Santa and surprise all the little kids. Then we all read The Night Before Christmas by the fire. Oh, and I discovered cherry chip cake one Christmas Eve, and it’s the best cake ever.

On Christmas Day, we go to my step-dad’s family party. We eat appetizers, drink the family punch, and play games. It’s another nice tradition to add to Chrismukkah.

We order Chinese food.

We do this on Christmas Day for dinner. The past couple of years it hasn’t worked out so well because the restaurant has been so busy, they lost our order. Pro-tip: order early in the day and reheat it. We wouldn’t be a half-Jewish family if we didn’t have Chinese food during Christmas.

We sing songs.

We love songs from both holidays. You know the classics: “8 Crazy Nights,” “The Dreidel Song,” “We Wish You a Merry Christmas,” “Jingle Bells,” and “Holly Jolly Christmas.” I should mention that I’m not the best singer. Some say I’m tone deaf, but that doesn’t stop me.

What’s Important About Chrismukkah

Do we have eight crazy nights? Well . . . not exactly. As our kids grow, we’ll definitely do one small present each night like I did as a kid. But just to make things simple right now, we open gifts on Christmas Day.

The holidays are a very important time for me. Not because of the gifts–I think gifts are fun and nice, but they can add a lot of stress to the season. As my family grows and I learn more life lessons, I realize the holiday time is about time with the family and friends I love the most.

Taking time to slow down. To show love, gratitude, and appreciation for one another. To embrace the passed-down holiday traditions and create our own as a family. Although we’re far from religious, we believe in this time of year. The magic is there–if you’re open to seeing it.

For more inspiration on spending the holidays your own way with your family, read what Sabrina shares about starting your own traditions!

Unique Gifts Women Actually Want This Holiday Season

Before I had kids, the gifts I received from my husband were pretty typical. Maybe there was a new bag I had my eye on, a pair of shoes, or of course, jewelry. But since becoming a mom, my needs and wants have shifted dramatically. I began to take a step back and reconsider what would truly bring me happiness.

Without fail, each time I’ve forced myself to do this, it has been an experience rather than a thing that comes to mind. Every mom has her own ideas of what best fills her cup and the right experience has the power to do just that.

So, let’s talk about the unique gifts women actually want this holiday season!

A Chance to Get Pampered

One of the best gifts my husband gave me was a membership program at my dermatologists office. It allowed me to get a hydra-facial every six to eight weeks for a year. It was so nice to know that several times throughout the year I’d get time to myself to relax while someone worked their magic to give me youthful, glowing skin.

Another option I love is a day at a salon or spa. Depending on who’s receiving the gift and what they’d enjoy, some options could be a manicure, pedicure, haircut, blowout, massage, or a combination of a few treatments.

A Day Away

My Christmas gift from my husband this year (and a few other years) is a trip to Walt Disney World. This year, I’ll go for a quick two nights with my niece where we’ll attend two different Christmas parties within the theme parks. My two favorite things are Disney and Christmas so this is the PERFECT gift for me.

But maybe for you, the perfect day away would be a trip to one of the casinos in Detroit for some gambling, drinks, great food, and a beautiful hotel room. If it’s something more outdoorsy that you’re looking for, maybe a trip up north to a cozy cabin or a beach trip to Whitehall would be options to consider!

A Day Off

I don’t always need to get away or open a fancy gift. Sometimes, I just don’t want to be responsible for ANYTHING. I don’t want to cook, clean, or plan. Now, that doesn’t mean I don’t want those things to get done–I just don’t want to be the one to do them. To have someone else come to my house and clean it top to bottom while I’m out to lunch with a friend or my family would be an absolute dream!

A Fit Mind + Body

This one is a little tricky. It’s probably not the kind of gift you could surprise someone with so if you’re the buyer, make sure this is what they want first. But if you’re trying to think of what to ask for this holiday season, this has been one of my favorite gifts because it’s the gift that keeps on giving.

I’ve been struggling to find time to workout so I recently asked my husband for a membership to a local gym with a great childcare facility. I’m able to get in a great workout while my son plays games and climbs through obstacle courses. I know that he’s having a great time, and I don’t have to arrange a sitter or plan my workouts around my husband’s work schedule. It’s a win-win! 

Other gifts I’ve asked for were three months worth of appointments with a life coach and one-on-one time with a local holistic nutritionist that came with a custom diet and supplement regimen, plus weekly calls.

A Night of Entertainment

I’m going to go out on a limb and say that most moms don’t get out for a night on the town as often as they’d like to. That’s where this gift comes into play! Some of my favorite nights out with friends have been to get dinner and then see a comedian at a local venue. Another fun option is a Broadway-style show. My preference is always for the smaller, more intimate venues, but I know a lot of women who love the idea of large scale venues to see their favorite performer. So whether you’re asking or giving, make sure to keep those details in mind!

I know it’s easy with all the hustle and bustle of the season to resort to an old standby for Christmas gifts. This year, I’d encourage you to think outside the box. There are some amazing and unique gifts women actually want this holiday season–you just have to take the time to figure out the best one for you and yours!

Holiday season stress in full swing? Reconsider your to-do list as Elizabeth shares three things to let go of this holiday season!

Detroit Mom’s Local Love Spotlight: The Little Design Co.

Detroit Mom’s Local Love series highlights local women and the businesses they have built. We love supporting small business! Today’s Local Love Spotlight belongs to Sarah Daley, owner of The Little Design Co..

To start, we asked Sarah to share a few fun facts about herself with us!

  • She is a worship leader and song writer.
  • She loves all things creative and will try her hand at just about anything (knitting, painting, song writing, etc.)!
  • She is an Enneagram 7.

We asked her to share a little bit more about her business with us, too. Get to know Sarah and her business, The Little Design Co., below!

Photo by Dani Elgas

How did you come up with the idea of your business, and how did you start?

“When my first child was born, I knew I wanted to find a way to work from home. I started by making hair bows for my daughter. When I posted photos of her wearing them, I was surprised by the amount of interest I received. That sparked the idea of turning my creativity into a business. I began selling hair bows online and at mom-to-mom sales, but over time, my focus shifted to leather crafting, which has become my passion and where I’ve been ever since.

“While I was still pursuing the hair bow business I started with the birth of my daughter, I wanted to try making something for my son who was born almost two years later. Moccasins were a popular shoe at the time and driven by a desire to create, I decided to try my hand at making a pair.

“I picked up a bag of leather scraps from a craft store, but without the proper tools, the first pair took me hours to complete. For some reason, I couldn’t stop there. I kept experimenting with leather, and somewhere along the way, I fell in love with the craft. Little by little, I began to invest in the right equipment for my studio—and the rest, as they say, is history. What began with a simple pair of moccasins has since grown into a leather goods business that offers wearable art for all ages.”

Knowing what you know now, is there anything you would have done differently when you were first starting out?

“If I could do it over, I would have invested in the right equipment early on. It would have saved me a lot of headaches and made the creative process much smoother.”

What is the best business advice you’ve ever been given?

“I was advised early on to start an email list, and I’m so glad I took that advice. Today, I’m grateful to have thousands of subscribers who are willing to receive emails from me. Worth noting: I do not spam my subscribers. I’m so thankful to be given a spot in their inbox. I make sure my infrequent emails are in fact filled with only helpful information.”

Photo by Dani Elgas

Have you faced adversity in business due to being a woman? How did you navigate that?

“I am thankful to have not faced a lot of adversity. The creative community is such a unique place. I have met some of the best business owners I know in this space and they are mostly all women.”

How do you persevere in challenging times?

“I would say that my whole life, including business, is driven by my faith. In challenging times in life and in business I depend heavily on the Lord and His strength to get me through. I have seen Him get our family through really difficult situations and my trust for future challenging times looks a lot like surrender and trust.”

What impact do you want your business to have?

“One of my core values in business is giving to causes beyond myself. I believe it’s essential to stay attuned to the needs around me—whether financial or otherwise—and respond as I’m led. Past acts of giving through The Little Design Co. have included supporting friends in their adoption journeys, providing Christmas gifts to refugees in the Detroit area, contributing to our local church, supporting a mission trip to India, and partnering with non-profits working to free women from human trafficking. Generosity has been a foundational value for me from the start, and it will continue to guide my business as I seek to meet the needs I encounter.”

Photo by Dani Elgas

What are the pros and cons of being a woman business owner in 2024?

“I maintain a mostly positive outlook as a woman business owner. I’ve had incredible opportunities to collaborate with other businesses and entrepreneurs, and I don’t feel that being a woman has hindered those opportunities.

“The biggest challenge I face is balancing the roles of stay-at-home mom and business owner. Early in our marriage, my husband and I made the decision that I would stay home with the kids while they were young, and I’m incredibly grateful for his support in this. As a result, I’ve learned to accept that my workday typically ends earlier than most, and my summers are more flexible.”

What knowledge would you share with someone who wants to become an entrepreneur?

“Do it! Starting a creative business has been one of the most rewarding experiences, and I would encourage anyone thinking about it to find a way to make it work.”

What do you do for personal and professional development?

“While I do listen to some business podcasts (i.e. Goal Digger), I am much more interested in growing as a human being and that shapes the way I handle myself in every area of life, including business. I love to read non-fiction books, listen to podcasts, attend church, and meet with a small group weekly as a means to grow spiritually and personally.”

Photo by Dani Elgas

What mantra or quote do you live by?

“A life verse I picked in high school: Psalm 19:14. ‘Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.'”

What’s your favorite place in Detroit or Michigan?

“Grey Ghost and Townhouse are two of my favorite restaurants in Detroit. My family loves being outdoors and camping. We really enjoy the west side of the state and Northern MI.”

Where can our readers find you on social media?

You can follow The Little Design Co. on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and on their website!

We hope you loved getting to know more about Sarah + The Little Design Co.. Be sure to check out our previous Local Love Spotlight featuring Katie + Sisu Mobile Sauna!

Give the Gift of NFL Flag Football This Holiday Season!

Detroit Mom partnered with the amazing people at NFL Flag to bring you this post. All opinions are our own.

When it comes to gifting, experience gifts are becoming more and more popular, and we’ve got just the experience gift your kids will LOVE this holiday season. If your child is into sports (football specifically) or is wanting to join a team sport where they’ll confidently pick up new skills while learning about teamwork, sportsmanship, and more, then consider asking for (or gifting) the experience of a season of flag football with NFL Flag this holiday season!

But don’t just take our word for it. There are so many benefits for kids when they play on an NFL Flag football team. We’re exploring just a few of those reasons below, as well as why experience gifts are the way to go this holiday season!

Experience Gifts Are On the Rise

There are so many reasons why an experience gift is a popular way to go during the holidays. They’re a win for parents because it means less items coming into their home and needing somewhere to be stored. Space can be pretty limited with growing kiddos, and the gift of an experience is one way to provide fun without taking up precious space.

Experience gifts also lend themselves to so many memories made; not just of the experience itself, but also remembering who it was that gifted it to them. Especially with how easily we can snap and share pictures with family and friends, it’s definitely a heartfelt touch to send a picture of your kiddo enjoying their experience to the person who gifted it to them. And who wouldn’t love to see their favorite kid on the field, learning flag football and having the best time?!

The Benefits of Gifting a Season of NFL Flag

There are so many reasons why NFL Flag is the perfect experience gift this holiday season (or any time, really!). One of the big things about NFL Flag is that it isn’t just about the kids–it’s a whole family experience and everyone walks away having benefited from participating, whether by being right in the middle of the game, coaching your child’s team, or watching from the sidelines. There’s truly something for everyone.

Accessibility

The NFL Flag program offers flag football that is inclusive for boys and girls alike, ages 4-14. This means that those younger siblings who grew up watching from the sidelines can play, too! It really becomes a whole family sport because our sons and daughters can both play, together, on the same field, learning the same skills. And you know this will carry over once they’re off the field and back at home–your kids will have flag football in common and they’ll form a special connection to it because it’s so accessible for all. Kids can start playing as young as preschool!

In a constantly evolving sports world, it’s encouraging to know that a sport traditionally seen as being for boys is now accessible to girls too. In fact, the National Association of Intercollegiate Athletics launched the first college sanctioned women’s flag football league just a few years ago, in 2021. This definitely gives our kids–especially our daughters–something to look forward to as they grow and develop their skills in the game. They won’t have to stop playing once they get to college.

Easy Commitment

Usually, leagues will meet once a week. This makes it a little easier for busy families to add it to their schedules after school and other extracurricular activities. Plus, it can double as family time, so that’s definitely a win-win! Parents have the opportunity to volunteer as a coach and can rest assured that they won’t be adding too much to their already full plates, trying to balance work, family, and more.

Easy to Learn

When kids start by playing flag football with NFL Flag, they’ll easily transfer their skills over to playing tackle football when they’re ready for that. Your kids will learn basic fundamentals that will stay with them for their whole football journey: catching, throwing, formations, routes, and defensive skills. And even if your kids switch sports as they grow, they’re going to remember the fundamentals they learned through NFL Flag because the skills are presented in such an easy-to-learn way.

FUN!

With smaller team sizes, your child will have more opportunities to play the game they love so much. The games are quick but still competitive, so your child will still be learning while they play. No more sitting on the sidelines, waiting for the opportunity to possibly play for a few short minutes. Your child will have plenty of chances to put their skills to the test while supporting their teammates.

Speaking of their teammates . . . the NFL Flag team becomes friendships that last a lifetime. Your kids will love meeting new friends and being able to play with them each time they have practice or a game. No more dreading those extracurricular activities–your kids will be begging you to go see their friends and oh, maybe play some flag football too!

No Contact

Your child won’t have to wear all that heavy gear when they play on a team through NFL Flag because it’s strictly a non-contact sport. Since they won’t have to worry about all that heavy equipment, they can focus more on how to play and develop their skills without the fear of being tackled or getting hurt. It really does create an approachable atmosphere where everyone is comfortable!

NFL Flag’s Upcoming Spring Season Dates

Convinced that a season of NFL Flag would be the perfect holiday gift this year for your kiddo age 4-14? You’ve got some time, but it’s important to plan ahead! Registration for the NFL Flag spring season just opened on December 1, 2024 and it closes on February 23, 2025. The season will begin April 13, 2025 and end on June 8, 2025.

Go team, and happy holidays!

Interested in signing up or asking for this experience gift this holiday season? The coupon code for early bird for spring registration is 742952 for $15 off. Sign up and learn more by visiting the NFL Flag website!

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